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To fight or not to fight (spoils 7.2) -- neaux, 06:18:43
10/02/02 Wed
ok.. Lemme first say that last nite episode really was amazing.
But after a night of letting it sink in, I'm having trouble recalling
Buffy's Actions.
If i remember correctly, Buffy didnt attack this monstrous worm.
Did she even touch it? Knowing the facts, maybe she didnt attack
the worm because she knew it was a human. But I expected some
ride the worm action or something. (Ok I know that sounded more
disgusting after I typed it)
and as a side note, Its Spike who actually tries to harm the worm.
But when was the last time she NEVER fought a monster. Did she
ever fight Oz in werewolf form?
regardless, there was some physical activity due to the blows
in the Bronze. but I just seem to find this a little weird.
Comments?
[> Re: To fight or not to fight (spoils 7.2) -- CW,
07:54:15 10/02/02 Wed
Actually, when I saw the worm I was thinking Dune . And
riding a worm in that story was a perfectly normal thing to do.
Yes, Buffy fought wolfy Oz. In the episode they found out he was
a werewolf, she fought him long enough so that Willow could shoot
him with a tranquilizer dart.
[> Re: To fight or not to fight (spoils 7.2) - Worm Whipping
& Forgiveness -- Angelina, 10:40:24 10/02/02 Wed
Buffy was way too busy beating on Spike AGAIN. She has got to
stop that. But I believe she will after what happened last night.
I think Buffy is going to be suffering Major Guilt over Spike's
madness. Good. She gets to be angry over the attempted rape (as
well she should), and Spike gets to be all guilt ridden and hating
himself over it (as well he should), but what about the brutal,
merciless beating Buffy gave Spike last season? Why isn't Buffy
sorry about that? Seems she should be atoning for her brutality
as well. What she did was simply horrible, and she didn't blink
an eye at that. Not one lash. But, be that as it may, I see a
new relationship about to be born between Buffy and Spike. They
have to forgive each other....could you have just cried when Spike
was drapped over the cross, smoldering, asking "can we rest
now". They have been "at" each other in so many
ways for such a long time, that it is certainly time to give it
a rest. I see them forgiving each other totally, and becoming
Buffy And Spike - Duo Against All Evil. Fighting side by side,
and actually Liking each other. At least, I hope that will happen.
And who knows, prehaps during the coming months, Buffy may actually
fall in love with William. But I wouldn't put money on it!
[> [> symbolism (7.2 Spoilers) -- meritaten, 23:59:18
10/02/02 Wed
Did anyone else notice that the cross-hugging scene looked like
a backwards crucifixion?
[> Re: To fight or not to fight (spoils 7.2) -- Finn
Mac Cool, 17:10:02 10/02/02 Wed
As I recall, by the time Buffy actually came face to - well -
mouth with the demon worm, it was only a few seconds before Spike
jumped in front of her and tried to steal the show.
Essential Selves? (Minor spoilers, S7 thus far) -- Darby,
06:32:19 10/02/02 Wed
The subtread rolling below in the Jenoff thread got me thinking
in enough of a different direction to put this up as a new post.
I want to ask the question now, but I expect to come back with
my version of an answer later.
For those who haven't seen it, the discussion below centers around
whether aspects of an individual's personality are fairly constant
- do we change at the core, or do we adjust, through focus, discipline,
maturity, those aspects that we don't want working unimpeded while
the basic "person" is still in there, screaming in a
tinny little voice like a cute l'il fear demon? I'm a proponent
of the latter - while I'm very different now than I was as a kid,
I think that the basic me was there in the kid and is there
now. But that's not why I'm posting this (although obviously,
if that's what people want to discuss, have at it!) - I'm thinking
more, what are the core aspects of our shows' characters?
What is Buffy's basic personality, there since the beginning and
slowly being revealed since? What have we been shown indirectly
(trust issues?) but which seems to be sublimated? What about Xander?
The discussion of Willow has danced around this subject all summer
- who is she, and is Dark Willow revealing, contradictory, or
both? Who is William, who is Spike, who is the demon we're apparently
being given glimpses of? Who is Giles really? Is Ripper
buried but alive? Is the cheese really wearing him? What about
Cordelia, or Wesley, or Gunn?
Time to flex those analytical muscles, people! It's a new season,
we need to get into shape!
[> And while we're at it, deconstruct the Parking Ticket
Lady! -- Tchaikovsky, 06:34:46 10/02/02 Wed
[> More seriously... -- Tchaikovsky, 06:55:54
10/02/02 Wed
On your first question, I'm very much in league with those who
believe that Essential Selves are easy excuses for people to revert
back to safe little pockets in which they've become too comfortable.
When we take it to its logical conclusion, are we supposed to
judge that there is the essence of a mass-murdering psychopath
in the child Adolf Hitler in the 1890's? People change and develop,
leaving behind one character for another easily.
It is interesting to consider how we are spend much of our time
acting, even within our every day life. Do we always behave in
the same way, whether talking to work colleagues, friends, children,
parents, bureaucrats? In a way, we create roles for ourselves
all the time, and then inform our actions by talking into them.
For example, in Season Six, Buffy spends a lot of time acting
out a simplistic notion of motherhood to Dawn, before realising
that parenting someone is really about empowerment of the ward
rather than protection.
In these circumstances, we sometimes find positions in which we
excel as a character. These we often adapt to our own use. So
essential selves- a kernel of constancy within our changing exterior,
both physically and psychologically? Maybe there's something,
but it's very well-hidden, and I think that people tend to be
in the habit of evading classification. The moment you think you
can stereotype somebody into a role- label them if you will, you
are in danger of being shocked by perfectly sensible actions when
the person tries to change.
My attempt at some buzzwords for any essential selves we can tie
down are below:
Buffy: martyr, devotion, sense of duty, romanticist
Willow: a pragmatist, logician,
Xander: insecure, humour as a shield to reality, reliable, as
a friend.
But aren't all these notions tested at some point throughout the
canon? It's probably not this simple.
[> And what about Dawn? -- Rahael, 07:00:35 10/02/02
Wed
Who is she? Is she the same person she was when she was five years
old? Are her memories real? Should she be 'sure' that she is the
person she thought she was? Why not?
This is why I think BtVS constantly contests the idea of being
sure of who we are. I think all the characters try to grapple
with this - who am I, what is my destiny? And I think just as
the show takes an ironic view of fate and prophecy, it also takes
an ironic view of the idea that 'character is fate'.
Is Buffy a 'hero' or did she come back 'wrong'? Who is she anyway?
Is she Buffy Anne Summers, the girl, or is she all the Slayers
combined?
In BtVS, we can't even be sure what makes up a 'man' and what
makes up a 'monster'.
[> Just posting to correct a mischaracterisation of my
argument -- Rahael, 07:24:31 10/02/02 Wed
"For those who haven't seen it, the discussion below centers
around whether aspects of an individual's personality are fairly
constant - do we change at the core, or do we adjust, through
focus, discipline, maturity, those aspects that we don't want
working unimpeded while the basic "person" is still
in there, screaming in a tinny little voice like a cute l'il fear
demon? "
No. That's not what I'm arguing. I'm not even venturing into the
hugely complex area of what is consciousness, or who human beings
'really are'. All I'm arguing is that when we say 'I' and 'This
is me' and 'I have a sense of self that is continuous from when
I was five years old' that this sense is based on a self perception
constructed by us.
I have no problems that within us is that scared little child
we once were. And that our past experiences form a powerful blueprint
for our future reactions. Powerful, but not overwhelming. But
when we say on this board 'This is who I am', I'm saying - that's
not the final picture. When Spike says 'I'm the big bad, and I'm
going to cause mayhem and murder! when he is chipped, you know
there is other stuff going on. Same as when Buffy is totally convinced
that she is 'wrong'. BtVS has always presented us with mutiple
possibilities of all our characters, and they are all true, and
all possible. Just as we have far more possibilities within us,
than just who/what we currently think we 'are'.
I don't have much else to add to Tchaikovsky's excellent post.
[> [> Re: Just posting to correct a mischaracterisation
of my argument -- Darby, 07:53:35 10/02/02 Wed
Sorry, the fun of trying to encapsulate something.
I will say that we (and I include Sara with me) do see things
differently - I do see basic personality as a core component,
laid down early (probably strongly genetic, by the evidence),
and although there is a strong self-perception element in it,
there is also a just-as-powerful and near-unchangeable foundation.
Problem is, it's all laid over the Basic Human Template, with
all of its tremendous potential for Doing Bad Things. I, like
Rah, believe that we're all capable of doing Evil, but I think
that the capacity varies widely according to personality. I don't
believe that every person is a potential Hitler - I think the
fraction of potentials is scary nonetheless. The weird thing is,
I really do see it as relating to the Jossian Soul, the capacity
for true Empathy, which does vary widely in people and which is,
although trainable within certain individual limits, like all
of the other "intelligences" one could list.
I think that Buffy is capable of Great Evil, and that her heroism
and solid standards are a way of controlling that potential. But
I think that Xander, while capable of extreme pettiness, is much
less capable of overt acts that might harm others - at least others
that he knows or sees. That's part of why I choose to ignore the
lack of guilt over Sweet, seeing it as a plot contrivance - the
Xander we know should be torn up over being the cause of death
of fellow Sunnydale residents. Xander can be written Out Of Character,
as can the others, which works best if everyone on staff pretends
it never really happened.
- Darby, whose "li'l fear demon" is really a scary primal
thing, usually under control.
[> [> [> Good/evil duality -- Tchaikovsky,
08:02:30 10/02/02 Wed
As we know now, it's not about good, it's not about evil, it's
about power. But let's consider for a minute a couple of things.
Darby's post above, says that he believs Buffy is capable of great
evil, which I agree with. Also let's consider Anya's comments
about Willow in mid Season Six, where she says that it's the good
ones who go bad quickest, when they get a taste of rebellion,
(maybe a closer quote to the actual thing would reveal even more-
I'm too lazy). And think for a moment, (if you'll lower yourself
from Nietzsche and Wittgenstein, [please?]) about Harry Potter.
The Sorting Hat says that he could be put in Slytherin. It is
implied that he has potential for bad.
Is there a case that real pure good, in its analogous monomania,
is not all that far from pure evil? Not sure of my own opinion
on this yet. Someone stimulate me!
[> [> [> Re: Just posting to correct a mischaracterisation
of my argument -- Rahael, 09:53:31 10/02/02 Wed
I think, yes, that we do see this differently.
For example:
"I think that Buffy is capable of Great Evil, and that her
heroism and solid standards are a way of controlling that potential."
I would have to disagree here. Yes, Buffy can choose to do great
evil - but I don't think it's her 'standards' and her 'heroism'
which 'control' it. I think her standards and heroism could lead
to evil. I don't believe in original sin, nor any version of that
belief where some dark part of us is 'controlled'. I believe in
choice. I believe in moral responsibility. I believe in accountability.
Also, what 'evil' is circumstantial. The decision to go to war
- may be evil in some circumstance, not in others. The decision
to engage in armed terror, or to support that - not always evil.
But I think this is all beside the point when it comes to discussing
'personality' - I've tried to stay away from the controversial
debates surrounding 'consciousness', because it might lead us
into the scary cul de sac of memes and culture.
All I was talking about was self identity. I might percieve myself
as one way - others around me may beg to differ!!
But returning to the subject evil/good posed by Tchaikovsky, I
repeat a post I made earlier this year, in March:
"I read a very thought provoking article about evil this
morning. It seems tie into our current discussion (and not only
in this thread) on several levels. It is about the nature of evil,
and actually made me think and reassess some of my own beliefs.
That is pretty rare most days.
I read it in the New Statesman, and its actually an article by
an American journalist, Jennifer Szalai
ëOrdinary people do extraordinarily horrible things when
their constitution compels them to do so; and while the moralists
and relativists may differ in the terms they use, they share an
unwillingness to address the role of individual choice; no matter
how constrained or limited that choice might be. Evil ñ
if applied to that dark space between necessity and excess, can
- only reside within the boundaries of the self. Its source lies
in the very thing that makes us human: the impulse to transcend
the reality that surrounds us, to abstract from our concrete experience
and to free ourselves from necessity. As such, the human capacity
for good is inevitably tied to the human capacity for evil: both
account for those actions that lie beyond the necessary requirements
of everyday survival.í
She refers to Conrad's Heart of Darkness: (which Apocalypse Now
was based on)
ëMarlow detects what lies behind the horror of Kurtz: ìThere
was nothing either above or below him, and I knew it. He had kicked
himself loose of the earth. Confound the man! He had kicked the
very earth to piecesÖ.I saw the inconceivable mystery of
a soul that knew no restraint, no faith, and no fear, yet struggling
blindly with itself.î Here is evil stripped bare of all
attempts to justify itself. Tearing himself away from the reality
that surrounds him, Kuurtz lives entirely within that dark space
of the soul, a void limited only by its infinite aspirations toward
transcendence. ë
Writing on the subject of evil, Sartre maintained that ìknowing
its causes does not dispel it, that it is not opposed to Good
as a confused idea is to a clear one, that it is not the effect
of passions which might be cured of a fear which might be overcome,
of a passing aberration which might be excused, of an ignorance
which might be enlightened, that it can no way be turned, brought
back, reduced and incorporated into idealistic humanismÖ..Therefore,
in spite of ourselves, we come to this conclusion, which will
seem shocking to lofty souls: Evil cannot be redeemed.î
Szalai argues that we should ìrecognize that evil exists;
that it is part of what constitutes human reality; that its realisation
lies at that final moment of choice: all of that is necessary
if we are to live in a world where the technological capacity
to annihilate each other requires us to make a conscious decision
not to.î
I find that she picks up on something that I've often thought
about. Being a liberal it's very hard for me to say that ëpeople
are evilí. But I do want to say that evil choices exist.
And all sorts of people can make them. Ordinary people. Your neighbours,
ourselves.
And BtVS this season seems to be exploring choices. We all have
that moment of choice that Szalai talks about. And I find that
point she makes, that the attempt to transcend our surroundings
and our realities particularly thought provoking with relation
to Willow That great goodness and great evil can have a common
root, especially after reading CJL's essay. We've had a foretaste
of this re Warren's choices, Andrew's choices and Jonathan's choices.
I think at the latter end of the season, the White hats will have
to start making choices.
I don't think of evil/good in terms of damnation or repentence.
I think of it in terms of being ever vigilant; considering your
choices, and never thinking that somehow out there in the world,
there are ëbad' ëevil' people, and that you could never
belong in that category, or that you would never do anything bad.
I believe passionately in the capacity for good choices, in heroism.
But there are terrible things happening in the world, and I've
seen these at uncomfortably close quarters. I have known, and
know people who have killed other people. Some of my former classmates
are now walking around somewhere, cyanide capsules around their
neck, carrying guns. I have no doubt that some of them are suicide
bombers
It just seems to me that both sides on the recurrent Spike debate
tend to discuss the good/evil issue as if it's academic. But Spike
isn't just ëevilí full stop. Evil in Sunnydale isn't
about good guys and bad guys. If it ever seemed that way, I think
ME are clearing up that ambiguity this season.....................
Buffy's darkness isn't about the origins of the Slayer. Its about
the darkness in all of us. The Buffy who tied up her sister is
the same Buffy who saved her. She didn't come back wrong."
The story of evil encompasses more than just the 'bad apple' the
person with some inborn inability to empathise, or with some tendency
to criminal behaviour. It's the story of the choices of hundreds
of ordinary people who acquiece to terrible political decisions
which they are persuaded to support. People who have emphathy.
People who aren't criminals. That's what's scary.
[> [> [> [> Very well said (again). -- Arethusa,
10:32:10 10/02/02 Wed
Evil isn't a disembodied force hovering around, ready to leap
into the unwary or sinful. It's part of who we are.
[> [> [> [> [> Angels and demons (spoilers
for the comic book Promethea) -- ponygirl, 11:25:09 10/02/02
Wed
As always a fabulous discussion! I may be going a bit OT but in
reading the discussion on good and evil I was reminded of an issue
of Alan Moore's Promethea, a comic book series that David Fury
has said both he and Joss have read.
The heroine, Promethea, and a friend encounter a horrific demon.
They react with fear and horror. The demon transforms into insects
and crawls inside, attacking them from within. The women panic
and try to fight, but there's nothing they can do - the demon
is in them. Until finally Promethea stops fighting and addresses
the demon with respect. He stops his attack and talks with them
civilly. Later a guardian angel joins them and greets the demon
affectionately. The women wonder at this, but the angel replies
that they're doing the same job-- angels reflect the best in humanity,
demons the worst, they're just two sides of the same coin.
[> [> [> [> [> Re: Very well said (again).
-- Slain, 18:52:38 10/02/02 Wed
"Evil isn't a disembodied force hovering around, ready
to leap into the unwary or sinful. It's part of who we are.
Which is, of course, true in real life - but is it in BtVS?
What we're discussing at the core is nature/nuture - or, to put
it another way, existence and essence. To take the existential
view, existence preceeds essence. Our essence is our personality,
our capicity for good and evil - this comes after were begin to
exist, all our personality therefore being built from the moment
we're born.
I think, in real life, this is how the world works. No one is
born good or evil, though some are born with mental or physical
conditions which lead them towards violence, for example. But
broadly speaking when we come into existence, we have no essence.
We're unformed beings.
However, getting back to Buffy, I think it becomes more complex.
I think both good and evil are tangible forces; perhaps they're
no more than the same thing seen from different perspectives,
but they're still there. People, of course, are usually at the
core of evil (as Season 6 showed us), but nevertheless I do believe
these are real forces in the Buffyverse.
If you asked me whether Buffy was capable of great evil, I'd say
no. However, if the question were "If she had been born in
different circumstances would she be capable of great evil"
I'd be less sure.
Buffy is already formed - she already has her essence. So it's
hard to speculate about what other paths she might have taken.
An existentialist would say she could have taken any path, if
she's chosen to do so. But Buffy isn't usually an existential
show. There's more to it than choice; there's fate.
The Buffyverse is defintely a lot more structured and defined
than the world I live in - so I feel comfortable believing that
Buffy is fated to be good; that, were she in Willow's position,
she wouldn't have behaved the same. I think Willow, and other
characters in the show, aren't effected by the same fate, or the
same essential 'good' self. Buffy, on the other hand, does have
a certain special something. I don't think predetermination is
an inescapable force, but I do think Buffy exists somewhere between
her existence preceeding her essence, and some kind of essence
being imbued in her from, perhaps, her birth.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Nature or Nurture?
-- Arethusa, 19:19:47 10/02/02 Wed
I would like to agree but don't, because we know slayers can be
evil (Faith) and so far no humans have been shown to be infalliably
good-not even Buffy. I agree that Buffy and other Champions such
as Angel and Cordelia seem to be fated to be good, but fate, like
prophesies, can often be subverted or changed. I think the purpose
of Dark Willow was to show us that anyone, even gentle,
shy and loving Willow, can do evil things. Buffy the Vampire Slayer
certainly can. That is why Faith scared her, and why she is so
afraid of her "dark side." Buffy's greatest fear in
"Nightmares" was that she would become a vampire-a consciousless
killing machine that literally thrives on blood-letting.
(If ME really wants to knock our socks off, this year they'll
show Buffy being forced to deal with this fear by becoming vamped-with
Spike having to stake her, of course.)
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Nature or
Nurture? -- Slain, 10:55:10 10/03/02 Thu
I sort of agree with you, here, but I also (unsurprisingly) agree
with myself.
I tend to think of Buffy as having an essential goodness - while
her greatest fear is vampirism, that only occurs once her soul
(presumably her 'good' bit) is lost. Does she fear, then, the
loss of her understanding of what's right, the security that she's
following the good path? Certainly that was the major theme in
Season 6.
However I think I'm probably wrong about the 'spark of goodness'.
All humans in the Buffyverse seem to be capable of good and evil,
and I agree that that was shown in Season 6, as well as in previous
and subsequent seasons. No one is born good - they're born with
a soul, and with a kind of empathy for other souled beings, a
kind of fellow-feeling for the rest of humanity. But they're not
born one way or the other.
Fate, however, is something different, I think. While an individual's
essence and self is individually determined, the actual path in
life they take can be influenced by fate. I argued against this
not so long ago when I was going my existential reading of the
show - I said that Buffy was free to choose her slayer calling.
But I don't think she's felt that way. She's still the slayer
because she feels that she couldn't do anything else - fate, in
the way, has triumphed.
The problem with fate and predestination in the Buffyverse is
that it's always vague - is Buffy the Slayer and Faith in the
clit-clink (sorry, Britishism) because of fate, or because of
their individual choices? Are Buffy and Angel fated to be together,
to be apart or nothing?
I suppose in the end it's the typical complexity of the Buffyverse
- the power of good, evil, fate and so on is always debatable.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Nature
or Nurture? -- Arethusa, 11:20:58 10/03/02 Thu
Those pesky defintions again-I tend to think of fate as future
events to be imposed on a character, not a possible path to follow.
Working with your definition (if I've got it right), I agree with
you. And thank goodness it's all debatable. Otherwise, how would
I get my entertainment in life?
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> According
to the nice people at the OED, it's both -- Slain, 11:47:48
10/03/02 Thu
The Oxford Dictionary has the two defintions - firstly, that fate
is a predetermined path, and that fate is future events imposed
on the character. Perhaps predesitined is the better term for
what I mean - Buffy is predesitined to be the Slayer, but Angel
is fated to kill his son (well, not really, but you see my point).
I loved the way that fate and prophecy were undermined in Angel
Season 3, as it made things even less clear.
[> [> [> [> Fantastic post- thank you --
Tchaikovsky, 04:30:28 10/03/02 Thu
Teaser sequence to 7x02 (Spoilers to there, some spec about
what it means through season) -- Off-kilter still sleep deprived,
07:02:26 10/02/02 Wed
"Run, lola, Run!" No shrinking violets or helpless damsels
in distress here. Seems like we are two for two in the "goes
down fighting" arena in the teaser sequences.
I've named them the "Chase the girls and make they die"
scenes and think we'll be seeing them for some time to come.
My question for all of you people who have two brain cells to
rub together--my single cell is currently placing adds in the
wanted section but, so far, no takers--Do the killings strike
you as being ritualistic?
Why does it have to be the special knife? We know a Slayer can
be killed by a bullet, so if these are potential Slayers-in-training
(not confirmed of course) then why not just snipe them? Can they
be getting power from the potential? Are they trying to narrow
the field so a particular girl will be Chosen?
Is it just considered high jinx in the Evil Monk-looking-people
world?
Watcha think?
[> Answer and OT: comment. (7.2 spoilers ) -- shadowkat, 07:24:35 10/02/02
Wed
(O=K have you been getting my emails? Sent two this morning at
9 something NYC time. Please let me know. Also sent
one yesterday, I think.)
I think it is a ritualtistic act. It reminds me a lot of Glory
and the Master actually. I think the entity's followers are killing
off the potential slayers and if this is the case...why didn't
it start with Buffy? Maybe because Buffy stepped out of the slayer
line when she died the first time? I think so. Remember Kendra
gets called. Then when Kendra dies, Faith does. Buffy is the wild
card.
She no longer registers on PTB because Xander brought her back
in Prophecy girl when she was supposed to die. This through a
wrench in the works.
A wrench that can work either way. If the monks hadn't sent Dawn
to Buffy, if because Buffy died, what would have happened? If
Buffy died - Angel would never have lost his soul. Spike would
never have sought one. Willow would never have become DarkWillow
and tried to access the power of the earth. Dawn would not exist.
Riley would still be with The Iniative. The Mayor may have ascended.
The list goes on.
So the entity is working it's way to Buffy through the line?
Killing each one that would come up if anything happened to Faith?
Interesting idea.
And both Spike and Buffy seem to sense this. Buffy gets the visions
as Spike puts it:"You're the slayer - the one with the visions,
you know for sure. I just happen to have an ear to the ground
and can feel it." Spike and Willow and Anya sense what's
going on. Buffy is getting visions.
I think you're right - I think we'll see more girls get killed.
And the Frankfurt one convinced me they were slayers. Now we just
have to figure what it means.
Thanks for posting - was about to post OT to see if you were receiving
my email. SK
[> [> Re: Answer and OT: comment. (7.2 spoilers )
-- Cactus Watcher, 07:41:30 10/02/02 Wed
The only thing that dissuades me from thinking they are potential
slayers is that so far both of them have looked well over eighteen,
which if the crucimentum means anything at all, ought to be a
'cut-off' age. I 'm sure we're supposed to think they are potential
slayers, and I'm definitely not willing to say they are not.
[> [> [> Re: teasers of 7.1 and 7.2 -- lunarchickk,
08:19:13 10/02/02 Wed
Perhaps they are potential slayers, but they are older because
Buffy and then Faith have lived much longer than it seems they
should have? (Well, not Buffy... but she's still around... you
get my drift.)
On the other hand... it could just be that they're supposed to
be 14-15 years old and the actresses are just older. I recall
from one of the DVD commentaries, someone mentioning that all
the extras in the high school scenes always look like they're
30... because they are. Although these girls probably wouldn't
count as extras, since they're fighting and doing all that fun
stuff, so I'm probably way off track with that one. But even Dawn's
friend Kit looked pretty old for a sophomore.
I got the strong feeling that these girls are supposed to be potential
slayers last night, when Buffy seems to be having dreams about
them... It reminds me of the dreams in Season 1 about the slayers
of the past.
[> [> Re: Answer and OT: comment. (7.2 spoilers )
-- leslie, 09:26:55
10/02/02 Wed
This is my theory, which is mine: I think they're not only currently
potential slayers, but past potential slayers as well--whateveritis
is trying to eliminate *all* slayer-related girls and then going
after Buffy and some kind of apocalypse (again!) at the Hellmouth,
so that when Buffy is gone, there will be no-one at all who can
take her place and thus the Slayer will no longer exist and demons
can run wild at their will. But then, I may have read too many
mystery stories in which it's the potential heirs who get knocked
off so that when the big cheese pops it, the villain inherits
without opposition (who was talking about Alec Guinness down below?
Kind Hearts and Coronets, anyone?)
[> [> Re: Answer and OT: comment. (7.2 spoilers )
-- ponygirl, 12:15:05 10/02/02 Wed
I agree with your take, shadowkat. One my theories is that Buffy's
death in s1 has seriously messed up the forces of destiny. Faith
was supposed to die, but because of Buffy's intervention the whole
Slayer line is in a kind of limbo. All of these girls out there
who were supposed to be called are sort of half-Slayers, they
may have some of the moves but not the power. The question is
now is who wants this power and why. My speculation is going from
the First Evil, to the Council itself. Perhaps there's a particular
Slayer that needs to exist at a certain time and they've convinced
themselves that killing off the intervening Slayers is for the
greater good. Or maybe the Council is seeking to somehow regain
their power over the Slayers.
My latest insane theory? A coalition of the Knights and Glory's
minions who have decided worship Buffy after Glory's defeat, and
are disposing of all pretenders to Buffy's power. Like I said,
it's nuts, but my brain needs something to do between now and
Tuesday.
[> [> [> Re: Answer and OT: comment. (7.2 spoilers
) -- shadowkat, 12:46:05 10/02/02 Wed
"My latest insane theory? A coalition of the Knights and
Glory's minions who have decided worship Buffy after Glory's defeat,
and are disposing of all pretenders to Buffy's power. Like I said,
it's nuts, but my brain needs something to do between now and
Tuesday."
After reading Alvin's post on Big Bad theories yesterday coupled
with EMCEE's which should be in archives and is about Isiah -
I'm thinking some interesting thoughts myself.
(BTW check out EMCEE's post - it only spoils 7.1 and 7.2
nothing else.)
EMCEE suggests that Dawn could be the Annoited Big Bad (after
last nights episode? I truly love the irony of this idea...after
all who better to open the hellmouth than the slayer's sis and
the key? Thinking Dawn would make a wonderful little bad twist.)
Someone under Alvin's post, think it was ZachsMind mentioned it
could be Buffy which fits with you theory.
Buffy as big bad taken over by first evil or the combo of the
slayers - is a cool idea as well. Would very much enjoy that.
Would also enjoy third theory which is all the slayers are getting
killed so demons can run free, so both sides join forces to defeat
each other.
After last night's episode? I'll watch whatever they deliver.
The show just keeps getting more layered and interesting from
my pov.
[> a totally Wrong answer but funny -- neaux, 07:41:43
10/02/02 Wed
maybe the frat boys from Delta Zetta Kappa are in their graduate
program internships around the world (remember Reptile Boy?)
I figure that after serving some time in jail they probably went
back to school to finish.. and are now going around the world
for their studies.. to find a way to bring back the Machida.
Surprise! (spoilers for 7.1, 7.2) -- Rob, 08:03:11
10/02/02 Wed
I wanted to just continue on another thread, so I didn't help
clog up the board with new ones, but I wasn't sure where to stick
it, so I apologize for adding to the clutter. ;o)
I don't have much to say except that I love how the show is becoming
surprising again. For starters, there was the red herring about
the worm monster, due to the juxtaposition of Buffy's "beneath
you" prophecy and the first sighting of the ground getting
rumbly. We of course assumed that this had to do with the Hellmouthy
happenings Willow's been feeling, but...no.
Then, we see Crazy!Spike in the basement, only to be surprised
later by Normal-Looking!Spike. Did anyone else besides me think
that maybe, when he first appeared, that this was not actually
Spike but one of the manifestations of the Big Bad? It was clear
later in the episode that this was not the case, but it got me
thinkin'...
Another great surprise? The worm monster itself. A typical "Buffy"
happening would be that her boyfriend had raised the monster or
created it or summoned it, but no...surprise...he is the monster,
and even more, he was turned that way because of the girlfriend's
wish!
And yet still more surprises, such as the worm guy being changed
back into a human as Spike is stabbing him; Spike actually punching
Anya for talking about his soul; the fact that Spike actually
revealed his soulage to Buffy in this episode and didn't make
us wait 6 episodes to do so, like the amount of time it took them
to resolve the "Buffy came back wrong" thingy.
Last week was also full of surprises--from the cell phone to Buffy's
new job to the Big Badathon at the end.
I don't think I've been this surprised by the show since "The
Gift."
Rob
[> Re: Surprise! (spoilers for 7.1, 7.2) -- leslie, 09:12:11 10/02/02
Wed
"Then, we see Crazy!Spike in the basement, only to be surprised
later by Normal-Looking!Spike."
Does anyone else think the Sunnydale High school nurse should
check her/his peroxide supply asap?
[> Re: Surprise! (spoilers for 7.1, 7.2) -- ponygirl,
10:55:03 10/02/02 Wed
I can't help but feel that most of this episode was a red herring
to distract us from the the big puzzlers that were posed early
on: Lola's death; Dawn's response to Buffy's dream; what was it
that forced howling mad!Spike out to the hairdresser, the clothing
store, and to Buffy's house in the guise of scarily helpful!Spike
and why; and why don't I trust the principal?
Oh, I've got theories. Some of them pretty out there. But it does
seem to me that if we buy that the Lola and the girl from Istanbul
were potential Slayers, then I can't help but think that Dawn
would be on the hit list. Even if she's not a Slayer-to-be she
still could be close enough to the mystical bloodline as to warrant
a visit from the hooded guys.
But I'm with you Rob, every minute last night was a constant surprise,
a perpetual state of "what the?". I'm loving it!
[> Re: Surprise! (spoilers for 7.1, 7.2) -- Sarand,
13:01:24 10/02/02 Wed
The episodes have left me breathless, actually. I feel like they
have so much to do this year, especially if it's the last :( ,
that they are going at breakneck speed. When I first saw Spike
in Buffy's house, looking like his old self again, my first thought
was that the First Evil from last week had won the struggle and
Spike was evil now. I didn't know what to make of him, like Buffy,
until the end.
[> Re: Surprise! (spoilers for 7.1, 7.2) -- Dochawk,
15:17:18 10/02/02 Wed
I agree with you, fabulous year to be relatively unspoilt because
the suprises are at every turn. But, I disagree with you, I think
the worm (who I still think was a reject from Dune) was the red
herring and Buffy won't investigate those words as soon as she
should. Though apparantly Willow coming home next week will also
fast foward the process.
[> [> Re: red herrings (7.2 spoilers) -- Rob,
20:26:15 10/02/02 Wed
I actually didn't word my feelings very well. I also think that
the worm was the red herring--that the juxtaposition of the "beneath
you" prophecy and the worm arriving led them to assume it
referred to the worm, when in fact it does not. That was just
an unfortunate coincidence.
Reading over my post, I realize that I worded it all wrong. It
sounded like I had meant that the hellmouth was the red herring...that
the prophecy actually referred to the worm...but no, I agree with
you. That's what happens when you're typing while trying to talk
on the phone at the same time.
Rob
It was the Best of Times. It was the Worst of Times. -Return
of the inconsistent writing -- Spike Lover, 09:24:37 10/02/02
Wed
Spoilers and Angry Disappointment Follow. Read on at your own
risk.
......
.....
Already I am disgusted. Part of the problem is that I still do
not believe/accept what happened last season, so I am unable to
suspend my disbelief.
1)The one thing I have always liked about Buffytvs was the humor.
Where is it?
2)It seems that they are going to play the 'rape' card -likely
for the entire season.
3) What the devil does touching a flashlight have to do with attempted
rape in the bathroom? Seems if she is going to have that strong
of a reaction, she would have had it when he touched her face
in the basement- last week. But, I suspect (perhaps incorrectly)
that whoever wrote last week did not write this week, or did not
watch last week-
4) Who was the guy in the blue sweater? Because that was not "Spike".
I find it COMPLETELY unbelieveable that the first thing Anya would
have said to someone she had not seen in months was 'Hands off
the merchandise... It is over between us.' Likewise, if she did
say that for some reason, I don't think his response would have
been 'way over you' (or whatever he said). <
I further do not believe that "Spike" who is a clever
chap, (see past seasons and eps) would have hauled off and hit
Anya who he has a connection with. (Hitting a woman???? who had
not asked for it.? -This is Marti again trying to paint an ugly
picture of an abusive boyfriend. BY THE WAY, IF YOU LOOK AT THE
OLD DRACULA MOVIES, DRACULA DOES NOT GO AROUND BEATING UP ON WOMEN.
HE SEDUCES THEM.)
Did anyone else notice the new vampire face they had on him. He
looked even less human (and a lot less handsome) than before.
Once they were fighting, what was the point of Buffy stepping
in?
5) Buffy and 'the gang' talking bluntly in front of Nancy. Since
when do they reveal themselves to strangers? Ok, you want Nancy
to be the new love interest for Xander. Fine. But give me a break.
There has always been secrecy.
Alright, so I am watching this ep with raised eyebrows...
And we get to the end w/ Spike and Buff in the alley/church. Well,
I liked that alley part a great deal. The acting was good. The
church I liked less, but still liked.
1)We return to mad Spike and the obvious internal dialogue. Very
good.
2)Servicing the girl. Spike seems to think that Buffy is only
interested in one thing. (Actually 2 things, getting help and
using him for sex.)
Hmmm, with all those flashbacks they used, too bad that they did
not show the one where Buffy is beating Spike senseless in the
alley- screaming that a 'soulless thing can not love anything'.
(No, let's not do that. That might even the score too much.) But
Kudos to Sarah MG who can act. It seemed that her character realizes
that her sexual abuse of a soulless thing has driven him mad.
(But maybe Buffy does not realize that nor claim her role in it.)
3) And here is the rub... WHY IS BUFFY CRYING AT THE END? Why
is she not happy that this soulless thing now has his soul back
(and is suffering for all the evil he has done and is COMPLETELY,
WICKEDLY UNHAPPY now?) I can not comprehend (as usual) what Buffy
is thinking -(it hardly matters, she will have forgotten it by
next week.)
I propose the unthinkable., and completely what the writers and
most of the audience do not intend... Buffy liked Spike -as he
was-. She never knew William. (It reminds me of a guy I once dated...
I liked him just as he was, but then he changed (his goals, etc)
because he thought I would like him better or deserved better
or because he thought I wanted a different income bracket then
what he could provide. Our relationship fell apart, because I
no longer liked what he had become.)
But it brings this up. Who did Buffy love? Was it Angel (the reformed
demon inside) or had she gotten to know Liam? I think you have
to say she loved the reformed demon. Therefore, who was she attracted
to in Spike? It had to have been the demon that loved her so much
he was trying to reform on his own. -By the way, did I mention
that that was NOT 'Spike' in that blue sweater.
And what the hell was he telling the rat at the beginning?
Now for the big insult. Should I bet $10 bucks that this is James
Marsters last season, and that the big evil is coming and the
only way to stop it is for Spike to sacrifice himself? They pretty
much have set up a BIG Redemption issue with the line "I
hear the voices -of victims, of the evil one, and of God- all
telling me to go to Hell." The crisis now becomes not how
to get Buff and Spike together, but what can Spike/William do
to escape the fires of Hell.
So,during the season finale of 7, I see a big guillotine and Spike
saying something like "It is a far, far better thing I do..."
Thank you Charles Dickens.
Because the woman he loves can never love him and it is far better
for everyone for him to sacrifice his worthless life so that she
might live. And after his death, when she realizes what he has
done for her and the ones she loves, she will cry one lone tear
and then (because she is Buffy) promptly forget about him.
[> Uh, that was kinda the point (spoilers for 7.2)
-- Scroll, 09:40:25 10/02/02 Wed
That the blue-sweatered Spike-guy wasn't really Spike. It was
him putting on a disguise -- as he later explains in the church
scene.
As for Nancy, she didn't immediately have amnesia. She saw the
monster and called it "monster". How is that any different
than Kit and Carlos from last week's ep? And I don't think you
have to worry about Nancy being Xander's new girlfriend. She looked
way freaked and so out of there.
As for the rest of your post, I'm afraid I can't really address
your comments except to say I found a lot of it quite funny.
[> [> Oops, I mean I found the ep funny, not your
post -- Scroll, 09:46:17 10/02/02 Wed
[> Spike stuff, etc. (Spoilers for S7 to now) --
Darby, 09:48:49 10/02/02 Wed
I kinda agree and kinda disagree.
I tend to quibble about writers' choices (gasp! No one noticed,
right-?) but I've gotta believe that this big a jump is
not a mistake. They are showing us something - but what? I think
that part of what is going on is that the human soul and the demon
soul in Spike are fighting it out, making the Spike we see much
more a swing between two extremes, as played out at the Bronze
and was picked up by Anya's Spider Sense. And the transition phase
is just, well, nuts.
And there's more. I get the sense of a plan behind Spike's multiple
personality disorder. One of the personalities isn't him.
The Nancy thing bothered me as well. If we're being introduced
to a new Xander-interest, there are smoother ways to do it.
And I think that Buffy is crying very much along the lines of
your ex-boyfriend story - the soul was a convenient and presumably
safe way to halt the progress of a dead-end relationship - who
expected it could change? And then he went and changed it, and
it's not the real impediment and never really was...she looked
striken with that sort of guilt to me.
[> [> I would find that 'cool' -- but I really doubt
the writers -- Spike Lover, 11:08:45 10/02/02 Wed
re: "And I think that Buffy is crying very much along the
lines of your ex-boyfriend story - the soul was a convenient and
presumably safe way to halt the progress of a dead-end relationship
- who expected it could change? And then he went and changed it,
and it's not the real impediment and never really was...she looked
striken with that sort of guilt to me."
I suspect the writers struggle with what is blatantly in front
of them. 'No, we can't do that. It would send the wrong message.'
Or no, Spike is way too popular as a character. We need to bring
him down a notch. -If I have to watch that attempted rape one
more time I think I am going to be sick. (And I will have to,
and so I may have to start eating after Buffy comes on.)
In the past when Buffy has had the opportunity to really have
an epiphany about herself (not the world or her friends or whatever)
but about herself, she tends to back off. I mean, last season,
she had the epiphany that she was using Spike, but she did not
ever search out the reason why --. And don't say it was obvious
that she was depressed from being back from the dead. Heaven might
have been a great place, but still, she never looked at why she
truly hated this life. I mean, I think it is more than probably
just the surface stuff. (I have always said that there was something
between them. The Buffy character always denied it. -said it must
be physical only. She could not care about something as low as
him. I never believed her (or the writers.))
Another interesting thing was why she subconsciously wanted to
kill her sister and W & X. (She did not want to kill Spike-
remember.) You can say, well, it was the poison from the demon
talking (by the way, that demon spike that stabbed her seemed
to be the same spike thing that Adam had), but I think she has
a real problem with her friends. (Perhaps it is more of a love/hate
thing than she lets on. -her internal slayer finds them a burden?)
Anyway, you may be right that now she can not use the soulless
thing excuse for a reason not to care about him, but whether or
not Buffy will have actually confront HER OWN DEMONS and discover
what her real hang up is, I don't know.
Sorry, rambling now.
[> [> [> And there is your problem ... -- Earl Allison, 11:28:12
10/02/02 Wed
"(I have always said that there was something between them.
The Buffy character always denied it. -said it must be physical
only. She could not care about something as low as him. I never
believed her (or the writers.))"
And there is the biggest problem you have, IMHO.
Like the more-eloquant Dochawk, I also will never see eye-to-eye
with you on Spike, but that's not the issue here, your comment
is.
You won't believe the characters, OR the writers.
Well, then what that leaves is your own personal opinion, and
if the canon disagrees, you complain about it.
You can complain, certainly, but you won't get very far. It's
NOT the All. About. Spike show, no matter how much you want it
to be, and if you've decided that both character (Buffy) and writers
(apparently Joss, too, since he IS a part of the stable of witers)
are WRONG about another character (Spike), that your view is the
correct one -- you're setting yourself up for a big fall.
And that's all I have to say about that.
And to all who find my comments tedious on this, I'm sorry, but
this needed saying -- perhaps I'll abstain the rest of the season
:)
Take it and run.
[> [> [> [> I've got to agree -- Slain,
18:29:00 10/02/02 Wed
I'm going to keep out of this type of discussion from now on -
in the end of the day, many fans are going to discuss the show
based solely around their personal reading of a specific character,
and there's nothing I can say or do to change that.
[> Re: It was the Best of Times. It was the Worst of
Times. -Return of the inconsistent writing -- Arethusa, 10:17:54
10/02/02 Wed
I disagree, "on many levels and with great intensity."
The conflict between the soul and vampire,with the interference
of the Big or Little Bad, is causing NewSpike's craziness. And
yes-that's not Spike! It's someone we don't know very well yet.
Of course Buffy is horrified and stricken and very sad that Spike
is a wreck, and all for love of her. Buffy was never attracted
to the demon in Spike-it was the part of him she mistrusted, and
whenever it appeared, she usually ended up punching him.
ME has never been all about redemption. Hence the speech
in "Epiphany." And the crises has never been about how
to get Buffy and Spike together. That is so not the point. How
does a mutually destructive and unromantic sexual relationship
become misconstrued as something romantic, and worth recapturing?
Portraying Buffy as a cluess, calculating and heartless abuser
of poor Victim!Spike is getting repetitive.
[> [> I think you forget that Spike wanted more.
-- Spike Lover, 11:31:12 10/02/02 Wed
Go back to the "Invisible" episode.
Spike wanted to be there for her emotionally. That was not 'William's
soul' in that kitchen. That was the demon (or so we are told)
who wanted to talk, help convince the social worker that Buffy
was a good mum, and to get his lighter back.
That is the ep where Buffy is applying the sexual pressure.
In fact, as a reaction against Spike's emotional availibility
or affection, Buffy cuts her hair off- specifically after he compliments
it and strokes it lovingly. Perhaps she cuts it off because she
does not want him to like her because she does not like herself.
(?)
I will point out (to no avail) that it is not any willful action
of Spike's that causes the destruction of Buffy's hair. Buffy
is the destroyer. And she is the destroyer of the relationship.
What COULD HAVE BEEN an uplifting, healing relationship for both
of them (perhaps only for the very short term)is negated and perverted
by Buffy. Then she ends it because it is perverted.
No, wait, go back farther than that. Go back to 'Crush'- when
Spike is trying to 'date' Buffy. And he ends up telling her how
he feels. She denies that he feels anything. This can't be happening.
Dawn says, well it is not much different than what you had with
Angel. Chip/Soul. BIG Difference! Buffy says. Stop Spike before
anything else happens. The end result is the lock out at the house.
At that point, there are all kinds of possibilities ahead. He
has not tried to rape her (and probably wouldn't.) Subconsciously,
I think Buffy sees him as an emotional threat. The potential for
a grown up relationship that might work. (They say you pick relationships
that won't work when you are not ready for commitment.)
After Wrecked, Buffy hangs garlic in her bedroom, trying to ward
off a relationship. (As if he were going to come to her.-- Isn't
it she who goes back?)
Ok, still rambling.
[> [> [> Re: I think you forget that Spike wanted
more. -- Miss Edith, 11:39:36 10/02/02 Wed
It always annoyed me when the writers suddenly started writing
Spike as the bad boyfriend and saying Spike was at the root of
Buffy's trouble. Hence her walking into the light in AYW after
breaking off the relationship that was killing her. A metaphour
for the girl dragged down by the bad boy and managing to escape
his influence which was destroying her life.
But I thought Buffy was depressed and Spike was providing relief
from the pain of living. She escaped to his crypt because he could
make her feel alive, and she needed that to get through the day.
Obviously the relationship was not a healthy one. But in leaving
Spike she had not dealt with anything. Spike was an escape route
from her miserable life, and she decided to cut that off believing
it would make her feel better. But she never dealt with the problems
underlying her depression. Instead it was suddenly suggested that
sleeping with Spike was the hardest thing in her life Not getting
that sorry.
[> [> [> [> Re: I think you forget that Spike
wanted more. -- Majin Gojira, 13:19:25 10/02/02 Wed
"But I thought Buffy was Depressed and Spike was providing
relief from the pain"
Exactly. She wasn't confronting her problems at all and engaging
in an 'escape' from her pain. Much like the trio was all about
avoiding work, buffy was avoiding her problems as well. Remeber
"Oh, Grow Up"? the theme of that season? Buffy needed
to grow up TOO you know.
Yes, I am saying that Spike ALWAYS WAS BAD for her. I mean, HOW
WAS IT HELPING! She was avoiding her problems! Not Solving them!
Ok..
Breath...
Breath...
Um...sorry, just sick of the argument. Eh. Whatever.
[> [> [> [> [> Re: I think you forget that
Spike wanted more. -- Miss Edith, 13:59:43 10/02/02 Wed
I agree with you. The relationship was unhealthy and about Buffy
trying to escape from life. I am just saying that I got the sense
that the writers began portraying Buffy sleeping with Spike as
the main reason she was struggling to cope. Her relationship with
Spike was not the cause of her problems. The abuse, the secrecy
of the relationship it was the sympton of Buffy's problems, not
the cause of them.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: I think you forget
that Spike wanted more. -- Barbara, 16:36:43 10/02/02 Wed
Isn't the thrill in the relationship that Buffy had with Spike
the oppositional thing? Based on someone else's experience ( I
won't say mine) there is a lot of excitement in having a sexual
relationship with someone forbidden, and someone you really would
not consider long-term (slayer-soulless vampire/ gun-toting republican-
tree-hugging democrat, for instance). The problem is that Spike
the "soulless" one sees past the sex to Buffy the "human
being" whereas Buffy never sees the humanity in Spike. Then
he rapes her--I still don't know how they're going to pull this
one out of the water, if they even attempt to do so. I would say
that Spike needs to perform some act of deep courage and sacrifice
that proves he would never hurt her, but he's already done that!
One thing though: Buffy's refusal to see Spike's "humanity"--for
lack of a better word--seems a determined refusal. I watched Season
1 and 2 for the first time recently. The hurt over Angel could
very well be contributing to the cement wall.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> I just don't know
what to say -- Spike Lover, 09:43:15 10/03/02 Thu
Except THANK YOU for not stoning me for my reference as Buffy
the relationship destroyer.
I agree. 1) Sex w/ Spike did turn out to be an escape for Buffy
-perhaps meant to parallel Willow using Magic at one-eyed Jack's
as an escape.
2) The writers have never had Buffy deal with her men abandoning
issue or the whole Angel turning evil thing. It could be at the
root of her problems, but as long as the writers fail to make
reference to it, I try to look for reasons that they have mentioned.
It does not turn out pretty when you look at that either.
What I mean is if you take abandonment and Angel out of the equation,
you are left with a VERY STRONG WILLED Female who over powers
the other in the relationship. (See Tara/Willow comparison- i.e.,
Willow using magic to overpower (rape) <
Someone just asked at what point was Spike 'good' for Buffy. Well,
originally, during the 'courtship' period, it was hoped that because
Spike had so much insight into Buffy, that he would not allow
her to lie to him or herself. (Lying is another way to exert control
over another.) She had repeatedly confided to him when she could/would
not confide in anyone else- and he was trustworthy with that information.
He was of equal strength.
She, however, found his weakness: Sex and his feelings for her.
She would control him with sex. And once again, their relationship
turned into sort of what she had with Riley. Sexual and keeping
him at bay. (Admittedly, this was the complete opposite of what
she had with Angel: Celibate and strong emotional connection.)
Now the fact that Riley liked 'gentle love making' and Spike liked
'wild erotic sex' means nothing. It was basically the same.
The other thing that Spike had going for him -which the writers
have COMPLETELY removed- was stability. Spike, if you watch the
first few seasons, knew who he was. He was a bad vampire who loved
a crazy one. You have to look back at his successful relationship
w/ Dru and realize they could not have been together (and survived
as long as they had) if both of them had been nuts.
This is turning out long--
I would say another thing Spike had to offer was a LONG, monogomous,
healthy relationship with a woman. (in vampire terms).
Then the writers chipped him.
Ok, for the first time Spike has no idea who he is anymore. He
is defenseless and weak. Dru has dropped him because she knows
he will love the slayer. Ok.
Then he discovers he can fight demons. Suddenly, Spike latches
on to a new identity. He is still bad- toward demons. Now that
he does not have free rein, how shall he occupy himself? Well,
he could be useful to the one he loves.
So fine, he is a demon fighter (ironically a title that Wesley
had given himself in the first season of Angel sans rogue.)
So, he is sort of comfortable and confident as to his new identity.
Buffy is back from the dead. They have a lot in common. (See song
in omwf). He can listen and not judge.(This is big plus for a
woman.)
They could have had a relationship, emotional and intimate, where
Buffy could have had pretty much of a safe-haven to work through
her angst at being returned from the dead and her anger at her
friends and Giles for leaving her. -But MARTI would not have any
of it.
THAT IS SOME OF HOW SPIKE WOULD HAVE/COULD HAVE BEEN GOOD FOR
BUFFY.
But instead, what we got was a repeat of the Riley/Buffy relationship,
culminating with an attempted rape scene that simply was not even
possible IMHO. Funny that X's attempted rape of Buffy in season
1 or 2 (the ep was referred to in this last ep) was never mentioned
again... although X probably still remembers it. AND THEN, BECAUSE
of this attempted rape- SPIKE DID DO THE UNTHINKABLE, THE UNBELIEVABLE.
-HE LEFT. (I have no idea whether his original plan was to come
back or not.)
The writers have made Spike now so Nutty, that there is NO WAY
Buffy and Spike could ever have anything like trust again because
there is no stable person in the relationship to ground things.
SO CONGRATUALTIONS WRITERS, BUFFY HAS SLAYED ANOTHER VAMPIRE AND
RELATIONSHIP AND WILL CONTINUE TO STAGNATE.
Ok, I apologize for being intensely angry and rambling. What was
your point again?
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Fire pretty,
tree bad -- Indri, 12:29:28 10/03/02 Thu
In the early days of the B/S relationship, I too thought it had
great potential, for some of the reasons you outlined. I also
thought it had the potential to go horribly wrong. And what made
it fascinating to watch was that it could have gone either way
without anyone going out of character.
For example, you mention Spike's long relationship with Dru. It
was stable, yes, but also consisted of Spike's almost total submission
to Dru's wishes. Which aspect of that relationship would be reflected
in B/S---the stability or the submission?
And was Buffy going to be able to open up to Spike (she barely
managed this with Angel) or would she treat him as convenient,
as she often treated Riley?
As the B/S relationship became increasingly wretched and mutually
abusive, I just sat there thinking that if only they had been
somewhat better people---had either been able to rise to the occassion---then
it would have been good. As it played out, it was a disaster.
You might take heart from comments people have made elsewhere
on the board, that Seasons 6 and 7 are likely to be two halves
of a single story. At the end of Season 5, ME knew that there
would be at least two more seasons on UPN, so they could structure
their story accordingly. So we may be judging this story after
reading only half the book. Who knows what CrazySpike may yet
turn into?
Finally, the fact of it is that all of the personal relationships
on the show are manipulated towards larger plot ends. Of the two
truly unpleasant scenes in SR, one was used to mature Willow and
the other to force Spike into attempting the seemingly impossible
(an unsouled being asking for a soul). Neither of these plot lines
are finished; perhaps in a year or so we'll be able to evaluate
whether the loss of Tara and the AR scene were justifiable or
desirable in terms of the greater story.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re:
Fire pretty, tree bad (Thank you - I needed that) -- Spike
Lover, 12:47:25 10/03/02 Thu
[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: I think you forget
that Spike wanted more. -- meritaten, 00:10:33 10/03/02
Thu
I didn't see the relationship portrayed as the cause of the problems.
What I saw was Buffy seeking temporary relief in inappropriate
sex. Her own addiction, if you will. Her break-up scene in AYW
was a scene where she admitted that she was using him, and it
was not healthy for her. She was going to start (or try to start)
dealing with her problems rather than bury them with sex.
The guilt she felt over both her sex addiction and her
choice of partners, DID, however, contribute to her depression.
The depression colored her self-image. The guilt only deepened
and fed the depression. She had to start making positive chnanges
rather than waiting for it to go away.
[> [> [> [> [> [> B/S was a *symptom*
of Buffy's problem, not the cause. -- cjc36, 09:12:19 10/03/02
Thu
Working at DMP was also bad. Ignoring Dawn was worse. And ignoring
Willow's descent into addiction was there, too.
But let me say I never thought Spike's attempted rape of Buffy
was out of character. He more than likely pillaged and burned
in his past, done far worse than we've seen or heard about. He
was a monster. He loved Buffy, true, and burned for her, but it
wasn't enough ñ love never equaled a conscience - and the
sex became about the taking, the 'bringing' Buffy down into the
darkness with him. She let him in, true, and he kept coming back,
until he crossed a line I figured he'd cross soon after they knocked
the house down in Smashed. She'd eventually say NO and mean it,
and he'd ignore her like he always did, and things would get ugly
and violent for real. And it happened, and the Spike shippers
went crazy: WHERE DID THIS COME FROM?
The demon inside him? That was a good enough answer for me.
And the attempted rape gave him the introspective moment, epiphany,
to go get what Buffy deserves-- A man with a soul.
And now we get to Beneath You we are faced with the fact that
it isn't enough. And the Soul has made Spike a different being.
Two entities are fighting for dominance over one body, causing
the Man to be insane.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Yes, thank you!
very much agree -- Scroll, 10:15:36 10/03/02 Thu
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: B/S was a
*symptom* of Buffy's problem, not the cause. -- Slain, 10:39:57
10/03/02 Thu
I agree completely - and I want to add that there's no such thing
as 'out of character', either. The characters only exist through
the writers, so we the viewers can't say what's 'in their character'.
We can be surprised by things in the characters we hadn't forseen,
but we cannot say they're acting out of character.
The most we can ever say is that they're not conforming to our
own beliefs. We're just the viewers, here - no amount of fan fiction
is going to change the fact that the fans have no say in
what's 'true' about the characters. Spike is rapist, not just
because he may have been a rapist before, but because the episode
'Seeing Red' showed us that that is in his character.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: B/S
was a *symptom* of Buffy's problem, not the cause. -- Arethusa,
11:12:54 10/03/02 Thu
No amount of logical discussion will convince some fans that the
characterization is consistant because they have rewritten the
character into something it's not. Once you ignore the basic premise
of the show-a young girl/woman grows up while fighting demons,
which represent the difficulties everyone faces while trying to
become adults-any misinterpretation is possible. Vampires are
mature and insightful and trustworthy because one wants them to
be, and anyone who breaks this illusion is the evil one, whether
she is a character on the show or a writer.
The utterly astonishing thing is that this attitude doesn't allow
one to truly appreciate the incredible job ME has done creating
an amazingly complex and conflicted character, and revel in the
performances of one of the most moving and talented actors I've
ever seen.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re:
B/S was a *symptom* of Buffy's problem, not the cause. --
acesgirl, 11:23:53 10/03/02 Thu
"The utterly astonishing thing is that this attitude doesn't
allow one to truly appreciate the incredible job ME has done creating
an amazingly complex and conflicted character, and revel in the
performances of one of the most moving and talented actors I've
ever seen."
This is wonderfully stated and aside from being astonishing, that
kind of attitude is just plain confusing, at least to me. If all
you feel when you watch the show is frustration and disappointment
because the story isn't going the way you want, well I just don't
know what to say, except, why would anyone put themselves through
that for a television show?
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: "out
of character", Spike, spoilers through S7 (general) --
lunarchickk, 11:41:25 10/03/02 Thu
"there's no such thing as 'out of character' "
Actually, I'd just like to respond to the idea that nothing can
be considered "out of character" once the writers have
written it.
As a writer, I'm well aware that my characters need to remain
in-character -- remaining a consistent personality, for lack of
a better word, throughout the story. If a character does something
that goes strongly against this sense of "character"
(personality as established in the rest of the story) then I,
as the writer, need to show the audience *why* they're acting
in this way. If not, the audience will pick up on this inconsistency
and it will break their suspension of disbelief.
For instance, if I have a very moral character who strives to
be good, and one day she goes out and kills someone, it's out
of character. But if her father is killed and she goes after his
killer with a gun and offs him, then it can *become* in-character.
Much of the pain of being pulled out of a story by an "out
of character" action could be saved by the potential set-up
of the action.
"We can be surprised by things in the characters we hadn't
foreseen"
Exactly -- and it's the writer's job to show us where in the character
that comes from -- show us the rabbit's ears before you pull it
out of the hat, so to speak. Willow's a huge scary evil witch?
Look back to Something Blue and Lover's Walk and Tough Love, when
Willow tries to control the world around her through magic. Even
when we were surprised by Jenny turning out to be Janna, or Faith
going to work for the Mayor, it's made clear that it's part of
their characters.
However, in writing, characters often take on a life of their
own, and while you may have thought the moral character in the
example above would go after her father's killer, instead she
may refuse to do it (in your head, as the writer) and every scene
with a gun in her hand rings false. In my opinion, this
is what happened in Season 6 with Spike.
Many viewers saw Spike as one of the Good Guys and on the path
to redemption through helping and loving Buffy. ME, going by interviews
and such, wanted us to see Spike as Still Evil. Unfortunately,
many people who got all teary for Spike at the end of The Gift
("I know I'm a monster, but you treat me like a man")
simply didn't buy Spike as evil.
As the season progressed, the writers threw out lines like in
Hell's Bells ("Evil" "Of course"), but our
reaction was to not take it seriously. They had Buffy tell him
that the relationship was killing her -- and many people found
it didn't ring true. The reaction people were having to the character
of Spike was not how Mutant Enemy intended it, and so they upped
the voltage on every dose. In As You Were, we see Spike, international
arms (eggs) dealer.
But it seems Spike, whether via James Marsters' performance of
simply via the character himself, had taken on a life of his own
in fans' minds, and none of this seemed to fit. So when it came
time for Spike to leave Sunnydale in search of a soul, it seems
the writers decided it wouldn't make sense to the viewers for
him to up and leave -- because so many viewers already thought
he was a Good Guy without a soul, why go get one? So they made
it very clear by adding the attempted rape scene in Seeing Red,
to show Spike's motivation for leaving. Unfortunately, the justification
-- what they added to *show* why Spike getting a soul wasn't out
of character -- struck many people as exactly that.
Sorry for going on a bit -- it just really struck me to say that
there's no such thing as writing out of character. It;s true that
whatever the writers create then becomes *canon*, but that doesn't
mean it's all in character. They could have, for example, made
Willow a big scary witch the end of Season 3 -- but it wouldn't
have been in character until Season 6. (Or not even then, by some
arguments.) There's a difference between arguing that one dislikes
a tack the writers have taken, and arguing that something is out
of character, which is I believe what you were arguing anyway.
(Me? I hate that Spike tried to rape Buffy. Hate it. I think it
was over the top and an unnecessarily hot-button topic to add
to the pile, and one that will be difficult to resolve, depending
on where they intend on going with the characters. Out of character?
Hmm... on the fence. On one hand, they wrote it into canon, all
the justification... on the other hand, it never rang true. I
think the character ran into a different place than they wanted,
and they had to rein him back in.)
Just wanted to clarify the issue of things being "out
of character"... please, I hope I haven't offended in any
way. This isn't meant as an attack on anyone! I know tempers run
high on subjects of Spike and rape, and understandably so. :)
I just got a bit long winded.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Extremely
well said -- Sophist, 12:47:17 10/03/02 Thu
I am, frankly, astonished at some of the posts above in this sub-thread.
Characters must be established in order to tell a story, as opposed
to relate a random series of events. Your post sets out exactly
the process that a writer must follow in order to maintain the
willing suspension of disbelief in the viewer.
Blaming the viewers, as is implicit in the other posts above,
not only makes no sense, it's insulting to those viewers. If one
person sees a scene in an unusual way, we can write that off as
chance. If thousands of viewers see it the same way, then we can
only conclude that there was a serious failure of communication
by the writers. Any suggestion to the contrary is simply a way
of privileging the fact that the story played out the way that
viewer wanted.
At the least, we should all be sensible enough to acknowledge
that other interpretations than our own may be both possible and
fair. Insults to those who disagree aren't likely to generate
good dialogue.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
Well said by both lunarchick and sophist -- shadowkat,
13:05:23 10/03/02 Thu
"Blaming the viewers, as is implicit in the other posts above,
not only makes no sense, it's insulting to those viewers. If one
person sees a scene in an unusual way, we can write that off as
chance. If thousands of viewers see it the same way, then we can
only conclude that there was a serious failure of communication
by the writers. Any suggestion to the contrary is simply a way
of privileging the fact that the story played out the way that
viewer wanted.
At the least, we should all be sensible enough to acknowledge
that other interpretations than our own may be both possible and
fair. Insults to those who disagree aren't likely to generate
good dialogue."
Agree. Flaming or harranging someone who views a character differently
than you do leads us no where. And usually just incites emotional
anger.I know nothing makes me angrier - it's why I've been avoiding
the posts above and if I know someone despises a certain character?
I stay away from their posts on that character.
Have enough things to cause me anxiety and pain right now, I want
Buffy and this board to be my refuge. Yes, I know Buffy is full
of pain, but good cathartic pain of fictional characters as opposed
to frustrating impossible pain of real ones.
I'm also a writer and as I've said in prior posts? Often characters
can take on lives of their own. Spike certainly has. Just as Angel
did before him. And so has Buffy, Xander and Willow. They no longer
just live inside Whedon's mind.
He let them out to frolic across the screen. Hired actors to portray
them. Custume designers to custum them. etc.
The character takes on a life of its own as a result.
Spike is the most complex character on tv. No one can predict
what he will do next. And I think the only writer who knows is
possibly Whedon.
I too despised the AR scene, although I understand why they felt
the need for it. And after watching Beneath You, I have in a way
forgiven them for it. Beneath You moved me that much.
Anyways this is a long rambling roundabout way to say I agree
with you both. And am I also very tired of character bashing,
writer bashing, poster bashing, and season bashing.
Can we have an end to it please? Didn't someone once post their
dread of the whining fans??
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> Re: Well said by both lunarchick and sophist -- Slain,
13:31:13 10/03/02 Thu
I'm also a writer and as I've said in prior posts? Often characters
can take on lives of their own. Spike certainly has. Just as Angel
did before him. And so has Buffy, Xander and Willow. They no longer
just live inside Whedon's mind.
He let them out to frolic across the screen. Hired actors to portray
them. Custume designers to custum them. etc.
The character takes on a life of its own as a result.
Spike is the most complex character on tv. No one can predict
what he will do next. And I think the only writer who knows is
possibly Whedon.
Don't you see a contradiction here? Spike has a life of his own,
but only Whedon determines where this life will go? And if no
one can predict what he will do next, how is it possible for him
to act out of character? As, if he had an clear, objective character,
he would be predictable. Whenever he did someone unpredictable,
that would be out of character, because it didn't conform to the
established character.
Spike is not predictable. He doesn't exist objectively, and if
he doesn't exist objectively, then we can't say that our own opinions
of the character have more weight than what happens on the screen;
we can't say that our view of the character is true, and that
he is acting out of character in the show; because only Joss can
determine this.
I'm deeply uhappy with it being implied that I'm either flaming
or insulting others. I've stated before that I don't think any
one perspective on the show is necessarily more valid, and that
viewers are always going to watch from, for example, a Spikian
perspective. I'm simply reinforcing the fact that no one view
of the character holds more truth than any other, except that
of Joss Whedon; and because we can't determine the truth of the
character, that 'out of character' is a purely subjective term.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> Your post -- Sophist, 13:45:51 10/03/02
Thu
did not insult anyone. I completely disagree with you about whether
there can be scenes that are "out of character" for
the reasons set forth by lunarchick, shadowkat and celticross.
However, your argument was fair (though wrong, hehe).
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> Re: Your post -- Arethusa, 13:57:43
10/03/02 Thu
Well, I guess that makes me the insulting one, and I kind of agree.
I apologize to the Spike fans for being combative and making too-personal
attacks.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> Re: Your post -- acesgirl, 16:17:13
10/03/02 Thu
And me right behind you since I jumped on your bandwagon. Although
I'm a HUGE Spike fan and I still agreed with your point. I certainly
didn't mean to insult anyone and I apologize if I did.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> Why I like my view better... -- Slain,
15:07:12 10/03/02 Thu
I don't exactly disagree with lunarchick's post, which is why
I didn't reply to it. I think, in terms of the success of the
writers, it's possible to look at the majority opinion of out
of characterness, and see if the writing has succeed in making
the characters appear consistent.
But success of the writing isn't what I was discussing; I'm discussing
the characters on their own terms alone, where everything is intrinsically
in character, and success of the writers isn't an issue. I'm interested
in discussing the characters, and not in discounting anything
as inconsistent or out of character; nothing can be out of character,
because the majority opinion of the fans (from which success and
consistencey is measured) doesn't come into it. It's the individual
interpretation of the show.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> Why I like mine better...:) --
Sophist, 15:53:46 10/03/02 Thu
I think your view privileges the writer too much. I believe the
viewer is just as involved in the performance as the writer. Part
of the bargain is that the writer and viewer communicate, and
that requires a consistency of character based upon preiously
established expectations.
I'm not sure I understand your last sentence. If the individual
interpretation is what counts, why isn't it valid to speak of
"out of character"? After all, if the viewer is privileged,
only his/her expectations count. This seems inconsistent with
what you said before, so maybe I misunderstood.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> [> Re: Why I like mine better...:)
-- Slain, 16:32:02 10/03/02 Thu
I meant that the individual viewer is the more important, as opposed
to the view of the majority (from which ideas of objective consistencey
are acknowledged to come from). The individual can feel that the
character isn't conforming to their beliefs, but it's only through
reference to the feelings of the 'majority' of fans that consistencey
is apparently gauged. But I don't think there's any kind of real
consensus about what constitutes consistencey in the characters,
just lots of individual subjective opinions, none of them any
truer than others; if more people believe one view, then that's
an issue for the writers, not for me.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> [> [> I thought about this overnight,
-- Sophist, 09:15:16 10/04/02 Fri
and I still don't get it.
I'll accept, for now, your assertion that the individual viewer
is more important than the majority. My own view is that the interpretation
of art is very much a communal experience. That's one of the reasons
I find this Board so valuable. I'm putting that aside for the
moment.
If the individual viewer is more important, then it seems to me
that that viewer can decide if a scene is "out of character".
At the level of subjectivity involved with an individual viewer,
I don't see how we could ever say that someone else is wrong about
that, or that "there is no such thing as out of character".
To me, it makes more sense to look at collective opinions. If
large numbers of viewers see something different than the writer
does, then the writer has failed to communicate. That failure
of communication could, at least in some cases, be fairly described
as one in which a scene was written "out of character".
From the writer's perspective, you are correct that there is no
such thing. From the individual viewer's perspective, any judgment
at all is fair. It's the group perspective that allows us to escape
the subjectivity of the individual writer or viewer.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> As did I. --
Arethusa, 10:08:21 10/04/02 Fri
You woudn't happen to be a trial lawyer, would you? I have a mental
picture of a jury of our peers, being forced to wtch BtVS to decide
if the characters stay in character. As others have said, once
a work of art is placed before the public, a writer can't control
peoples' reactions to and interpretations of art, and risk making
themselves look foolish if they try to correct others' possible
misinterpretations. As I have learned recently. I want to understand
the writer's viewpoint, because that helps me understand the work
of art. But since each viewer will interpret the work of art through
his own point of view, I pick and choose what I will accept from
other audience members' points of view. So I guess what I'm getting
at is that while I am very interested in others' opinions on works
of art, I reserve the right to reject those opinions I disagree
with, whether they are in the majority or minority. Now, if I
could just stop thinking that everyone should agree with me....
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> LOL --
Sophist, 10:49:58 10/04/02 Fri
I am indeed.
I don't disagree with you at all. I do exactly the same -- I have
my initial opinion, then I modify it based on what I read here.
It's that use of others to serve as a check on our own solipsism
that I was arguing to Slain. My own view, uninfluenced by others,
is too subjective; like words in Alice in Wonderland, it can mean
whatever I want it to mean.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> Also, thanks -- Slain, 15:36:02 10/03/02
Thu
For putting me out of my misery about the insulting thing... sometimes
I think I'm better off staying away from the internet, because
god knows these little things effect me far more than they should!
I really can't bear it when I feel someone thinks I'm flaming
somebody, or insulting others.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> [> [> Re: Also, thanks -- Rahael, 15:41:22
10/03/02 Thu
You're not alone!
This thought process is routine for me. Just when I thought I
was out, they pull me back in..........
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> [> Uhmmm a clarification? I hope. -- shadowkat,
09:36:16 10/04/02 Fri
Never meant to say you are insulting or inflaming others, Slain.
Sorry that was implied.
(Except maybe Spike...but then I've decide that the critic on
Scoop Me is absolutely correct on this:
"Spike has become the greatest vampire in all of movies and
television. His character is so evolved, so complex, so, for lack
of a better word, real, that to dissect him...to say that this
is what he means and this is what he is offends.
People ñ real people ñ can't be explained so easily.
Only characters can. "
So labeling him as anything I strongly believe cheapens the character
and says more about the critic than we may wish.
As a result I may not write another essay on him for a while.
It would be like writing one on a real person.
No matter what I or anyone else says? We would be partly right
and partly wrong. Joss Whedon with the help of James MArsters
has managed to create a fictional character that has become incredibly
real, at least to me. And every time I think I've got him figured
out? I find out something more.
For the record? I do not disagree with you and the others - I
don't for a minute think any of these characters acted out of
character last season. I think the AR scene was out of character
for the show - it went too real in a show grounded in fantasy
metaphor and I found it to be terribly jarring and for a moment
thought I was watching Dawson's Creek, General Hospital, or some
other reality based soap opera, not BTVS. OTOH - the acting IMHO
in that scene was far better than that seen any where else and
it resulted in the brillance of Beneath You so I forgave the writers
and decided there is a reason they are writing this show and not
me or any of us, thank god. So no, I do not think Btvs has gone
out of character - I think their execution last year both characterwise
and plotwise was a little off in Season 6, but I think we all
agree on that much. )
What I was trying to express in my above post was as follows:
1. It is possible to end up with an out of character moment.
To confuse your audience or reader. This happens a lot on daytime
soap operas - when the show suddenly for no apparent reason decides
to make an evil character the hero or the hero a sadistic rapist.
I've stopped watching shows for this reason. I stopped watching
Xenia actually when I felt this happening. Don't see it happening
in Btvs or ATs.
Whedon has done a good job of controlling his vision. Unfortunately,
he hasn't done such a good job of understanding how it may be
viewed by the audience. The B/S
relationship, just like B/A relationship, confused the audience
- b/c the audience is a little more romantically inclined then
Whedon. The audience (not all of us) wants to watch happy relationships
and see love and fantasize. That is NOT what Whedon is interested
in. He's interested in partly flipping the whole horror movie
idea of teenagers get punished for having sex on its head and
poking fun at it (hence the sex is bad motif in Btvs) and in female
empowerment, connectedness, finding meaning in a meaningless universe,
etc. Last year he was exploring different levels of abusive relationships.
Being a shipper for any character on Btvs is highly stupid. When
someone announces a new ship? I find myself innwardly groaning
as I'm sure ME does. I also wonder if the viewer hates the character?
The quickest way for a character to get killed, eaten, go nuts,
or leave the show is for that character to become sexually involved
with one of the main leads.
If you like a character? Pray that they don't become romantically
involved with Buffy, Xander or Willow. Especially Buffy. But I'm
wandering off point again and that always gets me into trouble.
And just watch all the shippers attack me on this one. ;-) (I'm
not bashing shippers - please, I've given into the temptation
myself many times - most recently with Spike/Buffy after OMWF.)
2. Bashing and flaming. This board is actually pretty nice although
at times we can start acting like cranky five year olds. (A bit
of advice - not to anyone in particular - but it's a rule I try
hard to follow - do NOT post on a character you despise. All you
do is put yourself in a bad light. Remember no matter how much
you despise this character there are probably twenty people on
the board who adore them and hate your favorite character.) What
Sophist tried to say is insulting someone - gets us no where.
I read Slain's post, and Sophist and my comments were certainly
NOT directed at Slain. I haven't read the other ones - partly
because i sensed character bashing just from the subject lines,
specifically Spike and B/S bashing going on and that makes me
majorly unhappy and angry and want to kick people. Feel that way
already just taking the frigging subway to this dreary factory
building in which I work every morning. So I just do myself a
favor and avoid thread that look anti-Spike. I also avoid anti-Buffy,
anti-Xander, anti-Willow, anti-Giles, Anti-Anya, Anti-Tara, and
Anti-Dawn and Anti-Season 6 threads.
Also if you don't like what a poster says? If they offended you?
Maybe the best thing to do is wait two days before responding.
Once you respond? It's out there and you have to live with it.
This btw is advice that I need to follow myself and have fouled
up on more than once to my deep shame. Often over-reacting to
something. Take it from me, the majority of my mistakes on this
board have been from responding too quickly to something or saying
something about a topic I know zip about, which is a completely
different problem.
What I love about ATP is the intellectual discussions, the deep
analysis and the non-shippiness. But we are all human and have
bad days so I think we can probably give each other a little leeway
for stepping out of line, getting testy or over-reacting from
time to time. It's when it happens all the time - that we risk
getting trollish. And I haven't seen anyone on the board this
week go that far.
Thank god. (Now watch a lurking troll will suddenly decide to
seize this opportunity to pop out of hiding and make me eat my
words.)
Hope this made better sense. Sometimes I think I should give up
this posting thing and lurk for a while, it's so much safer. ;-)
But the board keeps calling me back like a bad addiction. sigh.
SK
PS: Isn't it great voy is back!!! Was sooo bummed it was down.
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[> [> [> Had to throw in some lyrics that remind me
of message boards -- Rufus, 16:09:58 10/04/02 Fri
I've learned that certain types of posts don't deserve a reply
because the person is just trying to jerk our collective chains....so
sometimes I ignore and wait for the archiving bug to hit.
Now to the lyrics..they are from Pink..
JUST LIKE A PILL
I'm lyin' here on the floor where you left me
I think I took too much
I'm crying here, what have you done?
I thought it would be fun
I can't stay on your life support, there's a
shortage in the switch,
I can't stay on your morphine, cuz its making me
itch
I said I tried to call the nurse again but shes
being a little bitch,
I think I'll get outta here, where I can
Run just as fast as I can
To the middle of nowhere
To the middle of my frustrated fears
And I swear you're just like a pill
Instead of makin' me better, you keep makin' me
ill You keep makin' me ill
I haven't moved from the spot where you left me
This must be a bad trip
All of the other pills, they were different
Maybe I should get some help
I can't stay on your life support, there's a
shortage in the switch,
I can't stay on your morphine, cuz its making me
itch
I said I tried to call the nurse again but shes
being a little bitch,
I think I'll get outta here, where I can
Run just as fast as I can
To the middle of nowhere
To the middle of my frustrated fears
And I swear you're just like a pill
Instead of makin' me better, you keep makin' me
ill You keep makin' me ill
Run just as fast as I can
To the middle of nowhere
To the middle of my frustrated fears
And I swear you're just like a pill
Instead of makin' me better, you keep makin' me
ill You keep makin' me ill
I can't stay on your life support, there's a
shortage in the switch,
I can't stay on your morphine, cuz its making me
itch
I said I tried to call the nurse again but shes
being a little bitch,
I think I'll get outta here, where I can
Run just as fast as I can
To the middle of nowhere
To the middle of my frustrated fears
And I swear you're just like a pill
Instead of makin' me better, you keep makin' me
ill You keep makin' me ill
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[> [> [> [> LOL! Yes...the online posting addiction
anthem, Thanks for lyrics. -- shadowkat, 19:00:30 10/04/02
Fri
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[> [> [> Also after some thought... -- Slain,
07:02:50 10/05/02 Sat
This debate was started because it was (correctly, I think) thought
that some posters were denigrating the perspective of others,
by implying that completely focussing around one character was
a less valuable way of watching the show.
Why is this different from stating that my perspective on the
show 'offends', 'cheapens' or 'insults' the character? I believe
that Spike is in no sense real, and is inherently, explicitly
fictionalised, and that it's perfectly acceptable to either define
him in simple terms or to view him solely through certain philosophies
or ideologies (existentialism, postmodernism). Is my view less
valuable?
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[> [> [> [> Challenging your approach -- alcibiades,
07:59:45 10/05/02 Sat
I believe that Spike is in no sense real, and is inherently,
explicitly fictionalised, and that it's perfectly acceptable to
either define him in simple terms or to view him solely through
certain philosophies or ideologies (existentialism, postmodernism).
Is my view less valuable?
Spike is not real. But, IMO at least, he is a fabulous work of
art. And great art, like reality itself, defies simple categorization
as this or that. In fact, it is supposed to make you think beyond
these easy categorizations and definitions because it reflects
the complexity of the world. It is meant to challenge or erase
preconceptions, to take you beyond yourself.
Really, the "problem" of philosophy is that there has
never been one that is shot from a wide enough angle lens to comprehend
the complexity of human affairs. Claude Levi-Strauss addresses
this in the Savage Man -- philosophy can only establish a synchronic
viewpoint, not a diachronic one. Leibniz once contemplated the
possibility of the creation of a mathematical system so thoroughgoing
that it would be able to explain human affairs. But leaving that
aside for the moment...
Why take a fabulously complex portrait of a man and define it
in simple terms?
Does it do justice to the work of art? Or to the vision of reality
that the artist(s) is trying to convey?
Similarly, why define him solely through an ideology or philosophy
when Spike is such a hybrid puzzle piece -- a complex potpourri
of this and that -- a riddle buried in an enigma -- that no philosophy
and certainly no ideology can comprehend all of him. His character
is meant to transcend simple categorization certainly, it is the
essence of what he does time and again.
In fact, the profound mistake that Buffy has made with Spike is
that over and over she has categorized him, dropped him in his
box, closed the lid and he transcends and leaps over every boundary
line she has established to keep him contained and safe.
But Spike is not safe and more than anything he wants to be real.
It is a fascinating dilemma for a work of art when over and over
he voices to the other characters and to the audience at large
that he wants to be real.
So why simplify him?
What efficacy do you serve by doing that?
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Challenging your approach
-- Slain, 08:56:56 10/05/02 Sat
I don't object to having my viewpoint challenged, and in fact
I'd be disappointed if it wasn't, but what I do object to is the
double standard; that it's unacceptable to put a certain perspective
above the other (as Aresthusa did), but not unacceptable for a
different perspective to be put over another.
People who focus soley on one character should expect to have
their approach challenged, as I expect to have my very literary
approach challenged. No one perspective deserves priority, because
all are equally valid. It's equally valid to view Spike in your
more 'real' terms (you might call this a psychological approach)
as it is to view him as a literary character adhering to certain
modes and tropes (as I do in most of my essays, though not all),
or to view him as the centre of the show and the stem of its morality
(a devoted Spike fan's approach).
Inevitably, I like my view better; I don't watch the show
in this way, because I think everyone actually watches the show
in more-or-less the same way, as if it were reality being played
out in front of us. But the point is that, I'd argue, everyone
thinks they're getting more out of the show than the next person,
and that's why challenging other's perspectives is always going
to happen. Obviously there's a line between challenging another,
and in simply saying "you should watch the way I do",
but I don't think that's been crossed in this thread in a significant
way.
So thanks to alcibiades and shadowkat for challenging me, and
long may it continue!
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Long, boring explamation
and apology. -- Arethusa, 13:09:58 10/05/02 Sat
I do not consider any perspective innately superior to any other.
I challenged the statements of fact made in Spike Lover's posts,
and said that seeing Spike as the romantic hero and center of
the Buffyverse means that all the other ways to see Spike-literary,
psycological, mythological, etc.-are not recognized. Thus Spike
becomes a much less complex character, and not as enjoyable (in
my opinion) to watch. Another result is that any event in BtVS
that doesn't show Spike as a romantic hero is portrayed as an
attack on Spike by a character on the show (usually Buffy) or
Marti Noxon, who thought up the AR scene. Unfortunately, becuse
I was rude what I said was overshadowed by how I said it.
Yes, I am attacking Spike Lover's perspective, but not in a 'you
idiot!" way. It is not insulting to say someone is getting
the facts wrong.
SL said "It seemed that [Buffy} realizes that her sexual
abuse of a soulless thing has driven him mad." I said, "The
conflict between the soul and vampire,with the interference of
the Big or Little Bad, is causing NewSpike's craziness."
SL: "Who was the guy in the blue sweater? Because that was
not "Spike"." She says she doesn't accept/believe
that Spike would try to rape Buffy, hit Anya when she about to
reveal his secret, say he was over Anya, or hit any woman "who
had not asked for it."
Me: "And yes-that's not Spike! It's someone we don't know
very well yet." The facts are that Spike did all these things,
although for different reasons; the first because he was a souless
vampire, and the others becase he was trying to go back to being
the souless vampire.
SL: "WHY IS BUFFY CRYING AT THE END? Why is she not happy
that this soulless thing now has his soul back (and is suffering
for all the evil he has done and is COMPLETELY, WICKEDLY UNHAPPY
now?) I can not comprehend (as usual) what Buffy is thinking -(it
hardly matters, she will have forgotten it by next week.)
Because the woman he loves can never love him and it is far better
for everyone for him to sacrifice his worthless life so that she
might live. And after his death, when she realizes what he has
done for her and the ones she loves, she will cry one lone tear
and then (because she is Buffy) promptly forget about him."
Me: "Of course Buffy is horrified and stricken and very sad
that Spike is a wreck, and all for love of her." I am assuming
Buffy is capable of empathy-somthing we have seen her demonstrate
too many times to enumerate. SL is assuming she is not, and immediately
forgets about those she's wronged or who help her. There have
been many posts discussing Buffy's inability to forgive herself
for her mistakes, and I don't think she would shed one
tear and then forget about it.
SL: "Therefore, who was she attracted to in Spike? It had
to have been the demon that loved her so much he was trying to
reform on his own."
Me: "Buffy was never attracted to the demon in Spike-it was
the part of him she mistrusted, and whenever it appeared, she
usually ended up punching him."
SL: "They pretty much have set up a BIG Redemption issue
with the line "I hear the voices -of victims, of the evil
one, and of God- all telling me to go to Hell." The crisis
now becomes not how to get Buff and Spike together, but what can
Spike/William do to escape the fires of Hell."
Me: "ME has never been all about redemption. Hence the speech
in "Epiphany." And the crises has never been about how
to get Buffy and Spike together. That is so not the point. How
does a mutually destructive and unromantic sexual relationship
become misconstrued as something romantic, and worth recapturing?"
(*Wince.* Much too combative and condescending.)
SL: 2)Servicing the girl. Spike seems to think that Buffy is only
interested in one thing. (Actually 2 things, getting help and
using him for sex.)
Hmmm, with all those flashbacks they used, too bad that they did
not show the one where Buffy is beating Spike senseless in the
alley- screaming that a 'soulless thing can not love anything'.
(No, let's not do that. That might even the score too much.) But
Kudos to Sarah MG who can act. It seemed that her character realizes
that her sexual abuse of a soulless thing has driven him mad.
(But maybe Buffy does not realize that nor claim her role in it.)
3) And here is the rub... WHY IS BUFFY CRYING AT THE END? Why
is she not happy that this soulless thing now has his soul back
(and is suffering for all the evil he has done and is COMPLETELY,
WICKEDLY UNHAPPY now?) I can not comprehend (as usual) what Buffy
is thinking -(it hardly matters, she will have forgotten it by
next week.)
Because the woman he loves can never love him and it is far better
for everyone for him to sacrifice his worthless life so that she
might live. And after his death, when she realizes what he has
done for her and the ones she loves, she will cry one lone tear
and then (because she is Buffy) promptly forget about him.
Me: "Portraying Buffy as a clue[le]ss, calculating and heartless
abuser of poor Victim!Spike is getting repetitive."
My next post, a response to SL's "I just dont know what to
say," set off the discussion. SL said that Spike was stable,
trustworthy, had a successful relationship with Dru (who left
him), and could offer a long, healthy monogamous, emotional, intimate,
relationship to a woman. I said that Sl was rewriting and misconstruing
the character. I also said SL was portaying Noxon and Buffy as
evil. Finally, I said this attitude "doesn't allow one to
truly appreciate the incredible job ME has done creating an amazingly
complex and conflicted character, and revel in the performances
of one of the most moving and talented actors I've ever seen."
Not that the attitude is wrong or inferior-just that it
prevents a person from appreciating all the nuance ME and the
actor put into the character.
I was then told that my posts were astonisingly insulting, blame
the viewers, not sensible, unfair, flaming, harranging, inciting
emotional anger, causing pain and anxiety, poster-bashing, and
whining. Some of these comments were about posters in general,
but were responses to my posts. I've already apologized for being
combative and too-personal (conscending) to SL and other Spike
fan. I apologize to the other posters for inflicting unpleasant
posts on them. This is not an attempt at self-justification or
a further attack of anyone-I sincerely hope it is not taken as
such.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Long, boring
explamation and apology. -- Rufus, 17:55:39 10/05/02 Sat
I was then told that my posts were astonisingly insulting,
blame the viewers, not sensible, unfair, flaming, harranging,
inciting emotional anger, causing pain and anxiety, poster-bashing,
and whining. Some of these comments were about posters in general,
but were responses to my posts. I've already apologized for being
combative and too-personal (conscending) to SL and other Spike
fan. I apologize to the other posters for inflicting unpleasant
posts on them. This is not an attempt at self-justification or
a further attack of anyone-I sincerely hope it is not taken as
such.
I understand the frustration, because I feel it everytime someone
calles Buffy a bitch for not being nice to poor, widdle, Spike....and
I like the Spike character. The storyline of Spike and Buffy is
a wonderful one, unless people skip to the destination and consider
Spike's journey over and his ultimate redemption a done deal.
If Spike is such a perfect character, with no flaws, he would
be soooooo boring....he has to be on a journey just like Buffy
is as a hero. There are a few characters that seem to bear the
brunt of all the flaming in regards to Spike....Buffy, Xander,
and at times Dawn......all because they couldn't accept the demon
in him. There is a reason for that and that reason sent Spike
in search of a soul. Now, I see people assume that Buffy will
be cruel to Spike, never cared about Spike ect.....most of the
times I just move onto other posts that take the whole Buffyverse
into consideration instead of exalting one character at the expense
of all others. If the show is only about Spike, then I find it
a bore, but because we have such a fine ensemble cast it is so
much more.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Spike's journey
-- Arethusa, 19:15:00 10/05/02 Sat
I was awestruck, stunned, blown away, astonished by the end of
BY. The earth tilted on its axis (slight exaggeration there).
I am no longer even slightly embarrased to be a BtVS fan. I suddenly
have much more respect and admiration for Whedon and Marsters
than I ever thought possible. When Spike said, "Buffy, shame
on you" I blinked in disbelief, because I realized not only
was he now capable of making moral judgements, but he had just
criticized Buffy's lack of empathy. When he unzipped his pants
I gasped aloud in anguish and horror at what B/S had done to him,
and when he begged for rest, I wept at his pain. And I used to
take pride in my lack of emotional involvement in tv characters!
But the only reason I was so affected by that scene was I fully
acknowledged and understood what Spike was, how far he had come,
and what it had cost him to make that journey.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Spike's
journey -- Rufus, 19:43:50 10/05/02 Sat
The line that struck me the most was right at the end.....
Spike: Can we rest now....can we rest.
I can understand Spikes weariness, but the fact that he asked
if "we" can rest has me wondering exactly what he meant
by that. Does he mean the fighting between the two, or more?
When he unzipped his pants I gasped aloud in anguish and horror
at what B/S had done to him, and when he begged for rest, I wept
at his pain. And I used to take pride in my lack of emotional
involvement in tv characters! But the only reason I was so affected
by that scene was I fully acknowledged and understood what Spike
was, how far he had come, and what it had cost him to make that
journey.
That was the most uncomfortable scene for me as well.....the nature
of the sex they had was just getting a job done, and it was always
assumed that only Buffy could hurt or even care about the futile
nature of the coupling. But in Spike is still the man that he
once was, one who wanted to be loved in return, and had to settle
for scraps. It was the best way to bring up the relationship given
Spikes less than sane state....Buffy first feared that he was
moving in for another go at attempted rape and instead got a glimpse
of the pain that the relationship had caused both parties. Whedon,
Petrie, and Marsters did a wonderful job with showing the crushing
despair that the confused Spike feels....now Buffy will have to
deal with him in a new way....he isn't "just" an "evil,
soulless, thing" and Beneath You proved it.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Agree
with both of you wonderful posts. Felt the same. -- shadowkat,
19:49:00 10/05/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re:
Spike's journey -- Arethusa, 19:53:12 10/05/02 Sat
Off the top of my head, I think Spike meant himself and Buffy.
They've been fighting each other and the rest of the world for
so long. Spike's last 120 years have been one long rebellion,
and Buffy's been fighting her fate for nearly a third of her life.
The music has stopped, and Spike no longer wants to dance.
He could have also meant William and Spike, but William's only
been "awake" for a few months, after a century-long
sleep.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> uh...okay...trying for
more clarification here, and not succeeding -- shadowkat (thinking
she should have stayed out of it), 19:45:38 10/05/02 Sat
okay...don't remember saying Aerustha and Slain were
uhm insulting or combative. Actually I thought Spikelover
was and was avoiding her post and hoping it would be quickly archived
- and look it's lasted a week. (sigh)Liked Aerustha's reply, actually.
So hope you didn't read my post to imply I meant you in any way.
Was trying to be general. (Note to self? Should have obeyed first
impulse and stayed away from thread...it's quicksand.)
To Slain: If you've read my essays, you'll realize that
I agree that you shouldn't focus on one character. Actually I've
literally written essays on every character on both Ats and Btvs.
I have just decided to stop writing essays on Spike, because I
believe he now defies my ability to analyze him. Actually I think
I may stop essays altogether, got burnt out and well I think 35,
10-20 page essays on one show is enough, don't you?? Sure everyone
is as burnt out on them as I am.
Spike is incredibily complex. I agree completely with alcibades.
Spike is not real. But he is more complex and ironically more
developed and human and then almost any character on the show.
I personally feel Dawn remains the least developed character next
to the Grooslaug and possibly Tara on both shows - the sin of
being the last to be introduced and not having enough time spent
on them.
Not that that stopped me from analyzing Dawn and Tara.
As far as analysis goes I think I may have spent the most time
and focus on Willow and Buffy. They seem to appear in every essay
I write, more than Spike does.
So I actually agree with you on that score Slain. But I disagree
on simplification - that's the easy way out. It is much more challenging
and fruitful, I think, to explore something in its complexities.
Speaking of heated Philosophy debates - has anyone heard of a
new book that's come out about the heated ten minute confrontation
between Wittigensen (sp?) and Popper (sp?) - saw it the book store
today. Looked interesting.
Last words on the topic. I hope ;-)
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> I'm happy to let
it die (but not in a vampire sense). : ) -- Arethusa, 19:57:56
10/05/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Wittgenstein's Poker
-- Tchaikovsky, 10:05:51 10/06/02 Sun
This is the name of the book, which I have just finished reading.
Excellent. Please go ahead and read it, SK, so that you can impart
your writerly wisdom to its 'connectedness' with Buffy. For the
moment, that's a bit beyond me
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A question for Sophist -- Arethusa, 16:02:21 10/03/02
Thu
What would you say to the thousands of viewers who thought ME
was homophobic because of Tara's death? People who sent in hate
mail and filled message boards because they saw Tara's death and
the end of a homosexual relationship as a personal attack, or
a personal affront? I think they were wrong-does arguing against
that viewpoint make me insulting? Or it it possible for thousand
of people to make a mistake because they weren't seeing what they
wanted to see-public affirmation of their lives?
I think it's the same situation with Spike. I've seen many different
posts from many different writers making insulting comments about
characters and writers simply because they don't like seeing Spike
portrayed as weak or bad, or not get the girl. Thousands of women
and men are probably very upset that Spike's behavior didn't match
what they want. Is it insulting to question the logic of their
reactions, even when it is based on opinions that contradict canon?
There is, of course, no excuse for rudeness. I never want to be
insulting and it is very upsetting to me to think I hurt someone's
feelings. But it's also upsetting to be told I shouldn't criticize
someone's opinion, or try to change it. Useless, maybe. Wrong?
I'm not sure. All opinions are valid, but are they all right?
Should I be sticking purely to discussions of fact? 'Cause the
board might get kind of skimpy if we all do that.
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[> Re: A question for Sophist -- Miss Edith, 17:16:46
10/03/02 Thu
But O/T but few were arguing that ME writers were homophobic.
People were complaining about the story coming across as homophobic.
The comments were taken out of context and it was widely believed
that many viewers were saying Joss is a homophobe. But in fact
one of the angry former viewers actually told Joss at a Buffy
convention that she didn't think he was homophobic. The disapointment
was expressed because of promises the writers made about not wanting
to see W/T suffer as "that cliche is frankly old and tired".
Therefore a significant number of viewers found Tara dying, and
Willow becoming evil very insulting.
Anyway to answer your real point I do agree with you that a lot
of people saying Spike's behaviour is out of character are going
over the top. ME have actually received death threats from some
Spike fans which is appalling. But I do think that it is legitimate
for viewers to comment if they see a character as poorly written.
E.g in the musical I felt Xander's casualness about the people
burning to death from his spell was inconsistent with the past
behaviour of the character. The writers did create Xander but
I still see nothing wrong with viewers commenting on something
they believe the character would not do. Everyone is entitled
to their opinion, you included, and for what its worth I don't
remember being offended with your posts. On a debate forum I expect
to have people disagree strongly with others. It would get pretty
dull if we all just agreed with each other all the time.
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[> I would say, -- Sophist, 19:54:49 10/03/02 Thu
as I did say here, that the conduct of many Tara fans was totally
inappropriate. The distinction I tried to make here was that,
while their behavior was wrong, their arguments had merit (no
one has to agree with me here; I'm not bringing that subject
up).
There is a very difficult line to walk when it comes to criticism.
I know I don't always succeed at it. The distinction I try to
make is this: does my argument mention the other person, or only
the logic or facts of the situation (being very Spockish here).
If I make a reference to the other poster (or to a group of similarly
minded people), it's usually an ad hominem attack. Then I kick
myself when I re-read the post.
By no means should passion be eliminated from posts. I value Rah's
posts precisely because she brings such passion to her positions.
But I never (well, I try not to) object to a forceful statement
against me as long as it doesn't suggest that I'm an idiot for
thinking that (even if that is factual under the circumstances!).
Your post (and acesgirl's) was, IMHO, unfair because it was directed
at the holders of certain views of Spike, not at the merits directly.
That is a mild form of "evil"; you did not attack any
individual and I have never seen you do so. Your posts are generally
thoughtful and I learn from them.
I don't believe people watch BtVS to obtain affirmation of their
own lives (call me naive). I think people have honest, personal
expectations based upon their own, unique interpretations of the
show. When those expectations are defeated, they have every right
to explain why. Without, of course, bashing the writers or other
fans. We may disagree, but we need to do so by suggesting alternative
interpretations, not by saying they have an ulterior motive (other
than logic) for their position. In short, questioning someone's
logic is fine, but their emotions or motives is not. JMHO, but
I think it leads to fuller discussions.
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[> [> Oh, and -- Sophist, 20:00:13 10/03/02 Thu
your apology (and acesgirl's) was courteous and well-phrased.
I've made my own here, so I recognize them when I see them. I
also appreciate them.
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[> [> Re: I would say, -- Arethusa, 20:10:06 10/03/02
Thu
You're absolutely right about not attacking peoples' emotions
or motives. I try to not do that, and will try harder so I don't
do it again.
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[> Ideology vs. artistry -- alcibiades, 20:01:43
10/03/02 Thu
I believe you are confusing ideology with character development.
People who were upset about the Tara issue had a political ideology
they wanted to see affirmed and were upset when they thought they
detected what is a sensitive button issue.
Personally I hate characters who are confined by ideology because
real life and character is so much larger and more interesting
and more nuanced and more layered than any ideology could be.
Moreover, expecting writers to confine themselves and their characters
to a particular ideology is just bizarre in my opinion. Talk about
cancelling artistic freedom for the sake of a political cause.
Writing someone out of character to fit the end point of your
"novel" or in this case TV show is an artistic mistake,
not an ideological problem.
While these problems may look the same externally, ultimately
they have little in common.
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Mileage May Vary re: Out of Character -- Scroll, 12:54:03
10/03/02 Thu
I dunno, I felt that the AR was shocking, yes, but not OOC simply
because while I saw Spike as "one of the good guys",
I never saw him as "Good". Of course, this is always
your own interpretation. So the AR didn't seem to me to be out
of character, especially when you take into consideration Spike's
desperate desire to make Buffy feel *something* and his belief
that sex was the only way. IMO, Willow's descent into black magic
and murder/mayhem wasn't OOC, either. But I do think that many
of Cordelia's actions near the end of "Angel" Season
3 were slightly OOC because the steps hadn't been established
to explain her motivations - or her motivations just seemed ridiculous
and out-of-the-blue. But for me, the AR wasn't OOC.
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Not Out of Character...a scream for help -- alcibiades,
15:14:44 10/03/02 Thu
But I do think that many of Cordelia's actions near the end
of "Angel" Season 3 were slightly OOC because the
steps hadn't been established to explain her motivations - or
her motivations just seemed ridiculous and out-of-the-blue. But
for me, the AR wasn't OOC.
I think part of the problem with Cordelia's portrayal at the end
of Season 3 is that the actress didn't carry it well enough --
it wasn't playing to the actress' strengths - so she wasn't convincing
doing it.
In any case, that was my assessment when I saw it again last Sunday.
I don't have a problem with the AR, despite being a total Spike
fan, because when intense relationships are dissolving through
power plays and desperation and mixed signals, ordinary people
can do things involving sex and emotions that are not in their
normal behavioral patterns and deeply shame them afterwards. In
some cases for years afterwards.
In some ways, watching Spike scream for Buffy's help in Beneath
You and watching her once again refuse to acknowledge his needs
at all -- yeah, yeah, the other guy is in shock, but hey, he's
also unconscious and Nancy who knows him is right there able to
do whatever Buffy is doing at that moment or Buffy doesn't know
what is going on with Spike, etc. -- neither of these ring true
to me as excuses because it is just another moment in her whole
abusive pattern of dealing with Spike -- her refusal by policy
to see that any need he might have is also real and legitimate.
Because then she would have to admit that he is real and legitimate,
that his flesh can be rended. That he is not just a Spikebot.
In any case, I find that moment where he is screaming really painful;
to me it is as painful as the AR.
Both scenes are really Spike's scream for help from Buffy.
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[> Re: Not Out of Character...a scream for help -- Miss
Edith, 15:47:24 10/03/02 Thu
I agree it is hard to see a tormented Spike plead for Buffy's
help in BY. I've only seen the screen caps and Spike's pain still
came through to me. But I think you need to remember the scene
in the Bronze. Spike was behaving crudely asking if Buffy fancies
another round on the balcony. And that was after he attempted
to rape her in the previous season. Spike laughs at Buffy for
believing he was genuinely crazy and Buffy even comments "you
have't changed". In the church scene she firmly tells Spike
to stop with all the mind games. So the poor girl obviously didn't
know what to expect. I can cut her some slack on her reaction
to Spike's insanity in that scene.
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[> [> Re: Not Out of Character...a scream for help
-- alcibiades, 20:36:40 10/03/02 Thu
Spike laughs at Buffy for believing he was genuinely crazy
and Buffy even comments "you have't changed".
Actually you have that reversed, and it is an important difference
because the fact that Buffy states "you haven't changed"
is critical to his behavior in the following minutes.
In their first scene together Spike says, "Buffy I have changed"
Buffy says wtte of "I can see that you have." Spike
"Well that is something at least." Buffy: "I just
don't know into what."
At the Bronze Buffy interrupts an interaction between Spike and
Anya saying "You haven't changed." And Spike who is
trying to hide the soul in any case, goes into full out HLOD mode.
Oh he's horrible. But Buffy just put her finger on a huge hot
button issue left over from last year -- the very thing she kept
denying last year, that he changed. So in response, when Buffy
takes back the words she uttered before -- the crumb that she
offered that at least was an acknowledgement she saw something
real about him, Spike's demon comes out to play and has a very
good time indulging himself.
I know that Buffy has no clue what to expect -- but a lot of that
is because she hasn't ever bothered really to look at Spike.
It is no accident that her first words to him this year are, "Are
you real?"
Boy she has no idea -- even after the real ugliness of the AR,
she still doesn't know whether Spike is real.
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[> Agree w/ you there -- Spike Lover, 10:45:33 10/04/02
Fri
Which makes me angry... not at you. But Buffy IS abusive. Wish
they would have a flashback of her beating Spike to a pulp in
the alley when he is only trying to help her.
See my post below about 'still on my high horse'. Wish someone
would read it and agree.
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[> [> Can I put in a request for a NEW Love interest
for Spike? -- Spike Lover, 10:47:00 10/04/02 Fri
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[> [> Buffy not wrong in BY (spoilers) -- Scroll,
11:18:03 10/04/02 Fri
I can't agree with you and alcibiades regarding Buffy's behaviour
in the alley in BY. While she certainly wasn't giving Spike the
benefit of the doubt (which I don't blame her for based on his
violent behaviour in the Bronze), Buffy is perfectly right in
putting Ronnie first. Spike may be going nuts and need help, but
he has obviously been nuts for a while (at least since the last
time she saw him), and he isn't going to get better or worse in
a few minutes. On the other hand, Ronnie needed immediate medical
attention. Yes, Nancy was there but she clearly didn't know how
to handle the situation. She ended up running off. So I feel that
Buffy was absolutely right to ignore Spike for the moment until
she made sure Ronnie had help (Xander arriving and the ambulance
coming). Buffy was in no way being abusive in this particular
scene.
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[> [> Re: Agree w/ you there -- Miss Edith, 15:45:54
10/04/02 Fri
I felt Buffy's abuse of Spike was partly addressed in BY. Buffy
flinches when Spike touches her and we are reminded of Buffy's
suffering in the relationship and the attempted rape. Unusually
we also get an idea of what the relationship did to Spike as he
also flinches away from Buffy. In the church scene he remembers
what it felt like being treated as Buffy's sex slave. When talking
of Buffy feeding on his flesh Buffy and the audience both get
an idea of how the relationship has affected Spike.
I do find it interesting though that the DT beating is used in
the "previously on Buffy" sections so rarely. It received
a lot of attention from viewers but it was only brought up again
in OAFA in a fairly casual way during an argument. Spike's being
used sexually and his feelings discarded did damage him I felt.
This has been addrssed finally.
But the beating and other physical abuse such as in AYW has not
been seriously examined to my recollection. It told us a great
deal about Spike "You always hurt the one you love"
when he seemed relieved at Buffy hitting him, hoping she was finally
opneing up to him and letting go of her pain, "put it all
on me". And it told us a lot about Buffy in the casual way
she treated the beating in the following episode. When confessing
to Tara Buffy never mentions her physical abuse of Spike. Again
it is just the fact that she is using him sexually and "why
am I letting him do these things to me". Spike himself comments
in DT that Buffy usually kicks him in the head after sex and runs
out with her virtue fluttering. She laughs and agrees with him.
Buffy liked to think she was the passive victim with Spike. But
I really hope we do get some exploration of Buffy's physical abuse
of Spike, and it can be used to tell us something about both characters.
Spike was not just a sex slave, he was also a punching bag for
Buffy, and ME seem to have avoided dealing with that a serious
manner so far.
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[> [> [> As usual, I hope you are right -- Spike
Lover, 09:50:05 10/05/02 Sat
I truly want Buffy to FINALLY be honest with herself and others.
Something that she is incapable of doing, or the writers refuse
to do. Either the character or the writers are in denial. I don't
know which.
I keep feeling w/ the way they keep showing the ar scene, that
Buffy is going to (try to) stay on the moral high ground and Spike
is going to be made to crawl. (I am so sick of him crawling.)
And with the return of Willow, the gang will likely take her back
with open arms, which may present the question, why can you forgive
W and not Sp? I feel that X is going to also stay on his moral
high ground (with Anya) -not searching for the true reasons why
he left her at the altar (or his alledged abuse of Anya in the
relationship). I think he is just angry at the fallout -sex w/
Spike and return of the vengence demon. At least she is blatantly
able to say 'you brought me to this.' Already he says that she
can't hold on to that excuse forever. These are BIG red flags
for me.
Also, in the church, when Spike mentioned the eating the flesh,
I caught the religious imagery/ but it is also demonic imagery
as well (see the preview for next week.)
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[> [> [> [> What high moral ground? -- Dariel,
12:13:13 10/05/02 Sat
You keep complaining about the writers, but I think they've just
told us that Buffy doesn't have a high moral ground anymore. Her
main excuse for treating Spike as a non-person is gone because
he now has a soul. In Seasons 5 & 6, Buffy told him over and
over that he was a "thing" because he didn't have one.
By her own standards, he's no longer a thing. And really, by her
standards, he never was, because an "evil, disgusting thing"
would never think to get a soul as penance for hurting someone.
BTW, I've read lots of your posts, and I don't totally disagree
about the writers. They did mess up last year by giving us sweet,
puppy Spike at the beginning of the year and then swerving into
sexually pushy, bad boy (the eggs) and finally attempted rapist
Spike. Confused the hell out of me.
However, I don't think they wanted us to love Buffy and hate Spike.
I think they love their character, and can portray him as desperate
enough to attempt rape without changing that view. That may be
part of the problem--it's much harder for the fans to keep a balanced
view of a character who's just done something terrible. Especially
when we don't know what's coming next.
Yes, I hated seeing my favorite character attempt rape, but with
those last 5 minutes of Beneath You as the pay-off, I can live
with it. Spike did a terrible thing, but, as the writers have
so lovingly shown us, he took responsibility for his actions.
Did something real to protect Buffy from ever having to fear that
from him again. How many human men would do the same?
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[> [> [> [> Re: As usual, I hope you are right
-- Finn Mac Cool, 12:31:01 10/05/02 Sat
I didn't find Xander's remark a red flag at all. He accepted at
the end of season six that he did a horrible thing. However, as
he points out, that doesn't justify Anya's activites; turning
Ronny into a demonic worm was still wrong. Anya seems to be operating
under the premise that since she wouldn't be a vengeance demon
if Xander had never left her, he is thus responsible for all the
vengeance she wreaks.
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agree with you --But still on my high horse -- Spike Lover,
13:20:54 10/03/02 Thu
I also have some experience of writing. For Me, it works this
way: You give life to a character. Give him personality, a moral
code, looks, aspirations, hobbies, etc. You give him a history
which you may or may not share with the reader. Then you stick
him in a situation with other characters and see what happens.
Now lets say your situation is an empty room and $5 sitting on
the counter.
You could have 20 different characters come in and do 20 different
things for different reasons. Some would take the money, some
would leave it, some would not even notice it because their child
is missing and they have to find him.
But every character will make the decision based on past experiences,
the information they have at the time, and their personality/character.
One time I was working on a battle scene, where a lone female
warrior, in order to let the people she was rescuing ride off
(get away) from their captors, was going to stay behind on foot
and hold the pursuers off. She knew she was going to die, possibly
be captured, tortured, raped, whatever, before it was all over.
But she was a warrior, and this was the price she was willing
to pay so that those who had been held captive could get away.
If at this point, I inserted a helicopter in from a time warp
to rescue her, it would destroy the believability of the scene.
What ended up happening, was not what I expected. One of the rescuees,
seeing what she planned, refused to leave her. I tried everything.
He would not do go. He loved her. (I had no idea he cared about
her so much.) In the end, I had no choice but to allow her to
ride off with him.
My point is that if I had forced the issue and left her out there
to die or whatever, I would still have been true to the female
warrior, but not faithful to the character of the captive.
In a million years, I do not believe Spike, -from what they have
shown us- would ever ever ever have tried to rape a woman. If
the writers really believe he was capable of this, they need to
get out the historical costumes and give us an ep where he is
hatefully cruel and abusive to women. (Like they did with Angel).
(At that point, I will no longer be known as "Spike Lover",
for I am not actually attracted to that kind of man.)
(I will just add here that in Fool for Love, when he has killed
the Chinese Slayer, and she is saying tell my mother..., they
could have had him say some vile, abusive, disgusting retort.
Instead, we get a term of endearment and an apology. "Sorry,
Love, I don't speak Chinese.")
I can't help it if they don't like what they created, but the
way Spike has ALWAYS come across is a man who has high-esteem
for women. -Who better for a hero like Buffy?-
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Was Harmony out of character for Spike too? -- Malandanza,
11:05:12 10/05/02 Sat
"In a million years, I do not believe Spike, -from what
they have shown us- would ever ever ever have tried to rape a
woman. If the writers really believe he was capable of this, they
need to get out the historical costumes and give us an ep where
he is hatefully cruel and abusive to women. (Like they did with
Angel). (At that point, I will no longer be known as "Spike
Lover", for I am not actually attracted to that kind of man.)
"I can't help it if they don't like what they created, but
the way Spike has ALWAYS come across is a man who has high-esteem
for women. -Who better for a hero like Buffy?"
What about Harmony? You know, the actual girlfriend? We saw plenty
of cruel abuse there -- he even tried to murder her because she
wouldn't shut up.
As for the historical periods, I have no difficulty imagining
that Angelus was a rapist (the scene with the gypsy girl and Angelus's
and Holtz's comments about Holtz's wife) and I think you are forgetting
that the dominating trait in Spike has always been a pathological
desire for acceptance. Imagine Spike as the junior member of the
Fanged Four with Darla and Angelus devising "tests"
for him to see if he's really one of them. Or Spike just emulating
his Yoda in a desperate bid for approval.
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[> Re: Was Harmony out of character for Spike too? --
Finn Mac Cool, 12:48:12 10/05/02 Sat
Plus, consider Spike's treatment of Drusilla in Crush. He was
willing to kill his love of a hundred years to get Buffy's attention.
I think it was kinda the same thing in Seeing Red: he knew what
he was doing to Buffy, but was convinced that once it was over
she would thank him for it. Of course, in both episodes, his understanding
of pleasing a lady is horribly skewed by his demonic view of life
that he fails to impress Buffy.
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[> Thank you! -- Earl
Allison, 16:54:24 10/05/02 Sat
Exactly! I've brought this up several times before -- but apparently
since it was played for laughs, or because Harmony was somehow
annoying, that made it okay.
Please.
Still, don't expect it to matter -- somehow it'll get justified
... 'cause poor Spikey can do no wrong.
At this point I'll sign off, before my eyes roll back into my
head from overactive sarcastic rolling.
Take it and run
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[> Oh Mal....sometimes I just love you..:):) -- Rufus,
00:05:25 10/06/02 Sun
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[> Another thank you! -- Rob, 12:16:16 10/06/02 Sun
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> a
thought on "out of character" -- celticross, 13:31:48
10/03/02 Thu
Lunarchick, I'm gonna worship at your feet for a moment for saying
what I've been thinking as I read this sub-thread.
*worships*
Ok, quite a few people have said that if the writers write it,
it's not out of character. But I wonder, would we even be having
this debate if Spike had done something *good*? Say, sacrifice
himself for someone he doesn't know, and not for Buffy's benefit.
Would there be howls of "out of character!"? You bet.
But would the "writers wrote it" defense be used? I'm
not so sure...
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Re: a thought on "out of character" -- Slain,
13:51:08 10/03/02 Thu
I can't speak for anyone else, but I've always held by my beliefs
whichever way the story goes. I suggest you read some of my essays
if you believe I'd have been less likely to defend a plot direction
where Spike achieves redemption.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: B/S
was a *symptom* of Buffy's problem, not the cause. -- Miss
Edith, 12:03:34 10/03/02 Thu
Well my reason for disliking the attempted rape is kind of petty
but it's how I feel. My reason for not liking it is this. B/S
got together. There was lots of sex in almost every episode. Yes
it was to make a point about Buffy, but it was also for the audiences
gratification. When the audience went with that and brought the
Spuffy items being marketed it was suddenly stated that the relationship
was an abusive one and we were getting the wrong message. Sorry
but I find that inconsistent with the fact that ME gave their
approvel to t-shirts sold with Buffy and Spike having a red heart
around them. I did think the relationship was muturally abusive
and hardly an example to aspire too. I just didn't particularly
like all the scolding interviews saying we weren't getting what
the relatonship was really about, at the same time as B/S made
an absolute fortune in merchendising and there were t-shirts with
a specifically romantic image of B/S.
The sex in Smashed was necessery. Wrecked again necessery. But
in Gone the shirtless Spike scenes when he was doing invisable
push-ups. Just an excuse to make a sex joke. DMP the alley sex
scene just felt gratitituos and depressing. Dead Things the sex
was necessery and actually involved in creating an interesting
story with good character exploration. OAFA contained no actual
sex, it showed B/S has a cute flirtatious couple. I found that
inapproprite as I was expecting the beating in DT to be dealt
with following Buffy's confession to Tara. Instead we had Spike
as the cute bad boyfriend "Oh Buffy shall I get you a soda
pop, I think I'm in lurve". Then we get ATW in which Spike
is the bad presence in Buffy's life that she needs to be rid off.
So Buffy is shown hitting him and it is dismissed in an almost
comic fashion which I could not swallow afer the beating in DT.
Just as I would not want to watch Spike pushing Buffy for sex
and when she says no saying "make me" and her passionately
giving in like they did in Wrecked. It would be inappropriate
after SR.
My problem is I read the writers interviews, and they only end
up depressing me. I want to know why Spike's character development
felt unsatisfying to me. Marti talks of Spike being the bad boyfriend,
and how he is not reformed because he tried to kill Willow in
The Iniative and we need to remember that. I read interviews in
which James Marsters jokes that he is naked on screen so much
because Marti is fascinated by his nipples. I read Marti saying
she is concerned that people are writing to her feeling Spike
is a good guy now. She wants to "reiterate" her message
on why Spike is the bad boyfriend as fans are getting the wrong
message. ME are not putting the wrong message out there of course,
the fans are just not getting the obviousness of what the writers
are trying to say. We then get the attempted rape to show us why
Spike is bad. It is later revealed that Marti insisted it be added
at the last minute owing to the fans supporting Spike and feeling
Buffy is in the wrong in the relationship. The writers were blaming
the audience for getting the wrong message about B/S and that
was the point of the attempted rape scene.
The DT beating is only mentioned on screen once afer DT (by Spike
in OAFA) but the writers received a lot of complaints and accusations
of Buffy being abusive. Hence the attempted rape to even the balance.
Jane is asked if there will be consequences for the DT beating.
She immediately says Spike tried to rape Buffy so any consequences
would be inappropriate. Marti is asked recently if Buffy will
apologise for the beating. Again the attempt is made to equate
the beating with the attempted rape. I just find that distasteful
and the attempted rape smacks of audience manipulation to me.
I don't see the attempted rape as part of fluid character development.
I see it as an anvil designed to teach the audience the right
message and make sure we get it this time. Particularly as it
was admitted that the scene was added precicely because of the
reaction of the fans to B/S. It was intended as a message. That
is why I disagreed with it.
I can accept that the writers are the people who created the character.
But if I find out that a certain act was designed as a direct
result of audience reaction then I will speak up if I find it
inconsistent. I am not saying Spike would not have tried to rape
Buffy. I am saying that the way it was done just felt tasteless
to me as the writers were so clearly doing it to get a certain
reaction from the audience. They had wanted season 6 to show Spike
has potential but without a soul he is basically damaged goods.
Hence fans would root for him to be resouled. When that wasn't
happening and fans were saying Spike was already being redemped
the attempted rape was contrived as an anvil to show us what we
should have been thinking. That is why I disliked the scene in
SR. Not because it was necesserily ut of character, but because
it wasn't part of the original character arc. It was a contrived
event in which the writers were looking for a certain reaction
from the fans.
And this has ended up a lot longer than I planned it to be. But
anyway that is why B/S felt unsatisfying to me in season 6. The
relationship wasn't handled right, so the writers blame the audience
for not getting it and contrived a rape scene at the last minute.
For the same reason I didn't like when magic suddenly became an
addiction in Wrecked. I like to see plots being gradually build-up,
not to have plots thrown at me out of the blue. All JMHO of course.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Which
is why I don't read interviews! -- Slain, 12:10:30 10/03/02
Thu
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
A sound policy. I'm thinking I might avoid writers interviews
myself for season 7. -- Miss Edith, 17:23:49 10/03/02 Thu
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Dear,
dear, Miss Edith -- Spike Lover, 11:13:03 10/04/02 Fri
We are in agreement (mostly). Would you please go read (and comment
on) my 'high horse' post above?
Whereas you will not say that the AR was out of character, I would
say it is only IN character if you take into consideration that
Buffy's abuse of Spike has driven him to it. And if that is the
case, then why should there be serious consequences like angry
looks from Buffy, D, & X. Well, maybe because D & X don't
know about Buffy's abuse of Spike and B refuses to acknowledge
it.
After all, if you beat on a dog until he bites you, should he
then be labeled forever as a bad dog (and Neglecting the context)?
Oh- No, you can't actually do that with Rape- because rape is
unexcusable under EVERY Situation, which is precisely why MARTI
picked it. There is NO Defense.
If Joss really really wanted to explore Buffy in a bad relationship,
I think he chose the wrong partner. Spike was Too popular. THey
should have brought in Riley's best friend or Faith's brother.
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My rationalisation -- Miss Edith, 16:23:52 10/04/02
Fri
I didn't feel the attempted rape was necesserily in character.
I simply felt Spike was having a nervous breakdown and not in
his right mind. Not quite what ME had intented I feel. They wished
to portray Spike's demon causing him to hurt Buffy, hence the
resouling. But I felt James choose to portray Spike as a very
human and desperate man who was falling apart. Entropy is when
I saw Spike's breakdown begin. When he talks to Anya of being
seen as not good enough "I'm an evil soulles thing according
to some people". When Xander attacks him Spike barely reacts.
He later admits to Buffy he is suicidal. In his final scene in
Entropy Spike just came across as a broken man to me. Buffy says
"didn't take you long" and he doesn't offer a defence
he simply looks ashamed. Xander is attacking him and Spike is
all out of snark. I was spoiled for the scene and assumed Spike
would be boasting of his sexual prowess and how Anya had finally
experienced a real man etc. But Spike was just so lost. He heard
Xander talking about him as if was a dog "You make me sick
for having sex with that" and he finally managed to speak
up. But Spike was just losing it to me. In the beginning of the
episode he has suddenly decided Buffy loves him and he wants her
to tell her friends about them. Can you say lonely and desperate!
In SR he had been drinking before the bathroom scene. Dawn had
paid him a visit to let him know how he had hurt Buffy's fellings.
For a man desperate to know Buffy had feelings for him Spike grabbed
on to this like a drowning man grabs on to a lifeboat. He has
only ever received a response from Buffy sexually. Hence the attempted
rape in which he is losing his mind, crying and desperate. He
ignores Buffy's pleas because he is just desperate to make a connection
and not be alone any more. He almost blanks the physical reality
from his mind. There was just naked pain on his face and I very
much got the sense that he was not all there.
I could see the attempted rape as not in character, but as making
sense in that particular moment. But I still hate the exploitative
way that it was used. Particularly the American broadcast putting
a commercial in the middle of the painfully dragged out scene.
Tune in after the break to see if the heroine gets raped or not?
Tasteless does not even begin to describe how I feel about that
particular choice.
I did read your above post and I pretty much agree with you. Spike
has always been accepting of Buffy's strength, and never expressed
a wish to overpower her. I would not say the attempted rape was
in character for Spike at all. But I did feel it could make sense
as part of a nervous breakdown which a series of events had logically
led Spike to.
And I so agree with your point that it is completely unacceptable
in society to try and defend an attempted rape. Even bringing
up the context behind it on some boards will have a swarm of posters
attacking you for blaming the victim and justifying attempted
rape. That has happened on many of the Buffy boards I have visited
with viewers screaming for Spike's blood. On the James Marsters.com
board a poster mentioned that she had introduced a friend to Bts
with the episodes Lessons and BY. After seeing the flashbacks
Buffy has in BY the friend was shocked that Spike was ever spoken
off positively by the original viewer and declared Spike was a
dog who deserves to burn in hell. ME certainly choose the right
topic if they wanted to absolve Buffy of her own abuse in the
relationship.
And just to make it clear I am not defending Spike's actions in
SR. He was totally wrong to attack Buffy, and it was his choice
to try and push her. Buffy was not to blame for Spike's choices
in that scene. Is she to blame for the way Spike's mind deteriorated.
I feel there is a definate argument there. To use an example:
Say I met a person unused to human interaction and looking to
me for guidance. He has no real understanding of right and wrong.
I feel guilt after believing I killed someone. He can't understand
why I am punishing myself for one girl when I have saved so many.
He clearly says "explain it to me then". If I choose
to beat the living hell out of him, whilst yelling "there
is nothing good or clean in you" am I out of line? If he
wants a relationship with me and tries his best for months to
hold himself back and not push should I respect that? Would I
be wrong to suddenly kiss him and then when he hopefully asks
me what it meant I choose to punch him in the face and inform
him "you're an evil disgusting thing". He would still
be wrong to try and rape me, and he would need to take repsonsibility
for his choice in that instant. But my own behaviour is nothing
to shout about and could well have caused him a great deal of
pain and confusion.
And I'm done now. Every time I start what I think will be a short
post I end up going on forever. But anyway I hope I've made some
kind of point.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [>
[> Thanks -- Spike Lover, 09:59:28 10/05/02 Sat
[> [> [> SMG wanted to cut her hair. -- Scroll,
13:05:58 10/02/02 Wed
I'm sure Joss tried to work the hair/emotional attachment angle
into the script, perhaps give it meaning like the interpretation
you presented. But when you get right past all the nitty-gritty...
Sarah wanted a hair-cut.
[> Sorry, you didn't like it. -- CW, 10:29:02
10/02/02 Wed
But, I think there is a big difference between inconsistent writing,
and writing where the characters change. Spike is in flux at the
moment. What he is doing at the moment and what will happen in
the future, even the near future may not be the same at all.
The touch. Spike was completely out of his head last week. The
fact that Spike was trying very hard to act rationally and in
a level headed manner, is why that if Buffy should have felt such
a thing ever, it was then when he was sensibly asking for her
cooperation.
Frankly your speculation about Spike's future doesn't bother me.
If that's the story, I'm willing to watch and enjoy it.
[> Re: It was the Best of Times. It was the Worst of
Times. -Return of the inconsistent writing -- celticross,
10:47:54 10/02/02 Wed
Ok, Spike Lover, honey, deep breaths, calm down. I'm a big Spike
fan, too, and I loved last night's episode. A few points for your
points:
The guy in the blue sweater was definitely Spike. Conflicted,
confused, trying to do the right thing but not sure how, not really
liking this change, keeping a secret and only barely keeping a
grip on his sanity. I was frankly enthralled. He was by turns
angry, mature, intelligent, insane, scared, snarky....I got whiplash
trying to keep up with th shifts, and I was loving every minute
of it.
The hitting Anya? Part of his desperation to keep the secret,
and the fight that followed I saw as an indication of the self
loathing that's at the bottom of Spike's motivations right now.
Despite his soul, he's still a vampire, a demon, and he hates
that. Hence his talk later about being "the kind of man".
I don't think we have to worry about the "rape card".
It's been dealt, it's been played. I think this episode laid that
particular ghost to rest, and well, too.
The openness in front of Nancy? I think that's a positive thing,
really. It's a grown up Slayer thing. Buffy is the Slayer. She's
getting more ok with this and part of that is being ok with helping
others openly.
And why was Buffy crying? I think she cried for pity. She feels
for him. What more can we ask than that?
[> [> CC - Nicely Done -- Dochawk, 11:30:37
10/02/02 Wed
[> Re: It was the Best of Times. It was the Worst of
Times. -Return of the inconsistent writing -- Dochawk, 10:51:32
10/02/02 Wed
SL,
You and I just fundamentally disagree about Spike, Buffy and their
relationship and therefore what the writers are doing. its not
worth rehashing that arguement again, I thought they were entirely
consistent and for the most part thought it was a fabulous episode
(I too thought it was missing the humor and I don't get why they
went to England to film those scenes, they were so small they
could have been done anywhere).
But regarding Spike/Anya. Anya recognized Spike's soul. Spike
understood this and didn't want her to tell anyone, so he did
it the first way that he could, he clocked her. Is it justifiable?
Its one way Spike deals with problems so its not suprising (and
remember Anya may look like a woman, but she is all demon at his
point of the conversation).
[> [> ON THE ANYA SPIKE interaction and humor
-- alcibiades, 04:47:51 10/03/02 Thu
"But regarding Spike/Anya. Anya recognized Spike's soul.
Spike understood this and didn't want her to tell anyone, so he
did it the first way that he could, he clocked her. Is it justifiable?
Its one way Spike deals with problems so its not suprising (and
remember Anya may look like a woman,
but she is all demon at his point of the conversation)."
There is a level of real pathos there as well since when Spike
strikes Anya, however inappropriate, however shocking, the point
is what he is doing is totally legitimate by Scooby rules -- he's
a demon fighting with another demon who has done something bad
to humans, who has acted dangerously -- it's well within canon
for him to act that way. And if Buffy doesn't like it, it's because
she thinks of Anya in the same terms that Xander does -- as "my
demon", one of us. OTOH, she realizes something is going
on between Anya and Spike, privy to the two of them, and she doesn't
like that either.
There is similar pathos in the Church scene when Spike flinches
away from Buffy when she tries to touch his naked chest in a compassionate
way, something she has never once done to him in all the years
they have known each other. But when she throws him across the
room, he has no problem in knowing how to cope.
BTW, I thought that there was a real level of humour -- not ha,
ha, laugh out loud, but more as an undercurrent -- in the Bronze
scene. Perhaps it appealed to my sense of irony and sexual subtext.
But the fact is, a whole sexual dance is being worked out in that
scene -- a lot of raw feelings.
Spike engages in a fight with Anya, Anya sends him flying across
the room, which is what BUFFY usually does. That's her province.
Spike stands up and it is clear to all that he enjoyed it and
is spoiling for more -- just wants to get engaged in the fighting.
Anya didn't have any problems -- she sent him flying across the
room for God's sake. She's got her demon mask on, ready to fight.
And what does Buffy do? Coitus Interruptus, so to speak. She steps
into the middle of it -- because fighting with Spike -- that is
her job, that's their dance. Not Anya's. And Spike calls her on
it, "working out some issues here." Which gets Buffy
more riled up. And when Xander interrupts the two of them, Buffy
is all, 'not now Xander' because she doesn't want to be interrupted
when she's fighting her demon.
[> [> [> Great insights! -- ponygirl, 07:33:55
10/03/02 Thu
Really clarified a lot of things in the Bronze scene for me, thanks!
[> [> [> Re: Your reply about metaphor, now archived.
Spoilers S6-S7.2 -- Age, 20:45:22 10/03/02 Thu
Unfortunately as I was composing a reply to your extended analysis
of metaphor in 'Beneath You' the 'Demon Symbolism' thread got
archived. So, I'm posting it here.
Yes, Nancy is Buffy, and Buffy saving herself last year by saying
no to Spike is depicted when Buffy saves Nancy, ie her decision
last year was reproduced as literally taking herself in hand,
as she swoops in from above at the last minute, ie near the end
of last season.
Spike last year did stalk Buffy, attempting to bring her down
to his world through his servicing, just as Ronny is doing in
this episode. What I failed to mention is that the scene where
Spike attacks Ronny is a depiction of Spike's failure last year
to bring Buffy down to his level beneath her; in fact, it shows
rather Ronny/Spike rising to Buffy's level out of the darkness
beneath her, ie to get his soul back, represented by Ronny the
human being. As you said in the archived posting, Spike's fighting
the sluggoth demon portrays how he himself turned on that aspect
of himself.
I was thinking also that Ronny as sluggoth demon could portray
what Buffy was thinking of Spike, and of the trauma that was following
her due to the attempted rape. Just as it was necessary for Buffy
to bring out the human in Spike, it was necessary for Spike to
show Buffy that he had not only done something tremendously hard
out of love for her, but also had internalized a method of keeping
himself in check in order for Buffy to begin the healing process
that the trauma of attempted rape would bring, ie that she wouldn't
have to fear a repetition. (This idea of the characters working
out issues does actually have some relevance to the posting that
I'm attaching this reply to, the one about humour.)
Also I had the same thoughts in regards to Xander and Nancy's
reaction to her dog. To extend the metaphor of the dog, it seemed
that both Buffy and Xander were moving on in their lives, with
the 'dog'(their ex's) seemingly behind them as was Nancy's dog
behind her. But the unfinished business was still there lurking,
stalking: the demon aspect which came to the fore both in Anya
and Spike due to Xander and Buffy's actions last year, but also,
concealed within the demon persona, the human.
Thanks for your reply.
Age.
[> [> [> [> Question -- Rufus, 21:40:02
10/03/02 Thu
Spike last year did stalk Buffy, attempting to bring her down
to his world through his servicing, just as Ronny is doing in
this episode. What I failed to mention is that the scene where
Spike attacks Ronny is a depiction of Spike's failure last year
to bring Buffy down to his level beneath her; in fact, it shows
rather Ronny/Spike rising to Buffy's level out of the darkness
beneath her, ie to get his soul back, represented by Ronny the
human being. As you said in the archived posting, Spike's fighting
the sluggoth demon portrays how he himself turned on that aspect
of himself.
One thing of note....Buffy never tried to make Spike anything
other than what he already was. It was in her rejection of him
that he climbed out of the dark to meet her.....after the scene
in Beneath You where Buffy begins to cry I feel that not only
will Spike have to be finally delt with, but now Buffy can no
longer see him as something..someone to ignore. So, why and what
will Buffy learn from this. I also extend that to Xander...he
has to look at Anya in a new way, she has taken a risk in removing
that spell over Ronnie...in his own way he will feel responsible
for the consequences she gets from going against her demonic nature....and
the rules.
[> [> [> [> [> Re: Question Spoilers 7.2
-- Age, 21:01:34 10/04/02 Fri
I don't think that Buffy and Xander can see Spike and Anya as
they had before because the latter two have changed. I think there's
this movement towards a more dispassionate relationship between
these characters for the time being, ie being colleagues. This
seems to me to be more of an adult perspective, based on equality.
Age.
[> [> [> [> Re: Your reply about metaphor, now
archived. Spoilers S6-S7.2 -- Caroline, 12:05:28 10/04/02
Fri
I'd like to add that when Spike wanted to kill wormRonnie, he
was trying to kill the part the dark part of himself. But with
the transformation of the worm back into Ronnie as the spear was
entering the body, we have the realization that you cannot kill
a part of you without doing grevious harm to the entire integrity
of the psyche. Spike ran away because he knows that the darkness
is in him and he is frightened of what it can do.
[> [> [> [> Re: Quick Metaphorical Addition
Spoilers. S6-S7.2 -- Age, 15:29:38 10/04/02 Fri
In fact the dog itself represents the unfinished business of Spike/Buffy
and Anya/Xander in that it still has to go to the bathroom, ie
it has unfinished business and something still to come out, so
to speak. Sorry for that image! As Nancy is the link to Buffy,
then to establish the link to Xander, he had to be the one that
Nancy runs into. This scene occurs after Xander has been reminded
that his not getting on with dating may be linked to what he did
to Anya, and Buffy has looked for Spike in the basement(ie both
Buffy and Xander are aware of some tie to their ex's; hence another
interpretation of the dog's leash as tether to them.) Also the
scene occurs right after Giles tells Willow that she may not be
wanted in Sunnydale, but she will be needed. It seems that the
issues between the ex's needed to be worked through in order to
establish the footing for the group to get together because they'll
probably all be needed one way or another, even as they may not
want to be with one another.
Age.
[> [> [> [> [> When is a hole but a hole
-- alcibiades, 18:05:27 10/04/02 Fri
What I love is the hole that Spike has to explore as a metaphor
for their past relationship.
SPIKE: Think this here's our spot?
BUFFY: How did you guess?
SPIKE: Don't fancy sticking my head into that.
BUFFY: But if something bites it off that will be a clue.
Spike leans in, looking.
Then asks for her to hold the light...which causes her to flash
to the rape flashback...
He steps away from the site...
SPIKE: We've been through things. The end of the world and back.
I can be useful, because honestly? I've got nothing better to
do. Make use of me if you want. (beat)
And there's nothing here. Bit of slime, mounds of displaced dirt
and such. Whatever our beastie is -- he's gone.
the flashlight -- more or less in the shape of a phallic symbol
and oddly reminiscent of Spike's lighter from Gone is being used
to examine a dark hole -- the world of the id or the unconscious.
Spike is willing to look, Buffy reacts violently and viscerally
to the light shining on "their spot". In any case, unlike
Buffy, who has been doing the scorn thing all summer at the Bronze,
Spike has already looked this ugly monster in the face and dealt
with it on his own as best as he can.
The dark hole that swallowed up Rocky is a vaginal image.
The interesting bit is that there is nothing anymore in the black
hole of their relationship -- except slime and mounds of displaced
dirt. Yes indeedy, that about sums it up -- one can't help speculating
that it is exactly the same dirt that Buffy enjoyed rolling in
last year.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Interesting -- Spike
Lover, 10:17:18 10/05/02 Sat
particularly your 'v' image. Along with the lines: "Don't
fancy sticking my head into that." "But if something
bites it off that will be a clue."
A guy once told me (I don't know if this holds water) but a sexual
fear is sticking body parts into the unknown.
W/those lines and that image, it seems like a symbol for hatred
between the sexes or the dangers of breeding. (Will it cause injury,
death, disease?) -Probably not where you were going--
[> [> [> Good points -- Isabel, 21:46:49
10/03/02 Thu
Don't forget that fighting and sex are very connected for Buffy
and Spike. He calls it their Dance. The Bronze is a dance club.
[> [> [> Re: ON THE ANYA SPIKE interaction and
humor -- Caroline, 12:11:38 10/04/02 Fri
Good point. It's a particularly funny scene because Anya has just
thrown Spike up into the air a good 20 feet, so she's obviously
strong enough to take not just defend herself but also to do some
injury to Spike. Buffy is still not seeing Spike - that's really
what she means when she asks if he's real, and thinks that he's
a mirage. Once again, as in the beginning of season 5, Buffy is
shrugging off the clues, not looking at what's there and playing
out the Kore aspect of Kore/Persephone by living on and only seeing
the surface and not what is underneath.
[> Re: It was the Best of Times. It was the Worst of
Times. -Return of the inconsistent writing -- Miss Edith,
11:28:16 10/02/02 Wed
1. Well some episodes are angsty and some are pure comedy. Bts
has always had a mixture of that. Personally I feel the balance
is much improved over last season. Spike's soul was going to have
to be dealt with, and there were jokes in the episode. E.g Xander
and Spike looking at each other when Nancy asks who hasn't slept
together. Or Buffy asking Spike if he's out of his mind and his
reply "Well yeah. Where have you been all night". There
was as much humour as was appropriate I felt.
2. I personaly, didn't love the attempted rape scene from SR either.
But it's happened now and it needs to be dealt with. I would have
less respect if ME never refered to it again, and pretended it
never happened.
3.And Buffy was shocked to see Spike in Lessons and unsure of
how to react. She was more guarded in BY and Spike was back to
his old mask trying to disguise his soul. Therefore Buffy having
flashbacks was more likely.
4. No Spike wasn't being himself. His true self was insane and
he was trying to carry off a disguise. And as for dissing Anya
she was a demon at that point. Spike wanted to prove he was allied
with the good guys. He hit her in panic as she recognised the
truth and his mask began crumbling away leaving him vunerabile.
And I doubt Marti was invloved in that scene as Doug Petrie wrote
the episode, excluding the last scene which Joss insisted on being
rewritten and refilmed.
And I thought Buffy stepped in to the fight to show her old behaviour
pattern towards Spike. She is clearly unsure of his new image
and tries to goad him at several points seeming unsure of how
to handle him. Eg "Everything about you is wrong Spike..if
something bites your head off that's be a clue...I was hoping
you were a mirage...I just don't know what you've changed into".
He doesnt rise to the bait leaving her confused. When Spike starts
causing fights she knows how to handle him again stating that
he hasn't changed.
And Buffy cries at the end as the enormity of what Spike did washes
over her. I certainly prefer that to the original scene in which
Buffy was apparnetly far less shocked and pained, but simply gazed
at Spike pretty blankly. Buffy crying for Spike was needed I feel.
It was part of what made the scene great.
And I think he was telling the rat of his plans to talk to Buffy
and then worrying he wouldn't say it right as he had forgotten
his manners and etiqutte. That was the impression I got.
Personally I can't wait for the episode to air over in the UK
as it sounds great for Spike fans. JMHO.
[> [> celiticross and Miss Edith and Aerustha good
posts. -- shadowkat, 11:54:28 10/02/02 Wed
[> [> Really trivial point (7.2 spoilers) -- Vickie,
12:52:26 10/02/02 Wed
I believe that their hands touched when Spike handed her the flashlight.
I can easily believe that the first physical contact might trigger
such a flashback. I know it has for me (in less traumatic circumstances).
[> [> [> Another triviality... -- Wisewoman,
13:45:06 10/02/02 Wed
My interpretation of the rat scene was that Spike was speaking
to his inner companions, as he was at other points during the
episode, and incidentally stalking a rat to munch on at the same
time, rather than addressing himself directly to the rat.
[> [> [> Re: Really trivial point (7.2 spoilers)
-- Doriander, 22:25:49 10/03/02 Thu
I was actually puzzled on initial viewing why that particular
contact triggered the flashback, and not the first one in Lessons.
Upon multiple viewings, I realized that basement Spike looked
so different from the Spike in that scene (even Buffy notes this),
whose guise is that of Spike the attempted rapist. And also, Buffy
was shocked in Lessons.
Yeah, just took a while for me to process.
[> [> [> [> Re: Really trivial point (7.2 spoilers)
-- Juliet, 21:24:48 10/04/02 Fri
When someone experiences a traumatic event, certain odd things
can 'trigger' it. Also, you're forgetting that Buffy had three
months.
A lot of people can handle the birthday of a relative who died
three months ago, but hearing their favorite song will send them
into a deep depression. It's the same kind of idea with Buffy:
she saw Spike and all of her defenses worked. Then she touched
his hand and _bam_ all gone. It's just the way the mind works.
Supression and all.
(just my $.02)
[> [> IMHO, Doug Petrie writes the best Spike episodes....
-- kevin, 12:55:46 10/02/02 Wed
Spike is far and away my favorite character on this series and
I thought this episode was just incredible. I thought the complexity
of Spike's current situation, what he's going through was written
just right. He's not the old Spike, he has a soul now, he's dealing
with everything that means to someone who's been an evil vampire
for a 100+ years.
I think ME is starting him on the path to a new identity the same
as Angelus and Angel weren't the same. Who Angel is has a lot
to do with remembering everything he did as Angelus and dealing
with that and moving forward. It took him some 80 years to establish
his new identity as Angel once he got his soul back, I'm thinking
Spike is working that through now. I don't think the new character
that's being built will be either William or Spike, but someone
different...I'll be waiting impatiently to see who.
The last scene was amazing. Everything Spike went through to become
a 'man', someone worthy of Buffy and now the pain he's going through
trying to cope with his soul. The empathy and pain on Buffy's
face as she cries for Spike and what he's done, what he's going
through....It was just incredibly powerful. Her expression in
the face of his pain...really heartwrenching
[> Inconsistent writing - Spoilers for 7.1, 7.2 --
Sarand, 12:51:18 10/02/02 Wed
Spike Lover, I'll begin by saying that I'm a big fan of Spike's
- good, bad or indifferent. I'm also a big fan of Spike and Buffy
together. Nevertheless, I disagree with your analysis of where
this season is going. So far, I've loved the first two episodes.
And I don't think the writers have put the nail in the coffin
of a relationship between Spike and Buffy. Just the optimist in
me, I guess. And I'm not saying this to start an argument between
the pro-Spuffy and the not-pro-Spuffy groups. Please. I said "a"
relationship. Could be just a friendship but I can live with that.
My take on the BlueShirtSpike was that he was neither Spike nor
William but the entity that is trying to find its identity now
that the demon and the soul are both occupying the same space.
Like Liam (and I've always believed it was Liam based on "Amends")
and Angelus have combined in some way to become Angel. The soul
has to find a way to live with the memories and the evils of the
demon (Spike) and necessarily will be different than the man (William)
because of that. Angel had a century to develop. What we are seeing
is Spike/William trying to develop in a much shorter, more intense
period of time. BlueShirtSpike was the new entity trying to match
the persona of Spike because he thought it would be easier, on
him and everyone else. Behave like Spike and don't reveal the
soul, because he does not know what he is yet and is barely holding
onto his sanity and reality. He realized that Anya could see the
soul and he was trying to prevent her from revealing it to the
others. And hitting Anya? Well, she's a demon now and he can hit
demons. Not only can he, but the way he's been treated by Buffy
and the others is that it's okay to hit demons. That's what Buffy
had always done with him. I don't think he thought of her as a
woman at that point. She was a demon (and a helluva strong demon.
Who knew?) and she was trying to reveal his secret so he panicked.
As for Buffy crying? Well, I think there are myriad possibilities.
Crying because she realized what he was going through and that
he did it for her. Crying possibly for Angel because she could
now see first-hand the kind of struggles he had. Crying out of
her own confusion for what she's feeling. Her attitude toward
him this week, I thought, was partly based on the unexpectedness
of him being back. In her experience, men don't come back and
if they do, they're married to someone else. She really doesn't
know what to make of him coming back and offering to help so she
reacts with anger and put-downs. As for the flashback to the attempted
rape when he handed her the flashlight? Didn't like seeing it
again, I must say. But Spike's more real this week than last week,
more like the Spike who did that than he was last week. And I'm
betting that Buffy - not big with the dealing, right - thought
Spike had gone for good and she didn't deal with what happened
between them at all. Now she's got to deal.
Sorry if this got rambling and repetitive.