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Xander Harris - damsel, sidekick, comic relief. Part I &II(spoilers Btvs 7.9, Ats season3) -- shadowkat, 19:17:18 12/16/02 Mon

Xander Harris ñ the damsel, the sidekick, and the comic relief (spoilers to Btvs 7.9 & Season 3Ats)

First off what do I mean by damsel? The dictionary defines it as a young woman or girl, a maiden. But in the horror genre and action films ñ the damsel is the person who is in trouble, the person fleeing from the villains or trapped in the tower waiting to be saved. In most classic fairy tales the damsel is Rapunzel trapped in the tower, Cinderella stuck doing horrible chores for the evil stepmother, Sleeping Beauty sleeping her life away, or Snow White stuck in a coma = all without exception waiting for the handsome wealthy prince to save them. Hans Christian Anderson is one of the few who created fairy tales where the girl saves the guy and the prince is the damsel ñ The Little Mermaid, where she literally sacrifices herself for him and The Snow Queen where she goes on a lengthy quest to rescue him from the ice that has frozen his heart.

Up until fairly recently ñ damsels in the movies were women. Joss Whedon ñ when he created Buffy the Vampire Slayer was NOT interested in creating another action/horror series for adolescent boys. Being a bit of a feminist, at least according to his interviews, he wanted to address two things that he felt had not been adequately addressed in the horror genre: the horrors of high school &/or growing up and the role of the female heroine. He wanted to flip that role on its head.

ìWhere did the idea [for Btvs] come from? Thereís actually an incredibly specific answer to that question. It came from watching a horror movie and seeing the typical ditzy blonde walk into a dark alley and getting killed. I just thought that I would love to see a scene where the ditzy blonde walks into a dark alley, a monster attacks her and she kicks its ass.î Joss Whedon on The Buffy Movie (SFX, p. 37, The Vampire Special)

But flipping the concept on its head required a bit more than just the girl, formerly the damsel, killing monsters ñ it required the sidekick/damsel being the guy. Think about it ñ how many tv shows, movies, comics and books have you read where the guy is the hero and he has this sweet girl sidekick who is constantly getting in trouble, wants to help out, loves him dearly ñ but he never notices because he has it bad for the femme fatale, defined as the alluring, mysterious woman of dark sexuality, who in many ways is more his equal? Batman certainly went there with Batgirl and Catwoman, Superman, and Hercules the Series ñ who falls for the wicked Xenia, who because of her relationship with him, sees the error of her ways and starts fighting for good and eventually gets her own showÖhmmm, reminds me of Angel the Series. (Hercules the series was similar to Btvs while Xenia was similar to Angel ñ One series focuses on the heroís journey, while the other focuses on the anti-hero (a former love interest/nemesisí of the hero), journey for redemption. Whedon just flipped the two ñ the hero is now the heroine and the femme fatale is now a guy). Xenia even had her own female damsel in Gabrielle. The list goes on. But now the girl is the hero and the boy is the wimpy sidekick who loves her from afar and watches as she falls for the male version of the femme fatale ñ the vampire.

The role of the sidekick has often been one of comic relief ñ when things get tough ñ the sidekick makes us laugh with a well-placed joke or smart alec remark. He falls on his face. He eats bugs and becomes Dracís minion.(Buffy vs. Dracula). He makes light of the situation and often has the best lines. The sidekick often is known for questioning the heroís judgment, making the insensitive remark, yet coming through when the hero needs him or her in the end. (Becoming Part I & II) Some examples of famous hero/sidekick pairings in popular culture ñ

1. The Lone Ranger and Tonto
2. Batman and Robin, also Batgirl
3. Rio Bravo and El Dorado ñ had created the classic Western sidekick of the rookie who either gave a wiseass remark or a song: Ricky Nelson and James Cann
4. Hercules ñ Ionaus
5. Xenia ñ Gabrielle

Where would we be without the trusted sidekick ñ who fills two needs ñ one backup and two comic relief. The best way to do in the hero ñ was often to kill or compromise the sidekick. Also ñ very important ñ the sidekick and hero must never have a romantic relationship ñ screws up the whole dynamic, besides the hero traditionally falls for the femme or male fatale with the sidekick either having a hopeless crush on them ñ if the sidekick is not of the same gender or getting past the crush and forming the longer lasting friendship.

II. Xander Harris: comic sidekick and damsel combined:

From the beginning of the series ñ Buffy was always saving Xander. She was his hero. As Anya puts it in her duet with Xander in OMWF: ìWhen things get tough ñ he hides behind his Buffy, Look heís getting Huffy because he knows that I know.î Xander is the male equivalent of Batgirl or the male equivalent of the girl sidekick, the damsel. Because in Buffy? The damsels are the guys not the girls. But thatís not his only role ñ he also acts as the comic relief, often commenting on the enormity of the situation. The comic relief role/side-kick traditionally works as a stand-in for the audience. If you notice from the beginning of the series ñ Xander of all the characters comments on the action ñ often wondering aloud if this is just fiction, just a television series, not real.

Itís Xander in OMWF who sings: ìMove it along, nothing more to see,î while looking at the audience beyond the fourth wall. And Xander who states in Bargaining Part II ñ that monsters arenít a common occurrence unless youíre us. And in Welcome to The Hellmouth ñ it is once again Xander who questions if Buffy is the slayer and vampires are real ñ only to discover with shock, gasp they are. It is also Xander in Harvest who wonders why no one else remembers that first vampire attack at the Bronze outside the four of them.

Xander is also, amazingly enough, one of the most fully developed sidekicks ñ Iíve seen on TV or elsewhere. He actually has a job, a love life, and a family outside of the hero. And each of these items has a great amount influence over his life. On top of this ñ the writers have taken the additional step of paralleling the femme or rather male fatale to the sidekick. Angel was similar to Xander ñ in the fact that he too had the disapproving father and the middle-class existence. Usually sidekicks are given a cardboard background, such as Andrew and Jonathan in Btvs ñ we never really meet Andrewís family (unless you count Tucker) or Jonathanís for that matter, never know they exist, never see the love interest (outside of Warren), if they arenít with the hero? They have no life. They donít even have much of an identity. Just enough of one to be comical and make the hero look good. Not so Xander ñ Btvs has whole episodes focused on this sidekick. I havenít been consistently watching Smallville ñ but Iím pretty sure that it has not focused one episode on the teen girl sidekick of Superman, Chloe (I think her name is), and it took Xenia at least two seasons to focus an episode on Gabrielle. (I may be wrong on thatÖitís been a while since Iíve watched Xenia. But Iím pretty sure it took awhile for Hercules to focus one on Ionaus.)

Hereís a partial list of Xander-centric episodes, all tend to be geared towards the theme of what itís like being the comic relief, sidekick and damsel and all focus on paralleling this experience to the heroís, while at the same time developing Xanderís character beyond these roles.

Teacherís Pet (Season 1)
Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered & Go Fish (Season 2)
The Zeppo (Season 3)
The Replacement (Season 5)
Hellís Bells (Season 6)

In each of these episodes ñthe sidekickís story takes center stage, pushing the heroís to the background. Each episode focused mostly on an emotional issue or problem of the sidekick.

1. Teacherís Pet ñ Xander is the damsel in this episode. The episode is a twist on the traditional gothic romance ñ where the hero must save the virginal ingÈnue before she is sacrificed to the monster, which has seduced her in the form of an attractive man. The ingÈnue only fell into its clutches out of the desire to make the hero jealous. Xander acts like the ingÈnue in this episode, making all the same mistakes. In order to make the hero, Buffy, jealous, he flirts with the gorgeous teacher, goes to her house, and ends up in her murderous clutches.

2. Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered and Go Fish ñ deals with the comic sidekickís desire to be taken seriously by the opposite sex, so he/she does something dangerous and gets more than he/she bargained for. The first deals with the classic love spell ñ the girl casts it and all the guys go crazy after her, a la Shakespeareís Midsummer Nightís Dream. In Btvs ñ Xander casts it and reaps the results. Go Fish ñ the desire to appear worthwhile in Cordyís eyes causes Xander to join the swim team, where he comically almost ends up becoming a fish. The intrepid female reporter, think Lois Lane, goes undercover and has to be saved by the hero. Except in the Btvsí version Xander inadvertently ends up rescuing the hero. Occasionally the sidekick gets the chance to do this. Robin saves Batman. Tonto saves the Lone Ranger. Gabrielle saves Xenia. But, as seen in this episode, with comic results.

3. The Zeppo and The Replacement ñ deals with the sidekickís inability to deal with his current roles as the damsel and comic relief in the drama. Every sidekick has had this epiphany moment. Wait! What is my role in life? Am I just the heroís butt monkey? The damsel ñ the hero has to save and protect? (See beginning of The Zeppo where Xander almost gets killed) The comic relief? (Buffy vs. Dracula and the Replacement). And why the heck am I putting up with this nonsense. ìI will no longer be anyoneís buttmonkey!î Xander shouts at the end of Buffy vs. Dracula. Yet his insecurity regarding his inability to escape this role is revealed with comic effect in The Replacement, where he splits in two and believes that his real self is the butt-monkey, the comic sidekick, and suavexander is the monster.

4. Hellís Bells ñ the sidekickís romance is ruined by his relationship with the hero or the sidekick is afraid that heíll never have that lasting romance due to his long-standing relationship with the hero. Xander and Anyaís marriage in the future is on the rocks because Xander had to fulfill his role as Buffyís sidekick and severely damaged his back. The hero meanwhile counts on the sidekick to ride merrily into the sunset and in this case, interestingly enough, with an ex-demon because it provides the hero with the hope that someday she may realize the same dream with the current male fatale of the moment. The hero canít stop saving the world long enough to have a life, but her sidekick can. Or so the hero believes. Hellís Bells brilliantly showed from the sidekickís perspective why this isnít necessarily so. We went into the head of the sidekick and realized his fears. Not a comforting experience, partly because the sidekick is traditionally a stand-in for the audience who is also following the hero on her journey and depends on the hero to save the day. When we fantasize about being in shows like Superman, Batman or even Btvs ñ often we fantasize about being the sidekick not the hero. Hence the need for the sidekick role.

(Part II - IV to follow)SK

[> Part III:Xander compared to Andrew/Angel/Lance/Jonathan/Giles/Wes/OZ -- shadowkat, 19:20:25 12/16/02 Mon

III. Xander compared to the other male damsels & sidekicks on Btvs.

1. Andrew or Tuckerís Brother, the negative sidekick or villainís sidekick

Of the Troika, we know the least about Andrew and have seen him the least. He is the traditional concept of the sidekick. Tonto on the Lone Ranger, who had very few lines, followed his master faithfully without question, and didnít even appear to have a last name. Other well-known cardboard sidekicks include: Dick Grayson ñ who for the longest time was just Batmanís ward. Lex Luthorís sidekick in the Superman movies. Number 1 on Star Trek Next Generation. And now we have Andrew- Tuckerís Brother as Warrenís sidekick. He has no clear identity, no one can place him, he acts in some ways like a cipher ñ you can successfully compare him to almost all the characters on the show but he doesnít stand well on his own. Ciphers are characters that we often forget once they leave the screen. They are non-entities.

Think about it ñ what do we really know about Andrew? When Spike asks Buffy if he hurt anyone she says : ìAndrewÖî and in response to his confusion ñ ìTuckerís brother,î as if that explains everything. Itís not all that different than Xander being referred to as Buffyís boy. Or for that matter Dawn being referred to as Buffyís sister.

Xander fears being a cipher, someone who is only recognized through Buffy ñ when Spike describes Xander as ìher boyî or the ìslayerís boyî, Xander gets riled. Just as he gets riled for being Dracís minion or the zeppo, the weak link as Andrew is. Andrew is Xanderís worst nightmare. Andrew is every boyís worst nightmare. The non-entity who is only referred to or introduced with an infamous or famous relativeís name attached to his own, in this case his brother, which in a sense is not all that different than being just a sidekick.

Andrew like Xander is sick of being the sidekick, he wants to be the cool guy in the leather jacket or the male version of the fatale. After all the fatale gets to a)fight the hero and b) boink the hero, (see Catwoman through Xenia for examples). Xander to VampWillow in Dopplegangland: ìSo I was a kickass vampire in your dimension? Cool!î And with Lance ñ so it was the jacket that made Lance cool all along? Buffy to Xander, ìAnd you werenít tempted to take that jacket yourselfÖî Xander: ìWell no, but only because it didnít fit.î Xander to Buffy in The Pack ñ ìYou like dark guys, well guess who just got dark!î Xander fears being like Andrew - a cipher, no true personality of his own. Just the comic relief.

2. Jonathan ñ the perpetual damsel in distress

Looking back over the high school years of Btvs ñ Jonathan was consistently used as the damsel. Almost killed in Whatís My Line, Mummy Girl, Earshot, and numerous other episodes. If you blinked you missed it most of the time. And like most damsels ñ he barely got a chance to thank the hero before she trotted off with her pals. It is fitting that it is Jonathan who presents Buffy with the school defender trophy in The Prom ñ since after all it was Jonathanís life Buffy probably saved the most. In the Gift ñ the boy running away from the vampire into the alley could be a stand-in for Jonathan, or a perfect double of Danny Strong who played him.

Even as a villain ñ Jonathan had to be saved. If it werenít for Buffy in Seeing Red ñ Warren and Andrew would have eventually killed him. His life expectancy according to Warren was the same as a carton of milk. Prior to Jonathanís decision to join the Trioka, Buffy had to save Jonathan from himself in Earshot where he attempts to commit suicide and in Superstar where his doppleganger attempts to destroy him. (a doppleganger that looks vaguely reminiscent of the demon Willow accidentally summons in Wrecked).

In Btvs ñ both Willow and Xander take turns playing the damsel. Willow eventually grows out of it ñ as we see Jonathan attempt to. While Xander falls repeatedly back into it, in Two to Go (where Jonathan saves him from Andrew) and Seeing Red, (Jonathan saves him from Warren). Oddly enough itís Jonathan who saves Xander ñ a former damsel saving another damsel.

Btvsí depiction of the damsel is interesting ñ because in most, not all cases, the damsel is given an opportunity to save himself. And the damselís worst enemy tends to be himself.
Xander fluctuates between being damsel and heroic sidekick, just as Willow does. Jonathan remains more or less a damsel until Season 6, where he gets the chance to move slightly out of that role ñ only to finally come to a sad end in Season 7. The damsel finally dies. May he/she rest in peace. The irony is once again ñ Jonathan has placed himself at risk ñ in traditional damsel fashion he fell for the villainís line and let himself be sacrificed for the villainís cause. Except irony of ironies ñ the villain killing the damsel isnít the head villain but the cipher, the sidekick ñ who the villain in his spiritual form must operate through.

Like Andrew ñ Jonathan operates in Btvs as Xanderís and even more so, Willowís, ultimate fear of being the powerless damsel always at the mercy of the villain, never able to save himself.

3. Lance/Angel/Spike ñ the cool dude in the jacket or male fatal

Lance is actually the focus of this section because heís Xanderís stand-in. Lance who we only meet in HIM (Season 7 Btvs), has handed his jacket down to his brother, AJ, who up until now was probably just known as Lanceís brother. Very similar to Andrew, who is just known as Tuckerís brother. Xander tries on the jacket ñ weíre told ñ and it doesnít fit. Xander tries on the cloak of demon possession in The Pack ñ but he doesnít get the girl like Angel does, he doesnít get to be the male fatale.

The femme fatale. She is traditionally the unknown quantity, the forbidden. In movies she has been played by dark sultry actresses and sings sultry songs. The misunderstood girl. Men crave her, women hate her. Catwoman was Batmanís femme fatale. Darla is Angelís. Lilah is Weselyís. Faith was Xanderís. Drusilla was Spikeís. Anya is the femme fatale for Xander ñ the sidekickís version of the lost soul who wants to be redeemed.

What I find fascinating is that guys who lust after the femme fatal and want the male hero with her and want more of her ñ despise the male version of the fatal and whine endlessly about women who like him. (Think about it ñ how many guys love Anya but canít stand Spike? Or loved Harmony and Drusilla but canít stand Angel?) Women who love the male fatal despise the female version and whine endlessly about men who like her. (Hate Lilah but loved Angel?) Can we say? HYPOCRIT! This is of course a generalization, not everyone is like this.

What Btvs has done is made the male fatale a main character not the femme. Theyíve flipped it. In the vampire television series, where the hero is a vampire and a cop, Forever Knight, the femme fatale was the saloonkeeper, a female vampire and a reoccurring character and btw far more alluring than any other female on the show. In Angel ñ Lilah is the femme fatal ñ she wears better clothes and delivers better lines than any other woman on the show. Just as Darla did before her. And Drusilla. In Btvs ñ the fatales have been Spike and Angel respectively.

The successful fatal gets redeemed and starts fighting for good, at first with an ulterior motive. In some movies and tv shows the fatal is the lead and becomes the anti-hero: Angel and Xenia for example. And they in turn get their own versions of the fatale ñ Angel gets Darla (a female vampire) and Xenia gets Aries (a dark war god). If youíre a fan of the series 24? The fatale is Nina ñ the coworker who has an affair with the hero and subsequently turns out to be the mole in the organization that kills his wife.

Lance and his brother (AJ) and Andrew represent Xanderís hidden desire to be the fatale. The desire of every guy or gal as the case may be to be the fatale. Letís face it ñ itís more fun. You can be evil and good. And look sexy while doing it. Far more fun than being a sidekick or comic relief.

Anya is an example of the fatale becoming the sidekickís love interest and eventually comic relief, she is in a sense Xanderís anti-Buffy. The sidekick will often end up with the shady lady or shady informant when he/she canít get the hero. The old ñ letís go for the exact opposite of what I canít have approach. Buffy may indirectly be doing the same thing ñ hunting her polar opposite. This is what makes the fatal so fascinating ñ the conflict and chemistry is much more charged onscreen or in literature between two opposites. As is the suspense ñ will the hero reform the fatale? Will the fatale pull the hero down to his/her level? Who will win the tug-of-war between the two?

Angel is an example of the tug of war being won by the hero and the fatal taking off for heroís own good to complete his own journey. Xenia is another popular culture example of this occurrence. After falling for Hercules ñ she takes off in her own series to find her own path to redemption. As is Catwoman in the Batman comics.

The Season 6 Spike/Buffy relationship is an example of the hero being pulled into the fataleís world and almost losing the battle. Similar occurrences of this happened in well Superman III, when the red kryptonite turned Superman evil, or the seduction of Jean Greyís Phoenix by Mastermind in the X-man comics. Another example is the Dracula-Mina relationship in Bram Stokerís novel or Lestate and Louisí relationship in Ann Riceís novels.

Lance/AJ is an example of the sidekick craving this role through the use of a costume.

4. OZ/Riley ñ the heroic boyfriend/sidekick/love interest

OZ and Riley represent the ideal guy ñ the one the sidekick envies and wants to be. OZ who is the epitome of cool or as described by Joss Whedon in an old interview ñ the boy in the band he always wanted to be. OZ gets the sidekickís female alter ego, Willow, the other sidekick in the series. The one that Xander believed would always be waiting in the wings for him. Oops guess not. OZ also has the darkness Xander craves to be interesting and accomplishes the heroic acts ñ Xander wishes he could accomplish. In The Zeppo ñ OZ is still included, Xander is exiled ñ due to damsel status. OZ is dangerous, Xander only has the memories of being dangerous. OZ is also at the same time good. A perfect combo of ideal and fatale.

Riley on the other hand is the ìidealî guy. The perfect boyfriend from the ìguyísî perspective. Brave. Stoic. Polite. With a cool career and lifetime benefits. Xander not only envies Riley, he wants to be Riley. Riley is Xanderís fantasy self. Way back in Halloween ñ Xander gets a custom as Army Guy and due to a chaos spell briefly becomes the confident Army Guy and is the makeshift leader/hero in that episode. In Fear, Itself ñ he plays James Bond with the hopes that if another spell occurs, heíll really be James Bond. Riley at different points in the series takes on both these roles. In Season 4 ñ he is Army Guy, in Season 6 ñ he is Secret Agent Guy. He rides to the rescue like John Wayne in Rio Bravo with Xander as Ricky Nelson, his trusty sidekick. But like all fantasies, Riley is a bit of a cipher as well ñ we know so little about him. He comes from Iowa. He has a family ñ we think. He loved Buffy. He is now married to Sam. And he joined the military. Actually sounds like quite a bit, what do you mean not well drawn, but waitÖis it? Think about it. What do we really know about Riley Finn thatís not a time-worn clichÈ taken out of a military drama or war movie that Xander has watched a million times? Which makes Riley the perfect sugary version of the fantasy hero. The guy that Xander believes should be with the hero. The ideal. And like all idealís? He disappears in a puff of helicopter exhaust. Because the ideal ñ does not exist, except long enough to cast doubt on Xanderís role. Can Xander ever measure up to someone like Riley? Does Xanderís life have meaning? Riley has the perfect life right?

Itís interesting that both OZ and Riley leave their first loves in the lurch to find themselves. And both have hidden dark sides that threaten to consume them. Ozís werewolf persona, Rileyís Initiative past and vamp trulls. Possible evidence the what lies on the surface, the ideal, may not be any more real than AJís prized jacket in HIM or Xanderís costume in Halloween.

5. Wes/Giles ñ the wise mentor/information resource/invaluable guide

In Season 4 ñ Xander tries to become Gilesí protÈgÈe. He tries to learn what Giles knows and take on the Watcher duties. But it doesnít work out. He canít take over the role of the mentor and guide. A traditional role in fantasy genre filled by Gandalf in Lord of The Rings to Frodo, Glinda the Good Witch in Wizard of Oz, and Alfred in the Batman series. The kind old mentor passes his wisdom on to the hero then quietly fades into the sunset or sunrise as the case may be. The reader/audience always misses him because in a sense he was our surrogate father too.

This role is less of a sidekick or damsel ñ although the mentor often finds himself captured or comes to the rescue as both the damsel and sidekick do. Giles in Becoming is captured by Angelus and tortured ñ playing the damsel. In Fear, Itself ñ he comes to the gangís rescue.

But Giles partly due to age and experience ñ remains outside the sidekick role and in the role of mentor, teacher. When he is finished ñ he will disappear as all mentors eventually do.

Wes in contrast to Giles ñ is the damsel in Btvs and the comic relief. He would like to be the mentor, but he neither has the age nor the experience to fulfill the role. Xander and Wes have a lot in common ñ both men have troubles with Daddy, neither want to be their father yet both crave the fatherís approval. Xander craves Gilesí approval. While Wes craves his biological fatherís approval. Later, when Wes moves to Angel ñ he first plays the comic relief role than slowly moves to the Giles role, an example of the comic sidekick moving to the wiser more developed role. But to do it, he must at some point break with the hero, which he does more than once on the series. Just as Willow moves from sidekick to information role on Buffy, slowly taking Gilesí place on the series and manages it by also breaking with the hero and doing her own thing, requiring the heroís forgiveness in the process.

Xander remains the sidekick and unlike Cordy on Angel ñ does not get promoted to romantic love interest. The difference may be gender ñ while the female sidekick can get promoted to this role ñ see Gabrielle on Xenia as another example, the male sidekick may be considered too comical and inept to reach this role, Ionaus certainly didnít get it in Hercules. The only male sidekick Iíve seen make the transition was possibly Pike in the BTVS movie. There may be others. Of course the more likely reason is unlike Cordy and Wes and Willow, Xander has never quite broken with the hero and sought out his own path, heís never quite betrayed her or had to leave her for a time due to some type of betrayal.

Part IV to follow...SK

[> Part IV: Where is Xander Headed? -- shadowkat, 19:24:33 12/16/02 Mon

IV. Conclusion: So Where is Xander headed? (Future Spec)

The one thing Xander has yet to do in his traditional sidekick role is turn on the hero, betray her. Willow did it last year and afterwards moved beyond the sidekick role. In order to develop past a sidekick and eventually find your own place in the world, the sidekick must at some point break with the heroís path.

In Batman ñ Dick Grayson finally rebels, stops being Robin, and becomes Night Wing. Similar to Xanderís Night Hawk in Anne and Dead Manís Party when he attempts to take over Buffyís role with his friends. But this is short lived ñ Buffy quickly takes back the role when she returns demonstrating with a few kicks and a lung how inept Xander is.

Outside of possibly the Pack and OMWF, Xander has never truly turned his back on or betrayed the hero, he has remained trusted sidekick. Now Willow has ñ and her character as a result finally confronted the hero regarding this role and broke free of it.

Wes and Cordelia have both accomplished this task on Ats. Wesely did it first in Sleep Tight and left the hero or in this case anti-heroís fold, forming his own crew and finding his own identity as a result. An identity that is separate yet parallel to Angelís and as a result - becoming a better-rounded character in his own right. Cordelia did it recently by sleeping with Connor. Interesting ñ in both cases the betrayal involved Angelís child. First by kidnapping the child for itís own good. Second by providing it with sexual comfort.

The series Xenia had a similar betrayal, which served to strengthen the Gabrielle character. Gabrielle against Xeniaís orders did not kill her demon child and as a result the demon child lived to kill Xeniaís innocent son.

The betrayal by the trusted sidekick serves to strengthen and advance the hero on their journey as well. For they are forced to come to grips with 1) how theyíve used and relied on the side-kick over the years, 2) that the side-kick is a person in their own right, and 3) forgiving someone close to them and through it realizing that evil can be done by those we love the most, itís not limited to the fatale or the demons. And in realizing this, the hero finally learns how to forgive themselves for not being perfect or gods.

Last year Buffy had to face a betrayal by her spiritual sidekick ñ Willow. This year she may have to face a similar betrayal by the sidekick that represents her heart or her humanity ñ Xander. In Season 3 ñ she had to face betrayal by her parents and authority.
In fantasy, particularly horror, the hero must often pass through the fire of betrayal to reach enlightenment.

For Xander ñ such a betrayal would aid him in three ways 1) breakage with the hero and discovery of his own identity, 2) recognition of his own capacity for evil, 3) finally coming to grips with his own resentment and anger towards the hero.

I also believe Xanderís forthcoming betrayal has been foreshadowed by the series and developed. Like Willow was at the end of Season 5 and beginning of Season 6, Xander saves the day, appears on a superficial level to be confident and in control of his future and heroic. But Willow falls off the cliff, goes nuts in Smashed and Wrecked, goes through what appears to be rehab, saves Buffyís life a few times, only to go wacko when she loses Tara. Xander similarly saves the day at the end of Season 6, finally reaches success with his company, and seems to be a recognized and necessary part of the Buffy slaying machine. YetÖhe tells Andrew in Never Leave Me that his heart is gone and in itís place is darkness and thereís nothing to look forward to. He tells Nancy in Beneath You that his ex is still affecting his life. And in Selfless ñ he turns on the hero, literally pushes the hero aside, to save Anya, the femme fatale. Selfless is the first time Xander breaks with the hero, choosing someone over Buffy.

In the episodes Him, Beneath You and Lessons, the writers have gone out of their way to have Xander either save the day or help in a crucial way. Even in Selfless, Same Time Same Place, and Never Leave Me ñ Xander supports the decision to think first before killing a friend. Heís the one who stops Buffy from killing Anya in Selfless, heís the one who believes in Willow in Same Time Same Place, and he figures out that Spike is not responsible for the killings in Never Leave Me but rather being controlled by an outside force. This is similar to Willowís investigative work in Double Meat Palace and Gone last season, as well as her activities in the beginning of the year.

In order for the sidekickís betrayal to work ñ the audience must feel that the sidekick can and should be saved and forgiven. The sidekick needs to build up a record of good deeds.
We have to be rooting for the hero to bring the sidekick back from the dark side, otherwise the betrayal lacks suspense and emotional impact. Also the hero must feel that the sidekick is salvageable. So as a writer ñ you build up a record or score sheet of good deeds. But, at the same, you also show the cracks.

So what are the cracks in Xanderís faÁade? Well in Same Time Same Place ñ Xander is called ìher boyî by Spike, is treated like a second banana and the brunt of a few quips.
ìOr we could do the smart thingÖSorry Xander.î Later in Him ñ we see that Xander does want to try on the evil jacket. In Selfless ñ Anya voices Xanderís fear ñ of being a nobody of having nothing ñ a fear he echoes in Never Leave Me.

How about foreshadowing? In the Replacement ñ we see the war between the two Xanderís buttmonkey and SuaveXander. In the Zeppo ñ we see Xander flirt with the dark side, by running with the evil dead and having rough sex with the dark slayer. In The Wish ñ we see what Xander would be like as a vampire. And in the Pack ñ we see who Xander is without a conscience or a suppressed one. Then of course we have Andrew ñ Xanderís doppleganger. Is it too big a leap to see the First Evil jump from Andrew to Xander??

Xanderís break with Buffy may not be as drastic as Willowís, it doesnít have to be in order for the character to grow and Buffy to advance to the next step in her journey. Xander could do something as simple and as well-meaning as Wes does in taking Connor or Cordelia does in sleeping with Connor. He could even do something he truly believes is right ñ like Gabby does in Xenia Warrior Princess, by not killing her child. The possibilities are endless. All that is required is that Buffy perceives his actions as a cruel betrayal.

Ok - not sure if any of that makes sense. Agree? Disagree? Feedback appreciated as always.

Shadowkat

[> [> For Btvs - spoilers up to NLM 7.9. For Ats Spoilers up to Rain of Fire/ApocalpsyNowish -- shadowkat, 19:26:15 12/16/02 Mon


[> [> [> no future spoilers in above, just speculation!! promise! -- shadowkat, 19:30:19 12/16/02 Mon

I'm not spoiled on anything regarding Xander.

[> [> [> [> Eep -- JM, 19:46:27 12/16/02 Mon

I have to go to bed, but I will definitely be back to talk about one of my new favorite characters.

[> [> Highly interesting! -- HonorH, 20:16:48 12/16/02 Mon

Think you've got a great overview of Xander Harris' character going there. I have a different take on the betrayal thing, though. I really don't think he'll ever betray Buffy, or that he needs to break with her. He's got a career, he's got friends, he's got purpose, and he may even have a chance to patch things up with his ex. Who could ask for more? That's just me, though.

Then again, there could be an Impending Death Situation that makes him think sleeping with Dawn is a good idea. Egh. That's a little too scary to contemplate, isn't it?

[> [> [> STOP -- Tchaikovsky, 03:02:14 12/17/02 Tue

Any more of your crazy 'shipping suggestions and I'm never going to be able to look at the characters again without blushing! I'm sure you're only reflecting the dark, crazy world which is fanfic. Remind me never, never to go there.

TCH

[> [> [> Continuing our discussion..... (Spoilers to 7.9) -- Sophist, 10:06:02 12/17/02 Tue

The other Xander thread fell into the archives before I saw your last post. Ya know, there's so much Xander discussion here, the posts that really interest everyone are suffering. :)

I think the passages I quoted do show that Xander is blaming Anya. In NLM, he says he has a darkness where is heart used to be. And why does he suffer from this? Because Anya did it to him out of vengeance. Wrong --he did it to himself.

In BY, the entire context is that Nancy's ex is ruining her life. Xander agrees that he knows exactly what that's like. Again wrong -- Xander is at fault, not Anya.

Xander is blaming Anya for his current unhappiness, but it's his own fault. That's not the behavior of a grownup.

You're overstating the extent of Xander's acceptance of blame for the wedding fiasco. In Entropy, Xander never tells Anya the real reason he bailed on her at the wedding:

ANYA: I just ... don't understand what happened.
XANDER: I do. I'm an idiot. All I had to do was say something earlier. (Anya looks surprised) I could have spared you from that ... that nightmare.

Through this speech Anya begins to frown and look hurt again. She backs away a few steps and folds her arms.

ANYA: Said something about what?
XANDER: (makes "uh-oh" face) No, no! I mean, you know, if I were, like, more ... self-aware. Because, with the whole idiot thing.
ANYA: (arms still folded, angrily) If you had been more self-aware, you would have what? (Xander looking alarmed) Been able to stop the wedding?
XANDER: No no, it's not like that, that's not what... (pauses, frustrated sigh) Okay, see, I didn't practice this part.
ANYA: (firmly) Do you still want to get married?

Close on Xander's face. He hesitates, looks unsure. Anya looks upset.

ANYA: (very quietly) Oh.
XANDER: Ahn, it's a very complicated question.
ANYA: (getting teary) No, actually, it's really not. It's kind of an either-or deal. Do you want to get married?
XANDER: Someday, yes, very much. When we're ready. (Anya looking very hurt) I don't want you to take this as a bad thing. It's good. (Anya looking resigned, annoyed) I love you, I love you so much, I'm just trying to be honest with you.
ANYA: (angry) Yes, honesty *now*. Congratulations, Xander, on being honest now. I wonder what the medal will say.
XANDER: (confused) Okay, clearly I'm not handling this well.
ANYA: (yelling) Well, duh!


This explanation shows no sign of recognition of the problem except for the timing of his decision. It naturally left Anya feeling like Xander never really loved her (and she accused him of that in Grave). He never has come clean on this; he's concealing from her his own fears about becoming like his parents, plus his concerns about the role of Buffy in his life. Until he admits both of these to Anya, he is not accepting responsibility, he's avoiding it. And he's hurting Anya in the process.

[> [> [> [> Re: Continuing our discussion..... (Spoilers to 7.9) -- HonorH, 13:30:31 12/17/02 Tue

Okay, I think we're just yelling at each other about the NLM speech. I've given you my perspective--that he's not blaming Anya, he's just expressing that he feels empty without her in the context of intimidating Andrew when he knows full well that Anya didn't, indeed couldn't, wreak vengeance on him, and that the BY conversation was another example of him saying he feels the shadow of Anya on everything he does--and I'm just not buying your perspective.

As for the blaming, I go to Psyche and the transcript for "Normal Again":

XANDER: I don't know how stuff got so mixed up! (sighs) I blew it.
BUFFY: No. Well ... maybe it wasn't the best time to break up with her, but...
XANDER: No. It wasn't about breaking up. I love her, and god, I miss her so much.
WILLOW: So, you left her at the altar, but you still wanna-
BUFFY: You still wanna date?
XANDER: I guess. I know that I'm a better person with her in my life. But things got so complicated with the wedding, and with my family, and with her ... demons, and ... what if it all goes to hell, a-and forever? (the girls looking sympathetic) But then I left ... and ever since ... I've had this painful hole inside. (Buffy looking pensive) And I'm the idiot that dug it out . . . I screwed up real bad.

The conversation you bring up in "Entropy" is frankly another example to me that Xander knows he's at fault. He tells Anya he wishes he'd brought his Issues up before, and that they'd waited to get engaged. He doesn't get time to discuss those Issues because Anya ends the conversation. She's still too angry to even talk about it, and no, I don't blame her. And he keeps telling her he loves her, too. It doesn't matter--no matter what he told her, she'd feel that way. Being dumped at the altar does that to you. Yes, he should talk with her about his fears. Of course he should. And maybe he can now that they no longer have the immediate emotion.

An addendum: last time Xander had a nasty breakup, Cordelia used her knowledge of his family issues to hurt him. That could be why Xander doesn't discuss them with Anya. Hey, maybe his agreement with Nancy in BY was him talking about Cordy.

[> [> [> [> [> Okay...don't mean to butt in but... -- shadowkat, 15:15:42 12/17/02 Tue

I think the point isn't so much that Xander hasn't admitted the problem to himself - he hasn't admitted or discussed it with anyone else.

This btw is similar to Willow's problem. Willow is afraid everyone will just see her as a geek - so she hides underneath all the power and sexuality and numerous costumes.

Xander is terrified of becoming his parents, of being Andrew or Jonathan or Warren, a heartless geeky loser like Lance. Yes - of course he's not. WE know that. But Xander doesn't. Not yet. That's why he keeps ending up in the basement with his dad pulling out his heart, and why he keeps tagging along after Buffy like a little puppy dog and being her sidekick or boy.

In all the textual discussions you guys keep quoting back and forth with Xander and Anya - the one thing that hits me as odd is that Xander NEVER states to Anya, to Buffy, to anyone else - why he didn't think he and Anya were ready to get married. Why he broke off the wedding. He NEVER tells them what he saw in his vision.

Buffy, Willow, Anya and Dawn probably believe it was for the usual reasons- Anya's an ex-demon or Xander is insecure about marriage. They don't know what we're privy too. They may never know. Or maybe B and W do, but Anya certainly doesn't. Anya thinks it's because of her - it's what she tells Spike in Entropy. Xander NEVER gives her another concrete reason. He just says it wasn't you - which of course makes no sense to Anya. Until Xander can get past his fear of becoming his father or of reliving his parents nightmare - he'll never be able to actually climb those basement stairs and walk proudly past his parents to the second floor.

We see Xander's maturity and capability - we see SuaveXander, but inside? Xander sees himself as the damsel, the buttmonkey, the heartless loser. A nobody. He doesn't know who he really is. He's listening to his head, his fears, not trusting or listening to his heart.

This is why he must in some manner break with Buffy - do something, risk something - so that he can finally climb those steps instead of getting his heart torn out or running every time he looks up the stairs. He has to stop fearing the energy sucking vampires he believes lie in wait for him, the energy sucking vampire he is afraid he could become. His father is a metaphorical vampire - an alcoholic who sucks the life from his marriage with alcohol and negativity. Just as his mother is a type of vampire - someone who sucks the life from her marriage and family with complaints and verbal abuse. Xander fears that type of relationship - its the one he saw in his vision. But he has never shared that information with Anya. He can't - he can barely stand to see it himself, so he pushes it in that other room out of sight and out of mind.

In Whedon's commentary on Restless - Whedon states it succintly: Xander is afraid he's a Harris, he isn't of course, but Xander doesn't know that.

Now relate that metaphor to our own lives? How many times do you feel insecure about your role in life, if you really are a capable person or just a buttmonkey, a joke, with nothing worthwhile? That's Xander. It doesn't mean he can't rise above that - it just means he hasn't yet..

Having a good job, an apartment, friends = surface stuff if you hate yourself inside. If all you're doing is going through the motions. Remember Xander's speech to Andrew in NLM? That's what is at the heart of it...he feels as if he failed b/c instead of striding up the steps, confiding in Anya, facing his parents, he stood frozen at the bottom and let his own heart be ripped out by his own hands - which he admits to, but does nothing to remedy. He thought he could go back in time, back to the boy of Season 5 before he proposed to Anya, before the world almost came to an end...the boy he believed had finally moved out of the basement. But by never telling Anya he's fears - never revealing them and making them less real - he's ended up in the basement again, deep inside the scared little boy hiding beneath a calm facade of happy bachelorhood. Xander's big mistake - was NOT calling off the wedding or his timing. His big mistake was not explaining to Anya why he had to - not telling her, the woman he supposedly loves, why he felt they shouldn't get married, why he wasn't ready.
Until he comes to grips with those reasons...I'm not sure Xander has a chance with anyone, Anya, Nancy or whomever comes next. I'm not sure Xander can make it up those stairs.

The story isn't over yet - he still has a chance to remedy the situation. He still has that chance to climb the stairs, to face his fears, and to tell anya what it was that caused him to call off their marriage.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Keep your butt in. -- HonorH, 15:28:42 12/17/02 Tue

Sophist and I are just going round and round the same argument and failing to convince each other (and you're still wrong, Soph ;-). You've nailed it, s'kat: Xander needs most of all to break with his past. I don't think this means he needs to break with Buffy, but he definitely needs to look his father in the eye, say, "I know thee not, old man," and walk away. He needs to declare that he is *not* heir to the Harris legacy and forge his own path.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Thanks for butting in. -- Sophist, 09:13:33 12/18/02 Wed

You made exactly the point I was trying to make at the end of my last post, and you did it much better than I managed.

I think Xander is hiding the truth from himself by his statements in BY and NLM. If he can blame Anya for his current inner turmoil, he doesn't need to examine himself. If this is the season for the SG to examine their inner fears, this is Xander's task. Until he stops blaming Anya, he can't face that fear. Until he faces that fear -- by letting Anya know his real reasons -- he can't accomplish his task.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Thanks for butting in. -- Malandanza, 22:20:01 12/18/02 Wed

I think Xander was sincere when he returned after the wedding disaster -- as the passage HonorH quoted shows (the "idiot that dug it out" line). However, I think that Xander has done some serious backsliding since then and has gone from blaming himself for allowing his own insecurities to control him to, if not blaming Anya, then at least absolving himself of most of the responsibility. I also think it's pretty typical behavior not just for Xander, but for most of the Scoobies.

The last time Anya complained of being left at the altar (BY), Xander told her that that excuse will only work for so long. He was right, of course. But Xander has the same attitude toward the Anya/Spike sex -- because Anya had sex with Spike and hurt Xander, Xander believes his current and past actions are justified. Willow blames Warren (although she "feels responsible"), Spike blames being "used" by Buffy for his current suffering. Each of the characters is still living in the past season, still blaming other people instead of themselves.

[> [> Re: Part IV: Where is Xander Headed? (In Xanders Defense) -- Wolfhowl3, 20:47:23 12/16/02 Mon

This is only a comment about Xander and his Night with Faith in "The Zeppo"

I don't think it really counts as the forshadowing that you have classified it as simply because Xander never really made a choice about sleeping with Faith. Go with me for a second here.

You have a Teenage boy with some serious identiey issues, and this Sexy woman throws him down to do the nasty. What boy is going to turn it down. For it to be a real forshadowing of a future betrayal, he would have to made a choice, (even the smallest one) at some point.

I think a scene the fits better that has not been mentioned was when Buffy was marching in to face Angelous and Dru at the end of Seson 2, and Xander delivers the "Message" Kick his Ass. Xander made a choice not to give Buffy the vital information that Willow was trying the Curse again.

I happen to agree with all other point that have been made, and if someone doesn't agree with me, remember, I'm not that smart. :)

Wolfie

[> [> [> Re: Part IV: Where is Xander Headed? (In Xanders Defense) -- LittleBit, 22:10:50 12/16/02 Mon

I tend to agree that Xander's one-night-stand with Faith was not something Xander actively chose to do, but something that, once Faith initiated it, he went along with. It should also be remembered that this incident occurred before anyone realized that Faith was turning dark, so even if it had been an active choice, it would hardly have been a betrayal of anything except Willow's long-standing crush on him.

I'm also one who agrees that the withholding of the information from Buffy when she was heading to confront Angelus was a betrayal of her trust. Whether the decision was made to keep her from having potentially conflicting agendas, or made from sheer spite regarding Angelus, the end result, for me, was that Xander made the decision that Buffy wasn't to be trusted to show good judgment in the situation if given all the relevant information.

[> [> [> That's always puzzled me... -- Shiraz, 22:12:52 12/16/02 Mon

And I'll finally ask:

Why was Xander's unwise dalliance with Faith considered such a betrayal by the rest of the gang? After all, Faith was, at this point, still a good guy.

Furthermore, neither of them was seeing anyone else, so it couldn't be treated like infidelity, and Willow was back with Oz, to stay. I know, Willow appeared in the episode just long enough to tell Xander she loved him, but in such a way that the 'not in that way' was perfectly clear.

I'm probably being an insensitive male here, but it seems to me that once you let a fish off the hook, its free to snap up the next bait that comes along. (O.K., so I suck a metaphors).

-Shiraz

[> [> [> [> I don't think that anyone except Willow regarded it as a betrayal... -- Helen, 02:50:23 12/17/02 Tue

And even she didn't really seem to feel betrayed - just hurt and a wee bit jealous (sobbing in the bathroom) as she was when she found out about Xander and Cordy's trists. Buffy and Giles were just surprised I think, and Buff a bit concerned that Xander felt this meant he and Faith had made a meaningful connection (which he haoped would make her confide in him about Deputy Mayor Allan), when as Buff full knew, Faith didn't regard the guys she slept with as very important.

So no, you're not an insensitive male, unless I'm an insensitive female (entirely possible).

[> [> [> [> [> Wolfie, LB, shiraz: Good Points..but...uhm I never said it was a betrayal -- shadowkat, 06:36:01 12/17/02 Tue

Went back to look, because it seemed strange that I would mention it that way - since I always saw it more in the way Little Bit and Wolfie did.

In the Zeppo ñ we see Xander flirt with the dark side, by running with the evil dead and having rough sex with the dark slayer.

Granted I can see why you read it that way - since I started the paragraph with "How about foreshadowing".
(Bad me, should have been clearer - sorry). What I meant was it was evidence of the character's desire to flirt with the dark side. While Faith was still considered good at that point, the sex was unlike the sex Xander has with anyone else - it's rough and kinky and not necessarily safe (See Consequences). And it is JUST sex. I don't see it as a betrayal of the other characters as "maybe" a betrayal of his own dignity letting her use him that way, although that's pushing it. No the flirtation with betrayal is the brief flirtation with being part of the evil dead's gang, which wasn't exactly his choice.

As to the "kick his ass" comment in Becoming? Didn't mention it because still on the fence about it being a true betrayal. Although it does work better than the comment about sex - so perhaps will add it before I post the essay to my site or elsewhere.

Thanks for the comments! SK

[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: about "kick his ass" -- Jay, 10:13:43 12/17/02 Tue

I think Xander was being loyal to the Slayer by trying to keep her focus on the battle at hand. And in doing so, he betrayed the girl.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: about "kick his ass" -- Shiraz, 15:19:01 12/17/02 Tue

I thinks its important to note here, that whatever you might think about Xander's lie to Buffy in Becoming part 2, you have to acknowledge that it did not have any negative effect on the outcome of Buffy's confrontation with Angelus.


Here is the series of events in question as I recall them:

1. Buffy meets Xander on the way to the factory. Xander gives the infamous "Kick his ass" line.

2. Angelus prepares to start the ritual, in the room are Angelus, Spike, Drucilla, and one random henchvamp.

3. Buffy bursts through the door and starts fighting the nameless henchvamp. Spike gets out of his chair and starts walloping Angelus with a poker.

4. Drucilla jumps Spike, freeing Angelus. Buffy is still fighting henchvamp.

5. Spike and Drucilla fight. Angelus quickly cuts his hand and starts the ritual to wake Alcatha. *Note, from this point onward, the only thing that will stop the ritual is Angel's blood.*

6. Xander punches his way past henchvamp and goes to rescue Giles. Spike and Drucilla fight.

7. Xander frees Giles. Buffy kills henchvamp and moves to fight Angelus.

8. Angelus and Buffy fight, Angelus seems to have the upper hand.

9. Angelus comes close to killing Buffy. Spike knocks Drucilla unconsious and drags her out.

10. Buffy turns the tide on Angelus outfighting him and nearly killing him, when...

11. Willow completes the soul-restoration spell, turning Angelus into a very confused Angel. Alcatha awakes.

12. After a tearfull reunion, Buffy notices the Vortex which will destroy the world, tells Angel to "close his eyes", stabs him in the chest and throws him into the vortex. Thus she saves the world at the cost of her true love.


My only point here is this,

While Xander may be guilty of lieing to Buffy, he is not ultimately responsible for sending Angel to hell. The only one truely responsible for that is Angelus himself.


-Shiraz

[> [> [> [> [> [> I know you didn't; -- Shiraz, 13:07:07 12/17/02 Tue

Its just something that's been bugging me for some time, and I didn't think it was worth starting a thread over.

I think it came from reading too many angst-ridden fan-fics during the summer rerun season.

Shiraz

[> [> You've done it again! You are so the LAT Goddess! -- Haecceity, 21:51:48 12/16/02 Mon

This is *marvelous*, shadowkat!
Love the way you look so clearly at Xander's *function*. I've been thinking a lot about this analysis POV lately, and your post really illustrates, for me anyway, the insights to be gained in looking at a character in a more form/function manner, rather than just as a persona. Will print this out for more in-depth study and try to get back to you. Sorry I've been so slapdash with the posts lately--in a definite transition phase of life at the moment and pulled in too many directions, but have enjoyed reading your posts immensely, as always.

---Haecceity

[> [> Re: Part IV: Where is Xander Headed? -- Shiraz, 22:37:52 12/16/02 Mon

Great post,

but I think you've missed one other role Xander has played throughout the series, and that is:

(wait for it)


Dum-da-DUMMM

EXPOSITION BOY!!

This character, exemplefied by AC Doyle's Dr. Watson, is the one who, through their own clueless questions, explains the plot to the audience.

(Hyothetical example)

Xander: "So we're facing the dreaded Exian order of the Demons of Whyvia; can't we just hit them over the head with something heavy?"

Willow: "Xaaandeeerrr, if you'd read the 33 (to the 3rd power) volume of the Watcher's diaries, you'd know that Whyvian demons can only be killed by a special mixture of Jagermeister and Goldschlager sprayed over the beast's nether regions!"

Buffy: "Yeah, get with the program!"

Xander: "Really?"

(others nod)

Xander: "and here I thought Oz was just covering for Giles."

But enough of my senseless ramblings. (HonorH, where can I find a nice sturdy demon alter ego cage?)

-Shiraz

P.S. So all this time Hercules was in love with a small hippy town in Southwestern Ohio? (Xenia)

[> [> Fury commenting about Xander (Succubus spring 2002) spoiler speculation -- Rufus, 00:56:34 12/17/02 Tue

Candy: There have been talks of huge Xander story arcs every season and we kinda don't ever get it. We get little ones and here and there. Can you tell us anything about what's up your sleeve for Xander, next year. This was a big Willow Buffy year.

David Fury: Xander's been the one guy who, before the others, was living in the adult world a little bit. He was actually on the road... he was actually more on the road to maturity than the others. More into living as an adult and I imagine we are going to further a lot of that and take that a little bit further. We've talked about some of the things that might occur with him, that might pan out. I'm gonna be vague, just because we're vague on it right now. We're looking for something really great for Nick to do, because he deserves it. It's not from lack of trying, he's great. A lot of it is we sort of have to serve the Buffy arc. Ultimately, even though we are playing out an arc that's about Willow going evil, this whole season has been a Buffy arc. All the shows have really inherently been about Buffy. Finding time to get in an important arc about the other characters is tricky without turning them evil. What are you going to do unless... ya know Xander's evil now. And you don't want to do that, you want to give them something else. But it's tricky. Do you give them powers? Well now their the X-men. It's the Witch and the Slayer... and he stops being the every man character, that makes him wonderful
.

Xanderís break with Buffy may not be as drastic as Willowís, it doesnít have to be in order for the character to grow and Buffy to advance to the next step in her journey. Xander could do something as simple and as well-meaning as Wes does in taking Connor or Cordelia does in sleeping with Connor. He could even do something he truly believes is right ñ like Gabby does in Xena Warrior Princess, by not killing her child. The possibilities are endless. All that is required is that Buffy perceives his actions as a cruel betrayal.

I think Fury is right.....to give any other character time they have to either put them next to Buffy as a romantic interest, or turn them evil so there is enough conflict to translate over many episodes. Do you think that they will turn Xander evil so close on the heels of doing the same thing with Willow?

[> [> [> Re: Fury commenting about Xander (Succubus spring 2002) spoiler speculation -- shadowkat, 06:47:29 12/17/02 Tue

I think Fury is right.....to give any other character time they have to either put them next to Buffy as a romantic interest, or turn them evil so there is enough conflict to translate over many episodes. Do you think that they will turn Xander evil so close on the heels of doing the same thing with Willow?

Well going back to what you just quoted from my essay:

"Xanderís break with Buffy may not be as drastic as Willowís, it doesnít have to be in order for the character to grow and Buffy to advance to the next step in her journey. Xander could do something as simple and as well-meaning as Wes does in taking Connor or Cordelia does in sleeping with Connor. He could even do something he truly believes is right ñ like Gabby does in Xena Warrior Princess, by not killing her child. The possibilities are endless. All that is required is that Buffy perceives his actions as a cruel betrayal."

Which sort of happened in Becoming - if you think about it.
Buffy even calls him on it Selfless. They don't have to turn him evil - that's not required for a break to happen to further both characters. It could realistically be something that at the time appears to be a betrayal a la Giles in Helpless and in retrospect is anything but.

Possibilities?
1. Xander helps Spike escape against Buffy's wishes.
2. Xander tries to stake Spike or tells Buffy he's dead. (which has sort of already been done with Angel, so doubt they'll do that unless it's to metanarrate)
3. Xander helps Dawn against Buffy - similar to Cordy helping Connor against Angel
4. Xander goes against Buffy to help Anya
5. Xander teams up with Giles against Buffy

See? You can do it without pulling a Willow and bring him back in the space of two episodes, further Buffy's story the whole time and keep the focus on Buffy. Not tough at all. And if you read Fury and other writers comments closely - I think they'll do something like that...but will not obviously state it before hand b/c what would be the
run in that?

[> [> [> [> Re: "Selfless" -- Philistine, again with the parentheses, 01:47:37 12/18/02 Wed

Yeah, Buffy killed Angel. We do remember that. But do we remember that she had months to get used to the idea, and only went through with it when her only other choice was to watch the entire world get sucked into Hell? She smacked Xander in the face with the idea of killing Anya, then grabbed her sword and went hunting. (Yes, Xander did deserve to get called on that - certainly he was always right there rooting for Buffy to dust her evil dead ex-boyfriends. But I'm not trying to get at what the characters "deserve" here.) Xander didn't have much chance of facing down Angelus mano a mano - he had to wait for Buffy to force herself to it. Buffy did not have to wait for Xander to make his peace with the idea of killing Anya. So the two situations Buffy tried to equate in her speech to Xander and Willow? Apples and oranges at best; possibly apples and wombats.

[> [> the other show.. Lorne as Damsel -- neaux, 05:35:19 12/17/02 Tue

I hope to see you compare the two Lorne and Xander.. but as you have stated, Xander is or was the most fully rounded fleshed out Damsel.

Lorne could be the infant Damsel if that makes sense. Lorne's running joke of being tied to a chair or getting knocked unconscious.. he does make the perfect damsel. Also on ATS, his character has (in my opinion) yet to be "full-fleshy" like Xander's is. But lets hope they make some more Lorne centric episodes this year.

[> [> [> Lorne/Xander, Lorne/Jonathan? -- shadowkat, 07:02:33 12/17/02 Tue

Hmmm I think you're right - I forgot about Lorne...got burned out on all the other ones.

Lorne is the damsel as demon, which is an ironic twist, because the other characters appear to almost reluctantly rescue him. Which reminds me more of Jonathan than Xander - the other characters reluctantly rescue Jonathan.

It's never - oooh Lorne's in danger - we must rush to the batcave and save him now. It's usually...ooops, poor Lorne, it never occured to us that they would go after you. Why did they by the way? The damsel as comic relief.

In the Pylea arc - poor Lorne gets beheaded and comically restored. While his head is detached - people hit him, spit on him and slap him.

In The House Always Wins - the gang has gone to visit him not rescue him...they never understood his cry for help.

And Angel pushes Lorne to read Cordy - only to end up with an incredibly ill and tortured Lorne.

Reminds me of Jonathan - who also is always in the wrong place at the wrong time.

In Earshot - Buffy didn't mean to save Jonathan from himself, she was attempting to save the other students from Jonathan.

In Superstar - she's not trying to save Jonathan from the demon, so much as the reality from Jonathan's tampering - she ends up saving Jonathan almost as an after-thought.

In Inca Mummy Girl - Xander unwittingly saves Jonathan from Impata's fatal kiss.

Hopefully Lorne will not meet the same fate as Jonathan.

Lorne does however fit other Xander like functions on Angel, he is humor man or comic relief, he does the exposition lead ins and comments on the show as a sort of chorus or outside narrator - see Spin the Bottle as an example - a similar role to Xander in OMWF.

The Xander character appears to be a constant in Whedon's writing. A comical/sidekick that Whedon creates to either comment on the action or bring a note of comic relief to the proceedings. The class clown - if you like.

In Firefly - Wash fits this character, comical, sidekick, and at times damsel. Often lightening the serious mood with a quip or a joke.

In Angel - it's Lorne - who tells everyone to lighten up.

and In Btvs - it's Xander.

[> [> [> [> very right indeed!! Thanks SKat! -- neaux, 07:32:11 12/17/02 Tue


[> [> [> [> Slight question with Superstar... -- KdS, 06:27:27 12/18/02 Wed

I thought Jonathan actually saved Buffy in Superstar. Buffy's fighting the augmentation monster (Jonathan flipping between brave and cowering as each gets the upper hand), the monster seems to be about to throw her into the crevice, and Jonathan finally develops a conscience and pushes the monster in.

Seemed up til S6 to be the point that Jonathan's arc ended heroically - real pity that he backslid under Warren and Andrew's influence (interesting sudden thought - could Andrew have been the guy he was in group therapy with who gave him the spell?).

[> [> Damsel, sidekick and the buttmonkey issue -- KdS, 07:15:50 12/18/02 Wed

Really nice series of posts, as usual SK. My question - can't "damsel" and "sidekick" be wrapped up in "heroine"? Buffy is a genuine female hero - surely we also have a male heroine to balance it out - emotion over reason, nurturing over violence, confortador over conquistador?

I hope this doesn't strike anyone as too PC, but I'm a little worried about the enthusiasm with which everyone's throwing the "buttmonkey" phrase around without considering the unpleasant derivation. That whole speech in BVsD is filled with anti-gay slurs - manbitch, buttmonkey.

Xander does seem to have come to terms with his heroine role, but given his father's sexism he'd be superhuman not to feel his masculinity being in question to some extent - as pointed out in his "moral ambiguity" section on Masq's site he never seems really comfortable with Larry. Not suggesting he's secretly in the closet, or even that it's a major issue in his personality, but it's there.

[> [> [> Regarding the "buttmonkey" issue... -- cjl, 09:49:26 12/18/02 Wed

Well...you're probably right. It is politically incorrect (TM) to throw a phrase like buttmonkey around without sounding insensitive to the gay community. I think I'll scale it back a little.

But, having made my peace, I would like to defend the term when it relates to defining Xander. Xander very often sees himself as someone who gets screwed over by life (in a metaphorical sense), and has little control of his own destiny. The term "buttmonkey" in this instance refers to his sense of helplessness, of worthlessness, and the self-pity-fest that usually accompanies those feelings.

Until he stands up and takes control of his life once and for all (i.e., stops hiding behind Buffy or sneaking out the back door of his weddings), he's always going to be a bit of a doormat, a second banana, and...a buttmonkey.

[> [> [> [> Sorry cjl... -- KdS, 12:55:46 12/18/02 Wed

Please don't take this as a criticism of you persoanlly, but your response got me thinking.

If we see being sexually penetrated as *the* metaphor for powerlessness/victimhood (buttmonkey, screwed, f***ed, f***ed over) isn't it a sign of how screwed up our sexual politics are?

[> [> [> [> [> No problem. And you have a point. -- cjl, who's now going to be self-conscious about those terms, 13:36:33 12/18/02 Wed


[> Sidekicks: Xander, Gabrielle, Iolaus, etc. (Hey Rob! Xena/Herc talk! + boatloads of spoilers) -- cjl, 23:04:57 12/16/02 Mon

Ah, sidekicks. No hero can do without them. The audience loves 'em. And I've never seen a group of sidekicks as multidimensional or just plain fun as the sidekicks in Sam Raimi and Joss Whedon's universes. Xander, Willow, Cordelia, Wesley, Gabrielle, Iolaus and Joxer the Mighty (stop me before I sing the damn song!) often provide more entertainment than the hero on the title because the sidekick can be mortal, fallible and endearingly clumsy, while the hero has to be upright and on top of things at all times. (Uh, that's why they're the heroes.) As you said, we enter the world of the hero through the sidekick; and if we admire the hero, aspire to that ideal, we relate more to the more human individual at his or her side.

Let's take them one universe at a time. Raimi's first....

Joxer: I have to admit it, he's a big favorite. A clown who considers himself a warrior, a buffoon with a heart of gold and a tragic, unrequited love for Gabrielle, you had to root for the poor shlub. He's probably the closest we have here to the traditional sidekick--the Xenaverse incarnation of Falstaff with a touch of Don Quixote. When Gabrielle was given more background and complexity as the series went on, Joxer assumed the role of comic foil, his vanity and utter goofiness dropping him into constant danger, and he maintained his entertaining two-dimensionality until the final season. As with most traditional sidekicks, not a lot of personal background; we got a little of Joxer's family history, but it was mostly done for comedy. The only time Joxer broke free of his role was when the series didn't need him anymore. When Xena and Gabrielle awoke out of their 25-year sleep, he'd married and had a son. Of course, meeting Xena and Gaby again, Joxer was drawn back to his sidekick role. As all Xena fans know to their sorrow, he really should have stayed home with the wife....

Gabrielle: The Xena analogue to Willow, and in some ways, even better developed. As noted above, once Raimi and Xena exec producer Rob Tapert saw that the character had the juice to be a near-equal rather than a sidekick, they dumped the comic foil duties on Joxer and starting filling in the details of Gabrielle's life: her family, her developing skills as a warrior, her doubts about violence as a solution to problems, and her remarkably complex and ambivalent relationship with Xena. Yes, Xena was the star, but there were times when the two women's storylines reflected each other so beautifully that it was impossible to tell who was providing a mirror for who. In fact, the much-despised final episode suggests that Xena's destiny was always to sacrifice herself for her past sins, and the hero's jounrey we were watching was Gabrielle's all along....

Iolaus: Michael Hurst's Iolaus was the perfect sidekick for Kevin Sorbo's Hercules: a bantamweight monster fighter with no special powers who could nevertheless mix it up with the big boys. Hurst brought such swashbuckling verve to Iolaus that the role was amped up considerably in later seasons, leading to major plotlines like a hot romance with a Babylonian pirate/warrior queen (the indescribably yummy Gina Torres), and the character's death--which, paradoxically, led to a fascinating study of the relationship between a hero and his sidekick, especially when a possessed-from-beyond-the-grave Iolaus then turned up as a major supervillain. When Iolaus died, Sorbo's Hercules gave a beautiful speech at his gravesite: Herc didn't love Iolaus because he made him laugh (even though he did), or was a great fighter (even though he was); Herc loved him because even though Iolaus had no powers, he went in and fought the same fight as Hercules, the son of Zeus. "You were my hero," said Herc, and it was a rare instance when the sidekick was shown to be the moral beacon of the series...

Two a.m.?! Crap. Gotta get to sleep. Xander and the Jossverse tomorrow. I promise... (Maybe.)

[> [> Son of Sidekicks: Decision time for Xander (Xena/Hercules, BtVS spoilers) -- cjl, 09:29:21 12/17/02 Tue

Continuing my thoughts on Xena and Hercules' sidekicks (which were interrupted by bedtime), I'd like to note a previously unnoticed (by me, at least) similarity between Iolaus' and Gabrielle's plotlines.

In Shadowkat's essay at the top of the thread, she noted that the best, most highly-developed sidekick characters eventually reach an existential breaking point where they: (a) seriously question their role as the sidekick, and (b) break with the hero, going out on their own. (In bad fantasy literature/TV/movies, this is a superficial break, and is usually resolved in the space of one ep. Think "a spell temporarily turns sidekick evil," sidekick and hero fight, hero wins and sidekick snaps back to normal. "Good to have you back, old friend...")

Gabrielle and Iolaus are pushed to their breaking points by the same outside influence: the extra-dimensional demon known as Dahak--the Raimiverse's version of the First Evil. And just like the First Evil, this incorporeal entity achieves its purposes by manipulating people and taking advantage of their vulnerabilities. With Gabrielle, it's her overpowering faith in the goodness of all people. Dahak impregnates Gabrielle, and the result is Hope, an adorable blond bundle of joy, and a demonic hellspawn of the first order. But Gabrielle could never believe that her child could be irredeemable, and she keeps Hope alive (hmmm), in defiance of Xena's ruthless but practical advice. The results of Gabrielle's misplaced mercy are nightmarish: Hope kills Xena's son--and sets off the famous "Rift" plotline of S3 (which climaxes in the first ten minutes of "The Bitter Suite," where Xena and Gabrielle are literally at each other's throats).

Dahak ensnares Iolaus from another direction. He approaches Iolaus on the border between life and death, and preys on a feature of the sidekick's personality which Xander-fans should be well-acquainted: not enough power. Dahak both flatters and mocks Iolaus, telling him that, as a mortal battling the whims of the Gods, he's got ten times the courage of Hercules--but just hasn't got enough juice to get things done right. He sets up a trial situation where Iolaus could have the power of life and death, and--worn down by Dahak's relentless temptation--Iolaus chooses the power. Dahak has him. He possesses Iolaus' body, rises from his tomb and sets off to kill Hercules and ruuuuuule the world.

I was thinking about the trials of my favorite sidekicks from the Raimi-verse and wondered if sidekicks in the Buffyverse were following a similar path.

Willow definitely follows Iolaus' plotline, although Joss eases us into "sidekick-as-supervillain" far more gradually, allowing us to see the de-evolution of Willow's character over the course of three seasons. On the other hand, Raimi and company don't wimp out and give Iolaus an "out" with a "magic as addiction" patch. Under heavy demonic pressure, Iolaus clearly makes a monumentally bad choice, and when Herc finally enters Iolaus' mind to defeat Dahak, Iolaus asks for forgiveness. Herc wonders why Iolaus even has to ask. They team up one last time, drive the demon out, and Iolaus goes to his Just Reward. Similarly, after her near-genocidal lapse in judgment, Willow comes back to Sunnydale, unsure whether Buffy and her friends would ever forgive her. But the hero is always willing to embrace the sidekick and welcome her back into the fold.

Which brings us to Xander.

In all of the examples above, the sidekick is driven to the breaking point by his or her great weakness or blind spot. Most of the time, it's the sidekick's eternal sense of inadequacy, of not measuring up to the ideal of the hero. (Gabrielle is obviously the exception.) This is where I think Xander is going--although not in the way everybody else thinks.

We've been following Xander for seven years, and he's probably adjusted to the adult world better than any of the other Scoobs, he's got the cool job in construction, he's had the mature, adult relationship--and even though that went down in flames, he's shown with Buffy and Dawn that he's willing and able to take on the role of breadwinner and man of the house. But despite all that, Xander is still Buffy's boy, the flying buttress of support, Mr. Back-Up, the cavalry as Scared Guy with a Rock. He doesn't make any of the big decisions. Professionally, he's a subcontractor, implementing another person's designs; domestically, Buffy is still the head of the house. And when he was faced with the biggest decision of them all--getting married--he bailed out. (Saving Willow and the world in "Grave" doesn't count--there was no "decision" to be made. He went to Kingman's Bluff to die with Willow, not to save her.)

"Selfless" clearly shows me what Joss is going to do Xander this season: he's going to put Xander in Buffy's shoes and he's going to make him squirm like an eel. In "Selfless," Xander rails against the arbitrariness of Buffy's justice, sparing her vampire lovers and putting the woman Xander loves on the hit list the minute she steps out of line. Buffy counters that Xander and Willow have no idea what it means to be the Slayer, the last line of defense in a battle unknown to most of the world. Well, I think Xander is about to find out. Somehow, someway, Joss is going to force Xander into a situation where he has to make the big decision--without help from Buffy, Willow or Giles--and it's going to be a BITCH. A no-winner. Whether or not it involves a formal "split" from Buffy and the rest of the Scoobs is unimportant. He's going to have to make the choice, and it will be his final crucible on the path to adulthood--one that, I'm willing to bet, will leave him permanently scarred.

Great post, s'kat. As you know, I always enjoy the Xander talk.

[> [> [> I like your spec cjl! -- ponygirl, 11:59:39 12/17/02 Tue

Though I'm picturing it as Xander going against Buffy, not in a turning evil sense but a major opposition to her decisions/methods, Selfless on a larger scale. His actions from Grave on have given him a taste of what it's like to save the day, but without any of the gut-wrenching price that Buffy has had to bear.

Nice post, cjl! And you too, SK!

[> [> [> [> Supporting my opinion: "The Enemy Within" and "The Replacement" (Trek and BtVS S5 spoilers) -- cjl, 14:25:14 12/17/02 Tue

If you need further proof that Xander's big plotline in S7 will be the Big Decision, go back to S5 and his turning point episode, "The Replacement." In this episode, Xander is accidentally split in two, resulting in ButtMonkey!Xander and Suave!Xander. Suave!Xander is smooth, self-assured and makes decisions with confidence--which convinces BM!Xander that he's evil, evil, evil. But we learn that Suave!Xander isn't evil at all. In fact, you can look at Suave!Xander as the eventual result of Xander's maturation process and BM!Xander's panic attack as the realization of his eventual extinction. (I've covered this territory in other threads; sorry about the repetition.)

Another clue about S7 comes at the end of "The Replacement," when the two Xanders (now disturbingly similar) make the same Star Trek joke: "You'll have to kill us both, Spock!" This directly refers to the climax of a ST:TOS episode, "Whom Gods Destroy," when Spock is confronted with two Kirks--the real James T. and a chameleonic madman who wants to shanghai the Enterprise. The real Kirk says the line so Spock would know that the safety of the Enterprise is his highest priority. Spock phaser-blasts the impostor and the episode ends swimmingly.

But it also indirectly refers to another ST:TOS episode, "The Enemy Within," where Kirk is split in two just like Xander, both halves equally real. In this episode, Sulu and a survey team are trapped on a frozen wasteland of a planet, and the transporter is out. Kirk has to make a decision whether to beam them up via a possibly defective transporter or leave them to die. (No explanation as to how all the Enterprise's shuttlecraft disappeared. Sorry. Nitpicking.) The "good" Kirk, deprived of his "negative" or "primal" half, slowly loses the confidence to make decisions, and he vacillates pitifully for most of the episode. Only when the two halves reunite, does he have the force of will to order Sulu and the rest transported up...

The parallel is not exact. As I said, Suave!Xander isn't the same thing as Dark!Kirk--we had that in Hyena!Xander. But if BM!Xander is the goodhearted-but-weak part of Xander, and Suave!Xander is the half in touch with his manly essence, the only phase of Xander's story that remains unfinished is for Suave!Xander to break through. To stop hiding behind his Buffy and take the reins of his own life, no matter what the cost.

And, knowing Joss, there will be an enormous cost.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: Supporting my opinion: "The Enemy Within" and "The Replacement" (Trek and BtVS S5 spoilers) -- shadowkat, 15:55:24 12/17/02 Tue

If this were Star Trek and not Btvs? I'd have hopes for a less tragic dark ending. But overall? I generally agree - I think it has to be a BIG decision for him. And if you look at the list in my foreshadowing and even at the old Xander-centric episodes, you'll note it's always a decision with Xander.

Which is why I'm not so sure of the whole "sleeper" idea.
Unless they use it as a metaphor for Xander breaking out his routine. But if you think about it isn't Xander sort of sleep-walking now? Going to work. Helping Buffy. Going Home.
Isn't that what he's talking about to Andrew?

No...I think the big flip/break/whatever you want to call it for Xander will be a decision that he makes which may be counter to the group.

Here's a list of past Xander decisions and their effects:
1. Harvest - Xander makes the decision to join buffy and save Jesse against Buffy and everyone else's wishes.
2. The Pack - Xander makes the decision to go in alone and save the boy from the other kids and gets possessed as a result.
3. Prophecy Girl - Xander decides to go to Angel to help Buffy and saves Buffy's life
4. Go Fish - Xander decides to join the swim team on his own
5. Bewitched Bothered and Bewildered - Xander decides to do a love spell and convinces Amy
6. Becoming PArt II - Xander goes against Willow and tells Buffy to kick his ass and decides to help Buffy save Giles with just a rock, she gives him a stake
7. The Zeppo - Xander decides to stand up for himself and save the school from exploding and not getting Buffy to save him this time.

That's a partial list. Xander unlike Willow has no supernatural powers - his mistakes and great acts are often from a decision he makes against the advice of others.
I predict that his decision will be counter to what everyone else wants, have a price, seem bad at first and be better in long run. Or seem great at the time but have a horrible price attached and be bad in the long run. Knowing ME probably the latter. He won't turn evil - he'll just make a decision that may not work out for the best and cause him to be on the outs with Buffy? Not unlike Gunn's decision in Supersymmetry when he broke Seidel's neck. Actually I see Xander's decision being more like Gunn's then necessarily like Wes or Cordy's. Since in many ways Xander's character is more parallel to Gunn's - normal human, some muscel, smart but not watcher smart.

[> [> [> [> [> [> The Unbearable Lightness of Xander -- cjl, 11:15:23 12/18/02 Wed

Shadowkat writes:

"Here's a list of past Xander decisions and their effects:

1. Harvest - Xander makes the decision to join buffy and save Jesse against Buffy and everyone else's wishes.

2. The Pack - Xander makes the decision to go in alone and save the boy from the other kids and gets possessed as a result.

3. Prophecy Girl - Xander decides to go to Angel to help Buffy and saves Buffy's life.

4. Go Fish - Xander decides to join the swim team on his own.

5. Bewitched, Bothered, and Bewildered - Xander convinces Amy to do a love spell.

6. Becoming II - Xander goes against Willow and tells Buffy to kick his ass and decides to help Buffy save Giles with just a rock, she gives him a stake.

7. The Zeppo - Xander decides to stand up for himself and save the school from exploding and not getting Buffy to save him this time."

In all of these instances, the decision is a relatively easy one for Xander. He doesn't consider the possibility of consequences, epsecially negative consequences, and there is no "burden" of decision, the way there is for Buffy (e.g., the price of balancing love and duty).

In the Harvest, PG, Go Fish, the Pack and the Zeppo, his first impulse is to help his friends and fight for survival. This is always an important choice (and...yay Xander!)--but it's nothing like the choices Buffy is forced to make during the series. (The entire student body of Sunnydale High makes the same choice in Graduation Day, and we're not giving them high fives, either.)

In Becoming and BB&B, he is partly (or entirely) blinded by self-righteous anger at Angel and Cordy, respectively, and doesn't consider the consequences of his actions. Eventually, both decisions come back to bite him on the ass (although it takes a looooooooong time for the first one!), but that doesn't eliminate the essential "lightness" of his decision at the time it is made.

The one time Xander has a major decision on his hands, where he can see the possible consequences and has to shoulder the responsibility for those consequences--he bails. Sneaks out the back door in his tux, and wanders off into the rain. He would rather subject Anya (and for that matter, himself) to loneliness and heartbreak than make a bad choice and ruin their lives. I can understand cold feet--but this is the reason why Xander is still merely Buffy's sidekick, rather than the hero of his own life.

I say he will have to make a huge, gut-wrenching decision near the end of S7. A decision of consequence. A decision with WEIGHT. No more hiding behind his Buffy, and no more bailing out.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Great post. Agree. -- Sophist, 12:47:53 12/18/02 Wed

In other words, he'll have to grow up. And I further agree that he'll pay a big price along the way.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Xander's inability to make the hard choice, part 2 (Firefly spoilers) -- cjl, 06:44:58 12/19/02 Thu

In Triangle, Olaf offers Xander a "Sophie's Choice" between Willow and Anya: I can kill the witch or the demon--your call. Xander, quite rightly, calls Olaf's "generous" offer to spare one of the girls "insane troll logic" and refuses to go along, refuses to make the hard choice.

As a Xander fan, my first instinct is to say--come on. In that situation, who WOULDN'T call the rules of the game into question and refuse to make the choice? Would anybody in the Jossverse actually choose one beloved over another?

And then, lo and behold, we get the Firefly episode "War Stories," where Zoe (the worship-worthy Gina Torres) is asked to choose between her husband and her captain/best friend. She chooses her husband. In less than an eyeblink. Of course, she knows she's going to come back with guns blazing to get the captain (or, as they say, die trying); but she also knows very well that the madman (mwhahahahaha) torturing Mal and Wash could easily kill the captain before she gets back. The choice is very real. She makes it without hesitation.

This makes me think about Xander's non-choice in a different light. I think he was absolutely right in refusing to play Olaf's little game. But does it also illuminate a key aspect of his character? The inability to make the hard choice?

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Personal spec... (unspoiled re the future, spoilers for broadcast S7 eps) -- KdS, 10:37:02 12/19/02 Thu

OK, this is getting really dark (as my speculation usually tends to be), but I have a feeling that Xander's karmic atonement for the "kick his ass" thing, and lack of past decision making, will be more in the line of "kick my ass".

There's a great deal of suspicion floating around about Xander's connection to events in the past S7 episodes (evil!Xander, sleeper!Xander, sleeper-for-Powers-of-Good!Xander) and I wonder if Xander will end up lying to Buffy in a near-reverse of Becoming.

My speculation: Xander is suborned to the Dark Side by brainwashing/possession, in the manner of Ben knows that it might happen again at any time, and pretends to Buffy or other Scoobies that he betrayed her willingly or that he's irredeemably possessed/corrupted, so that they won't have any trouble killing him.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> I don't think they're going to go that way. (Spoilers and personal spec) -- cjl, 11:02:16 12/19/02 Thu

I expect the main four Scoobs--Buffy, Willow, Xander and Giles--to come out of this season alive. (I think Spike and Dawn are going to make it, too, but...focus!) The series has been about Buffy's journey from childhood to maturity, and all these characters have been an integral part of her journey, as well as individuals with journeys of their own. We want to see--we NEED to see--Buffy confronting the darkness at the core of Slayerdom and coming through it; Willow finally integrating the geek and the dark witch; Giles reconciling his duty and his unrequited passion for life; and Xander taking the reins of his own life and making the final leap to adulthood. Anything else, and I think Joss would be cheating himself. He ain't gonna do it.

As for Xander--martyrdom? Probably not. I think you're on the right track, though. With "Selfless," Joss is broadcasting that Xander is going to get a "Becoming"-level comeuppance, but I don't think he's going to be in Angel's shoes--he'll be in Buffy's. He's going to be faced with Buffy's choice between doing your duty and killing (or letting go) of something he truly loves. There are a number of options of what that "something" could be:

1) Anya
2) Buffy's friendship and Dawn's love
3) Willow's friendship and love

Before last season, I would have bet money on Anya, but they're exes now, and it wouldn't be gut-wrenching enough. Joss could spend the next ten episodes putting 'em back together just to rip out our viscera...but I dunno. The second could entail Xander betraying the Scoobs for whatever oblique reason, and number three--would Joss dare put Willow together with Kennedy and then make Xander as the instrument of her death?

So many possibilities for pain, so little time.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re your last suggestion... -- KdS, 11:31:53 12/19/02 Thu

No, 'cos then ME's offices would get firebombed by the Lesbian Avengers.

[> [> [> [> [> [> We may not have as long to wait for major plot progress as I thought (Spoiler 7.14) -- cjl, 14:01:19 12/18/02 Wed

Rumors on various spoiler sites that 7.14 will be a Xander-centric ep written by Jane Espenson ("The Replacement")! Yes, I'm excited. (Can you tell?)

[> [> Thanks for directing me to this post! -- Rob, 10:48:04 12/17/02 Tue

"In fact, the much-despised final episode suggests that Xena's destiny was always to sacrifice herself for her past sins, and the hero's jounrey we were watching was Gabrielle's all along."

That is actually the major theme that I loved in the last episode, and is what saves it, IMO. The episode reinforced over and over that X & G were complete equals, an evolution which took an incredibly long time. "Xena" is not given enough credit as a work of art, IMO. The character development of Gabrielle was slow-building over the course of six years, and it was admirably subtle and realistic. Watch any random episode from each season, and you'll find the growth in her character to be quite remarkable. The last year especially reinforced how much Gabby has changed. In a particularly symbolic episode, "Legacy," the former bard accidentally kills an innocent man; he was actually a messenger and the weapon she thought he was aiming at Xena was actually a scroll, with a proclamation of peace. How's that for irony? In "To Helicon and Back," Gabrielle herself leads an army of Amazons, drawing from what she has learned from Xena over the years and her own philosophy. In fact, Gabrielle's quest for spiritual growth and development and her constant questioning of her place in the world and her position as a warrior is just as rife full of philosophical questions as any number of "Buffy" episodes. Now, that is not to say that, on the whole, it was a better show than "Buffy." The mythology was far too inconsistent, and the conflicting styles--one week campy, next week high, operatic drama--did not gel as well as the comedy and horror do on "Buffy." That's just a few of the problems. But for what it was, a syndicated action series called "Xena: Warrior Princess," it was pretty darn brilliant.

I loved in the last episode that the idea that this whole series was really about Gabrielle's journey makes perfect sense. The series began and ended with Xena laying down her sword. From the start, Xena was ready to die. She was at her wit's end, not thinking she'd ever be able to atone for all the evil she had done. Gabrielle stopped her and helped her stay on her path and continue to seek redemption. But although Gabrielle helped her do this, the change in Xena really began in the "Hercules" episodes where she was introduced. Xena does not have much of a fundamental change throughout the course of the series; Gabrielle does. Gabrielle's metamorphosis, when one watches the series over from start to finish, is what guides and dictates the course of the story. In an major epic, it is the main protagonist that one assumes will change the most in the course of the story. By this definition, it is definitely Gabrielle, who goes from wide-eyed, peaceful, peasant bard to well-seasoned warrior for good in the space of a six year period.

Rob

P.S. I didn't have a major problem with the idea of Xena dying in the last episode, by the way. My problem was in the execution (pardon the pun).

[> Outstanding job, SK!!! -- Sophist, 09:43:11 12/17/02 Tue

I have just 3 comments.

I think you should include the Becoming betrayal. Buffy's reference to it in Selfless pretty much makes it necessary. Note that the betrayal is on at least 2 levels: Buffy's point about her friends urging her to kill her lover; and LB's point that Xander didn't trust Buffy to use the information.

One point for the future is that the sidekick's actions generally harm the hero in some terrible way. In Xena, Gabby's refusal to kill her daughter leads to the death of Xena's son. My gut (just spec, no spoilers) tells me that Xander's actions this season will cause someone's death.

Finally, while I think Xander fits the sidekick role perfectly, I'm not so sure about the "damsel" part. Yes, the comparison is there. OTOH, I don't see Xander as the one constantly being rescued. It's like Jimmy Olsen and Lois Lane -- Lois gets rescued, Jimmy either helps or gets in the way. On BtVS, Willow gets rescued (in fact, JW makes this point on the S2 DVDs), Xander "helps".

[> [> Thanks for your comments. Generally agree. -- shadowkat, 11:55:27 12/17/02 Tue

After thinking about it for a while - I decided you were right about the betrayal in Becoming.

Here's the test I applied to see if it really worked as foreshadowing or a betrayal:

1. Were there negative reprecussions? Did Xander's actions have a negative affect on the characters or events?

Yes - Xander's actions as we finally learn in Selfless, assuming we didn't pick up on it before then, caused Buffy to believe that X and Willow were against her. That they both wanted her to kill the man she loved - not Angelus, but Angel. Why would she believe that? Angel got his soul back at the last minute. Willow knew she was trying the spell again - even told Buffy as much after the fact - but according to Xander wanted Buffy to kick Angel's ass. Instead of giving Buffy reassurance - that if she failed, Willow might be able to turn the tide, Xander made Buffy feel it was entirely up to her. While at the time this act could be viewed as positive - Buffy didn't hold back, last time they tried the spell she did... the act had negative consequences. Buffy left after she killed Angel - she believed that everyone was against her and she couldn't confide in them. Prior to Xander's comment, Buffy believed she still had Willow on her side. When Buffy returns - the comment causes Buffy not to confide in Willow and to hide Angel from her friends. If Xander had given Buffy the message Willow intended - Buffy may not have left town, may have confided in Willow earlier and the events of Revealations may not have occurred.

2. Would this act be perceived by Buffy, Willow or Giles as a betrayal? Would they at some point have to work to forgive him for it?

We learn in Selfless - that Buffy considers this a betrayal.
As does Willow, who learns too late what Xander did. Xander, perhaps unintentionally, damaged Willow and Buffy's friendship.

3. What was Xander's motivation? Was it self-serving? (Doesn't matter as much as the first two.)

Yes - Xander hated Angel and wanted Buffy to kill him. Whedon goes out of his way to show this in Becoming. At the end of Becoming Part II - Xander hopes that Buffy killed Angel, while Willow hopes that Angel got his soul back and Buffy didn't have to and they are together.

So yep - it works as a betrayal. I changed my essay slightly to reflect that.

Regarding the damsel? I think Xander perceives himself more as a damsel than anyone else does. Sort of like Lorne in that fashion. This comes across in many of the Xander centric episodes - where Xander fears that he is always the one in danger. The Replacement shows this fear as does the Zeppo. In reality - Xander is more like Joxer in Xena and Jimmy Olsen in Superman. The sidekick who provides comic relief while getting in the way.

Willow and Jonathan are actually better dopplegangers for each other. Willow - the character everyone wants to save.
Jonathan the character they accidentally save.

As an aside - the most interesting damsel on Ats and Btvs is the fatal - Darla, Angel and Spike. A holdover from noir genres. Saving the fatal or using the fatal as a damsel is far more suspensful because the hero must first decide if they should rescue/save the fatal, 2) can they save them
3) will they save them and finally 4) what are the consequences if they do. Saving Angel in What's My Line had far worse consequences than saving Jonathan or Willow or even Xander ever did. Also the hero must often fight her friends and sidekicks to save the fatal, which makes the whole enterprise much harder.

So for narrative purposes? It's probably more interesting to put Spike(Season 7) or Angel(Season 3) or Darla(Ats Season 2 and 3) in jeopardy then it is to put Dawn or Xander or Willow. Because you don't know if the hero will attempt to save them or if the hero should.

Hopefully this will post. Fifth Attempt! ugh! anyone else having troubles with voy today? SK

[> [> [> shadowkat, regarding Buffy and Willow's friendship... -- Ixchel, 16:32:03 12/17/02 Tue

(Note: I wasn't sure exactly where to post this, because it refers to some of your above responses as well.)

I'm not sure I agree about the damage caused by Xander's Becoming lie.

Regarding any feelings Buffy had about Willow at the end of Becoming 2:
Though Buffy could, possibly, have felt that Willow was cruel to restore Angel's soul, it seems unlikely that Buffy would've perceived it as deliberate cruelty. It would be a very strange thing for Willow to do. Also, Willow had been very pro-Angel up until that moment. Her words and body language during the library confrontation support Buffy and resouling Angel without question.

Regarding Buffy's interactions with Willow in S3:
Buffy seems on the verge of telling Willow about Angel's return several times, IIRC. And after Revelations, Willow is demonstrably pro-Angel once again. And their friendship seems very strong in The Prom, when Buffy cries about Angel.

Not that any of the above means that what Xander did didn't cause harm. Willow trusted Xander to convey important information to Buffy and Buffy trusted completely Xander's words, that he chose to lie means something.

Excellent post BTW.

Ixchel

[> [> [> [> Re: don't forget Choices... -- Jay, 19:18:35 12/17/02 Tue

you you, when Willow decides to go to UC Sunnydale? Willow and Buffy were rolling around on the grass at SHS celebrating that they were going to be together for another four years, fighting whatever evil may come.

A rant about plot-mandated stupidity ***SPOILERS*** -- Corwin of Amber, 18:15:42 12/17/02 Tue

Ok, in an otherwise good episode, the ending where the slayer-in-waiting runs off to be slaughtered REALLY ANNOYED ME. It seems like the writers got to the third act and just didn't know how to finish, so they have a random character contract terminal brain freeze. That's normally Xander's role (think OMWF) so I suppose I can be thankful it wasn't him running like a girl at the writers whim. That particular slayer-in-waiting had been portrayed as the calm, competant one, so whats the logic in having her run off? GRRR!!! ARRGGH!

[> One Possible Explanation: -- Finn Mac Cool, 19:13:03 12/17/02 Tue

The First Evil appeared to her as the Uber-Vamp, or possibly even a homicidal Buffy (so that she'd run even faster when Buffy gave chase). Frighten one of the potential Slayers out of the house so that your minion can kill her. Would make sense. Not sure if that's what the writers had in mind, and, even if it was, how would they show it retroactively?

[> [> another possibility -- anom, 21:44:55 12/17/02 Tue

Giles is the First. He got Annabelle alone & told her something that led her to run out of the house. Plus she's really stupid.

[> [> Re: One Possible Explanation: -- Deb, 07:15:20 12/18/02 Wed

All I can think of is that she is the one who had the books and files that Giles stole, so possibly she was familiar with them, and she is the one who took notes, and she is the one that did research. Maybe she read something she couldn't handle?? Maybe she read her horrorscope and decided it was a good day to die?? Maybe she was running out for food?? Maybe she wanted to be the First in form?

[> [> [> "Spike and Dru: Pretty Maids All in a Row" tie in... (Spoilers natch) -- Briar Rose (way past "fan"), 17:03:24 12/18/02 Wed

I saw it in a completely different way having read the above mentioned book and noticing a sort of theme that *I* believe was borrowed from it.

In the book - it is Spike and Dru killing SITs and planning to destory the CoW in quest of a certain littel bauble that will make Dru able to see herself in a mirror. They make a deal to take out all the Slayers and SITS, and the Watchers (which the Deamon they contract with blows the Council Building to H e llo! But doesn't kill all the Watchers or SITs staying there.)

I believe that Annabelle wasn't running away. As in the book, in this scene I see it as there is one SIT that believes she has a better handle on what to do about the 'Big Bad" than everyone else does. So she runs with that look of defiance and intent on her face.... Right into the hands of the 'Big Bad' (In this case Grey Vamp) that kills her because she isn't as all knowing as she assumes herself to be. This is basically what happened in the book.

I would have liked to have seen some more of this scene, an explaination would have been very nice... But I didn't notice Annabelle looking too fearful or desperate in the beginning of her run. She looked determined. And determination could be about a lot of different things. Anything from determined to get away to determined to fix this before everyone dies, since Buffy hadn't come into her "We are declaring war..." stance at that point.

[> Re: A rant about plot-mandated stupidity ***SPOILERS*** -- Juliet, 19:13:14 12/17/02 Tue

Maybe she saw the First, and it told her to run, or chased after her.

I think the scene was mainly to set up the fact that a) ubervamp was really strong and b) it's working for the first in the same way the bringers are...notice how it mirrors the 1st scene in lessons?

[> The calm, competent one -- parakeet, 20:51:57 12/17/02 Tue

Yes, she appeared to be such. I thought that she was laying it on a bit thick, though. Over-compensating? Repressed her fear, reached a breaking point and freaked out, maybe? This observation might be annoying to some, but...Realism does require a degree of irrationality, at least in narrative (theoretically, one could account for all the variables, and all actions would make sense). I'm talking out of both sides of my mouth, so I'll just stick with: I think she was wound too tight and snapped.
The other responses to this post are probably more useful as an unseen appearance by the First would satisfy a need for empirical logic.
Oh, well, I'm really just trying to avoid thinking about Giles not touching things.

[> [> I vote for your answer....it's always the quiet ones...;) -- Rufus, 04:10:52 12/18/02 Wed

Her outward confidence was only a front for the fear she must have felt. It's one thing to be a potential.....another thing to be in a War Room.

[> [> [> Likewise here. -- OnM, 12:31:08 12/18/02 Wed

In fact, as soon as I saw her running, I thought "Uh-oh-- the one who's busy telling everyone else to control themselves just completely freaked out".


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