May 2002
posts
Why is
everyone surprised about the usage of a gun --
mutantmagnet, 17:00:08 05/08/02 Wed
In the first season Darla whipped out a pair of handguns and
in season two one of the assassins used a gun.
For Warren to use a gun isn't cheesy in the slightest bit
because he lacks mystical power and support from the rest of
the trio. His options to keep on fighting are seriously
limited.
Buffy has handled characters with guns before and the only
difference between her getting shot in SR and not the other
episodes was that Buffy was on full alert. This episode she
was already too worn out with everything that has happened
and in effect was a little slow on the uptake.
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Re: Why is everyone surprised about the usage of a
gun -- maddog, 17:40:01 05/08/02 Wed
It's still rare though. The majority of the fighting over
the years has been hand to hand, or magical.
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Re: Why is everyone surprised about the usage of a
gun -- mutantmagnet, 20:19:46 05/08/02 Wed
It's not as rare as you make it out to be. This show has had
a lot of instances where modern philosophies, technics and
technology have clashed or meshed with one another.
In my above post I have stated how only villians used modern
things to fight the forces of good but the opposite holds
true. Willo and Miss Calender used the internet to gain
vital information or acquire useful items (like the Urn of
Osiris used to resurrect Buffy). When a force of evil was
way too tough to fight by archaic means Buffy and the gang
has used Buffybot, a rocket launcher and even flame throwers
to combat evil. It is uncommon for modern weapons and
devices to be used for your benefit but it isn't rare.
The way I see it, from how the show explains things, the
truly evil demons are elitists who scoff at anyone who
delves too much in modernity. Adam made this point very well
in how the deomns are traditionalists and when he executes
his Trojan horse maneuver, do the monster pick up the guns
after they kill a soldier? Nope. The still charge head first
into battle and still effectively kill trained soldiers.
The only villians to really dabble in technology are all
human (with Moluch being the only exception since he had no
choice in the matter). The fact that vampires are part human
is probably why the other demons supposedly hate them. Sure
they have demon essences but they are corrupted by human
innovations.
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I agree totally with Mutantmagnet -- OtherEric,
18:08:22 05/08/02 Wed
Using a gun against the slayer and her allies is the smart
move. If he had been thinking ahead, and not wanted to get
his hands so dirty, he would have brought a gun to the
amusement park and used that, the orbs, and his jet pack,
and he would have destroyed Buffy right then and there.
Probably the main reason that guns don't show up so much is
that anyone competent with one that had a reason to take out
the slayer would have killed her years ago and then we
wouldn't have a show.
Also, Warren now has the record, I would say. Except for
the master, no one has ever wounded Buffy this badly, and he
took out one of her allies with a stray, lucky shot. His
other mistake (again, he has to goof this, or no more show)
was not finishing them off. Two more minutes, and at the
least Buffy and Xander are dead. He probably could have
gotten Willow too. Witch or not, powerful or not, without
preparation and components and also being rusty, I give him
better than 50/50 odds to take her out had he decided to
check and clear the house.
For a half-ass, unplanned attack, he did better than any
other villain ever has on the show, without actually killing
Buffy. That again is probably why guns are kept off the
show. Even a pack of new vamps all packing would totally
waste Buffy. An enterprising solo vamp with a sniper rifle
who staked out the cememetary (staked...hehehehe)could have
gotten her from a distance years ago also. A true superhero
(like comic book style) with either a secret identity (at
least as far as the badguys go) or who is always on total
alert if they lack bullet resistance (like a Batman or
Spidey what with his danger sense)would not be so vulnerable
to any too bit packing heat (or a pro packing heat for that
matter), but Buffy is neither of those things, so
introducing guns on a regular basis would make her continued
survivability much less realistic.
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Nope -- Hauptman, 18:19:52 05/08/02 Wed
"Two more minutes, and at the least Buffy and Xander are
dead. He probably could have gotten Willow too."
Naw! Maybe if he had been more focused he could have killed
Buffy and Xander, but if he had walked into the bedroom, I
think the second floor of the house would have exploded.
Willow would have probably killed Dawn, too, by accident, if
not half of Sunnydale.
Personally, I have always loved the "Transformation as your
love lies dying" scenes, (Marvel comics was famous for them)
and I am excited to see what happens next, but I feel so
sorry for Willow. I know she is just a made up character,
but it's a made up character I love. I'm hoping for happy
ending smaltz.
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You're wrong. Must not have played enough D&D like the
trio + me -- OtherEric, 18:56:05 05/08/02 Wed
He would have had a great backstab opportunity with the +4
bonus and everything since she was having a bit of an
emotional moment. Magic doesn't help a damn bit if someone
with a gun (or crossbow pistol with Drow sleep poison for
that matter) gets the drop on you.
Her magic makes her tough, but not all powerful. Normally
she needs components and preparation to do the big stuff.
In this instance she'd have neither.
Play some more games and you'll develop a better tactical
sense.
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Re: You're wrong. Must not have played enough D&D like
the trio + me -- Cactus Watcher, 20:59:15 05/08/02
Wed
Perhaps the D&D games you've played were with a 'chummy' DM.
Remember what happened when Adam opened up with his arsenal
on Buffy+Giles+Xander+Willow. That was Willow's magic.
Willow's magic two years ago. Since then she stood toe-to-
toe with a god. Your boy has blundered into the lair of an
enraged and alert end-of-level monster. Alone. Time to roll
a new character. ;o)
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You're wrong too. I already considered what happened
to adam -- OtherEric, 06:06:33 05/09/02 Thu
That took preparation. This time, she doesn't have
that.
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There is a difference between a plan and a good one
-- CW, 09:29:45 05/09/02 Thu
You assume too much about how quickly, and quietly Warren
can find Willow in the house, and you also assume too little
about how much Willow has been growing in her magic. Any
fair DM would tell you the same thing. Nice try. But, the
battle ends with Warren in another dimension or splattered
irreversably all over the walls. (Next episode he will
probably wish he'd been that lucky!) Hence, roll for a new
character. If you're ready for a different approach to the
same argument read DEN's post below.
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Why I laughed my head off for the last five minutes of
the May 7th episode -- Frank Brubaker, 19:58:56
05/08/02 Wed
I've only been watching Buffy regularly for about a year or
so, but one of the first things I thought of when I saw the
show was "why does everybody insist on meele/hand-to-hand
combat? Why doesn't somebody just shoot her?" When Warren
and his cohort was introduced I remember remarking "These
lads seem smart. Maybe one of them will finally decide that
all Buffy needs is a few bullets put into her to put her
down." (This was before I saw the Darla and assassian
episode mutantmagnet mentioned). So when Warren showed up
at the end and started firing, I busted out laughing, even
as I thought "you know, a two-handed firing stance would so
increase his accuracy."
My laughter got even more uncontrollable after Tara got
shot. Why, you might ask? Because earlier in the episode
she and Willow were in bed, and one of them (Tara, I
believe) made a comment to the effect that maybe they should
get out of bed and help search for the nerds, to which the
other replied in the negative. When that scene was on I
thought "That's right, choose sex over doing the right
thing. If this was a horror movie that would set it up for
one of you to be killed by the monster." Boy, was I
right!
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Re: Why is everyone surprised about the usage of a
gun -- gds, 21:09:46 05/08/02 Wed
95% (accurcacy alert - this is not an objectively calculated
statistic) of the time the Scooby's are fighting demons, not
humans. It has been explicitly stated on several occasions
that demons rarely use weapons and are incompetant with
using technology. Adam was the only true exception I can
recall (though Spike seems to have some taste for
technology). Toth did use a non-primitive wapon, but it was
magic rather than technology. The Master in the alternate
universe did use factory technology, but he didn't use use
technological weapons either. With demons it is almost
always magic or fist and fang (with some the low tech tools
like club, knife and sword). There are a few motorized
demons. A few seem to use computers. The Scooby's aren't
really used to the deadly battle with humans, so they
weren't prepared. In Warren's case there was another
suprise - that he would use something as crude and low tech
as a regular handgun. This from a guy who builds cyborgs,
freeze rays and rocket packs. It was beneath him.
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Re: Why is everyone surprised about the usage of a
gun -- DEN, 07:35:55 05/09/02 Thu
As for Warren's behavior, he's not making a commando strike,
but acting out of near-tears frustration. He had no plan for
using the gun, and no skill at it (a piece like that has a
sharp recoil if you're not looking for it, and easily kicks
off target.) He didn't know who--if anyone--was in the
house. And it's surprising how difficult it can be actually
to use a gun at close range. German officers in the anti-
Nazi movement, front-line veterans, were squeamish about
just walking up behind Hitler at lunch and blowing out his
brains. That Warren flinches and starts shooting up the area
is perfectly in character. I hope Willow keeps the gutless
little bastard alive and screaming for a week!
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BtVS, Guns and Columbine revisited -- cjl,
07:56:40 05/09/02 Thu
Most vamps and demons really aren't into the finer details
of weaponry.
DEMON: What is that? A Glock?
VAMP: No. What are you, an idiot? It's a .357 Mag with
all the attachments.
DEMON: Where'd you get it?
VAMP: You know Nicodemus?
DEMON: The saliva demon.
VAMP: Yeah. He owns a shop down on Highway 52. Free ammo
with $100 purchase.
DEMON: Cool.
VAMP: Seven day waiting period is a bitch, though...
Most vamps, when they emerge for the grave, are all charged
up with bloodlust, primal instinct, and raw power. (Grrrrr.)
"Wow, I'm so powerful and strong--and hungry. Where can I
get a bite to eat?" Strategy and firearms rarely enter into
their thinking.
Darla, of course, is an exception. She's been around for
400 years, she's the Master right-hand woman, she's smart
and practical. (And besides, the John Woo-style shoot-out
in "Angel" was just frickin' COOL.) Angelus could have used
guns, but that's just not the guy's style. (He loves doing
the mental torture thing.) Spike? Well, he did hire
assassins during Season 2, but then he got into "dancing"
with the Slayer, and anything as tactically impersonal as a
gun went out the window.
So when it comes down to it, it seems logical that our human
supervillain, Warren the nerd, would break out the
firepower. After touching briefly on Columbine with
"Earshot," BtVS has returned to the theme with a vengeance.
Warren is the full-blown sociopath everyone thought Jonathan
was when he went up to the tower. Warren is getting revenge
on the community for his years of social isolation and
torment--and from his point of view, Buffy is the center of
that community.
Take away his jet packs, the magic orbs, the cerebral
dampener, and the rest of his gimmicks, and he strikes out
the way any sociopath would.
Unfortunately, he accidentally kills Tara.
He's toast.
And What About
Buffy's Feelings -- jbb, 20:40:46 05/08/02 Wed
I apologize. I have probably comminted an unpardonable sin
by posting this here and to the newsgroup. But I feel so
strongly about this... Here is the original post:
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SPIKE's feelings, SPIKE's guilt. Did SPIKE try or not try to
rape her.
Is it possible for SPIKE to be redeemed now. Why does Buffy
treat SPIKE
so badly.
Meanwhile, a woman who has saved the world countless times
lies shot and
bleeding in her own back yard, but nary a word about that on
the various
groups and boards.
A pair or questions to the redemptionists and apologists of
Spike. If you
are old enough to have children, would you approve of your
daughter
dating Spike? For those who are younger, is Spike what you
look for in a
man? Please respond.
Will somebody please explain to me why Spike can be
perceived as a good
mate/match for Buffy. How can this be good for her, and the
world?
OK, that was a rant of sorts. But I'm open to discussion and
debate.
Thanks for listening,
-jbb
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Re: And What About Buffy's Feelings (Spoilers for above
through SE) -- jbb, 20:50:44 05/08/02 Wed
Spoilers for above through SE (sorry)
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Seeing Ed? -- Vickie, 22:15:19 05/08/02 Wed
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Send him over... -- LeeAnn, 05:00:28 05/09/02
Thu
A pair or questions to the redemptionists and apologists
of Spike. If you are old enough to have children, would you
approve of your daughter dating Spike? For those who are
younger, is Spike what you look for in a man? Please
respond
When I have children I don't plan on letting them EVER
date.
And you can send James Marsters over to my house any day.
Hell, you can send Spike as long as he loves me as much as
he loves Buffy.
You know how some people thought the Bronze scene was a
dream. That's how I veiw the rape scene. It was just Marti's
nightmare. It didn't really happen.
I'm not letting that bitch throw 5 years of Spike's
character development out the window.
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Some of your statements are just rude -- Rufus,
13:28:36 05/09/02 Thu
You know how some people thought the Bronze scene was a
dream. That's how I veiw the rape scene. It was just Marti's
nightmare. It didn't really happen.
I'm not letting that bitch throw 5 years of Spike's
character development out the window.
The scene in the Bronze happened and DeKnight did talk about
them writing the relationship of Buffy and Spike as not
being a good thing as it is now.
Use the writers name, using the word "bitch" to describe her
just make you look ignorant.
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I'm so sorry.. -- LeeAnn, 16:12:04 05/09/02
Thu
I'm so sorry. Marti Noxon is a wonderful person. Her
judgement is always flawless and the attempted rape was a
necessary plot element that should have all Buffy viewers
rejoicing.
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Re: I'm so sorry.. -- Rufus, 16:27:44 05/09/02
Thu
I'm not saying that you have to gush over Marti or anyone
else but you could have some respect for our board by
choosing your words well. Calling Marti a "bitch" is rude
and uncalled for, no matter how you feel about her.
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I have defended... -- LeeAnn, 17:05:36 05/09/02
Thu
I have defended Marti most of this season because I found
the relationship between Spike and Buffy so fascinating. I
thought the continuity problems were just because she wasn't
used to keeping the writers in line. But, as I wrote once in
"Investing in Spuffy", these characters matter to me. I
believe the attempted rape negates the love I thought Spike
felt for Buffy. And I blame Noxon for that. I think she made
a serious error. I'm not the only one. I think the boards
are proof of that.
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Re: I have defended...spoilers and speculation --
Rufus, 17:48:52 05/09/02 Thu
One problem with the Spike situation is that they are stuck
with their original soul canon. So even with a chip they
have to establish that he is still at the core a demon. So
even though he has changed in a major way, he can never be
fully trusted (they don't even trust Angel with good
reason). So they can only take him so far with the
chip......my speculation is that the chip will be the thing
that starts the process of Spike wanting to become either
the monster he was or, become a man or get a soul. I've been
a redemptionist but with all what I've seen on both shows
their original soul canon is what they are stuck
with......so you get the transformational relationship
started by the chip. Spike has now found the limits of the
chip, it may make him feel differently but doesn't stop him
from reverting to a monster again. When he attempted to rape
Buffy he started off talking and the situation got out of
hand. Buffy could have killed him but she does relate to him
like a person, she can't kill him cause deep down she does
hope he can change. But the stuff Xander said about what
Spike really is, I take to be a hint from the writers. If
you look at the soul quote from Joss and eps like Dead
Things, OMWF, Tabula Rasa, there are hint in those eps about
where this is going. I don't think the "rape" scene negates
Spikes love for Buffy, but shows that she can't love him
because she fears the consequences of his demon killing at
some point, no wonder with what happened with Angel.
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Re: I have defended...spoilers and speculation --
LeeAnn, 18:27:33 05/09/02 Thu
One problem with the Spike situation is that they are
stuck with their original soul canon.
I think you're right.
I think I feel an essay coming on about how evil that basic
canon is.
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Re: I have defended...spoilers and speculation --
Rufus, 19:05:30 05/09/02 Thu
They are kinda stuck and with Angel, they have to stick with
it or they do have a hard time explaining him. So we have
gotten the spectrum of behavior and learned Spikes
limitations along that spectrum. It's his preference for
chaos that is what scares Buffy and the Gang, they are
afraid of another Angelus situation, so they just don't dare
trust him. So, in the end we have a Spike who has left town
saying that when he comes back there will be some changes.
Of course that can be taken a few ways. But remember all the
times he has had the chance to he never bit Buffy, and even
in Tabula Rasa he said he didn't want to.
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Some of your statements are just rude -- Rufus,
13:41:31 05/09/02 Thu
You know how some people thought the Bronze scene was a
dream. That's how I veiw the rape scene. It was just Marti's
nightmare. It didn't really happen.
I'm not letting that bitch throw 5 years of Spike's
character development out the window.
The scene in the Bronze happened and DeKnight did talk about
them writing the relationship of Buffy and Spike as not
being a good thing as it is now.
Use the writers name, using the word "bitch" to describe her
just make you look ignorant.
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Re: And What About Buffy's Feelings -- skeeve,
09:03:35 05/09/02 Thu
Sometimes a statement of the obvious can be taken to imply
that its maker believes that its recipient is too deficient
to realize its truth without help.
Shooting Buffy was bad. Warren is evil.
Any questions?
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Just one question -- jbb, 17:28:42 05/09/02
Thu
"Sometimes a statement of the obvious can be taken to imply
that its maker believes that its recipient is too deficient
to realize its truth without help."
----
Re-reading my original post shows it, perhaps, to be a bit
harsh and judgmental on my part, and possibly not in the
spirit of this forum.
I look forward to reading here everday and post (rarely)
only when I feel very strongly about an issue. If there are
no, or few, responses then the post piqued nobody's
interest, and life goes on.
However, I fail to understand the value of a reply
containing an insult-wrapped-in-an-accusation from someone
who, ironically, apparently missed the entire point of my
post.
-jbb
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Re: Just one question -- Dariel, 18:43:14
05/09/02 Thu
I'm not sure, but maybe what Skeeve was alluding to was
this: Some things are so clear that they are not discussed
much. No controversy, no post.
Or it may just be that some things are old news. Or too
painful to respond to. ME has been torturing Buffy for
years, and personally, I wish they'd give the girl a break.
Buffy getting shot is horrible, being attacked by Spike was
horrible, yes. I think we're just so used to feeling bad for
Buffy that we hardly notice it anymore.
The End is
Here. -- Ender, 20:56:06 05/08/02 Wed
I'm sorry to report this- the bringer of ill tidings, but it
must be known Buffy is over after next season. So ends the
Odyssey, I for one will be so very sad. Check it out
here.
http://www.thecouriermail.news.com.au/common/story_page/0,59
36,4237561%255E3042,00.html
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Be Careful What You Read -- maddog, 21:17:29
05/08/02 Wed
Yes, that interview says they're done after next
season...mainly because that's when the contracts are over.
But I recently read an interview Joss did with Wanda over on
eonline that states that if he has a good enough story he'll
continue...of course he'd have to persuade the actors. He
also says he plans each finale so that if they decided to
pull the plug then and there then it would be fine...so that
just means we'll never know until they finally tell us
because the show itself, the storyline, won't tell us.
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Buffy can survive without NB -- Dochawk,
22:43:30 05/08/02 Wed
Only two people hold the decision here, Joss (although Buffy
could continue without him actually) and most importantly
SMG. Sarah has said recently she is not opposed to an 8th
year, but she needs to decide where she wants to go
next.
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Future Projects -- West, 03:34:36 05/09/02
Thu
I can't help but wonder what the cast will end up doing when
the show ends. SMG has a pretty powerful name for the
Hollywood circuit and Allison Hannigan is edging in, and I
can see her making a splash... But I'm not too sure about
the others. I'd love to see Brendon go on to bigger and
better things, but I'm not too sure about his range... He
seems pretty typecast as Xander (Though I havn't seen
Piniata, or whatever that movie he did was).
Mark Blucas has got the Scoobie movie coming out (an irony
I'm sure has been touched on already) to show that Buffy can
be a decent stepping stone towards feature roles, so we
could always see Benson or Trachenberg up there eventually.
I'd also love to see Spike hit the big screen, I think he
could have some great roles.
Speaking of future projects, does anyone know anything about
the rumored 'Ripper' spinoff I've heard Anthony Stewart Head
was doing? I'd love to hear more about it, or even better,
find out where I can watch some episodes.
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Re: Future Projects -- skeeve, 08:50:36 05/09/02
Thu
Brendon is in Psycho Beach Party. I haven't seen it
yet.
Trachenberg is in Can't Be Heaven. I liked it.
What about Ripper? Is there coffee involved?
Have we forgotten
that Spike's chip doesn't work when...? (Season 6--PRE-
Seeing Red--Spoilers) -- Joie (d V), 22:05:47
05/08/02 Wed
Have we forgotten that Spike's chip doesn't work on Buffy?
Spike seems to have forgotten this too. He's blaming the
chip in Seeing Red. (I won't give this away in case people
that haven't seen Seeing Red yet want to comment.) He
blames the chip, yet the chip (which Warren confirmed is up
and running) doesn't activate when it comes to matters of
Buffy. It seems like this has been overlooked and no
posters have been talking about this recently. I'm
wondering what this means (particularly in regards to Seeing
Red). It seems to me that this fact could be very
important.
When it comes to Buffy, Spike is free to be evil. He could
(with chip intact) have continued his great tradition of
Slayer killing. And to those of you who you argue that he
loves her too much to kill her, I would ask...wouldn't all
of his problems be solved if he just sired Buffy and made
her a vampire too? He could continue to love her and she
would be his exclusively. This seems just the kind of
selfish decision a "souless, evil thing" (albeit in love
with Buffy)would make.
The point is, things are not as simple as many of us have
been thinking. This is not just a matter of evil-Spike
versus chip-in-head-Spike. When it comes to Buffy we have a
Spike that CAN be evil while the chip is in his head.
I'm intrigued to hear people's thoughts on this...
P.S. For those of you that comment with regard to Seeing
Red, please don't forget to indicate that its a SR-spoiler
in your subject heading. Judging from some of the headings
I've seen today, I imagine there are some spoiler free
posters that aren't so free anymore.
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FYI: I re-posted the previous message in response to
Traveler's "You know, ME is tricky " (below) -
- Joie (d V), 06:52:23 05/09/02 Thu
I couldn't decide where to post the thoughts, found above,
in my message: "Have we forgotten that Spike's chip doesn't
work when...? (Season 6--PRE-Seeing Red--Spoilers)"
As a result, I started a new thread. It turns out Traveler
had posted a similar comment half an hour before I did!...I
wish I'd caught that!
As a result, I have also included my post under the "What
happened? -Spoilers for Seeing Red" thread (in Response to
Traveler's "You know, ME is tricky (spoilers for SR)" )
Sorry about this guys! I'm still getting the hang of the
art/rules and regs of posting.
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Spike's chip - speculation (MAJOR Seeing Red
Spoilers) -- shadowkat, 07:19:55 05/09/02 Thu
I agree - isn't it interesting that Spike has never bit
Buffy, that we are aware of?? Not only that but he's the
only vamp whose been in such close proximity and hasn't. He
certainly could have - I mean in the throes of passion? Or
in that bathroom?? In fact I think that may be
what he asked himself in SR: "Why didn't I do it?" Why
didn't I bite her? It's the chip. But the chip is doing
more than that - the chip is tormenting him with what he did
which isn't as bad as killing people. "Crawling, squirmy,
bits and pieces, silicon in my head, all jiminy
cricket". It's driving him insane. And yet the chip
isn't
supposed to work in regards to Buffy - hence the violent
sex. He can beat up Buffy - yet up until that scene,
which disturbed me greatly, he hasn't beaten her, hit
her
or bruised her or tried to hurt her in any way. She's beaten
up on him, hit him, let her friends do it, but he hasn't
reciprocated.
Which brings me to another point that I've been
speculating
on - has Spike tried to hit any living thing, humans, even
raised his fists? since Wrecked?? He didn't in Gone. He
didn't in DMP. He didn't in Dead Things. (demons yes, no
humans.) He didn't in OAFA. He didn't in AYW. He didn't
in
HB. He wants to in NA but doesn't instead Xander clocks him
one and he backs off because Buffy collaspes. HE didn't
in Entropy - in fact when Xander asks him to fight him,
Spike looks apathetic and says "not going to fight you.
chip." The only violent act I've seen him do is the bathroom
scene and he doesn't hit in that either, exactly.
How about vamping? Well the last time I saw him in full vamp
face had to have been....Dead Things. Can't think
of another time.
So I'm wondering about that chip. And I have a theory - it
could be wrong - but the more I think about it ...and the
more I think about what this show likes to do, I'm convinced
we're about to find out the chip is irrelevant.
Another thing that's important.
The crime in the bathroom was a man's crime not a
vampires
that's why we can't handle it. Even though they have shown
us this scene more than once in Btvs - heck the Pack was far
more violent, Buffy literally had to hit Xander over the
head with a desk to get him to stop. Not to mention
Consequences - when Angel had to throw Faith across the room
to get her off Xander. And Harsh Light of Day - very
violent, they were pummeling each other. So was the
Iniative. But all these acts were shot in soft technicolor
and were covered with metaphor and weren't gritty and we
didn't care about the abuser or the abuser was possessed..
Tara's death had the same result. It's too real for us. Too
literal. It wasn't covered
in metaphor. And I think the same can be said for Spike -
the crime he did was the man's...and it is ripping at
him.
It wasn't the demon's although it may have come partly from
that side of him.
Back to the chip - I think it hasn't been working since
Dead Things and when Spike finds out - he is going to be
shocked to his core. He can't go back to the nice black
and
white comfy world of his youth - the world of Season 1-4,
where he was the comical BB and neither can the
audience.
The show has grown up. The villians are now much worse
and
much harder to defeat b/c they are like us.
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Re: Spike's chip - speculation (MAJOR Seeing Red
Spoilers) -- Bob
Sikkel, 08:36:36 05/09/02 Thu
Hmm, interesting to read this, AFTER I posted "Q: Are we not
men?" above. Sorry to inadvertently parrot you, but glad to
know someone else sees it in the same vein I do.
bob
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Re: Spike's chip - speculation (MAJOR Seeing Red
Spoilers) -- Sophist, 08:46:51 05/09/02 Thu
While I'm still not happy about that scene on several
levels, I do think there was one very important aspect to it
that hasn't been mentioned. At the end, after Buffy kicks
him off her, the look on his face clearly shows that he
recognizes that he had done something wrong and was
horrified by it. He then returns to his crypt and has
flashbacks that again make it clear he is upset by what he
has done. Think about that for a minute -- a vampire
understands that he has done wrong and is upset by it.
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Good point. -- Caroline, 09:47:30 05/09/02
Thu
I think that's a very good point, and definitely one that
has been missed by the supporters of the Spike is completely
evil view. The writers have gone out of their way to show
his moral ambiguity and now seem to be going out of their
way to show his humanity - acting in the heat of passion,
wracked with guilt and remorse, anger at being pussy-whipped
etc. Doesn't sound vampiric to me. Obviously his humanity is
not very mature - he wants a grand, passionate, all-
consuming love, he wants to make Buffy love him, etc. Well,
Buffy's been there and done that with someone else, it had
horrible consequences (Becoming, Graduation) and now wants
love AND trust.
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regretful Spike -- lulabel, 15:08:49 05/09/02
Thu
Yes, I thought it was very significant that Spike was
clearly very remorseful after his would-be attack. I can't
think of a single other instance where he has ever evidenced
either regret or remorse for his actions. In fact, that is
one of the characteristics that makes him uniquely Spike -
his motto could be "Never Apologize". This was particularly
striking in episodes where he screwed up badly - such as
Crush or As You Were.
Actually, I take that back, somewhat. At the end of Entropy
he did look distinctly abashed, but he still didn't
apologize. After Dawn's visit in Seeing Red he did,
however, go to see Buffy to APOLOGIZE. Is this a first?
[> [>
Re: Spike's chip - speculation (MAJOR Seeing Red
Spoilers) -- Ahira, 11:24:58 05/09/02 Thu
There is the possibility that the chip is still working.
Going back to the Initiative and what we saw them do,
chipping Spike, chipping Riley. Obviously, they had a lot
going on with technology/biology interfaces. So, why not
add mulitiple redundancy to a chip meant to neuter the
hostiles. The only obvious effect so far has been great
pain for Spike when he strikes a human. What about
something more subtle? The commentaries I have read lately
about Spike and describing him as going insane made this
thought kinda pop up. Maybe, just maybe, the chip also has
a secondary function that suppresses aggressive tendencies
in the host. Initially, it might serve to make the hostile
stop short of lethal force, but over long the long term, who
is to say what could happen from it. And there is Spike,
caught in the middle, demon nature wanting to terrorize and
kill being suppressed, thus allowing his more human aspects
to show more. Basically, tearing him in half. Sort of, the
Initiative striking a final blow from the grave. Would
support why Spike can bite/kill Buffy and so far has
not...just my 2 cents.
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huh, "a man's crime" - very powerful
point. -- yuri, 19:22:25 05/09/02 Thu
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Spike's "Humanity" -- Lumina,
19:57:23 05/09/02 Thu
"The crime in the bathroom was a man's crime not a
vampires"
Exactly!! Interestingly enough Spike's inability to choose
(and sometimes even to differentiate) between good and evil
is an age-old human dilemma. Spike is a demon but his
problems are recognizably, even representatively, human.
(PS. This is my first posting on this board :) - luvin' all
the fascinating discussions!!)
The scene had no
meaning...Steven DeKnight interview -- LeeAnn,
04:55:33 05/09/02 Thu
Someone on TWoP reported on a Steven DeKnight interview on
thesuccubusclub.com. There is no transcript but KeKnight
said that idea for the rape was Marti's and was added about
a week before the episode was filmed. About the time when
Dead Things was broadcast.
So the entire travesty was Marti's attempt to get the fans
back on Buffy's side after the alley scene. Apparently,
being part of the "Spike is Evil" club she didn't mind
trashing 5 years of his character development.
Also DeKnight is leaving Buffy next year for Angel. The
writers are leaving Buffy like it's a sinking ship. Wonder
why? Marti? Fury (ick) is going to Angel and I think Petrie
is going to Firefly.
Compared to Season 7, Season 6 will probably look like a
masterpiece because all the good writers will be gone.
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- Sarah, 06:33:18 05/09/02 Thu
Hi, I'm the one who posted that on TWoP, so I just wanted to
clarify that DeKnight said Marti suggested it while they
were breaking the story, so about a week before he wrote the
script, not a week before it was filmed. Just wanted to
make that clear.
What was most interesting about what he said though was that
one of the hosts asked him why it was planned so last
minute, and his response was that they only plan out the
"big" events far in advance. Kind of disturbing to me to
think that the writers didn't consider the attempted rape of
their heroine one of the "big" events. I think it's safe to
say that most of the viewers did.
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- Traveler, 06:46:22 05/09/02 Thu
"What was most interesting about what he said though was
that one of the hosts asked him why it was planned so last
minute, and his response was that they only plan out the
"big" events far in advance. "
I would like to hear that interview. Are you sure he wasn't
being sarcastic/flippant?
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- Claire, 07:49:27 05/09/02 Thu
Yes he was being very flip and I would strongly advise you
not to visit the Kitten board at the moment. They are
absolutely raging at the crass comments made about Tara and
the blatent disrespect shown to fans. He was laughing at
fans heartbreak and making jokes about Tara's death and the
lies he told in the Bronze when assuring fans Tara would be
killed off over his dead body. Apparently he has also taken
home some unaired W/T love scenes for porn use at home (his
words, not mine). He also said Amber Benson was a plot
device from the start, hence the publicity stunt of her
death. She was fired and never choose to leave. Therefore
the Kittens are pretty pissed.
As for the rape scene Steven said it was written in because
Marti felt they weren't getting the right "message" across
to fans. Buffy's relationship with Spike was never about
redemption, Spike was just the bad relationship choice
people make in their 20s. They needed to restore sympathy
for Buffy and Steven specifically says they wanted to affect
Spike's fan base as Buffy is meant to be the most popular
character. Hence the rape. The scene was Marti's baby
apperently and *gasp* didn't she used to work on a soap.
Therefore that is why people are finding the rape out of
character on Spike's part. It wasn't written as part of a
character arc, just to get a message across to fans in an
After-School-Special kind of way. And might I comment on the
tastelessness on MEs part in approving Spuffy shirts which
are currently the best selling Buffy item. So a load of
people have been stuck with a picture of an attempted rapist
and his victim in a big red heart. Anyone feel like
demanding their money back?
Sorry if I sound bitter but I expected more from Buffy than
rape and snuff for sweeps. And the interview is causing a
lot of controversy on other boards.
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And we're getting this guy at AtS! Great :-(
(not) -- yabyumpan, 07:58:21 05/09/02 Thu
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kitten board? -- skeeve, 08:31:37 05/09/02
Thu
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A few clarifications -- Sarah, 08:32:34 05/09/02
Thu
I actually thought he was very informative. I mean there
are people out there calling for his head because he did his
job. I think humor's pretty much the only way to deal with
it. And he definately didn't say that the attempted rape
scene was just to make Buffy more sympathetic. You could
draw that conclusion, but he didn't say that. But anyway,
here are some of the pertinent quotes with regards to the
scene, so you can all judge for yourself.
C: Let me read one specifically from somebody. Why did you
choose to
use attempted rape as a means of bringing Spike and Buffy to
this point
in the relationship?
SDK: Ah. We had talked a lot about Spike trying to do good
but
ultimately he doesn't have a soul and it's a constant
struggle. His love
for Buffy and what she was giving him back, even though it
was often
abusive, really kind of kept him on that path. But once she
absolutely cut
him off... In the previous week's episode you really see him
start to turn
there, when he tells her to get out.
C: Right, he has a little bit more self respect at that
point.
SDK: Yeah, and you know, there's a lot of self-loathing too.
I mean, on
the one hand, he hates himself for what he did to Buffy by
sleeping with
Anya, and on the other hand he hates himself for feeling
anything for
her.
C: Well that's the thing that's gone through all of this,
that he doesn't
understand why he's feeling this way and he hates that he
feels this
way.
SDK: Right. So we were talking about how to really show this
and push
it in that direction, and it was Marti in the room who said,
because we
were talking about Spike going to Buffy to talk to her about
this, and she
said--
C: Right, cause it starts very tenderly. It starts as a very
nice scene.
SDK: --and she said "you know he should go to talk to her,
and it just
gets out of hand. He starts to try, to start up the
relationship, to say 'I
know you felt it; I know you could feel it again' and he
just won't stop."
C: Okay, so did this seem like a natural progression for
Spike to you
guys?
SDK: Yes.
C; To try and hurt her physically, to attempt...
SDK: Well you know to Spike, and this is not to lessen what
he tried to
do, which was wrong. In the moment, all he was thinking
about is 'she
loves me, and if she just lets herself feel this again,
she'll feel it again.'
And then later…
C: How does Mutant Enemy reconcile endorsing a shirt with
Buffy and
Spike surrounded by a heart one month before he tries to
rape her?
SDK: Uh, I haven't seen the shirt. I have nothing to do with
that. I uh,
don't know. I'm not sure. Can I get one?
C/K: We haven't seen it either
SDK: I wouldn't be surprised if there were. But I can tell
you that when
that when that shirt was approved and made or something I
doubt we
had decided to do this. This was something that was decided
when we
were breaking the episode, about a week before I wrote it.
C: Oh, okay. Interesting. That's very interesting.
K: Why? Why was it--
C: Why was it so last minute?
SDK: A lot of the details--
C: Cause that's like a big decision
SDK: Well the actual details of the episode, except for the
big major
things--Tara gets shot--are worked out..
C: But this seems like a big thing
SDK:..while we're breaking it. Well we had started setting
up that there
was a rift between them, obviously, back in Petrie's
episode, "As You
Were." And it just progressed and progressed and progressed.
And after
the previous script, the way their scene ended, uhhhh, you
know, Marti
just had the idea to take it that next dark step.
C: Why get darker and darker? Why not try to get back to
some
semblance of normality toward the end of the season? I mean-
-
SDK: There's a lot of reasons coming up. But even more for
the
character, that, again, even though Spike tries to play in
the human
world, he's not human. He has a lot of dark impulses that
are very
difficult to control.
C: Will this continue--if you can tell us--into next season?
Because like I
said, I thought that was the most interesting part of the
episode last
night was his scene, where he's talking about it. For
Spike's character,
next season, does this play a part?
SDK: He's got some stuff to work out.
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Re: A few clarifications -- Claire, 08:52:20
05/09/02 Thu
I am not the only one upset about his comments about Tara.
Go visit the cross and stake board and read some off the
threads on Steven's tasteless jokes about Tara's death. A
few trolls attacking him does not justify showing contempt
for your fan base. Young lesbians who came out because of
W/Ts positive example are now literally crying themselves
sick and want their concerns addressed. Laughing throughout
the interview was inapproprite. Amber Benson deserved more
than being a plot device to turn Willow evil (he as good as
admitted she was a red shirt from the start).
And the kitten board is The Kitten, the witches and the bad
wordrobe. A celebration of W/T love.
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Re: A few clarifications -- Kate, 10:23:21
05/09/02 Thu
I for one am furious at his interview. I expect Joss to do
some major damage control once the season is over.
Steven DeKnight saying that Tara was only a plot device is a
total insult to Amber and her fans. Amber has been the model
ambassador for Buffy, she regularly attends conventions, she
is working on comics and she always makes very positive
comments about the show.
The W/T relationship and the addition of Tara were
groundbreaking in many ways. They were the longest term main
character gay couple on TV, who were realistic and loving.
They have helped many people come to terms with their
sexuality and other people address their own prejudices
towards gay people and relationships. It may just be a show,
but homosexuality is still a tender real life issue and
positive portrayals like this make massive inroads towards
acceptance.
I can accept that it is neccessary to kill Tara to go *this
particular way* way with Willow. But I am very unhappy with
the manner of Tara's death.
Tara lost her mother at a young age, then escaped the
emotional and implied physical abuse of her father and
brother. She then rebuilt her shattered confidence in a
mostly loving and caring relationship. She made friends and
grew into a mature, grounded young woman. She was killed by
a stray bullet from the gun of an immature, violent
mysogonist. She was ultimately a victim of everything she
overcame.
BTVS does carry heavy messages, the notion of karma being
one of the strongest. What the message is supposed to be in
this storyline Joss only knows.
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Re: A few clarifications -- derik, 12:36:01
05/09/02 Thu
Amber Benson deserved more than being a plot device to
turn Willow evil (he as good as admitted she was a red shirt
from the start).
Amber was not a plot device, Tara was, remember the
tv/reality divide. And, obviously she was a plot device and
a red shirt from the start, else they would have made her a
regular on the show at least back in Season Five. (Look how
quick Oz became a regular in the past.)
[And I am a big Amber/Tara fan, but I see the logic of where
it all went.]
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Thanks so much for the transcript, Sarah. Is there a
full version anywhere that you know of? -- Dyna,
10:31:46 05/09/02 Thu
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Not yet. But you can keep checking at
www.thesuccubusclub.com -- Sarah, 10:53:35 05/09/02
Thu
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Uh? Hello! SPOILERS in Claire's posts above! -- I
hate spoilers, 10:16:24 05/09/02 Thu
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Re: Yeah spoilers for Seeing Red. -- Claire,
10:53:06 05/09/02 Thu
Am I missing something? The whole interview was about the
episode that Steven wrote that aired on tuesday. Is it not
okay to discuss episodes after they have aired? Not trying
to be flip here but I haven't been on the board long and
would really like to know?
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Re: Yeah spoilers for Seeing Red. -- maddog,
11:15:48 05/09/02 Thu
I think the point is that some don't get a chance to see the
show on Tuesdays(overseas are at least a few episodes behind
if not a full season behind) so it's common courtesy to say
in the subject that there are spoilers so that those that
haven't seen it, won't read it if they don't want to be
spoiled.
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Re: Oh okay I'm sorry. -- Claire, 11:29:50
05/09/02 Thu
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Claire, you spoiled FUTURE eps (spoilers inside) --
I hate spoilers, 13:14:53 05/09/02 Thu
Claire said: "He was laughing at fans heartbreak and making
jokes about Tara's death and the lies he told in the Bronze
when assuring fans Tara would be killed off over his dead
body. ... He also said Amber Benson was a plot device from
the start, hence the publicity stunt of her death. She was
fired and never choose to leave."
From what happened on screen, Tara isn't necessarily dead at
the end of "Seeing Red." If she's dead, I didn't know it
yet, and you spoiled that fact.
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- maddog, 10:26:58 05/09/02 Thu
While I agree that all does sound crass I ask you how else
they could have gotten the point across that, in the end
Spike and Buffy was a bad thing...cause somehow it caught on
when the whole point was it was suppose to be one of the
many bad choices the Scoobies made this year.
If they hadn't pushed the relationship so much this year it
wouldn't have been so bad...but they capitalized on an
unexpected fanbase. So yeah, definitely their fault...but
in the end, the only way to make not only the Buffy/Spike
fans, but also the Spike fans hate him was to make him
attempt something so reprehensible that even they're upset
with him. Plan worked if you ask me.
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The alternative to hating Spike.. -- LeeAnn,
10:33:35 05/09/02 Thu
in the end, the only way to make not only the
Buffy/Spike fans, but also the Spike fans hate him was to
make him attempt something so reprehensible that even
they're upset with him. Plan worked if you ask me.
It did work with many fans. Myself, I've decided I hate
Marti, Joss and ME instead and will never start watching any
new show they are associated with.
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Re: The alternative to hating Spike.. -- maddog,
11:09:54 05/09/02 Thu
Then I ask you to answer the other part of my post...what
would you have done to make it that harsh of a break? I'm
not saying what was done was perfect, but it got the job
done. It's easy to criticize ideas...but if you have no
alternatives you're no better than they are.
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Why hate Spike? -- LeeAnn, 11:37:47 05/09/02
Thu
I don't see why we have to hate Spike. He's the most popular
character on the show, why make the fans hate him?
He was traveling down the road to redemption, not always
smoothly but steadily. His love for Buffy had led him to
become a better person and could have helped him make even
more progress. WHY DO WE HAVE TO HATE HIM?
I am particularly angry that Noxon chose a storyline that
invalidated his love for Buffy, that made it meaningless,
just words from a monster. I want to believe that love is
real and matters. I don't like stories that try to show me
love is nothing.
I read that the original Willow arc had an abuse of power
core but AH didn't want the fans to hate her so went and
asked that it be changed..which it was - to the lame magic
addiction storyline which gives Willow an out...it wasn't
her fault, she's an addict!
That makes me wonder...Given the Buffy hatred after Dead
Things did Gellar ask that the story be changed so that
Buffy would be sympathetic again? Or maybe she was jealous
of JM's popularity?
I see no reason the fans should have to HATE Spike. Spike is
us. We are gray. Spike is gray. I think that is why we find
him so interesting, aside from JM's talent and charisma. If
any of use woke up tomorrow as a vampire, hunger raging, the
choice to kill or die, would we act any differently than
Spike did? If we woke up tomorrow, in the middle of a
famine, and the choice was to kill or die, what would we
choose?
None of us are Buffy. But, given the wrong circumstances,
most of us could be Spike.
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Re: Why hate Spike? -- Claire, 11:52:08 05/09/02
Thu
Sarah Michelle Geller has no problem with Jame's popularity
and supported the B/S story from the start. She was the one
who pushed for it with Joss as she believed the story had
potential. But Marti is writing Spike as the bad boyfriend
metaphour as she has openly admitted in interviews Spike
reminds her of a bad boyfriend she had in college and she
created Riley based on her husband. That is why Spike's
sympathy and fan base was deliberately torn into. They
aren't following a subtle redemption story but a bad
boyfriend story which belongs on a soap opera frankly. They
panicked when fans still clamoured for B/S so went for crass
unsubtly in order to make their point.
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Re: Why hate Spike? (very oblique future spoiler) -
- Dochawk, 12:21:10 05/09/02 Thu
LA,
This is gonna be weird coming from me, but I don't hate
Spike and my feelings about him didn't change in this
episode. What he did was repulsive, but in perfect keeping
with his character. thing is, this finally has propelled
him to do something, either become something other than a
vampire, so that he can love the way love should be (not the
star flung love he had for Buffy). And if he becomes
somethig other than a vampire, I will forgive him the
horrors he did as a vampire, just as I am able to forgive
Angel. But at least we have moved forward and out of this
horribly abusive and backward going Spuffy relationship.
And I don't know where you got your Willow info, but given
what's to come it clearly isn't true. But, I am afraid that
ME will lose me as well, because they already killed my
favoite character and they are about to destroy my second
favorite. They are alienating their 3 biggest fan groups,
so they better have something excellent up their
sleeves.
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Condolences - Spoilers! -- LeeAnn, 12:43:39
05/09/02 Thu
I hadn't thought about that. I know the kittens are torn up
but I hadn't thought much about the Willow fans because I
believe that Willow will get a Get Out of Jail free card at
the end of the season.
Which is gonna suck if she tortures and murders Warren.
Vengence doesn't give you permission for that. Except maybe
in the Buffyverse.
But my condolences about Tara and about whatever they are
about to do to Willow.
A side note, I thought AH was very sweet and funny in her
sex scenes with AB. Mischievious. A twinkle in her eye. I've
read AH doesn't like doing the gay scenes and was glad that
they weren't more explicit but she did a good job
anyway.
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Re: Condolences - Spoilers! -- Dochawk, 14:20:18
05/09/02 Thu
i think Willow normally gets a get out of jail partly free
card, she seems to pay sometimes. I think she may get one
this time and this is the time I dont't hink she ought to
(for the same reasons, vengeance is not justice). Xander on
the other hand ALWAYS gets a get out of jail free card. So
many times he is judgemental and horrid (and in teh case of
OMwF causing the deaths of innocent people) for which he has
yet to pay. Buffy and Angel pay much more than is their
due, but I guess thats what happens when your the star. And
Spike, he pays the right amount, just doesnt seem to get the
good stuff when he actually deserves it.
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About believing writers... -- shadowkat,
06:53:21 05/09/02 Thu
Would like to remind you of something Joss said a long time
ago - don't listen to the writers, listen to the story.
My writers lie. Trust the story.
They do. All the time. In OMWF he has Marti lying to a
Traffic cop about a parking ticket. And he has David
Fury exclaiming how he got the mustard out.
James Marsters stated on several occassions that they
float
fake scripts around to freak out the actors and to trick
people trying to spoil us.
Personally - I think that scene was planned much further
back - and they used it to reinstate their thesis that
Spike and Buffy were a fatal attraction. I'm not sure
why
DeKnight said this...but it feels fishy to me. Just as some
of the other statements do. Why? Because the story they
are telling is the opposite.
(shrugs) Could be wrong...but some of the things I've
read
that they say really don't fit.
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Thanks shadowcat -- Ete, 15:40:10 05/09/02
Thu
I'm happy to see I'm not the only one who repeats like a
mantra : Writer lie, writers lie, writers lie :)
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- maddog, 09:51:13 05/09/02 Thu
Had he actually accomplished it, I'd say yes, big event.
But where he only attempted it...and then regreted the
situation...I'd say middle of the road.
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Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- yabyumpan, 06:59:37 05/09/02 Thu
I was going to start a new thread with this but it's partly
covered here so I'll just carry on: I was going to mention
about Steve DeKnight going to AtS but that's been done above
; more important (for me), is that Tim Minear is leaving
Angel for Firefly. This really upsets me, I think TM is the
writer that really groks the character of Angel and has
written some of the best episodes.
It does seem as if there's a game of musical chairs
happening in the offices of ME, wonder who's playing the
music???
[>
Re: The scene had no meaning...Steven DeKnight
interview -- maddog, 08:23:33 05/09/02 Thu
I think you have too little faith in Joss. Remember, he
still oversees everything. If it's THAT bad he'll fix it.
I have no doubt.
[>
Fury & Petrie are going! They are the two best
writers. -- JCC, 14:26:04 05/09/02 Thu
[>
Re: Steven DeKnight interview (spoilers for SR) --
ravenhair, 16:51:53 05/09/02 Thu
I listened to the interview last night but didn't find
anything controversial in Steven DeKnight's statements.
Lots of people use humor when they're under pressure. I'll
miss Amber Benson but agree Tara's death was necessary to
move Willow's story forward. In fairness to Mr.DeKnight,
any animosity towards Steven regarding the choice to kill
Tara should be directed at Joss since he was the one who
made the decision and is the one responsible for how the
scene played out (blood on Willow's shirt et al); and Marti
was responsible for the B/S bathroom scene.
Even though I'm upset over the bathroom scene, I can see the
necessity to remind viewers of Spike's dark impulses. For
all my love for the character, he's still a vampire after
all. We may be able to excuse shady schemes such as the
demon eggs, but we can't deny a line was crossed in Seeing
Red. Yet, that doesn't mean Spike is beyond forgiveness. I
felt the more relevant scene came afterward in Spike's
crypt. Spike's total breakdown was important because for
the first time he felt real guilt, whether he realized it or
not, which is supposedly impossible for an evil soulless
thing. The fact that he takes it upon himself to seek
change, regardless of his motivation, gives me hope for
Spike's redemption.
The most interesting comment I thought Steven DeKnight made
was regarding the alley scene in Dead Things. Yes, Spike
saved Buffy from turning herself in to the authorities but
he did it for himself, not for her. It's a possessive love.
While I agree, I think the same can be said of Buffy. She
has made Spike her sex slave - how much more possessive can
you get? She uses Spike's love & loyalty for her own
selfish needs while keeping him emotionally at arms length.
I'm very sorry that Steven DeKnight is leaving BtVS. Dead
Things and Seeing Red were stellar episodes. Fury is
supposed to be a guest on The Succubus Club next week and I
look forward to what he has to say.
Spike's coat -
symbolism (re SR) -- Cydney, 05:08:45 05/09/02
Thu
I haven't seen this mentioned elsewhere - hope it's not
redundant.
Throughout season 6, Spike's leather coat (his trophy for
killing slayer #2) has been with him - on him - almost all
the time (at least when he's dressed!). I noticed
particularly that he never took his coat off at Buffy's
birhtday party despite the fact they were all there for a
long time.
At the time I thought it was because he didn't feel at home
or comfortable in Buffy's house.
Yet in SR, he leaves his coat downstairs when he goes to
talk to Buffy, and actually leaves it behind. He leaves
Sunnydale without it.
Granted, it may be nothing at all, but I couldn't help but
wonder if it is symbolic of Spike leaving aspects of his
past behind. I am unspoiled - and wish to stay that way -
but I wonder if it was some sort of hint.
Thoughts?
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Re: Spike's coat sorry spoilers above if you haven't
seen SR -- Cydney, 05:31:39 05/09/02 Thu
Sorry.
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Re: Spike's coat - my two cents -- shadowkat,
06:43:36 05/09/02 Thu
Was discussing this with a friend last night and he said
something very interesting: "it was shedding his skin".
I think that's it exactly. Spike doesn't even appear to
know it's gone.
But that it is - is terribly important. They have made a
point of having him wear that coat constantly this season
and last season. To the point that there were a bunch of us
about to take up a collection to get him a new one - we were
sooo sick of that coat. LOL!
Notice a few other things different about Spike last
night:
no jewelry. The vamp has been wearing a ton of jewelry
lately, I saw none. (Maybe I missed something.) He's dressed
in a long-sleeved black t-shirt and black jeans and his hair
is stark white. The lighting in the crypt is subdued, and
bathroom lighting is harsh - so harsh that when you look at
Spike, he looks like a black and white vamp in bathroom and
he looks like a black and white photo in the crypt, washed
out - similar to the sideshow freak in Giles' dream in
Restless. He even more or less refers to himself as a
"freak" - it won't let me be a monster and I can't be a man
- I'm nothing. (If we compare this to his speech to Dawn in
Tough Love of Season 5 - he says, I'm not good, but I'm
okay. Here he is saying the reverse.)Back to black and
white. They've been
using the "black and white" metaphor a lot this year - every
show you see on his tv set is in black and white, when they
show it - either in Bargaining or All the Way.
They also do it with lighting, wardrobe at times and
mostly in reference to Spike. Maybe reading too much
into
it - not sure. But since it spans more than one episode
I think it's important. If it was only in one - I'd dismiss
it.
But his jacket is mentioned not only in more than one
episode, it has been used since School HArd - that dang
jacket represents BB Spike. The jacket is Spike. Spike the
BB. Every time he entered or left Sunnydale he's in it. In
Something Blue when he escapes Giles, he stops long
enough
to grab it. He rarely takes it off. He didn't take it off
when he and Anya had sex in Entropy. He doesn't take it
off in OAFA, he only appears to be without it in his crypt,
outside his crypt it's on. The fact that he took it off
before finding her in the bathroom, then left without it
is interesting. My take is he was so upset, that he
literally didn't think about it. But I also think, the
writers are telling us something.
1. Spike left his jacket
2. Spike doesn't seem to realize it. Or acknowledge it.
Why? Shedding a skin? Shedding the BB? Hmmm.
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Okay Wow....See how I should have seen that? I am a
costumer dangit! grr.... -- Lyonors, 06:55:26
05/09/02 Thu
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Good Points ShadowKat..except... -- LeeAnn,
08:26:38 05/09/02 Thu
Very good points as usual.
This was my take on it when I first heard he had left his
duster.
The duster is Spike's trophy, a talisman of his triumph
over the New York Slayer and Slayers in general, including
Buffy. Sex with Buffy was Spike's conquest of another
Slayer. Spike could no longer kill Slayers but he could
still prove himself by doing something even more dangerous
(" I knew. I knew the only thing better than killing a
slayer would be f-"). His duster is a reminder to us, and to
him, that he was the Slayer of Slayers. It's like something
between a hunter keeping the pelt of the most dangerous
animal he's killed, a warrior keeping the scalp of his most
deadly enemy, and a serial murderer keeping trophies of his
victims. Spike has kept that trophy for a long time. When
Spike forgets his duster it might be a symbol that he will
soon forget how to be bad or might be a symbol that he will
never again have a physical relationship with the Slayer he
loves. On the hopeful side, Spike can never be redeemed as
long as he has that coat, that skin of a dead Slayer. If
he's permanently separated from it, that is probably a good
sign for his redemption.
But I don't feel like that anymore because I don't think
Marti Noxon and the writers are deep enough to come up with
anything that symbolic. Not after that lame rape scene.
We're all just fanwanking.
Screw Marti!
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Re: Good Points ShadowKat.. -- alcibiades,
09:22:33 05/09/02 Thu
I liked Shadowkat's ideas about shedding the skin of the BB,
an interesting image. Agree about the similarity between
the black and white Spike in the bathroom scene and the
black and white side show freak Spike selling himself to
Hollywood in Restless, unable to participate in the real
drama -- was thinking exactly the same thing myself.
I rewatched the bathroom scene last night with that in mind.
The one color tone in that scene is the gray-green tub mat.
Buffy of course is in light grey which is also important --
she ain't wearing a white robe in that scene. She bears
some responsibility for the event that transpires. This
feeling, btw, is supported by Steve De Knight's comments at
some question and answer session last night where he says
explicitly that Buffy has been treating Spike like a thing,
as an object, not like a person, all year. (Steve De Knight
wrote Seeing Red and DT)
My idea about the coat is that leaving it behind at Buffy's
house is tantamount to conceding that Buffy won. Between
them, she has the victory. At the moment he leaves it
behind, he's beaten. The contest is over. (Of course he
didn't know that Xander would end up fingering it.)
But, Spike, being Spike, doesn't stay down very long. By
the end of the crypt scene with Clem, he already has plans
for the next round. Yet since Spike is Spike, the plans are
not likely to go at all the way he imagines. Which is good
because for the first time all year, effected by all the
others and their constant scorn, Spike has finally entered
his phase of retrograde motion. He can't bear the moments
of piercing empathy he has for Buffy, his victim, as he
attempts to force her to take him back. He can't face down
what that says about himself, so he returns to the comfort
of conspiring about how to return chipless as his Big Bad
persona.
The really interesting thing about this to me is that it is
so delusional. Spike had no problem unravelling the self-
centeredness of Buffy's delusion inspired interpretation of
Sunnydale in NA, the part that told her everybody in it was
a pawn in her dream, there solely to comfort her, that all
of their weaknesses kept them by her side. Spike saw
immediately that in this scheme the point of the chip was to
soften him up enough to love her. And he rejected this
worldview utterly. Even in Normal Again, just two episodes
back, he knew he loved Buffy and was confidant of his own
persona. Now, however, that moment of empathy with his
victim as he hurts her so utterly upsets the norms of his
world that he accepts the framework of this delusion. The
chip is his weakness, if it were gone, he would not be
softened up enough to love Buffy -- things would go back to
the way they were supposed to be -- to the self he used to
love -- slayer, vampire, vampire kills slayer.
As I said, I'm not expecting this to work out the way he
thinks it will in that moment of retrograde motion.
I'm also wondering if we are going to see a thematic reprise
of bits of Family in the finale or whenever Spike next
reappears with the Scoobies.
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Very well-expressed, alcibiades! "Retrogade
motion" it is. -- Dyna, 10:26:53 05/09/02
Thu
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Re: Good Points ShadowKat..except... -- shadowkat,
10:17:42 05/09/02 Thu
You need to see past that scene. Honestly I've seen
worse
on Btvs - The PAck was just as bad as was Faith's scene
with Xander in Consequences. And yes they are that deep.
As we will soon discover.
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Re: Good Points ShadowKat..except... -- maddog,
10:49:41 05/09/02 Thu
I have to disagree. I'd say those were worse because The
Pack was a bunch of uncaring Hiyenas and Faith was on a
moral path to hell. We thought Spike might have some good
in him...or at least a good streak. So to see him take it
that far was a surprise.
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Re: Good Points ShadowKat..except... -- shadowkat,
11:36:19 05/09/02 Thu
Not to me, but maybe that's because I've seen good
people
do horrible acts both on television, movies and in real
life. We are about to see Willow do some horrible acts.
It doesn't mean they can't be redeemed.
I remember watching St. Elsewhere years ago and hating
the serial rapist storyline. They had made this doctor
I liked into a horrible rapist wearing a mask etc...it was
an incredibly fascinating story and hard to watch.
This type of story has been done many times on a range
of
shows and never is it as black and white as it appears.
Rape isn't any more than murder or any other horrible
crime.
Therein lies the problem. And why it horrifies us.
It should. What I find interesting about SR - is it also
horrified Spike. And that wasn't something I ever
expected.
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Re: Spike's coat - my two cents -- Ronia,
08:49:06 05/09/02 Thu
I agree, although he's leaving town (he thinks) to regain
his former persona it's possible that he has already left it
behind. I think he craves resolution and I don't think he
cares at this point whether it leads him to embrace humanity
or provides only a way off of the leash. For all of Spikes
insight into the natures of people around him, he doesn't
much analyize himself. I viewed the chip implantation as a
rape/castration, either way he was grabbed off of the
street, drugged and invaded. I consider that significant.
I guess we'll see.
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Re: Spike's coat - my two cents -- Deeva,
09:32:12 05/09/02 Thu
I agree that Spike is shedding his skin/persona/so on, but I
think it's also an indication that he is removing his armor.
I know that physically Spike doesn't need armor but maybe
psychologically he needed it. For all his bravado and
posturing, underneath all that Spike's just a lonely,
approval seeking guy.
The leather is a trophy of his Slayer slaying days but he is
not that Spike anymore. Just like how some atheletes still
occasionally wear their jerseys to remind them of their
glory days, Spike does, too. But there comes a time where,
either consciously or not, you just stop wearing it. It
stays in the closet or the bureau, tucked away. It was a
part of who you were but not it's not who you are now or
will be.
It seems fitting to me that Spike removed his coat to face
Buffy. Buffy herself is just in a robe, and most likely with
not much else on underneath. Spike seems like the type of
person not bothered by his own nudity so in essence, without
his armor, he is just as exposed as Buffy is. They are on
somewhat equal footing here.
For so long Spike has placed quite a bit of importance in
his coat, all the small moments and comments that would most
likely not be noticed otherwise (except for all of us out
there rewinding and rewatching EVERYTHING). It is
signifigant that his removal of the coat and leaving it
behind, seems so natural.
For some people, leaving something so important behind, it
is a promise of eventual return. A reminder of who was
there.
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Re: Spike's coat - my two cents -- redcat,
09:54:23 05/09/02 Thu
Remember Spike saying this to Buffy in NA:
"You're addicted to the misery. It's why you won't tell your
pals about us. Might actually have to be happy if you did.
They'd either understand and help you, god forbid ... or
drive you out ... where you can finally be at peace, in the
dark. With me. Either way, you'd be better off for it, but
you're too twisted for that. (pauses) Let yourself live,
already. And stop with the bloody hero trip for a sec. We'd
all be the better for it."
Now imagine Buffy saying this to Spike after his speech to
Clem in SR:
"You're addicted to being the one who causes the misery.
It's why you won't tell yourself the truth about what loving
me has done to you. Might actually have to be happy if you
did. You'd either have to understand and accept yourself,
god forbid ... or drive me out ... so you can finally be at
peace, in the dark. Alone. Either way, you'd be better off
for it, but you're too twisted for that. (pauses) Let
yourself be undead, already. And stop with the bloody Bad
Boy trip for a sec. We'd all be the better for it."
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Very nice turn-around....perhaps prescient! --
clg0107, 09:58:29 05/09/02 Thu
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Leaving something important to you may mean you want to
come back for it. -- Lilac, 06:59:11 05/09/02 Thu
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Re: Spike's coat - symbolism (re SR) -- Ronia,
08:34:14 05/09/02 Thu
No, I think you've got something there, I noticed the
coat thing too, but couldn't put my finger on exactly where
they were going with it. I think it's significant that he
approached her as a human, not vamped.
How Buffy really
reacts to Attempted Rape -- LeeAnn, 08:20:09 05/09/02
Thu
The rape scene was out of character for Spike or so I
believe. But it was even more out of character for Buffy
because we've seen her almost get raped before. Remember the
attempted gang rape of Buffy by the monsters/swim team in
Go Fish.
Buffy: So, what, you're just gonna feed me to 'em?
Coach Marin: Oh, they've already had their dinner. But boys
have other needs.
Cut to the sewers. The camera pans around the pool of water.
One of the monsters pokes its head out of the water behind a
pillar and observes Buffy. The camera continues until it
stops on her.
Buffy: Great. This is just what my reputation needs: that I
did it with the entire swim team.
Cut to below. Buffy keeps looking for the sea monsters. One
suddenly rises up behind her and lunges at her. She quickly
grabs it and throws it aside. Another one comes for her, and
she deflects it into the wall, but loses her balance and
falls underwater. One grabs her leg, and she kicks out. She
grabs it and throws it off of her. Standing again, she grabs
another one's arm as it attacks her and flips it over into
the wall.
Cut below. Buffy knocks and flips the monsters away as they
each come for her in turn. Soon they've had enough, and the
three of them surround her and slowly close in.
Cut above. Xander steps over to the hole and looks down.
When he sees what's going on below he quickly lies down and
reaches into the hole with his arm.
Xander: Buffy, hurry! Your hand!
Buffy looks up and sees him there. She takes a breath,
crouches down into the water and leaps up the ten feet to
grab Xander's hand.
Xander: Hold on!
He starts to pull for all he's worth. Below the creatures
paw at Buffy's legs, trying to pull her back down. Two of
them grab hold, and she kicks and flails to shake them off.
The monsters can't keep hold of her, and fall into the
water.
Buffy: Pull!
Xander: Hold on!
He pulls again, but he's not as strong as he thinks and it
goes slowly. One of the monsters leaps up and grabs Buffy's
leg again. She kicks it with her free leg and it goes
tumbling down. Xander pulls again as Buffy raises her legs
up out of the creature's reach. Slowly she emerges from the
hole and climbs onto the floor, coughing and panting.
Buffy: Thanks.
This is how Buffy reacts to a gang rape. By monsters yet.
Some screaming but mostly fighting and some quipping. No
crying. No begging.
That is the Buffy we saw for 6 years. Who the poor girl in
that bathroom was I don't know.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Ronia, 08:30:05 05/09/02 Thu
maybe someone has already mentioned... that the attempted
rape scene in go fish was uncomplicated, straight forward
rape between several guys and one girl
who have no relationship otherwise.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Cheryl, 08:47:35 05/09/02 Thu
My thought on this is that Buffy has admitted she has
feelings for Spike. Their sexual relationship before the
bathroom scene was consensual. While she doesn't trust
Spike, there has been a sort of mutual respect between them.
This scene blew that out of the water. She may have always
known that the possibility existed that Spike would really
try to hurt her someday, but didn't want to believe it.
I don't think Spike meant to hurt her - he was desperate and
confused. I also think she may feel somewhat responsible
for his feelings towards her. This isn't how she wanted
their relationship, however you want to define it, to end
up. She's confused too - I think she was surprised at her
own reaction to seeing Spike & Anya together and is trying
to deal with that on top of everything else.
Cheryl
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
LeeAnn, 08:50:51 05/09/02 Thu
maybe someone has already mentioned... that the attempted
rape scene in go fish was uncomplicated, straight forward
rape between several guys and one girl who have no
relationship otherwise.
So Buffy cried and begged because the guy hurting her and
trying to rape her was Spike?
Actually I agree but I've been shot down for having that
opinion.
I think because it was Spike hurting her, trying to force
her, that was why she broke down and cried and begged.
Because...she had trusted Spike
Because... she had had feelings for him.
Because...his attack was such a betrayal.
Because....she loved him?
I never believed that Buffy loved Spike until the rape
scene. But the only explanation I can find for our superhero
begging and crying is if she loves Spike. That would make
his attack unbearably painful and shocking to the point that
she broke down emotionally instead of just fighting him.
That might make an attack by Spike more painful than, say, a
gang rape by three monsters in Go Fish.
On the other hand maybe it's just lousy writing of Marti
Noxon's lousy idea.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
maddog, 08:56:18 05/09/02 Thu
I'm not sure love is the right word...seems more like some
sort of respect stemming from the end of last season. I
just think she never thought he'd go through with it(even
though she probably always thought it a long shot).
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Ronia, 08:57:23 05/09/02 Thu
Yes, she's begging and crying, and he's not vamped, and
I don't think it started out as a rape. I think it built to
that crescendo. Once it did, Buffy stopped trying to appeal
toSpikes reasoning which lets face it was in the trunk by
then. BUT, she also didn't stake him. So whatever that
means...
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
maddog, 08:49:04 05/09/02 Thu
You're missing the whole point. This was personal to Buffy.
For a brief moment she remembered the Spike of old. And i
think it scared her. The Spike she was used to was the
lovesick, yet still iritating vampire. I think she was just
so stunned by his actions that he caught her off guard and
it took just a little longer for that fight instinct to kick
in.
And that Spike you saw was a vampire on his last leg. He
was tired of Buffy being in control of the relationship.
Tired of his heart breaking over her. So that was his last,
ill advised, ditch effort to take control. Of course that's
not the Spike you know...cause he's finally decided he wants
a more permanent solution...whatever that may be.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
yez, 09:44:38 05/09/02 Thu
I agree that the pleading, etc., are easier to understand if
you consider the context of their relationship where rough
sex play was normal. At first, her crying, pleading and "ow-
ing" really bothered me, too. It felt like it was
uncharacteristic of her, and was just thrown in there to
evoke our emotions -- blatant manipulation.
When he first approaches her, she's not really fighting him
off. And even after they fall, I think, she's saying "No,
Spike, I'm hurt. Ow!" To me, that sounds like, "Not tonight,
honey, I have a headache." In other words, if she wasn't
hurt, would she have allowed his aggressive advances like
she always had before despite her protestations? Earlier in
the season, there's a scene where they're on the catwalk in
the Bronze, and he starts touching her, she says, "No,
Spike, stop," he says "Make me," and she doesn't stop him,
she doesn't "make him stop."
It made me wonder if her crying and pleading weren't
necessarily about being attacked, but about not wanting to
fall back into the pattern with Spike. In the past, she's
said no, and he's drawn her in anyway because he makes her
confront her pull to him. And so it's almost like she's
tired and hurt (physically and emotionally) and vulnerable,
and she's begging him not to make her break her promise to
herself and her friends that it's over, not just about
having nonconsesual sex.
I mean, let's face it, there was no way in hell Spike
could've actually pulled that off. He had a tiger by the
tail, holding her arms down. The minute he let one slip so
he could "unleash" himself, he was going to be pummelled,
period. If ME's intent was to show Spike really losing it
outside of the context of their violent sexual relationship,
that could have easily been accomplished by having Buffy get
knocked in the head when she fell; a dazed, semi-conscious
slayer would have been the real test for someone intent on
getting sex with or without consent. But, they couldn't do
that, because the Spike we've come to know over the last
couple of seasons wouldn't have assaulted a clearly wounded
Buffy -- he would've tried to help her.
So I think that ME sets it up this way on purpose not to
villainize Spike -- which I and others feared might be the
case -- but to show the awful state of their relationship,
what the lack of honesty wrought, how much pain they're both
in, etc.
At least that's what I hope they're doing, because I won't
be able to swallow making this out to be a simple thing --
"Well, there's Spike's true colors, he's plainly just evil
and can't get around that, Buffy was right to treat him the
way she did all along and is in no way responsible for what
led up to that misunderstanding and her behavior towards
him."
I'm a big believer in no means no, but when "previously on
Buffy" Buffy's no's have been followed by "Yes, yes,
yeeesssss!", a misunderstanding like this is nearly
inevitable. In this specific case of sexual assault, both
Buffy and Spike bear responsibility for what happened, IMHO.
And if Buffy never has to face up to that, it's really going
to piss me off. This has nothing to do with Spike being a
vampire, being evil, etc. If it were that simple, he
wouldn't have been deterred so easily; since when has one
kick across a room ever been all it's taken?
Buffy should be f-ing shaken up by what happened because she
should realize that not only did Spike not immediately know
that she really meant no this time, but she couldn't
immediately tell that he didn't know or didn't intend to
stop because of the way they'd foreplay. She was so
repressed, so intent on never falling in love with him or
trusting him or liking him or getting comfortable with him,
that they never took the steps that people who were having
an honest, trusting relationship would take if they wanted
to get into that kind of play, like creating a "safe word,"
for starters.
I just hope that at some point, Buffy has to deal with her
shit and faces up to stuff, and stops acting like it's all
the evil vampire's fault. Even though the news broke about
Spike, she's still being dishonest about it -- even to
herself, I think.
yez
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Terrific stuff! -- Caroline, 10:03:02 05/09/02
Thu
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Deeva, 09:48:11 05/09/02 Thu
The poor girl in the bathroom was someone being attacked by
a "friend". She never really thought that this particular
thing would occur, especially from this person. There was a
mutual understanding between them. She is mainly trying to
shake off the shock that has set in, that someone she knows
would do this to her. Especially after she has just conceded
to a point that this person has been trying to get her to
see.
The two scenes are not the same. Two very, very different
things, actually.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
yez, 09:53:26 05/09/02 Thu
I agree that the pleading, etc., are easier to understand if
you consider the context of their relationship where rough
sex play was normal. At first, her crying, pleading and "ow-
ing" really bothered me, too. It felt like it was
uncharacteristic of her, and was just thrown in there to
evoke our emotions -- blatant manipulation.
When he first approaches her, she's not really fighting him
off. And even after they fall, I think, she's saying "No,
Spike, I'm hurt. Ow!" To me, that sounds like, "Not tonight,
honey, I have a headache." In other words, if she wasn't
hurt, would she have allowed his aggressive advances like
she always had before despite her protestations? Earlier in
the season, there's a scene where they're on the catwalk in
the Bronze, and he starts touching her, she says, "No,
Spike, stop," he says "Make me," and she doesn't stop him,
she doesn't "make him stop."
It made me wonder if her crying and pleading weren't
necessarily about being attacked, but about not wanting to
fall back into the pattern with Spike. In the past, she's
said no, and he's drawn her in anyway because he makes her
confront her pull to him. And so it's almost like she's
tired and hurt (physically and emotionally) and vulnerable,
and she's begging him not to make her break her promise to
herself and her friends that it's over, not just about
having nonconsesual sex.
I mean, let's face it, there was no way in hell Spike
could've actually pulled that off. He had a tiger by the
tail, holding her arms down. The minute he let one slip so
he could "unleash" himself, he was going to be pummelled,
period. If ME's intent was to show Spike really losing it
outside of the context of their violent sexual relationship,
that could have easily been accomplished by having Buffy get
knocked in the head when she fell; a dazed, semi-conscious
slayer would have been the real test for someone intent on
getting sex with or without consent. But, they couldn't do
that, because the Spike we've come to know over the last
couple of seasons wouldn't have assaulted a clearly wounded
Buffy -- he would've tried to help her.
So I think that ME sets it up this way on purpose not to
villainize Spike -- which I and others feared might be the
case -- but to show the awful state of their relationship,
what the lack of honesty wrought, how much pain they're both
in, etc.
At least that's what I hope they're doing, because I won't
be able to swallow making this out to be a simple thing --
"Well, there's Spike's true colors, he's plainly just evil
and can't get around that, Buffy was right to treat him the
way she did all along and is in no way responsible for what
led up to that misunderstanding and her behavior towards
him."
I'm a big believer in no means no, but when "previously on
Buffy" Buffy's no's have been followed by "Yes, yes,
yeeesssss!", a misunderstanding like this is nearly
inevitable. In this specific case of sexual assault, both
Buffy and Spike bear responsibility for what happened, IMHO.
And if Buffy never has to face up to that, it's really going
to piss me off. This has nothing to do with Spike being a
vampire, being evil, etc. If it were that simple, he
wouldn't have been deterred so easily; since when has one
kick across a room ever been all it's taken?
Buffy should be f-ing shaken up by what happened because she
should realize that not only did Spike not immediately know
that she really meant no this time, but she couldn't
immediately tell that he didn't know or didn't intend to
stop because of the way they'd foreplay. She was so
repressed, so intent on never falling in love with him or
trusting him or liking him or getting comfortable with him,
that they never took the steps that people who were having
an honest, trusting relationship would take if they wanted
to get into that kind of play, like creating a "safe word,"
for starters.
I just hope that at some point, Buffy has to deal with her
shit and faces up to stuff, and stops acting like it's all
the evil vampire's fault. Even though the news broke about
Spike, she's still being dishonest about it -- even to
herself, I think.
yez
[>
Hey,hey,hey! Spoil much in the headline? --
SingedCat, 10:36:03 05/09/02 Thu
[>
Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Lyonors, 11:58:32 05/09/02 Thu
Buffy's reaction was not that surprising really, if you
consider most date-rape victims, I stated that I am one in
another thread, and I didnt exactly react in a way that is
characteristic of my personality. I was in HUGE denial.
"Didn't happen, I was too drunk to have my memory be
reliable about it, He wouldn't have done that to me, its
just my imagination" It took me a good while to admit what
happened. As I am sure it will take Buffy some time, not
that ME is gonna give her any time to deal with it, being
all woundy with the bullet and whatnot....
sorry, just my thoughts on post-(attempted)rape
attitudes.
Ly
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
LeeAnn, 12:08:12 05/09/02 Thu
I'm scared to relate Buffy's attempted rape to anyone's
reality.
But I'm pretty damn sure if I had superhero powers and great
pain tolerance, I would not be begging and crying to someone
trying to rape me. The only crying I might be doing would be
over their corpse.
That was what is so horrible about ME using this scene and
in making so realistic that real rape victims are disturbed.
Buffy doesn't live in the Real World and her rape would not
be like a real rape. It is evil of them to portray it that
way.
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Re: How Buffy really reacts to Attempted Rape --
Rob, 13:49:22 05/09/02 Thu
"It is evil of them to portray it that way."
Would you rather that they have trivialized rape by making
it a lighter scene of Buffy easily pummeling Spike? Reading
your analyses, I don't think we even saw the same scene!
Buffy was hurt in the graveyard, more than usual. When Spike
started to attack her, Buffy was not ready for a fight. She
was even starting a bath, probably to ease the pain in her
back. Buffy was not in her top strength when this happened.
What makes this scene so meaningful is the fact that it is
possible that Spike would have been able to go through with
it...Not likely, but possible. This "scared girl" is this
way, b/c she is having attempted rape enacted upon her by a
recent ex-boyfriend, someone she knew was dangerous but
never believed would hurt her. Buffy's tears were tears of
shock, anger, and, yes a little fear, for, at the start, she
couldn't defend herself. It seemed like one big burst of
desperate strength she got when she finally knocked him off.
As I said in my post higher up on the page, I think that
your problem with the whole situatuion is that you're being
blindsided by the idea that all rapists are evil. The fact
is that all rapists--all people--are complex and multi-
layered. Very few people, except maybe Hitler, have no
redeeming qualities. There are situatuions where people
considered "good" raped somebody, and couldn't believe
they'd done it after it happened. The world is not so
simple.
Rob
Q: Are we not
men? (spoilers galore for SR) -- Bob Sikkel,
08:26:11 05/09/02 Thu
That scene in the bathroom was particularly disturbing
because in it Spike was utterly 'human'. He was in no way
that I remember acting as an evil predator (and remember
that, with Buffy, the chip seems to be completely
dysfunctional). Rather, he was a desperate, unhappy, lonely
man trying to reach his love. Granted, his approach was (as
you might expect) horribly misguided, but he was not trying
to HURT Buffy, either physically or emotionally. For that
matter, it was also Buffy at her most human- tired, stiff
and sore, and weak- or at least not her usual "buff
Buff".
The implications for each character and for the theme of the
show are interesting (but I'm not going to get into all of
them).
Now, later in his crypt, Spike is reeling from it all. He
says "What have I done?" in a way that, to me, shows that he
really understands the horror of his behavior. And that is
disturbing (to him) in a number of ways:
He is not used to or comfortable with this turmoil of
emotion, grieving over his separation from the one he loves,
both physically and emotionally, since he realises- perhaps
for the first time, fully- that Buffy DOES NOT love him, and
perhaps CANNOT, whereas before he always carried the hope
that even if she didn't, she would eventually come
round.
He realises that she cannot love him for very good reason,
and that it is his fault, not hers. Whereas he seems to
have very good insight into human behavior and emotion
(not
that he's at all sympathetic), and as Buffy herself observed
("...and for some reason I can't fool Spike") he's
particularly attuned to her, he's been quite blind about
the
realities of Buffy's feelings concerning himself. I think
now he suddenly has some understanding of it from Buffy's
point of view.
Maybe I'm going out on a limb, here, but I think he also
feels genuinely remorseful that he has hurt Buffy- both by
having sex with Anya and by attempting to rape her. He
realises that he is out of control, and that he has acted
awfully.
That last part, especially, REALLY frightens him. He's
Spike, the Big-Bad, the evil killer. He had somehow come to
grips with the fact that he was on a leash- that wasn't
his doing, he was "an innocent victim". But now here he is
actually feeling remorse for just the sort of heinous
behavior he's supposed to delight in! Where the hell has
he
come to? And though he may not consciously realise it yet
(even if he said something very like it), the real question
is, "Who am I?" He's clearly no longer the hunter he once
took pride in being (though his image of himself wasn't
necessarily the sum total of who he really was even then),
but he's also not the human he'd been starting to feel like.
Heck, he's nearly back to being the love-lost guy he was
before he became a vampire in the first place. But the
problem is, I don't think he's sure which one he wants to be
anymore- for all the misery of being "human", there was
something there that he missed as a happy-go-lucky vampire.
Perhaps maturity is stalking Spike, too.
Now, as for where he's off to, I'll propose some
possibilities (expecting the truth to be none of them), but
I won't say which I actually think is true (and these are
what Spike's idea might be, not what the omniscient writers'
plan is):
1) He's going to try to get the chip out of his head,
literally or figuratively, so that he can get back to being
the Big Bad. (though if this is the case I'm certain it
won't play out the way Spike imagines, and I don't mean
because it never does...)
2) He's going to try to get the chip out of his head, so
that he can prove to himself and ultimately to Buffy that it
isn't just the chip that makes him who he is NOW.
3) He's going to try to get the chip fixed so that he can't
hurt Buffy either.
4) He's going to LA to have an encounter-group experience
with Angel, since he's the only one that might possibly be
able to relate to his predicament. (Hey, its a long shot,
but it would make for a great scene, wouldn't it?- He could
do a song for Lorne!)
5) He's going back to Dru.
6) None of the above.
bob
(sorry for the odd line breaks)
[>
LOL. I just posted the same point below. You said it
better. -- Sophist, 08:51:00 05/09/02 Thu
[>
Great post -- dream of the consortium, 09:06:41
05/09/02 Thu
By the way, re: Buffy being at her most human, one of the
details I liked best last night was the way she was injured.
She smashed into a stone with her lower back. You could
really imagine how that would hurt - not some superhuman
level of impact, but just hitting a vulnerable spot in your
back. So she pours herself a hot tub. It seemed very human
- and rather adult, the aches and pains of an older person,
not a teenager. She also looked older last night; in at
least one scene with Dawn, she looked distinctly maternal.
I wonder, if they do follow-up with movies, how will they
handle an aging Slayer?
[>
Spike's Chip -- Darby, 09:38:26 05/09/02 Thu
Bob, your points are too good to address, I've got nothing
useful to add.
But you got me thinking about chip removal -
Spike's a vampire, with a very short list of
vulnerabilities. All he really needs is to climb into a
bathtub with a TV set to burn out that chip. Hardly seems
worth a trip out of town, but it would make a funny scene if
this was pointed out to him AFTER a long involved
quest...
[> [>
Re: Spike's Chip -- Bob Sikkel,
10:02:14 05/09/02 Thu
I like the concept, but I wonder...
We know that shocks are bad to possibly fatal for a vampire
('twas a TAZER that got him to the chip), so it might be
more dangerous than you think.
Also, supposedly the chip is "hard-wired" to his brain to
the degree that he can't live without it (am I right? Going
on distant memory...)
Someone put it in, so it should be theoretically possible to
take it out, but to simply fry it might not be healthy.
bob
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Re: Spike's Chip -- Darby, 10:40:26 05/09/02
Thu
It's never been established that Spike's chip is necessary,
or that removing it would hurt him (although it's a
complicated procedure) - the doctor who tried to do it
probably didn't accept that he couldn't kill Spike poking
around in his brain.
And the list of what can kill vampires is very well
established and does not include electricity - they can be
shocked (and it might be a lengthy recovery for what I'm
suggesting) but it can't kill them, according to the
Buffyverse rules, unless it sets them on fire, which is why
I suggest the tub rather than just grabbing some high-
tension lines. And I don't believe that a chip running
indefinitely on what little energy it can pick up from a
brain could survive the jolt - chips are just too easy to
fry, especially government chips bought undoubtedly from a
lowbid contractor. We should be amazed that an expensive
weapons-grade prototype is even still working!
Has Spike even been tasered since the implant? Even that
should knock it out, although maybe temporarily...
[>
Great post ! Thanks -- shadowkat,
11:57:59 05/09/02 Thu
You are right - great minds do think alike! After
reading some of the other threads was wondering if I was
the only one. ;-)
[>
actually (rumor enclosed) -- GreatRewards,
13:52:16 05/09/02 Thu
I've read that Spike is going to begin a quest to regain his
soul. I guess he doesn't just want Angel's ex, he wants the
BE Angel, too!
Why I am glad ME
made "that scene"... -- Rob, 08:53:32
05/09/02 Thu
1) We wouldn't have gotten such interesting debates here.
Nothing like a controversial scene to get us posters
typing!
2) Every character has hit rock bottom this year...Every one
except Spike. And this was his turn.
3) It gave some true driving force to Spike making a change
in his life--whether to become fully evil or fully good. I
found this line very telling: "Why did I do it? Why
didn't I do it?" This situation isn't so simple as
"Spike feels bad for what he did." Spike is even questioning
why he didn't do it! And, as I read here from some other
posters (sorry, I forget who!), Spike blames him not raping
Buffy on the chip, but the decision was really his... The
chip doesn't work on Buffy. She pushed him off, but, in her
weakened state, he could have gone right back to her and
continued. But he didn't. And that is very telling. I see
this scene as Spike acting how he believes he should, as a
monster, like the scene in "Smashed," when he tried to
attack the girl, but being unable to go through with it.
Despite himself, his heart isn't in it anymore.
4) This is a risk ME took, and I love when they take risks.
I don't know for sure, but is this the first time that a
major character has been almost-raped or raped by another
major character (not counting soaps lol)? There have been
rapes on TV shows, but usually it is by a guest star or non-
regular character. This could be the first time a character
that the audience is expected to like has attempted to rape
another. In many (most, I believe) real-life situations,
rape is done by someone the woman knows, sometimes even a
friend, or someone you wouldn't expect would be capable of
it. This stands as a reminder that things get out of hand;
that anybody could, theoretically do this.
Final Note: I don't believe that this scene was written last
minute, for one minute. It has been set in place since the
moment Spike's chip wouldn't detect Buffy as a human.
Rob
[>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- luminesce, 08:57:17 05/09/02 Thu
Xander tried to rape Buffy in the Season One episode "The
Pack."
It's amazing how everyone seems to have forgotten that.
Including me, until I got reminded last night.
[> [>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- maddog, 09:04:53 05/09/02 Thu
I think people leave it off because it wasn't really Xander.
It was some damn Hayena in Xander's body. Being possessed
kinda lets you off the hook.
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Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- shadowkat, 11:25:23 05/09/02 Thu
And yet...he seems to remember every portion of it and
lies
about that. Two years later, he remembers it so well
that
he discusses it in Beauty and the Beasts and tells OZ how he
knows what it's like to be an animal. Always thought
that was interesting. Just like he remembers all that
military knowledge from Halloween.
Spike has a demon raging inside him...and no soul. Does
that let him off the hook? I mean say he becomes human and
gets a soul?? Do we just blame the demon?
I don't know...just curious.
[> [> [> [>
Xander's was just different, Spike was himself so he
deserves the crap. -- gabby, 19:52:54 05/09/02
Thu
[> [> [> [>
Hmm, what if a vampire got his soul back... why does
that seem familiar? (gets off topic) -- RichardX1,
18:49:07 05/11/02 Sat
Spike has a demon raging inside him...and no soul.
Does
that let him off the hook? I mean say he becomes human and
gets a soul?? Do we just blame the demon?
If so, then Angel should have much less conflict. After
all, why should his soul feel guilt over what his demonic
self did?
As soon as I started typing that response, the answer came
to me. You asked what if Spike became human. Angel is
still a vampire. I'll go into that on a separate, original
thread.
"How do you get a thread killed from the board?"
"Easy, get RichardX1 to post to it!"
[>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- Deeva, 10:10:21 05/09/02 Thu
Has someone really said that The Scene was written last
minute? It doesn't appear that way to me. I agree with you
on all of your reasons for liking why ME did this. This
scene had to happen, though I think a little of the editing
they did on Spike was little awkward.
[> [>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- clg0107, 10:24:56 05/09/02 Thu
I concur, with all of the above. It didn't strike me as a
gratuitous "we have to have Spike do something really
heinous so that Spuffy fans will finally turn against him".
The truth is, it was a really hard scene to watch. I don't
think I was literally watching through my fingers, but
mentally I was.
It was hard because he was came in so vulnerable and so
sincere. He came across utterly human, and in desperate
pain. And it just turned into something that he didn't mean
for it to, and then he was appalled by it, and then later,
he was appalled that he was appalled....too many layers to
it to have been a last minute ploy. Yes, it also acts as a
device to advance him from this limbo in which he's been
existing for 2-1/2 years. But that's a good thing.
It would have been a shocking scene, but not hard to watch
in the same way if he'd shown up all Grrr- and fangs and
"I'll get you, my pretty" snicker, snicker. And, the latter
would have been out of the character they've been building.
But I don't think that this was.
clg0107
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Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- Humanitas, 10:53:25 05/09/02 Thu
Further, it makes very real the danger of that relationship,
which, at least for me, was one of the things that was so
intriguing. Happiness clause aside, Buffy never belived
that Angel would hurt her, and Riley was simply incapable of
doing so, at least physically. But Spike...
I think a big part of the thrill of that relationship was
that each of them knew full well that the other was
perfectly capable of killing them. Angel was the guy you're
not supposed to love. Spike was the guy it was dangerous to
love, and this particular scene really drove it home.
[> [>
Steven DeKnight -- Raccoon, 10:49:53 05/09/02
Thu
said as much in his interview at The Succubus Club last
night. Apparently the scene was added while they were
breaking the episode, at Marti's request.
[> [> [>
Not last minute, just not planned from day 1 as a
"major event." -- Dyna, 11:39:29 05/09/02
Thu
"Breaking" the episode is the process that goes on before
writing begins of determining roughly what's going to
happen. This wasn't a case of a scene being inserted "last
minute," but rather just not something ME conceived of as a
major milestone of the season. At least, that's how I
interpret Steve DeKnight's remarks.
[> [> [> [>
Yes, I know what breaking an episode means --
Raccoon, 15:18:45 05/09/02 Thu
Since ME pride themselves on having the seasonal arcs
planned out so far in advance, this seems like "last minute"
in comparison. I guess I'm a little surprised that something
IMO this major wouldn't have been one of those arcs.
[> [> [>
Re: Steven DeKnight -- LittleBit, 11:40:32
05/09/02 Thu
"Breaking the episode" was the story meeting that took place
the week before DeKnight started writing the script.
[>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- Anne, 10:48:01 05/09/02 Thu
I'm not going to argue with you about the merits of the
scene, about which frankly I have genuinely mixed feelings,
some good some not so good.
However: if you read the actual transcripts of the DeKnight
interview, I would say that it's next to impossible that he
was lying about its being a last-minute idea by Marti. His
whole version of what happened came out in response to a
series of questions, and would have to have been a quite
elaborate and involved lie. These guys tell flip one-liner
lies to keep people off balance, but they don't cook up big
long stories.
For better or worse, the scene was apparently a last-minute
idea that had not been baked into the long-term story
arc.
[> [>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- clg0107, 11:32:59 05/09/02 Thu
I don't understand why this is bothering people. I read the
transcript of the relevent parts of SdeK's comments --
the overall arc ("big things") they already know -- Tara
dies, Spike leaves town to...something, the Troika are
split. Then, there's the "how" of this stuff. That, they
sit around and discuss and brainstorm and share ideas. In
the course of that, the "how" of Spike getting to a point of
leaving was discussed. Marti was part of the discussion,
and contributed an idea that was used.
I would call the scene last-minute if it was added to the
script in final revisions. The idea was discussed a week
before the script was begun.
Calm down, you guys (at least, to those who are exhibiting
un-calm, Marti Noxon is hateful, reactions)!!
If this was some MN scheme designed to make everyone hate
Spike, it would have been an (even) uglier scene, attacking
her would have been pre-meditated, he probably would have
succeeded in raping her, and I suspect he wouldn't be
troubled by it. He'd be all "she deserved that" and "once
you've had Spike..." and whatever.
But was that the scene we got? No.
It had layers of complex emotional stuff going on, in the
end Buffy made him stope -- and he did stop, and the thing
happened that the Spike con-redemptionists have been howling
about for so long. Spike felt remorse. Guilt. Extreme
confusion. Is he sorry for all his past mis-deeds? No, not
right now. Maybe never (see also, Anya -- no remorse for a
millenium of pain and suffering). Am I saying this was
Spike's bright, shining moment. Good God, NO! But it also
had too many layers to have been some after-thought whose
sole purpose was to turn people against Spike.
What I am saying is that this served the purpose (as has
been said already) of bringing about a catharsis for Spike,
one that spurs him to action that will finally propel him
along one of the paths emenating from the fork in the road
about which he's been hanging for so long. Do I know which
road he'll end up on? Do I think that there won't be some
red herrings along the way from the writing team? Do I
think that things are going to work out however it is that
Spike is planning them? No, to all of the above. We'll
just have to watch and see. But, as usual, I'm glued to my
seat, leaning forward all the way!!
~clg0107
[>
I agree Rob -- shadowkat, 11:41:35 05/09/02
Thu
I agree with everything you said - but then you and I
are amongst the few who think SEason 6 totally rocks!
(Hmmmm wonder what that says about us?)
It was a risk and to be honest if I was ME I would have done
it too - it took something major to push Spike out of his
complacency. He was slowly going insane... And yes he could
have continued to hurt
her - after she pushed him off, I found the fact that he
didn't incredibly interesting, just as I found the fact that
she didn't try to kill him afterwards profoundly
interesting.
They've known for awhile that they were going this
route.
It's there - if you look. The violent sex, the rough-
housing, the no - yes routine. (No - I'm not saying I
had
problems with their violent sex or it was wrong - just
that these two had a volatile relationship from the get-
go.
And the way he got her to admit her feelings to him to
actually initiate sex in Smashed was by fighting with
her/hurting her - it did not surprise me that he tried it
again, hey if it worked once? And the vamp was desperate,
not to mention has a restrained demon screaming inside him.
In fact the positions they were in on the floor were similar
to the one he had her in on the stairs in Smashed - when he
says:"I wasn't planning on hurting you much.")
They are also btw similar to the positions on the floor
in Buffy's dream, very last portion with the First
Slayer.
This was preordained - don't believe those writers.
I think people need to get past the grittiness and
disturbing nature of the scene and see what you and I saw -
there's more there folks. It's an incredibly well written
and complex scene.
A friend of mine last night made an interesting point - rape
is usually not about sex - it's anger/rage - in most
cases similar to the vampire biting you. Neither party is
turned on by it - in most cases. The actor is trying to
hurt the other party - a perfect example is Faith's scene
with Xander in Consequences, she has him on the bed, she's
undone his zipper, she is literally squirming on him and her
hands are around his throat. In SR - Spike was trying out
desperation to get her to feel - violent as it was - what I
found most disturbing was the desperation, the frustration,
the pathetic pain behind it - love me! That's what I saw.
And I'm not sure I can watch it again.
I've seen lots of television shows do rape scenes. Some
a heck a lot worse than this one. And I never felt that
emotion in them - what I felt in those was more similar
to
what I saw when Faith tries to hurt Xander or Xander
tries
to hurt Buffy in The PAck. And I find it interesting
that
ME tried something different here.
Sorry for the ramble. hope made sense. ;-)
[> [>
Emotion...JM? -- LeeAnn, 11:55:10 05/09/02
Thu
In SR - Spike was trying out desperation to get her to
feel - violent as it was - what I found most disturbing was
the desperation, the frustration, the pathetic pain behind
it - love me! That's what I saw. And I'm not sure I can
watch it again. I've seen lots of television shows do rape
scenes. Some a heck a lot worse than this one. And I never
felt that emotion in them ... And I find it interesting that
ME tried something different here
Well that was the great James Marsters we were watching
there. If it has been any almost any other actor I don't
think we would be discussing it the way were are.
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Martsers' job -- SingedCat, 12:43:40 05/09/02
Thu
I have often been impressed with Marster's acting, his
ability to take even a few moments he has in a show and make
them memorable. But this really threw me; he played the
scene with such terrifying tenderness and desperation. That
is one actor with a scary amount of insight into his
character, and a beautiful sense of pathos and drama. Say
what you will about the scene, to me it was the logical
culmination of the last 2 seasons for the two characters.
And we may never again see a take on rape so compassionate,
and therefore disturbing. Think about it-- at the same time
we are frightened for Buffy, we are frightened for Spike,
and we twist for a moment, held perfectly between two
opposing views. So hard to watch, so beautifully made.
This season ROCKS!
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Very well said shadowkat, LeeAnn &SingedCat (NT) --
Joie (d V), 22:56:14 05/10/02 Fri
[> [> [> [>
"terrifying tenderness and desperation" --
writing like this is why i love this board! -- redcat,
11:11:26 05/11/02 Sat
[>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- celticross, 11:46:20 05/09/02 Thu
I agree with your points save for number 4...Is it a GOOD
thing that we were shown a near-rape? It was hard enough to
watch for your average viewer, can you imagine what it must
have felt like to be a Buffy fan who's been sexually
assaulted, then see that nearly happen to the heroine of the
show? It may have been brave to show it, from an artistic
standpoint, but sometimes the envelope doesn't necessarily
need to be pushed.
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Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- Lyonors, 12:04:51 05/09/02 Thu
>>It was hard enough to watch for your average viewer, can
you imagine what it must have felt like to be a Buffy fan
who's been sexually assaulted, then see that nearly happen
to the heroine of the show? It may have been brave to show
it, from an artistic standpoint, but sometimes the envelope
doesn't necessarily need to be pushed.<<
*raises hand* watched it, thought about what happened to
me, cried. It was hard, but in a way cathartic. I have
always found parallels to my life in Buffy---havent we all?
and this for me showed me that I am not alone in what
happened to me, I don't have to isolate myself over it
either. If it can (nearly) happen to Buffy the super hero,
it sure as heck can happen to me.
Ly
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Totally agree... -- Caroline, 13:36:40 05/09/02
Thu
Lyonors,
Raising my hand right along with you. Art, especially when
done well, has a wonderful way of helping us to feel our
personal pain in a healing way. It's why The Body is one of
my favorite episodes of any show of all time. One of the
many reasons why I love this show.
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Um, not to pry too much... -- vampire hunter D,
13:39:21 05/09/02 Thu
But after hearing Lyonors' position, I'm wondering how other
victims feel (I know there are at least 2 more here). I
know that his is none of my business, but I am curious.
However, if it's too hard for you to talk about and don't
want to share, I'll understand.
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Re: Um, not to pry too much... -- Lyonors,
23:09:19 05/09/02 Thu
I would like to encourage other victims, if they feel
comfortable, to talk about this in relation to their own
lives as well. I, who have been silent about the incident
since it happened, found it easier to tell it to a group of
non-judgemental intelligent types. And it is really helping
to wash it away....
Ly
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Re: Um, not to pry too much... -- Arethusa,
12:31:41 05/10/02 Fri
I value my privacy and won't get into personal details, but
this is an important matter. Feel free to comment.
I don't want to see sexual assault happen to anyone, in real
life or entertainment. If it's happened to you, it's too
painful to watch. If it hasn't happened to you and you
watch you're a voyeur, entertaining yourself in a
particularly sick way.
Now, that's a very strong and judgemental thing to say, and
I'm uneasy making such a sweeping statement, but I think our
society really needs to consider whether we want to continue
to watch shows and movies that revel in violence, especially
against women and girls. Don't get me wrong-I love Buffy's
kung fu fighting, I won't stop watching "Buffy," and I agree
that it would take a very serious act by Spike to to show
him experiencing guilt and remorse, but dragging out the old
cliche of tramatizing the heroine through rape (or attempted
rape) has got to stop.
I made the dreadful mistake of watching "Bastard Out of
Carolina," and I couldn't understand how ANYONE could let
that little girl even *pretend* to go through that, or why
they'd make the movie at all, or why anyone would WANT to
see it, or consider it entertainment, or even educational.
If you've been through it, it's not entertaining to watch.
If you haven't been through it, you will never ever
understand the situation. As far as I can tell, making that
movie didn't make anyone more aware of sexual abuse than
they already were, didn't stop incest or rape, didn't do
anything at all to help victims or stop perpetrators. It
probably just fed some sick fantasies, and hurt a lot of
people who were already hurting. No matter what excuse the
filmmakers peddle, they paraded human pain and misery across
the tv screen to make money.
If film and tv want to address the problems arising from
sexual abuse, they can, but they don't HAVE to show the
actual assault. Nobody did before the 1960s, and the
message still got across. People are, thankfully, more
aware of sexual abuse now, and are more willing to discuss
and treat it than before, when it was ignored. But that
doesn't mean I want to actually see a woman or child
(pretend) to be raped when I watch tv.
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Dealing with victimization (the tangent begins...)
-- RichardX1,
19:46:52 05/11/02 Sat
Every time I'm exposed to a portrayal of something like
this, where one person is the victim of a violent act of
another (or multiple others), where the victim (not always,
but frequently) is left to deal with his/her own feelings of
powerlessness, I'm reminded of a Babylon 5 episode:
"Learning Curve".
A group of Rangers is visiting the station, and one of them,
who unsuccessfully tries to defend someone from an extortion
gang, is used to "leave a message" to the authorities (no
sexual violence, thankfully, but he's still in really bad
physical shape afterwards). Once he is able to walk, the
Rangers begin the Mora'Dum, "the application of terror". At
first, we think they're out for vengeance, but that's not
the case. As Delenn puts it:
"... Tennier will face his attacker. Those who harmed him
now have power over him. And he must take back that power,
or he will never be whole again."
Yes, the gang leader is forced to face Tennier in a one-on-
one battle, and yes, the leader does get his butt kicked;
but that isn't what it's about (although the guy did make a
very satisfying "thud" when he hit the ground ^_^). It's
about the victim confronting his fear, re-asserting himself,
and coming to terms with what's happened.
In the end, there's an exchange between Tennier and his
master, Turval:
TURVAL: Where is your fear now?
TENNIER: Gone, master
TURVAL: And what do you feel, anger? Do you feel triumph?
Happiness? Joy?
TENNIER: ... pity.
TURVAL: Why?
TENNIER: Because this is all he will ever have, and all he
will ever know. Because his name will be swallowed by
silence. Forgotten. His name belongs to no one.
TURVAL: And who does your name belong to? History? The
world?
TENNIER: No... it belongs to me.
... I wish more "recipients" of violence could be given a
chance to undergo the Mora'Dum.
"How do you kill a thread from the board?"
"Easy, get RichardX1 to post on it!"
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Why it didn't bother me... -- Lilac, 11:55:04
05/09/02 Thu
I don't mean that the ugliness and betrayal inherent in the
scene didn't bother me; of course it did, just as it was
supposed to. But something I think was notable about the
scene is how confident it showed ME is in Spike and JM's
characterization. How many actors could pull of a scene
involving such a reprehensible act and still have us (many
of us, I know that there are many who would like to see
Spike dusty immediately) empathize with the character, hate
the act but recognize the pain that caused it? I think ME
must be pretty damn sure that Spike/JM can win us back after
this, or I don't think they would have risked such a
controversial breaking point for the whole Buffy/Spike mess.
We all knew that they couldn't continue on as they had been.
Spike had to hit bottom before he would give up trying to
force Buffy to concede true feelings for him. Now that he
has hit, it will be fascinating to see which way he
bounces.
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Exactly! It shows confidence in the audience, too.
-- Dyna, 12:47:20 05/09/02 Thu
"I think ME must be pretty damn sure that Spike/JM can win
us back after this, or I don't think they would have risked
such a controversial breaking point for the whole
Buffy/Spike mess."
I totally agree! I'm also taking with a grain of salt the
speculation that ME did this in order to change viewers'
minds about (or "make viewers hate") Spike, or push them
into sympathizing more with Buffy. I think ME (and James,
of course) did a very good job of doing what needed to be
done to bring things to a breaking point, without dumbing-
down the emotional complexity of the scene. Clearly, ME has
a lot of faith in the fans as well.
Some have commented that the result of this must be to
change viewers' minds about Spike, but I actually don't get
that vibe from the posters here. I think if you're in the
"Spike should have been staked a long time ago" camp, you're
not going to change your mind based on this, and if you're
inclined to regard him as an interestingly flawed character
with a lot of potential but stuck in a bad place--well,
that's what I am, and I feel the same way today about it as
I did before "Seeing Red" was broadcast. If anything, I'm
more hopeful about Spike's potential for interesting future
development, now that he's been forced to choose a direction
instead of circling endlessly around Buffy.
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Re: As much as... Spoilers for SR -- LeeAnn,
13:01:08 05/09/02 Thu
As much as I love JM and his portrayal of Spike, I feel the
writers made Spike betray his love for Buffy in Seeing Red.
Love does not rape.
I do think this will put him on the path to redemption but I
might be fooling myself about that as well. He just might be
on the path to another ME lame plot device.
It sickens me that an actor as talented as JM is stuck
giving form to the inconsistent drivel that ME has been
shoveling out this season.
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Re: As much as... Spoilers for SR -- Rob,
13:31:10 05/09/02 Thu
"Love does not rape."
I think the problem with that statement is how black/white
it is. The world is more complex than that. Willow loved
Tara. She, in a sense, raped her. I think this year has been
Spike's best by far. In past seasons, we saw him evolve to
his current state, but this year we get to see his true
struggle between monster and man. This was not a case where
a human randomly picks a girl to rape. Spike does love
Buffy, and this attempted rape is out of her frustration
that she doesn't return his feelings, or does but won't
admit it to herself, or to him.
If Spike were truly betraying his love for Buffy, he would
have gone through with the rape. I think the most telling
sign is JM's tone of voice throughout. He was bitterly sad,
and was almost crying. This was not the attack of a
faceless, evil rapist. This was a desperate act by a man who
is desperately in love. And when she finally kicked him off,
he stayed off, even though he didn't have to.
Now, I am not for one minute condoning his actions, but I
certainly don't think his character was betrayed by it,
anymore than Xander was betrayed by dumping Anya, or Willow
was betrayed by becoming addicted to magic. One of the
themes of this year could be "S$#! happens." Every character
at one time or another will infuriate you. I think it was
very in-character for him, at this state of mind. He has for
months been in love with Buffy, and had a very volatile,
violently sexual relationship with her. Just like the other
times she said "No," like when he fingered her at the Bronze
in "Dead Things," she always eventually gave in. Part of him
probably thought she would here now. Remember, this is the
same Spike from "Crush." He isn't all human. He isn't all
monster. Spike can have true feelings of love for Buffy, and
still rape her...and that's the scariest thing about the
whole situation.
I think the fascinating thing about Spike is that he has
true love for Buffy, and yet still is not, in simplest
terms, "good." He still does evil things (demon eggs, etc.)
but his love for Buffy is real, and her attraction to him
(whether love or not) is real as well.
Spike has always been a conflicted character, and an
emotionally complex one, as well. I think this episode was
the finest example of just how emotionally complex and deep
an examination of the Buffy/Spike relationship could be.
This is a dangerous relationship, no doubt about it, but
things are not as simple as they were in the first season.
Things are complicated, multi-layered, complex.
To simply write this scene off as out of character, I
believe, would be denying rich treasure troves' worth of
character development. This scene was not one inserted to
shock. How then to explain the following scene with Spike
and Clem in the crypt? This scene was deeply meaningful, and
I thought, brilliantly written and executed.
Rob
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Typo! Should be "his frustration that she doesn't
return his feelings," in the first paragraph. --
Rob, 13:34:44 05/09/02 Thu
[> [> [> [> [>
Rob...are you reading my mind? Brillant. --
shadowkat, 18:23:04 05/09/02 Thu
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Thanks...and yes, I am. ;o) -- Rob, 18:29:35
05/09/02 Thu
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I agree... -- Dichotomy, 10:19:39 05/10/02
Fri
As sad as it is, people hurt those that they love all the
time. The intensity of feeling that allows you to love
someone can also make you angrier and more frustrated with
them than anyone else. Some parents who hit their kids in
anger also love them desperately. And I know people who've
said cruel things to their spouses and lovers--things that
they would never say to someone they didn't feel deeply for.
I'm not saying love = abuse, or that it's okay to hurt the
ones you love, but I think that people who have a hard time
controlling their emotional reactions are more likely to
hurt those they care about, whether it's a cruel remark, a
slap in the face, or, in Spike's case, attempted rape.
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Spike will never win me back, rape is unforgivable.
-- gabby (victim and survivor if you must know), 19:54:13
05/09/02 Thu
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Never say never. -- Rob, 09:45:09 05/10/02
Fri
[>
Two people needed convincing in "that
scene" -- Cleanthes,
13:50:27 05/09/02 Thu
Others have hinted at it below, but let me add here that in
"that scene", TWO people needed convincing that sexual
relations were over between Buffy & Spike.
Buffy reacted so uncharacteristically timorously not just
because she trusted Spike more than she admits but also
because she trusts herself even less than she admits. He
apologized so very movingly. Buffy had to think how poorly
she has treated him. Then he moves in. A large part of her
had to wonder whether she would fall back into her own
pattern.
She didn't immediately throw him off. Instead, she squirmed
and pleaded. I don't think she was squirming and pleading
at Spike so much. She squirmed and pleaded with
herself. I don't think she ever wanted to give in to
Spike's advance, mind, but I think she was surprised that
she didn't want to.
So Buffy found some backbone - and I guess her poor
backbone had to break a tombstone and thunk against a
bathtub first.
[>
"Last minute" - LOL (spoiler) --
verdantheart, 12:30:17 05/10/02 Fri
As though Joss wouldn't have his hand in something like this
... and I've thought that it is typically subversive of ME
to create this kind of scene in which tempts us to
sympathize with the would-be rapist.
[>
Agree, Rob...Question regarding trust -- ravenhair,
17:01:00 05/10/02 Fri
In addition to Seeing Red, Steven DeKnight wrote Dead
Things. Trust was a major issue in DT and especially with
Spike. In SR, why did Spike dismiss Buffy's need for trust
when it was so important for him to gain her trust earlier?
The scene was great, but I was surprised when he laughed at
the mention of trust.
[>
Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- Claire, 15:50:26 05/11/02 Sat
The reason people are speculating that the rape scene was
intended to affect Spike's fan base was because of
interviews with the writers. Marti has constantly brought up
her personal life in interviews and has specifically said
that the character Buffy reminds her of herself and the
character Riley is based on her husband. She has also stated
that she made no sensible decisions whatsoever in her 20s
(which is possibly why Bts is so dark this year?) and Spike
strongly reminds her of an ex-boyfriend that she still has
issues with. B/S was never meant to be a positive
relationship and Spike was the metaphour of the bad
boyfriend Buffy needed to escape from. Those are Marti's
words.
When fans did become attached to B/S Marti seemed concerned
about that and in interviews stressed that Spike was the bad
boy and the relationship was not intended to be healthy for
Buffy. However her message still wasn't getting across as
she started she recieved dozens of letters from angry Spuffy
fans claiming that Spike was redemned and they wanted to see
a more positive relationship between him and Buffy.
The scene in AYW in which Spike was suddenly an
international arms dealer has been puzzled over by many
Spike fans as seeming to come out of left field and making
little sense. Therefore it was assumed by many (rightly or
wrongly) that the point of the scene was to remind us all
how great Riley was and how Spike was evil and not a good
choice for a partner. But for many the scene simply didn't
fit and it certainly changed very few peoples opinions about
the Spike character.
It is now being assumed by many Spike fans that the rape
scene was planned as the ultimate extreme in order to
alienate Spike's fan base as most of them are females. Yes
it may have been planned all along to have a catylst to send
Spike to Africa. But DeKnight specifically said that Marti
requested the rape scene at the last moment and it was not
part of Spike's original character arc. It is being seen as
a last minute plot contriance mainly because of that. Also
the scene itself was manipulative with Buffy seeming to
forget she was a superhero and having lost all her strength
despite of previously being able to toss Spike across rooms.
Also Buffy had a bruise on her leg that was specifically
called attention to playing up her role as the helpless
victim. Yet Buffy is the slayer and is constantly getting
pummelled and smacked around without a mark being left.
Warren repeatedly punched her in the face in the same
episode with no markings.
I didn't appreciate the graphic nature of the scene and I
don't feel that it did fit Spike's character. And yes it has
turned many female fans against him. Internet fans tend to
be quite diehard in their support of characters and ships as
they are generally quite devoted fans anyway if they
regularly discuss Buffy on message posts. But the casual
viewer is disgusted by Spike's character and no longer care
for the character or Spuffy. That has been my experience
with the casual fans I watch with (I am the only one of us
who bothers posting about Buffy online).
It has also been my experience that a lot of internet fans
are also angry. BUT they are angry with the writers rather
than Spike. They feel they are being manipulated and the
writers have put them in an unfair position by making their
favourite character do the unforgivable knowing that fans
will try to defend their favourite characters. Many people
have said they are no longer watching as they feel insulted
and partionised by Marti teaching us a lesson about the bad
boyfriend when they wanted to follow a story of love and
redemption. Marti has actually said that she doesn't care
for the Spike character which is what is causing Spike fans
to lose hope and blame her for the current direction of his
character.
That is what I think ME has misjudged and they may well lose
a lot of viewers over this particular storyline. Just my
perspective.
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Future Spoilers in above post!!!! -- This is
getting tiresome, 18:53:33 05/11/02 Sat
[> [> [>
Re: This post contains spoilers. -- Claire,
21:15:46 05/11/02 Sat
Okay I don't know why you are making out I am always giving
away spoilers in every post. In a post a couple of days ago
I was critisized for not warning there were spoilers in it
and this is only the second occurance so I don't know why
you are suggessting it is a constant thing on my part. And I
didn't get a chance to respond to the last post in which you
claimed I gave away future spoilers. Well that simply wasn't
true as I don't know any future spoilers myself. I was
commenting on an interview given by the writer of Seeing
Red. You claimed I gave away Tara's death. Well I'm sorry
but I would have thought it was pretty obvious she was dead
as she got a bullet through the heart spraying her lover
with blood. I apologized for giving away spoilers for Seeing
Red as I didn't realise that on this board we are supposed
to label spoilers for episodes that have just aired. But as
I don't even know what is going to happen in future episodes
I do think you are being oversensitive in complaining I
revealed Tara's death to you. The Buffy writers always avoid
giving away spoilers but I didn't get really wound up when
Steven DeKnight confirmed Tara's death as I would have
thought the episode made it clear that she died. The writer
obviously thought so to or he would not have conformed her
death but teased viewers saying tune in next week to find
out.
And again on this post I was discussing a writers interview
on an episode that had already aired. I have no more
knowledge of future information, any more than you do. But
I'm sorry I forgot to label my above post had spoilers for
Seeing Red. I understand it must be annoying to stumble
across spoilers but I do think you could be a bit more
polite about it. You talk as if I'm a serial offender and
all my posts are full of spoilers. I have accidently given
away spoilers for a recently aired episode twice and I
apologize for it both times.
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Re: This post contains spoilers. (and this one
does) -- LittleBit, 21:52:44 05/11/02 Sat
Claire, I think the posting name was more of a response to
the many spoilers both unmarked inside posts and in the
message headings themselves (and therefore un-missable), not
directly at you. The future spoiler you refer to in this
post is Spike going to Africa, which I don't think is just
speculation on your part, and is not part of a recently
aired episode.
We don't want to discourage you from posting. It's just that
at this point in the season and with so much happening,
those who don't want to know any information beforehand are
asking us to please be very careful, not in what we are
saying, but in being aware that if it contains spoilers we
label it as such.
I actually posted the same question you asked, and I can
tell you that depending on location, some viewers are as
much as a season behind. I find it safest to simply say up
to what episode my comments are covering.
LB
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Re: Why I am glad ME made "that scene"...
-- abt, 05:51:04 05/12/02 Sun
Back in February, I made a post here about 'Does Spike
believe he could change if he wanted to?'
I think up til this point, Spike has genuinely believed he
could change if he wanted to. He's kept on saying 'a man can
change', despite Buffy's constant reminders he is not a man.
In the crypt, he says to Clem, "I can't be a man". One
interpretation of this is he's realised that he can't
change, even if he wanted to.
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