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Guilt, the ultimate refuge of scoundrels? -- abt, 02:10:28 02/01/02 Fri

I read this article by a self-help Rabbi, and thought of Angel's situation. I've heard this Rabbi come out with some (IMO) weird ideas, but I thought this one was interesting.

purpose of guilt

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"Guilt is an emotion which allows people to do bad things and still feel like they are good people. Guilt is the ultimate escape clause from the human obligation to be a good person and do the right thing. Indeed, guilt becomes the justification for bad behavior because it tells us that we are still good no matter what evil we do just so long as we feel remorseful.

Imagine this: A man knocks on your door and tells you he is hungry. He asks for something to eat. You look at him and decide he doesn't look poor enough. "Come back when you really look emaciated," you tell him. You slam the door and he leaves. At first, you feel good, really proud of yourself. "There, I didn't give in to that parasite. Let him get a job, the lazy loafer." But a few minutes later, suddenly and unexpectedly, you are racked with guilt. You feel bad. Now what does this emotion achieve? Why do you suddenly feel bad about what you have done when just a few moments before you had no qualms whatsoever?

Because this way you can avoid giving money to the poor and still feel like you are a good person. If you had simply turned the guy away and not felt any pangs of conscience, then that would be proof that you are selfish, insensitive, and basically wicked. But now, since you feel guilty about your actions, you can get away with not giving and still be good. After all, you felt bad that you turned him away, right? Doesn't that show that deep inside you are a caring person? It is in this way that guilt actually serves as a barrier between you and your ugliness. It dresses up your selfishness and painlessly converts it to goodness. Now you can be good and still keep your money in the process! What guilt does, in effect, is assuage the conscience. It lets you have your cake and eat it too. Because it is goodness without sacrifice, being good without doing good, guilt is the ultimate form of hypocrisy. That's also why guilt is the ultimate refuge of scoundrels."

What do you think? Does feeling guilt allow us to deceive ourselves that we are good? He goes on to say that it isn't a productive emotion. I disagree with that part, I think guilt can make one change one's ways for the better.
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[> Re: Guilt, the ultimate refuge of scoundrels? -- Rufus, 05:53:23 02/01/02 Fri
Guilt is productive only if you do something about it. Angel didn't for the first few decades or so. He hid from his responsibility, hid from the pain of the wrongs he had done. He ended up sprawled in an alley drinking from rats. When Whistler found him it was the first step in many that caused Angel to do more than sit on his ass feeling guilty, or actually sorry for himself. His actions in setting up AI at least do something to balance the scale by helping potential victims instead of ignoring their suffering.
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[> [> The rabbi seems to want people to feel guilty about feeling guilty. Bizarre. -- Cactus Watcher, 07:02:19 02/01/02 Fri
There are simpler ways to say don't do things you'd feel guilty about. ;o)

Rufus' point seems self-evident to me. But, it is a good point, and she didn't ramble on and on to make it. If I needed advice I'd rather go to her than this rabbi.
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[> [> Re: productive guilt and Angel -- yez, 09:39:29 02/01/02 Fri
I agree it can be productive when we take action because of it.

Re: Angel, while I can understand how he might feel guilty if he experiences the memories of what the demon did in the first person (i.e., he sees everything that happened *literally* through the demon's eyes), in actuality, the human Angel is *not* resonsible for anything the demon Angel did. I can understand him trying to reclaim his body, so to speak, by correcting the wrongs that were done using it as a tool or otherwise trying to make up for it. But technically, he isn't responsible. How could those who sit in judgment (if they exist in the Buffy- and Angel-verse) hold those things against him, if he were able to come to terms with the fact that, while the memories may be confusing, he didn't actually do those things?

yez
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[> [> [> Re: productive guilt and Angel -- Rufus, 12:56:54 02/01/02 Fri
I can't agree with you that Angel is technically not guilty because "he" wasn't there....I think the point is that he was there but lacked enough empathy to care about what he was doing. The vampire is a demon/human hybrid that results from a bite that infects the host with the original demons soul....an infection, possession. The person is still there, acting on their most base emotions.
If it was true that Angel was not there in any way why say this....

Transcript from Angel(season one)

Buffy: Why? (gets up) Why didn't you just attack me when you had the chance? Was it a joke? To make me feel for you and then... I've killed a lot of vampires. I've never hated one before.

Angel: Feels good, doesn't it? Feels simple.

Buffy: I invited you into my home and then you attacked my family!

Angel: Why not? I killed mine. I killed their friends... and their friend's children... For a hundred years I offered ugly death to everyone I met, and I did it with a song in my heart.

Buffy: What changed?

Angel: Fed on a girl about your age... beautiful... dumb as a post... but a favorite among her clan.

Buffy: Her clan?

Angel: Romany. Gypsies. The elders conjured the perfect punishment for
me. They restored my soul.

Buffy: What, they were all out of boils and blinding torment?

Angel: When you become a vampire the demon takes your body, but it doesn't get your soul. That's gone! No conscience, no remorse... It's an easy way to live. You have no idea what it's like to have done the things I've done... and to care. I haven't fed on a living human being since that day.

Add to that Liams first act as a vampire in The Prodigal:

Cut to Angel's father nailing up his window from the inside.
Angel: "You're no different from the rest of them, - are you, father? (His father spins around and stares at him) Cowering in their houses - boarding up the windows - smearing that foul herb in the doorways. You'd think something evil - and vile - and monstrous - had taken to terrorizing this village -and everyone in it."
Dad: "Be gone, unclean thing! A demon can not enter a home where it's not welcome. He must be invited!"
Angel: "That's true. - But I was invited."
Angel looks to the doorway. His father turns and sees little Kathy slumped against the wall.
Dad: "Och!"
Angel: "She thought I returned to her - an angel."
Dad spins around and charges Angel with the hammer in his hand.
Dad: "Murderer!"
Angel easily pushes the attack aside, making his dad fall to the ground.
Angel: "Strange. - Somehow you seemed taller when I was alive."
Dad flattens himself up against the wall: "Lord, bind this demon now."
Angel: "To think I ever let such a tiny, trembling thing make me feel the way you did."
Dad crosses himself: "I pray ye, give me your protection, Father."
Angel: "You told me I wasn't a man. (Slowly stalks closer to his dad) You told me I was nothing. - and I believed you. You said I'd never amount to anything. (His dad stares at him with wide-open eyes) Well, you were wrong. (Angel morphs into vamp face) You see, father? - I have made something out of myself after all."
Angel puts a hand over his father's face and bites him. They slowly slide down the wall and out of the picture.
Darla: "This contest is ended, is it?"
Angel has his feet up on the table playing with his father's pipe. His family lies dead around him.
Angel: "Now I've won."
Darla: "You're sure?"
Angel puts his feet down and picks up a mug of ale: "Of course. I proved who had the power here."
Darla: "You think?"
Angel: "What?"
Darla: "You're victory over him took but moments."
Angel looks over at the body of his father and gets up: "Yes?"
Darla: "But his defeat of you will last life times."
Angel: "What are you talking about? He can't defeat me now."
Darla: "Nor can he ever approve of you - in this world or any other. - What we once were informs all that we have become. (Angel looks at his father's body) The same love will infect our hearts - even if they no longer beat. (Angel looks at his mother's and his sister's body) Simple death won't change that."
Angel: "Love? - Is this the work of love?"
Darla steps closer and smiles up at him: "Darling boy. - So young. Still so very young."
(Again beautiful score music through this whole scene)

For any of Angel's current deeds to have true impact it has to be because he is truly guilty of the acts he says "he" did. Without that being true his quest for redemption is false and meaningless.
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[> [> [> [> Re: productive guilt and Angel -- yez, 13:44:22 02/01/02 Fri
Rufus wrote: "I can't agree with you that Angel is technically not guilty because "he" wasn't there....I think the point is that he was there but lacked enough empathy to care about what he was doing. The vampire is a demon/human hybrid that results from a bite that infects the host with the original demons soul....an infection, possession. The person is still there, acting on their most base emotions. If it was true that Angel was not there in any way why say this...."

My understanding of how a vampire works is slightly different. I've understood that the demon is a parasite that takes over the body -- including whatever memories may be burned into the neural pathways -- but doesn't get the human soul. As you quoted: "Angel: When you become a vampire **the demon takes your body, but it doesn't get your soul. That's gone!**"

And in the scene you cited, you can see that Liam's father doesn't appeal to his son, because Angel is no longer his son -- instead, he treats the demon he faces as a stranger.

As far as Angel's action go, from what I understand, the demon *is* informed by the human's past -- it inherits all the human's memories, and so Angel takes "revenge" on his father because he can feel the anger and pain that Liam felt. However, the human's soul, his core self, is no longer present in the body. When the gypsies first reinstate Angel's soul in the curse, I believe they have to reclaim it from "the ether" ("Becoming, Part I). When that's done, there's a moment before that human soul has access to the memories the demon created.

Another example is when Angel's "moment of true happiness" with Buffy breaks the curse, he loses his soul again, and the demon is back in control. The demon retains the obsession with Buffy, but its distorted by the demon's nature, and he proceeds to torment her.

You also said: "For any of Angel's current deeds to have true impact it has to be because he is truly guilty of the acts he says "he" did. Without that being true his quest for redemption is false and meaningless."

I have to admit that I'm only caught up to season 3 of BtVS, and I've only been watching Angel for this last season. So, I imagine it's possible that the writers have tweaked things so that Angel's story has become a redemption saga -- that's a theme that always resonates. However, based on what I have seen of how things began, IMHO, it isn't *technically* one because Angel's human soul could no more guide Angel's behavior than anyone else could.

As I said before, I can understand how, after getting his human soul back, Angel would *feel* somehow responsible (and therefore, guilty) even if he technically wasn't: he may experience the demon's memories in the first person, he may rebel against the feelings of being out of control and helpless by wanting to take responsibility, he may want to reclaim his body by taking responsibility for the things it was involved in while he wasn't in it. But I would think that after so many years, he would have made peace with the fact that he was not in control, and so, not responsible.

I guess I just thought Angel's mission now was to fight for good because he's specially suited for it and he wants to make a difference. Not because he was trying to seek redemption. Please correct any of my misconceptions. As I said, I'm a relative newcomer to the shows.

yez
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[> [> [> [> [> Remember you asked for it.............:):):):) -- Rufus, 15:09:19 02/01/02 Fri
Season one....

Creation of the Vampire ....The Harvest....season one

The library. The globe is spinning. Giles stops it while he lectures and makes his way down to where Buffy, Willow and Xander are at the table.

Giles: This world is older than any of you know. Contrary to popular mythology, it did not begin as a paradise. For untold eons demons walked the Earth. They made it their home, their... their Hell. But in time they lost their purchase on this reality. The way was made for mortal animals, for, for man. All that remains of the old ones are vestiges, certain magicks, certain creatures...

Buffy: And vampires.

Xander: Okay, this is where I have a problem. See, because we're talking about vampires. We're having a *talk* with vampires in it.

Willow: Isn't that what we saw last night?

Buffy: No. No, th-those weren't vampires, those were just guys in thundering need of a facial. Or maybe they had rabies. It could have been rabies. A-and that guy turning to dust? Just a trick of light. (Xander gives her a look) That's exactly what I said the first time I saw a vampire. Well, after I was done with the screaming part.

Willow: Oh, I, I need to sit down. Buffy: You are sitting down.
Willow: Oh. Good for me.

Xander: So vampires are demons?

Giles: The books tell the last demon to leave this reality fed off a human, mixed their blood. He was a human form possessed, infected by the demon's soul. He bit another, and another, and so they walk the Earth, feeding... Killing some, mixing their blood with others to make more of their kind. Waiting for the animals to die out, and the old ones to return.

I was very specific about the vampire being the result of an infection a possession because that's what the transcripts say. I think this is very important because I see the infection as a negative supplement. What is gone is the soul, what is left is the rest animated by the demon supplement. If it was just a case of the soul being the only thing that makes one human then Angel would have been redeemed by the return of his soul. I think it's more than him feeling guilty over what the resident demon infection has compelled him to do, I see it as a direct metaphor for an addiction such as alcoholism where the demon infection acts in a similar way to liquor...lowers the inhibitions allowing for a vampire to act without guilt and remorse.

The scene with Angel's father is one to look carefully at. His father never saw Liam as anything but a demon, a womanizer, layabout, waste of space. When Angel/Liam arrives back on his doorstep, his father doesn't really treat him much differently than before except that he is now afraid of the power of the demon that Liam has become. Angelus still see's his father....as his father, dying didn't change who he was but how he interacted with the world.

Angel has always been about redemption all you have to do is listen to what Doyle said in the beginning. If the return of Angel's soul is all that was needed for the world to be right, then why go through all this pain to redeem himself......I feel that it's because he is a dry drunk atoning for what he did while drunk. The vampire surely becomes drunk with new physical power, the ability to take what they want. Then add in that demon need to feed and kill, you have quite the monster. Angel was the worst of them shaped by his insecurities in life, doomed to follow a pattern of killing to finally win the contest he lost to his father when he killed him.....he can only win for the moment that a victim dies, quickly losing the thrill as the realization that the victim can no longer appreciate the outcome of the contest.
Don't get me started on how evil the curse the gypsies did on Angel was.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Remember you asked for it.............:):):):) -- yez, 15:29:22 02/01/02 Fri
"Don't get me started on how evil the curse the gypsies did on Angel was."

And don't get me started about murkiness and potential inconsistencies the Buffy and Angel writers/creators have left regarding what exactly vampires are, what exactly the soul is, why vampires are evil, etc. :)

Thanks for citing that opening explanation, I didn't remember it. However, I actually don't think it contradicts my understanding. It's not clear that "human form" means the demon took on the human's body, took human shape, or whether both souls existed in the "form" simultaneously, as they do in Angel right now.

The point where I think we do agree is that the gypsy curse was "evil." I think it would be clear why I felt that way (Liam's soul is tormented equally with the demon's), but I'm not sure why you do.

I was just thinking yesterday when I saw "Becoming, I" how ironic Buffy's resurrection and her problems with it are, considering she led the charge to do the same to Angel, theoretically -- pulling his soul from wherever it was and recursing it. Actually, for me, that situation would be your most compelling argument. After all, why bother saving Angel (without his human soul)?

yez
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Fuel for the fire -- MrDave, 23:05:02 02/01/02 Fri
This is from the 2nd Season Ep "Lie to Me"
BUFFY: Let me explain this to you. You're what we call the bad guy.

FORD: I guess I am. Cool.

BUFFY: These people aren't gonna get changed, are they? You, maybe, in exchange for me, but the rest of them -- they're just fodder.

FORD: Technically, yes. But I'm in. I will become immortal.

BUFFY: I got a newsflash, braintrust. That's not how it works. You die. And a demon sets up shop in your old house. It walks and talks and remembers your life but
it's not you.

FORD: It's better than nothing.

Clearly, Buffy has had some more "training" since the first season. Giles is doing his job in keeping her up to date on how things work. It really seems rather intuitive to me. You die. Your Soul moves on to whatever next dimension you have tickets to. A demonic essence (I kind of like the idea of it being a "contagion") takes over. Your body is re-animated and transformed by the demonic essence. Body and mind remain, soul is departed. The mind with no ethical compass (soul) is influenced by the demonic essence (and is therefore motivated by "evil")

Restoration of the soul (ala Angel) just suppresses the demonic nature (but does not eliminate it) and restores the soul to the body. In the Jossverse the Hellenistic ideal of the Body/Mind/Soul is in full force. The mind and body remain...the soul only changes the ethics of the perception.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Soul, ugh, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing? -- yez, 05:50:20 02/02/02 Sat
Yes, good example. That's what I had understood. Good points.

Where it gets confusing for me is in trying to grasp what Whedon et al think the soul does. At first, it was easy to say that, as you put it, the soul is the "ethical compass." Angel is a perfect example of that, because we've seen him before and after. Or at least afterlife and after...

But the problem for me comes with what seems to be the connection between lack of ethical/moral compass and evilness. Vampires, again and again, are described as inherently, unalterably evil.

Yet, what are we supposed to do with Spike's behavior over the last 2 seasons? He's been a good boy -- he's been better than many humans -- and it isn't the function of a soul. And what about the humans who are acting in "evil" ways?

So, if the human soul is the moral/ethical compass, how do we explain humans (presumably with souls) who act in "evil" ways, and a vampire who works in good ways?

Also, what do we do with vampires who work more or less ethically, who love and are loyal, who suffer, etc., to their own kind -- even if they aren't to their food source? Humans, generally, don't treat their own food sources a hell of a lot better.

And can it really be argued that the human soul is in some ways an *inherent* compass for morality? That we're born with morality and it's not a product of what we're taught or what we experience to a large extent?

Lot-o-questions.

yez
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Soul, ugh, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing? -- Rufus, 16:14:33 02/02/02 Sat
The Paley Festival, March 30, 2001

Audience Member: "I'd like to know what your definition of a soul is? And what distinguishes Angel from the other vampires, because it becomes clear from both Buffy and Angel that vampires have human emotions and human attachments. So is that a conscience? And then what separates vampires from humans if it is a conscience?"

JW: "Um, very little. (laugh) Essentially, souls are by their nature amorphous but to me it's really about what star you are guided by. Most people, we hope, are guided by, 'you should be good, you're good, you feel good.' And most demons are guided simply by the opposite star. They believe in evil, they believe in causing it, they like it. They believe it in the way that people believe in good. So they can love someone, they can attach to someone, they can actually want to do things that will make that person happy in the way they know they would. The way Spike has sort of become, an example is Spike obviously on Buffy, is getting more and more completely conflicted. But basically his natural bent is towards doing the wrong thing. His court's creating chaos where as in most humans, most humans, is the opposite, and that's really how I see it. I believe it's kind of like a spectrum, but they are setting their course by opposite directions. But they're all sort of somewhere in the middle."


So, if the human soul is the moral/ethical compass, how do we explain humans (presumably with souls) who act in "evil" ways, and a vampire who works in good ways?

The above comments from the Paley Festival were made last year by Joss in reaction to a question from the audience. The point is that their simple explanation of the soul wasn't cutting it for me when you consider just how much of the person who once was still existed in the vampire. Then tack on the capacity for evil that lives in each one of everyones little hearts then the divide between the demon and human is smaller than you'd think. A soul isn't a guarantee that other elements such as hate, greed, and lust can't enter the situation and cause a person to become every bit as evil as a demon, more so if you think about the head start the inner compass of the human. But when you think of both demon and human behavior starting at the similar mid point of a spectrum of good and evil you can see that the potential exists for either to become attracted to the opposite star to what their inner compass directs them to. As you don't find many truly evil humans, you wouldn't find many truly good souless demons. But the potential is there. To me it's only human conceit that refused to acknowledge that fact. The same sort of singular thinking spawns racism ect, and the isolation that the vampire is the metaphor for. Just my opinion...:):):)
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Soul, ugh, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing? -- yez, 07:52:27 02/04/02 Mon
I agree that would be a more complex portrayal and exploration. But I just don't think that's what we're seeing or meant to see onscreen.

Thanks for sharing tha answer, though.

yez
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[> [> Re: Guilt - an emotion, a choice -- Eric, 10:46:07 02/03/02 Sun
I think the rabbi is full of it. Guilt is an emotion. Its an emotion a person feels after realizing they did something bad. If they use the feeling itself to boost their self image, its a choice they make. Good people that do REALLY bad things and realize it are too overcome by their guilt to worry about self image. In fact, their self image itself is so degraded they often contemplate suicide. They might do that, or they could re assess who they really are. Doing that they assume responsibility for their action, suffer whatever punishment is offered and change their life for the better. Their behavior becomes based on what they're doing NOW rather than what they did in the past. (Sound familiar, AtS fans?) Also a choice.

Either is SO much better than a person who commits a crime and buries the guilt and even the memory in denial. They torment themselvses and even open the possibility for more crimes. (Sound familiar Faith fans?) Some people, sociopaths, have no guilt at all. They're scary people, but few and mostly working as elite commandos types or rubber room occupants. Worse are those who deny the guilt and even try to pretend their denial gives them the "advantage" of a sociopath. The ability to kill without remorse often seems powerful to the immature. They may be tempted to "prove" their "advantage" further.
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[> Re: Guilt, the ultimate refuge of scoundrels? -- Rufus, 05:54:29 02/01/02 Fri
Guilt is productive only if you do something about it. Angel didn't for the first few decades or so. He hid from his responsibility, hid from the pain of the wrongs he had done. He ended up sprawled in an alley drinking from rats. When Whistler found him it was the first step in many that caused Angel to do more than sit on his ass feeling guilty, or actually sorry for himself. His actions in setting up AI at least do something to balance the scale by helping potential victims instead of ignoring their suffering.
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SMG news (slightly OT) -- vampire hunter D, 12:49:16 02/01/02 Fri

OK, here's a little thing I found on Sarah's latest project:

"Real life couple Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze Jr. provide voices for the animation feature Happily N'Ever After. The story is about a young princess whose real love is a dishwasher. Sigourney Weaver voices the evil stepmother who tries to rain on everyone's parade. The film is directed by Gerhard Hahn and written by Rob Moreland"

I fear for Sarah now. She's been reduced to doing movies for her (soon to be) deadbeat boyfriend. Let's face it, Freddie's career is already breathing it's last gasps. It will be over before he is 30. And if Sarah keeps doing project like this, her's will be over almost as soon. And then, maybe we will be able to go into a burger place and find Buffy the vampire Slayer asking us "Do you want fries with that?"
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[> Re: SMG news (slightly OT) -- Sebastian, 13:19:05 02/01/02 Fri
i agree. although outside of 'btvs', SMG's latest movies have not been well-received. she wrapped a movie called 'harvard man' that was released as an indie - and the few reviews it has generated have been rather dismal.

here's hopin' that the live action version of 'scooby doo' she is starring in (as daphne!) doesn't turn out to be a disaster.

but i digress......

its rather ironic, considering that the expectation was that FP's career was going to be brighter than SMG's (only because of the fact that he does movies, opposed to say, to doing a TV show.)

also, SMG was featured as an 'up & comer' in entertainment weekly's annual 'power in hollywood' issue a few months ago.

- S
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[> [> lone person with opinion -- Liz, 13:34:31 02/01/02 Fri
I really liked _Cruel Intentions._ It was interesting, it was well acted, and it was a damn good adaptation of the original. And the sound editing was lovely.

In fact I started watching Buffy because of that movie. I knew nothing about any of the actors ahead of time and I quickly said, "Sarah Michelle Gellar, who is that? I must see more of what she does. Oh, she's in that Buffy show that people at work keep talking about."

Though I have to agree that I haven't liked any of her other movies.
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[> [> [> Re: lone person with opinion -- Rattletrap, 14:05:28 02/01/02 Fri
SMG was great in Cruel Intentions, though I thought the movie was on the whole a bit lacking. She did a good job doing Glenn Close's part without trying to do it like Glenn Close did. I would have liked to see a bit more interaction between she and Reese Witherspoon's character, just for the opportunity to see two of the most talented young actresses in the business playing directly opposite each other.

SMG, and most of the Buffy crew, will have problems w/ movie careers for a long time to come because of BtVS. TV stars can only very rarely produce long-running and successful movie careers, often because everyone irrevocably associates them with one specific character. The problem is worse for women than men because Hollywood's obsession with youth and beauty makes it much more difficult for women, however talented, to maintain careers after 35 or so.
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[> [> [> [> Re: lone person with opinion -- Sebastian, 14:28:48 02/01/02 Fri
dont get me wrong...i liked 'cruel intentions'. i, too, thought it was a clever adaptation.

i was referring to her stint in 'simply irresistible' along with 'the harvard man' as her latest movies that have not received popular or critical acclaim.

her other movies ('cruel intentions' and 'i know what you did last summer') were very well-received either commerically or critically.

'scream 2' doesnt count since she died after the first five minutes she appeared. :-P

as a sidebar.....which ties into 'trap's comments about character association....it was an odd experience to watch SMG get 'beat down' in both 'scream2' and 'iknowwhatyoudid' only because i expected her character to open up a can of buffy-whup-ass and trounce the attacker.

because the cast does *such* a good job as these characters - its going to be hard for viewers to see them as anyone else (i remember reading that SMG colored her hair to further distance herself from looking like 'buffy'.)

also, and correct me if i'm wrong, the actors from 'buffy' tend to be very distinctive looking people and cant just play *any* character despite their acting prowess - because certain physical charcateristcs are *so* heavily associated with who they play.

although, it seems out of all of the main scoobs - alyson hannigan seems to be having the easiest time in doing other stuff with (the 'american pie' movies and frequent guest stints on mtv shows).

- S (clearly bored at work and waiting for that damn last hour here to wind down). :-P
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[> Re: SMG news (slightly OT) -- Eric, 14:10:10 02/01/02 Fri
SMG has beauty, talent, and brains. Some of her movies may suck and disappoint BtVS fans, but every star has those. Tom Hanks in Joe vs. the Volcano, etc. Freddie Prinz Jr. should have nothing to do with it. If her career peters out, its only due to a lack of ambition.
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[> Re: SMG news (slightly OT) -- Celialite, 14:59:18 02/01/02 Fri
It's more than likely that doing a voiceover is the only thing she has time for at this point. She is the star of a TV show with outrageous shooting scheduled and she just finished post-production on a major feature film.

Odds are, she took the voiceover job to (1) earn a few more bucks and (2) more importantly, to have some extra time with her love.

I thought she was excellent in Cruel Intentions also, and really had fun with Simply Irristable even though it wasn't the best film.

Buffy is not my favorite character, but I do have quite a bit of respect for SMG.
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[> [> SMG future -- Fred, the obvious pseudonym, 00:01:04 02/03/02 Sun
There are precedents for actors being so identified with a single character it damages their future careers. Leonard Nimoy has fought Spock for three decades -- unsuccessfully, despite his substantial talent, stage and screen credentials, and years in the business. Dana Delany, also someone I think is quite good, has been stuck in McMurphy of China Beach for about a decade and seems to have disappeared.

Becoming too successful too soon may be a long-term problem. Oddly enough, being an ensemble actor or receiving second billing may be a relative plus; you can build a track record of versatility BEFORE you become a household word.
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[> Re: SMG news (slightly OT) -- Andy, 18:53:38 02/01/02 Fri
This animated film holds no indication of what her career might become. Animated movies like this are things that actors practically just spit out when they're bored and want easy money. They're all over the place and none of them really affect the voice actors' careers one way or another (unless maybe it's really, really high profile, like Robin Williams in Aladdin). Scooby Doo will be vastly bigger for Gellar than this. Even then, it's kind of premature to make any judgments on her career until Buffy ends and she's able to make movies more steadily, instead of just doing one per year during her summer break.

Andy
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[> [> Re: What happens to JM after Buffy ends? -- LeeAnn, 01:38:22 02/02/02 Sat
I'm much more concerned with what will happen to James Marster than SMG. Hope he has a lot of opportunities..but that doesn't seem to be happening for him.
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[> [> [> Re: What happens to JM after Buffy ends? -- Dyna, 09:38:19 02/02/02 Sat
Generally in interviews when James is asked what he'd like to do after "Buffy," he talks about returning to the theater. He was well-regarded as an actor and director in live theater before he switched to TV, something he did mainly (he says) for financial reasons.

As for why we don't see more of him now in other roles, the impression I've gotten is that the "Buffy" shooting schedule is so rigorous that the actors don't have much time for outside work. I'd love to see James more in other roles, but it sounds like from a quality-of-life perspective, he's better off using his free time to catch up on sleep and have a life!
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[> [> [> [> Re: What happens to JM after Buffy ends? -- Lyn, 10:54:16 02/02/02 Sat
I think James spends a lot of his "off" time on his music.
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: What happens to JM after Buffy ends? -- Deeva, 22:19:23 02/02/02 Sat
OK not to sound all stalker-like or anything but I gathered from the interviews and updates over at Jamesmarsters.com, (before it closed temporarily, course.) that he was quite busy during hiatus. He shot a role on the syndicated show Andromeda while he was in Vancouver filming another movie. It happened to fit into his schedule while he was up there. (According to Kevin Sorbo, he's the lead, James didn't come cheap!) And doesn't he have a part in the movie that Amber Benson wrote, directed and, I think, showed at Sundance? In addition to the music that he likes to do and maybe 1 or 2 convention appearances. That's quite a schedule to have on hiatus.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: What happens to JM after Buffy ends? -- grifter, 02:14:40 02/03/02 Sun
"And doesn't he have a part in the movie that Amber Benson wrote, directed and, I think, showed at Sundance?"

Sure does. But "Chance" sadly didn´t show at Sundance, there was a sucky film with Amber Benson in it shown there though. It´s a psychothriller - thing, she probably took the role for the same reason SMG was in "I know what you did...": publicity!



Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- Copper, 13:10:20 02/01/02 Fri

It occurred to me that we need to look at Buffy and sexual relationships in a different way. As has been discussed here, Buffy has terrible luck with her relationships. Perhaps there is a reason for this beyond those mentioned.

Prior to the late 20th century it would have been dangerous for a slayer to have sex: she could get pregnant and/or get a disease, both of which would be deadly for a slayer's abilities to vanquish evil. Even in the late 20th/early 21st century, sex is not without risk of pregnancy and/or disease. Therefore, it would seem that slayers are meant to be celibate.

If we examine the history of warriers or warrier/heroes going into battle (or athletes going into a game) celibacy is usually required or preferred. Romantic love can fracture your concentration and sex can deplete your energies. Although this last is usually thought to be related to sperm loss.

Buffy's destiny is to save the world, or at least her small corner of it. She cannot do this if she is concerned about having or maintaining a sexual relationship. She loses focus and she loses energy. As a slayer, she must be celibate to be effective.

So, it would appear that Spike will lose her and that no one will have her. She may have friendships, but not lovers.
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[> Re: Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- Sophist, 13:26:36 02/01/02 Fri
I'm not so sure slayers before Buffy didn't have active sex lives. After all, slaying sure made Faith "hungry and horny" and it seems to have a similar effect on Buffy. I see no reason to assume that this is a recent phenomenon.

If slayers weren't having sex before, it probably had more to do with social mores than the risk of pregnancy or disease. Their life expectancy would make both risks fairly minor.

The loss of energy supposedly associated with pre-game sex is an Old Slayers Tale.
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[> [> Re: Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- Copper, 13:51:37 02/01/02 Fri
Sophist, I am not disagreeing that "no sex before a game" is an old whatever tale, but the point is that having sex does drain one's energy, which is why Faith has it. She is still so revved up after slaying that she needs to be drained of some of that energy and finds that sex works for her. Note, Faith does not have relationships.
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[> [> [> Faith without love -- Sophist, 14:11:35 02/01/02 Fri
I guess that if Faith has enough energy left over after slaying to need to be drained (nice irony :)) by sex, it wouldn't hurt the slayer much to have an active sex life. Most of the coital would probably occur post-slayage anyway, rather than vice versa.

I don't see sex as being the slayer's problem. Love may well be, and if that was your point, I agree.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Faith without love -- Copper, 14:23:45 02/01/02 Fri
I believe I emphasized relationships. There is so much discussion over the B/S ship: will it work out?, etc. The point of my post is that the Slayer is not meant to have relationships, and in that sense is meant to be celibate. Casual sex that uses others for personal relief (a la Faith) is ultimately destructive and not what a hero would engage in. If the slayer is a hero and warrier, then the slayer should remain celibate. I don't say I like that conclusion. It would be nice if Buffy could have a relationship, but it does not fit the reality Joss has created. Think of Buffy's choice of name in Tabula Rasa: Joan. Joan of Arc was celibate and a "slayer".
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Faith without love -- Sophist, 16:08:53 02/01/02 Fri
I completely agree that a slayer may find it impossible to have a long term relationship. Putting aside life expectancy issues, the job requirements may preclude it. In fact, it's odd how often great achievers are failures in their personal relationships. It may be that the commitment to success interferes with the time or emotional commitment necessary for personal relationships.

Buffy, of course, is different than other slayers, so she may succeed where others failed. I'd like to think that JW is showing us that part of her journey.

I personally hope that we will not be subjected to the "hero must be celibate" nonsense, but your comment about Joan of Arc certainly suggests that as a possibility within the confines of the show.
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[> Re: Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- Liz, 13:36:30 02/01/02 Fri
Considering that Kendra couldn't even _talk_ to Xander, I'd agree with that for most slayers. But Buffy has always been one for having it all. She wants to be the slayer and have a normal life at the same time. This has never really worked out perfectly, and possibly when it comes to the complexities of a close, sexual relationship, she's in trouble. Actually she's dropped the ball a few times just maintaining friendships, but luckily her friends call her on it and she fixes things. Her lovers don't seem to be able to do that.
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[> Sex beneficial to the slayer? and the role of the watcher's council -- Kerri, 14:37:21 02/01/02 Fri
I disagree with saying that having sex will hurt a slayer or she wasn't meant to. On the contrary, I think that being fully in touch with the more instinctual side of her personality would strengthen a slayer, and fits in will with Buffy needing to intergrate all aspects of herself.

However, in the past slayers may have been discouraged from having sex because of the watchers council, which represents a male dominated society that trys to oppress the slayer's sexual power and freedom.
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[> Re: Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- Anneth, 14:41:41 02/01/02 Fri
"She loses focus and she loses energy. As a slayer, she must be celibate to be effective."

That's a good point. The author Mary Stewart, in explaining why she made Merlin celibate in her book _The Crystal Cave_ (the Arthurian legend from Merlin's perspective - a very good book, with good sequels), made a similar argument. She didn't feel that she could legitimately make Merlin a magical being if she also made him a sexual being.
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[> Re: Buffy without sex (spoilers?) -- fresne, 15:08:19 02/01/02 Fri
Hard to say. After all, while people in the past didn't have as effective or as varied methods of birth control as we do now, it's not like they didn't have them. Malnutrition, sheep guts and vinegar sponges all had a certain amount of success. Not really up on ancient medicines so, in a women had no Renaissance kind of way, hard for me to say what kind of herbal remedies were used. Once we get into literate eras (with an increased emphasis on higher reproductive rates and male doctors), well they had some really interesting and bizarre ideas about women's body.

Its specifically difficult to say with female warriors because they tended to occur in nomadic horse cultures (i.e. illiterate), where a small body weight and strong thighs (especially sans stirrups) were more important than the upper body strength required by foot soldier in (often literate) sedentary cultures. However, given the Roman descriptions of both the Scythians and the Kelts, they didn't seem that abstemious.

And as to warrior/hero celibacy in general. Again depends on the culture. Different cultures perceive casual and for that matter relationship sex differently. There are heroes like Irish Cu Cuchulainn, who learned (in at least one version) self control in battle through learning self control during sex. Come to think of it his teacher was a vampire (although he slept didn't sleep with her), whose immortal sister Aoife (not a vampire, just immortal) he defeated after a long battle and then you know the sex. And then you know a son, but that was later. Sampson's problem wasn't casual sex, although really it should have been. There was a phalanx in ancient Thebes, Greece, that was comprised entirely of male lovers. The theory being that you were less likely to break ranks in battle if your lover was your shield mate. Let's not even get into all the Greek, Roman, Norse and German heroes.

Contrasting to which we have a whole tradition of French/Arthurian knights pining for a ribbon from their pure lady fair. And only so and so was pure enough to get the grail, pluck the rose, and my favorite, defeat the black knight at the sacred well. All of which has a whole not enough heiresses to go around social dynamic in addition to religious thinking.

Also, the Watcher's Council seems so very pip, pip Victorian that it's hard to guess what they were like in earlier, more licentious, eras.

Mainly, I think it might be very difficult to keep a 15 year old hormonal girl who faces life and death situations on a constant basis from having sex or falling in love. Parents think about teen pregnancy. Teenagers, not always so much.

Problem is we have a limited base of information here. Both Buffy and Faith (didn't really get to see enough of no I'm not repressed Kendra, 1st Slayer, New York or Chinese Slayers) seem to have a strong association between violence and pleasure (food or sex). Makes sense really. If I were designing a Slayer, I would want the association between pleasure and doing the duty, which might kill you. However, that's really not enough information.

Buffy and Faith's relationship problems seem to stem from psychological issues that aren't necessarily related to being the Slayer. Nothing for it really, we need more episodes.
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[> What about Buffy teaching Kendra to have passion? The whole message of "The Yoko Factor"? -- yuri, 17:57:05 02/01/02 Fri
It's been implied and shouted time and again on BtVS that Buffy's relationships and passions and emotions make her a stronger, more capable slayer.

"She cannot do this [save the world] if she is concerned about having or maintaining a sexual relationship. She
loses focus and she loses energy. As a slayer, she must be celibate to be effective"

The point I've always seen made is that Buffy is strengthened and reinforced by her relationships, be they friendly or romantic. To my understanding, that's why she's been such a successful slayer, and, if I have my facts right, has done more and lived longer than many slayers before her. (granted, she died twice.)
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[> [> Re: Sex and the Successful Slayer -- LeeAnn, 23:57:00 02/01/02 Fri
"To my understanding, that's why she's been such a successful slayer, and, if I have my facts right, has done more and lived longer than many slayers before her. (granted, she died twice.)"

But in both cases her friends brought her back. Without relationships Buffy would still be...in heaven.

Till 40-50 years ago the reasons for celibacy were pregnancy and disease. Birth Control for most women was limited to ineffective methods or dangerous ones like self induced abortion. Even informing people about birth control methods was illegal. Hard to be any kind of warrior if you have to care for an infant, for children. Can't imagine a pregnant slayer..or one with an infant in her arms.
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[> [> [> what does that say about Angel? (NT) -- Maxwell, 11:52:12 02/02/02 Sat
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Shooting Script for Doublemeat Palace -- Artemis, 19:25:32 02/01/02 Fri

Hadn't seen this posted yet.And the old address for the the shooting script is obsolete. Here's the new one in case you don't have it .

www.studiesinwords.de/shooting/index.html

I found interesting the counter scene with Spike and Buffy. Wish it had been filmed like scripted.
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[> Re: Shooting Script for Doublemeat Palace -- yez, 05:36:09 02/02/02 Sat
Thanks for the link.

yez
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[> Do you mean the alley scene? -- Sophist, 09:50:17 02/02/02 Sat
The script for that scene is very interesting. It reads the exact opposite of what we saw. Wonder what's going on here.

I liked a lot of the bits that were cut from the script. They should have left those in and cut others. Maybe there were future episodes to account for.....
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[> [> Re: Do you mean the alley scene? -- Chris, 18:03:33 02/02/02 Sat
I hope you don't mind this lurker jumping in here to ask what you thought of the description in the shooting script (Spike and Buffy's sex scene) where it says "...only effort and need..."? How do you read that? Effort = Spike; Need = Buffy (or both)? Actually the description provided me with some hope (I am one of those that likes the S/B relationship) since I found that scene out by the dumpsters disturbing due to Buffy's vacant expression. I have been wondering just what JE was trying to convey. Theories, please!
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[> [> [> Spoilers here and in the post above for DMP -- Sophist, 19:02:25 02/02/02 Sat
You hit the nail on the head. Buffy looked lifeless and detached in the scene, the very opposite of "effort and need". Obviously, the scene did not play how it was written. I don't know why, but my guess is that the change was either (1) part of a continuing disparity in the writers' view of B/S (a relationship that I also like, but that many don't), or (2) necessary to lead to already-written future eps. Since I remain spoiler free, that's the best I can do.
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[> [> [> Re: Do you mean the alley scene?(Spoilers) -- Artemis, 19:25:20 02/02/02 Sat
What I got from the description of "efort and need" and I actually thought it was conveyed, was that it mostly described Buffy. When you are in a position where you are drained emotionally and physically the ability to get lost in a sexual act is not necessarily easy and might require effort whether you want it to be be easy or not . Yet because of where you are emotionally you "need" the act.
I don't think the scene says much about there relationship per se . But more about where she was emotionally, because of the job. In a way I find the description more hopeful . JMHO

I too would like the relationship to work. Their chemistry explodes off screen . I don't know if it will . But I tend to think it has more to do with Spike. He's not redeemed yet. I understand why Buffy tries to stay away and I understand why she can't . That's why I love this show.
I also wish they had left in some other lines that were cut. There was some funny stuff in the script. Probably had to do wtih time. Or like someone else said it might have effected other episodes to come .
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[> [> [> The alley scene didn't bother me. -- bookworm, 09:43:12 02/03/02 Sun
Blink and you miss it, for one thing. Here's my interpretation of the look. Buffy is dead on her feet after a double shift; she's dirty, smells of grease and meat; is depressed about money and having to take that dead end job in the first place; she doesn't know what else to do; she is still disgusted with herself for not being able to resist the lure of undead sex. She just feels bad. Spike comes slinking by the window and gives her a look. She takes her silly chicken hat off, maybe because she doesn't want him to see her with it on, and heads out to the alley for a little oblivion. She's thinking, "Oh, hell, why not?" and "Make me forget." We don't see what transpires between them after she goes into the alley. Maybe he just grabs her and backs her against the wall without saying anything and they go at it. She looks at him, he buries his head in her neck, she stares into space. Her expression could convey anything from exhaustion to depression to forgetfulness to shame to pleasure. My guess is that Buffy was feeling all of those things while he's working her and Spike may be thinking, "What else can I do for her? I like it, and if sex can make her feel better ..." What I noticed is that Buffy is actually pretty animated and energetic the next day AFTER the sex with Spike, which suggests to me that he's still waking her up. At that point in time, sex in the alley may have been what she needed. He offered her an outlet and a way to try to forget.
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[> [> [> [> Re: The alley scene didn't bother me. -- Lilac, 10:24:07 02/03/02 Sun
This was pretty much my take on the scene. You can almost hear her thinking, as she sees Spike and whips that silly hat off, "oh good, here's my break". Probably didn't work the way she had hoped it would, based on that sad expression, but I don't think it necessarily says big things about the relationship over all.
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Classic Movie of the Week - February 1st 2002 - First Anniversary Special Edition Pt. I -- OnM, 19:38:35 02/01/02 Fri

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But I just had to look / Having read the book

I'd love to turn you on...

............ Lennon/McCartney

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Evil Clone: So you made it. I must confess that I'm impressed, I didn't think you had it in you.

OnM: Well, for once I won't argue with you, I'm kinda surprised myself. But here we are, it's fully one year later, and I've cranked out a new 'Classic Movie' column each and every week, without a single miss.

E.C.: So why bring your dating life into this? I thought we were going to talk movies?

OnM: Wiseass.

E.C. Yes, daddy. You made me what I am today, for which I am sooooo grateful.

OnM: I'm not your daddy. And we are going to talk movies.

E.C.: So, go dude. Time's a wastin'. (leans back in Barcolounger, sighing contentedly)

OnM: In honor of the first anniversary of the column, I've come up with some special features and ideas to both honor the past and look forward to the future. Some of these will involve showcasing the talents of my fellow ATPo boarders, and act to get them more involved in the BtVS/cinema component of the website.

E.C.: Oh, you mean this idea you came up with a while ago to solicit the writing of Classic Movie guest columns by some of the other posters?

OnM: Yup, that's one of them. One of the facts of televised Buffylife is that you have sweeps and you have the intervening hiatus times between them. Since the main topics of fan discussion inevitably die down after new eps come and go, it's important to give people a good reason to visit the board and contribute. Rowan elegantly QED'ed that theorem last summer with her wonderful idea of the ATPoBtVS Character Posts, and then there was Solitude1056 and LiquidRAM with their work done to coordinate, edit and eventually produce the magnificent Dark Alchemy, which I feel represents a watershed fanfic event in the halls of Buffy fandom.

E.C.: Yes, it was violent, dark and erotic. Just the way we like 'em!

OnM: Uhhm, yeah, well... the point being, there is no reason we all need to dry up and blow away like so much vamp dust just because there's no new ep on the horizon for a few weeks or months. There is simply too much talent lurking at our board to waste it. I feel certain that the weekly cinematic musings I provide would only be enhanced by the addition of regular contributors besides myself.

E.C.: (smirks) Not to mention that it's been a year now and you feel entitled to take a vacation, right?

OnM: Hey! Don't go there!

E.C.: I've offered to write a few columns, but noooo..... Mr. Obsessive Perfectamundo can't relinquish the keyboard for a paltry week or so, now can he?

OnM: You're not ready for prime time yet. Some weeks I'm not even sure that I am, and I've been around a lot longer than you have. Consistent creativity is far harder than it looks, ya know.

E.C.: (gestures at own self): Yeah, dig it!

OnM: Don't get me started. Now, where was I? Oh yeah... In addition to the guest columns, I'm also going to be re-reviewing a few of my very earliest columns, since at the time I started this endeavor last February, I really wasn't sure how well it would be received. Even by linking the column themes to the current philosophical goings-on in the Buffyverse, it was still somewhat OT-ish for a Buffy-centric website and discussion board. I was very conscious of taking up too much of Masquerade's space, so I deliberately kept the initial offerings very short in length, and in fact hardly discussed the film or it's philosophical issues in anything but the most cursory terms.

E.C.: (sporting evil grin): Well, glory be! That must've really hurt, O Most Loquacious One!

OnM: (ignoring the jibe) It was a balancing act. Also, it took a while to come up with a style that seemed to suit both my intent and my writing abilities. Not being a professional writer or reviewer, I ended up just attempting to present sort of a personal vision, and leave it at that. The essay/review/miscellaneous format was the eventual result. Of course, I'm always open to input from my fellow ATPo-er's. The Question-of-the-Week idea came from another poster, in fact.

E.C.: Then there's the occasional techno-babble segment. Do you really think anybody cares besides us? I'm not sure that stuff's a real benefit to most of the readers even though, ironically, you're far better qualified to give that kind of advice than the actual movie reviews, you know?

OnM: Well, that is entirely true, but as I said, I try different stuff and wait for feedback on it. DVD's are becoming very popular now, and good home theater systems are showing up in more and more 'average' homes. You know how rarely the technology gets installed or operated correctly; I spend a good part of every year of my professional life fixing problems that many people don't even know they have. It's depressing to see someone spend several grand on good electronic gear and have it set up so poorly that they're lucky to get $300.00 worth of performance out of the thing. Just this last week, I did a service call for a customer who complained that the tapes she played on her VCR didn't sound very good, especially in the surround sound mode. Turned out the VCR setup menus had been set to access the older, standard soundtrack on the tape, instead of the hi-fi track. She was listening in monaural!

E.C.: (laughs): Whatta doofus! Why didn't she just read the damn book? Nobody reads anymore!

OnM: (becoming agitated): She's not a doofus! I had to spend nearly ten minutes scouring through the owner's manual for the VCR just to find out how to switch it from the tuner to the line input so she could record programs from her satellite receiver. Once I found it, it was an easy procedure, but the directions for same were buried in some ludicrously obscure section of the manual. If an experienced tech can't intuitively figure out how to use a feature, what chance do normal people have?

E.C.: Well, the ATPo people are pretty smart. They aren't 'normal', as you so wittily put it.

OnM: People are smart in many different ways. The power behind the board is the representation of intellectual and experiential diversity. That doesn't mean everyone is good at everything. Just because someone, for example, can code HTML or take great photographs, or play a musical instrument, doesn't make them hip to anamorphic widescreen DVD's or that having Dolby Digital doesn't automatically mean a 5.1 channel soundtrack. So, once in a while, I try to add a little enlightenment.

E.C.: And more than once in a while, you get off the track. Like now. Back to the anniversary specials of the month?

OnM: Oh, yeah. Sorry. Got off on a rant there... So there will be the guest columns, a few selected re-writings of some very early CMotW's, a review of my choice for the best film of 2001, and of course this week's offering, a review of Lord of the Rings. There is another possible big, new item that may some to fruition in the next few months, but it's still very much a work in progress at this point. I need to confer with LiquidRAM a bit regarding it, but I'm hoping it will mean still more good stuff for my friends here at ATPo to enjoy.

E.C.: You don't mean the...

OnM: (abruptly): Shhh! No spoilers here! Mum's the word for now!

E.C.: (smirking) Yes, daddy. (eyes roll upward) You'll probably never get it done anyway, knowing your miserable track record for completing personal projects.

OnM: Yeah, well, I finished high school many years ago, and that really sucked. Now, thirty long years later, I just finished a whole damn year's worth of movie review columns, and that really doesn't suck. And I owe it all to my loyal fans, and their ardent support.

E.C.: (bigger smirk) Suckup.

OnM: Bite me.

E.C.: (still-bigger smirk) That's right, quote Buffy. Real original!

OnM: You wouldn't get to spend your days eating, sleeping and surfing the net without me, dude. So I get the last word, remember?

E.C.: (gets up and heads back to the basement): A long one, no doubt. Ta-taa.

OnM: (sighs wearily, shakes head) Why, oh why do I do this? (flips on switch to computer, waits patiently for the word processor to boot, pauses for several long minutes staring blankly at the screen, then starts to type) Oh, yeah, birds gotta fly...

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[> Classic Movie o/t Week - February 1st 2002 - First Anniversary Special Edition Pt. II -- OnM, 19:47:27 02/01/02 Fri *******

Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

Directed by: Peter Jackson

Written by: Screenplay by Frances Walsh, based (of course) on the novels by J.R.R. Tolkien

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One of my primary web surfing habits, which I'm very sure will come as no surprise to any of my regular readers, is checking out movie and DVD related websites. I have several favorites that I visit regularly, usually weekly, and still others that I check out from time to time as the mood strikes me.

At a recent drop-in to one of the 'occasional' sites, I came across an angry letter/e-mail from a reader who blisteringly excoriated the site's recent listing of 'desert island DVD's' because they didn't include a number of films that, paraphrasing the reader's words, 'were obviously classic films because they sold a lot of tickets at the box office and also lots of copies on video'.

Uh..... huh. Yeah. Right.

Which was pretty much the response not only of the site owners, but also in reply after reply after reply of the subsequent e-mail respondents. Clicking over to study the list in question for myself, I found that I pretty much agreed with the vast majority of the site's evaluations. To this humble movie-man, the films listed were indeed worthy of 'classic' status in all true and righteous senses of the word, and I had no reason to dispute the assertions of high quality DVD renderings/packagings of same. Great films, great videos. What else do you want?

It would be a mistake, however, to write off the letter of one apparent 'crank' as an aberration, because I can assure you he isn't alone. Just recently, we were having some discussion on the board as to how to best deal with those unfortunate souls who are apparently born 'metaphor-blind', forever incapable of seeing even slightly below the surface of any artistic effort. The same arguments are equally applicable to those who judge the worth of any art by it's commercial success. I personally know any number of people who absolutely will not go out to see any movie that is not 'popular', no matter how ardently you attempt to convince them of the worthiness it may bear.

Now, before anyone reading this starts to panic and assume that I am about to give the big ol' opposable digit downward to Lord of the Rings, please quietly return to your seats, for I intend to do no such thing. I very much enjoyed this movie, but on the other hand, I feel it is extremely important to address why quite a number of professional film critics do not place this movie on their personal 'best of all time', or even 'best of the year' lists. The need to do so lies less in wishing to nitpick the movie's relatively minor faults, then in acting to help stem a growing tide of opinion that film is supposed to be a simple commodity created by a 'workforce' to appease the 'wishes' of the moviegoing public, much as if a film were a bottle of shampoo that is OK, but could use a more pleasant fragrance or come prepackaged with a cents-off coupon.

In fact, this is the exact tree that the website complainant was barking up. He felt that 'the director's job is to meet my needs', and 'if a film isn't popular, then obviously the public's needs aren't being met'. I don't recall any comment on this particular subject in the letter, but I strongly suspect that this fellow is exactly the same type who bitches and moans endlessly about the horrors of letterboxing on DVD's, and 'when are the damn studios gonna give me back my whole TV screen?'

Well, at the risk of being rude, you witless nit, it's because it's art, it's not a bar of soap. You are free to choose what movies you go out to see, you are free to like or dislike them. You are equally free to see the same films re-edited and cropped to fit your TV if you want them, I will even stand up for you and suggest that the marketplace try to meet your needs in that regard, because frankly it isn't that hard to do. What I will not do, is encourage the entertainment industry to pander to the lowest common denominator, and turn one of our century's greatest contributions to the world's culture into nothing more than money-grubbing, pedestrian hack-work.

Returning to The Lord of the Rings, I fully believe that director Peter Jackson both started out intending to, and will eventually complete his work as, a labor of love for a classic story he feels immense reverence for. On the whole, I enjoyed his vision, and look forward to experiencing it again. That being said, what is so dangerous in the attitude that I was elaborating on in the last few paragraphs is that it can not only infect the average movie-going public, it can infect the creative staff of a film as well. There is clear evidence of that infection here, perhaps just a mild swelling at this point in time, but if the antibiotics don't get applied before the next two chapters in this trilogy make it to the theaters later this year and in 2003, a tremendous opportunity for cinematic grandeur and greatness will have been squandered.

The film follows the book reasonably closely, althought admittedly it has been several decades since I read the Rings trilogy. I do recall that it was not a tome for a reader in a hurry, the story kind of meanders, which is fine with me since I recognize that the journey is the story, not the eventual resolution. It is also necessary that viewers recognize the necessity for filmmakers to work in their own language, not just copy word-for-word from the text of a book. In this regard, I feel that Jackson has succeeded. While I felt some small degreee of impatience as I waited for things to 'get going' in the first 20 minutes or so, the film did beome more involving after that time, and nicely held my attention. Unlike comments I've heard from some other patrons, I did not have a sense that the movie was running on overly long, in fact I was surprised to leave the theater and find it a much later hour than I subjectively guessed.

I also didn't find the ending to be disconcerting, knowing in advance that the film was just the first of three parts. Again, I puzzle at the expectations of the almost willfully uninformed who appeared to expect that everything would be 'all tidied up' at the conclusion of the film. Trilogy, people? Three parts? Over three years? When didn't the marketing machine not make this clear over the last 6 to 8 months? Sheesh...

The photography, as the trailer had strongly implied, is quite wonderful, and even if the results do not happen to match your own personal vision of Middle Earth, the vision rendered is a valid and beautifully realized one. My only minor caveats here were that there were occasions when the CGI work seemed just a little obvious, but perhaps this is a factor of it becoming both so common and so normally seamless that we now notice small glitches where we would not have before. These errors are more than amply compensated for by some truly glorious scenes, the most dynamic and startling one of which is the scene depicting the battle between Gandalf and the evil Balrog-- there is no other word for this but Whoa! The costumes, set design, art direction are all equally excellent, although I have to admit the Hobbits feet often looked fake to me. Along that same line, I realize that in the original story the Hobbits normally went without shoes, but did they in fact never wear them? This was, strangely enough, one of those moments that would jar me out of my otherwise fairly effortless suspension of disbelief, wondering how come his feet aren't freezing in the snow? or getting cut to ribbons on the rocks?

The other main problem I had that also was a repeat offense was the soundtrack, which was 1) excessively utilized and 2) mixed in way too loudly compared to other sound elements. Whether this was a misguided attempt to make up for the perception of lack of visual action (and if so, was unnecessary, see 'journey-not-resolution' above) or an attempt to 'goose' the audiophile participation in the eventual video/home-theater release, I don't know, but it was a very bad choice either way. I found it distracting, and at times even moving past that perception into being actively annoying. It's a faint hope, but this could be corrected in time for the video release-- if not fully remixed, at least having the overall levels properly rebalanced would bring about a big improvement.

The remaining complaint that I've heard from several professional film critics has been that in the original story, the Hobbits were clearly the soul and the center of the tale, and the elven and human characters took less of the spotlight. In this film version, they protest, the elves and especially the humans appear to be grabbing most of the attention, with the Hobbits kind of accessories to the journey, ringbearers in name only, not in deed, thus diminishing the central point of Tolkien's theme, that fame or stature does not dictate nobility of purpose, or provide inherent claim to becoming a champion.

While I can see the point being made, I intend to wait for the next two films to be issued and viewed before finally deciding on the merits of this assumption. I did not personally perceive the Hobbits as 'sidekicks', the fact is that this early on in the entire, very lengthy journey, the Hobbits have had insufficient time to fully assert their worth. It has been clearly stated both in the book and in this film that Hobbits are not 'action-oriented' individuals, and in fact typically exhibit quite the opposite characteristics. To expect Frodo or Sam to suddenly get all Schwarzeneggar-ian is ludicrous, so I see nothing wrong with their behavior to date.

So, does LOTR/tFotR qualify for 'classic movie' status? Yes, it certainly does. If by some chance you have not seen it yet, or have been holding back due to some of the negative comments of a few major reviewers, please don't miss an opportunity to see it while it's still available theatrically. The visuals alone are worth the price of admission ( a comment I made about Final Fantasy: The Spirits Within a few months ago, and FF/tSW is a vastly inferior film in all other regards compared to this one), and despite the minor weaknesses I detailed, you should thoroughly enjoy yourselves. There is also the possibilty that with the substantial box-office success of the film, that the director and creative staff will have to tolerate less external influence by the studios or other sources, and so raise the chances that the next two films could be even better. Some sequels are better than the original creation, and this one is off to a decent start already.

Hey, it worked for George Lucas and Star Wars!

E. Pluribus Cinema, Unum,

OnM

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Technically, one to bind them all, or at least mostly:

Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring is still in current release at a whole big bunch o' theaters all over the damn place, and so is obviously not available on DVD, laserdisc or even VHS, at least not legally, and we won't go there. Run time is just shy of three hours, at 178 minutes, with no intermission, so for heaven's sakes don't load up on beverages just before heading out to the theater. The film is rated PG-13, mostly for the violence of the combat scenes and some fairly scary-looking evil creatures. (Really loved the way you couldn't initially see the faces on the 'dark riders', all black pools of vacuous emptiness, nicely fear-inducing).

The aspect ratio of the film is 2.35:1. Cinematography was by Andrew Lesnie, with film editing by John Gilbert and production design by Grant Major. Art direction was by Joe Bleakley, Dan Hennah, Philip Ivey, Rob Outterside & Mark Robins. Set decoration was by Tanea Chapman, Dan Hennah, Alan Lee and Victoria McKenzie. Costume design was by Ngila Dickson & Richard Taylor.

The theatrical sound mix was provided in all standard cinema formats, namely DTS, Dolby Digital, Dolby EX 6.1 and SDDS. Original music was by Enya, who provided the songs, with orchestral and other music by Howard Shore. The Internet Movie Database amusingly notes that the language of the film is 'English / Elvish'. Uh, yep, that it is.

Cast overview, primary characters:

Elijah Wood .... Frodo Baggins Ian McKellen .... Gandalf Billy Boyd .... Peregrin 'Pippin' Took Dominic Monaghan .... Meriadoc 'Merry' Brandybuck Viggo Mortensen .... Lord Aragorn 'Strider' Elessar Sean Astin .... Samwise 'Sam' Gamgee Liv Tyler .... Arwen Undómiel Ian Holm .... Bilbo Baggins Orlando Bloom .... Legolas Christopher Lee .... Saruman the White Cate Blanchett .... Queen Galadriel Sean Bean .... Boromir John Rhys-Davies .... Gimli Andy Serkis .... Gollum/Smeagol Hugo Weaving .... Lord Elrond of Rivendell

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Miscellaneous and the Question of the Week

Wellsir, the conversation between me and my clone at the column start-up pretty much spelled out what's in store for this month. I'll now detail some of the details, though, for those Hobbits, Elves or Humans out there in Atpoboardland who bravely wish to take me up on my offer to guest-host a 'Classic Movie of the Week' column.

C'mon, you know you want to! It isn't that hard, you just need 1) a reasonably functional brain, 2) a love for movies, 3) an opinion thereon and 4) the ability to type. If you hang at this board, and read this column regularly, you obviously have already qualified, so git them fingers a-clickin', OK?

The procedure:

Write up your column. Length should be at least one normal 8 1/2 x 11 inch page if printed out, you may make it longer if desired, of course. You do not need to emulate my style, in fact I hope you do not-- please do your own thing in your own way. You do not need to include the 'Technical yada yada...' or 'Miscellaneous' or 'Question of the Week' if you do not wish to. The movie should not be one in current release.

I prefer a 'positive' review. By this, I do not mean to exclude negative aspects of the film in your review, but there will only be so much room to fit these into the schedule as the BtVS season progresses, so I don't want to see a film chosen just to bash it. What's the point? Pick something you like, and tell us why. That's really what this is all about.

Send your completed review to me in either .txt or .rtf format. I will select my favorites from among all submissions, and publish them during the weeks that Buffy is on hiatus up until the end of the current season. After that, if there are still submissions left over, I will publish one a month through the summer until the new Buffy season starts up again in the fall. The guest columns will be posted at the usual Friday night, 10:00 PM to 2:00 AM time slot each week. You should include your return e-mail address so that I may contact you regarding any revisions needed, which would be primarily for spelling or grammar issues. (I will correct any trivial errors I find).

You will have the final say as to the publishing of your submission, and I will inform you by e-mail of the projected date of posting. You are a guest in my normal column space, I make absolutely no claims of any kind over, or assert any rights to subsequent 'ownership' of anything you write. It remains your work. My CMotW column, in fact, exists in Masquerade's 'space', and I continue here by her permission, for which I am extremely grateful.

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The Question of the Week:

So, do you wanna be a star?

Send your 'Classic Movie' reviews to:

objectsinmirror@mindspring.com

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Thanks to one and all of my 'Classic Movie' readers for your many kind and encouraging words over the last year. It has been my sincere pleasure to write for you.

Peace!

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[> [> Ooooh... now we just need a list so we don't... -- Solitude1056, 22:30:13 02/01/02 Fri
...inadvertantly "redo" any of the movies you might've reviewed before some of us stumbled on this haven of the 'net. Or you could just tell me, here, with a yes or no, and then I'll volunteer to do a review of one (or more) of them, if you're interested.

- Performance
- The Devils
- The Last Wave
- The Lover
- Walkabout
- Angelheart
- If

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[> [> [> Ooooh... you really *are* The Second Evil, aren't 'cha?? -- OnM, 22:58:44 02/01/02 Fri
You mean someone else besides me has actually seen The Devils? (I'm presuming you are speaking of the Ken Russell film from '71 with Vanessa Redgrave, that was banned in like, several countries?)

To date, I have not reviewed any of these films, so have at it. Walkabout is a magnificent film, and would be an excellent choice, plus it's also available on DVD, which is a bonus. (Likewise for The Last Wave.)

I will arrange for a list that can be e-mailed to anyone interested in doing a guest review. Give me until tomorrow night to update my index on what I've done over the last year, it's already about 90% up-to-date. (amazingly!)

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[> [> [> [> I've seen The Devils, too. Not exactly a jolly romp. ;o) -- Cactus Watcher, 06:50:43 02/02/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> The Devils--Wota Movie--Oliver Reed--Oh My! Yes, Please Review the Devils! -- Duquessa des Essientes, 15:21:11 02/02/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> Walkabout and The Last Wave-two of my top 20 favorites. -- A8, 17:09:12 02/02/02 Sat
By the way, is The Devils out on DVD?
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[> [> [> [> [> According to the IMDb, it is not - VHS only. -- OnM, 20:35:57 02/02/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Drat. Oh well. I'm sure they'll get around to it eventually. Thanks for the info. -- A8, 16:58:36 02/04/02 Mon
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[> [> [> and someone needs to get off her butt & get the CMotW Archive up on the ES site...Email me OnM! -- Liq, 01:01:04 02/02/02 Sat
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[> [> [> [> We have OnM's posts and discussions in the regular archives -- Masquerade, 11:45:01 02/04/02 Mon
And November and December are now on the cyber-presses.

Or were you just going to link to ours to get the archives of the discussions of OnM's posts??
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[> [> Re: Some LOTR Comments -- matching mole, 15:29:38 02/02/02 Sat
Congratulations on one year of reviews, although I've only seen the last few months.

As I hadn't seen the film at the time of the great LOTR discussion in December I thought I would weigh in on a couple of points that your review triggered in my memory.

Exactly how I evaluate LOTR:FOTR depends on the perspective I choose to take. If I compare it to other action/adventure films I would have to say that it is probably the best I have ever seen. I don't know what you or anyone else would make of my statement as I am generally not a big fan of the modern action/adventure film. Action (explosions, gun battles, light saber battles, etc.) as spectacle generally bores me when it is prolonged beyond what's necessary to establish the plot point.

So then, fairly predictably, when I look at the film from the perspective of the book I am somewhat disappointed. While I certainly appreciate that film and the written word are different media with different requirements I also find the film lacking in many of the qualities that made the book so appealing to me particularly the way that the everyday was mixed in so skillfully with the wonderful.

So to me the film was both a classic and a disappointment which was no more and no less than I expected.
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[> [> LotR and the difference between movies and books (Warning: SPOILERS and LONG) -- vandalia, 10:14:35 02/04/02 Mon
Oh, you've finally picked a movie I've seen that has a background with which I am wholly familiar! I can actually participate!

DISCLAIMER: There will be spoilers for the current movie and possibly the sequels in this posting. I feel slightly silly making a spoiler disclaimer for a book that's been out for roughly twice as long as I've been alive, but there you go.

I was very lucky (or unlucky, as the case may be, see below) to have been allowed to read The Hobbit as part of schoolwork in the sixth grade. I had already made my way through all the K-12 books (remember those, with the clever names like _Dreams and Decisions_, all color-coded with accompanying workbooks and tailored to grade?) and there was nothing else left for me to do in English class (this at a magnet school, natch -- otherwise I'm sure I'd have been told to pace myself with the class and turned into some kind of troublemaking juvenile deliquent). So my sixth grade teacher, Mrs. Gates, turned to some classic children's literature, the first being _The Hobbit_. I devoured this book as I am wont to do with books then and now, and absolutely, utterly and completely fell under Tolkien's spell. I asked her if there were any more books like this one and she told me about LOTR. Turns out a friend of mine was reading _Fellowship_ at about this time, and I borrowed it from her. I have been hooked on Tolkien ever since, and every other fantasy author has had to live up to the standards set in my twelve-year-old brain by Tolkien. (Robert Jordan? Bah! Man is in desperate need of an editor. Don't even get me started on Terry Brooks...) I reread the books at least yearly, wearing out two copies in the process (my friends' and my own) and even went so far as to read _The Silmarillion_ (and that was hard, let me tell you. Like diving for pearls: immerse yourself down, down, down, holding your breath, pushing through dense forests of disjointed threads of stories and verbiage, sometimes coming up with an oyster, sometimes not, but always gasping for breath) and _Leaf by Niggle_ (which is, I think, Tolkien's best work and the most autobiographical). I've even delved into learning Elvish on occasion, and it was Tolkien who inspired me to take a linguistics course in college (but the less said about that particular endeavor, the better. Suffice to say I escaped with my GPA intact).

Given this background, you can imagine with how much anticipation and dread I awaited this movie. Some reporter said this was a movie that fans had been waiting fifty years for, and I would not disagree. The shameful animated feature that cut off right at the battle of Helm's Deep and seemingly consisted of a bunch of the animator's friends dressed in rubber masks, filmed, then painted over did not engender paroxyms of delight. The rather silly animated version of the Hobbit (which was actually quite good and faithful to the book, though the elves looked rather... icky) and The Return of the King didn't help much, either. People were panning the movie before a foot of celluloid had gone into its production. But such is the nature of fans; these people had been burned once before and Peter Jackson was more well-known for his scare-filled gorefests like Dead Again and The Frighteners (both wonderful movies which I absolutely love for totally different reasons) than his more critically-acclaimed _Beautiful Creatures_. Speculation ran rampant. Not less than three fan sites were set up to speculate, spy and report on the progress of the movies up to two years before its scheduled release. Hopes would be raised (the stills look great!) and dashed (Liv Tyler as Arwen?) from day to day.

And then it was released. And it was Good.

My main beef before seeing the movie was the absense of Tom Bombabil. Now for the vast majority of Tolkien fans, old Tom was a welcome deletion, a holdover from the children-skewed and more than a little patronizing tone of _The Hobbit_. But Bombadil held a very important role in the quest of the hobbits, one that many people outright overlook in their hurry to condemn the man for his silly songs and caperings. You see, Tom Bombabil was responsible for getting the Hobbits their blades of Westernesse. This is very important later in the books. They go around this in the movie well enough (though I thought it a bit of a cop out, it made sense, though they didn't explain a thing about their significance in the movie) by having Aragorn give the Hobbits their blades on Weathertop. Just why Aragorn was carrying around a bunch of Hobbit-sized knives rolled up in a blanket is not explained. But that's just a pet peeve of mine, would've made a three-hour movie already longer than it was, and wouldn't have added very much to the narrative (though I can't wait for the DVD and all those deleted scenes).

My other two beefs after the movie was released related to the two main female characters: Arwen and Galadriel. Arwen's role in the movies is much, much greater than her role in the books. In the books, Arwen was Elrond's daughter and greatly desired by Aragorn. She was his impetus to reclaim his long-lost family throne of Gondor and Arnor, reunite the two kingdoms, and otherwise prove himself worthy of her hand to her father. A true princess even among the elves, she speaks almost no words directly in the books, and mostly sits at home and looks pretty, though she also makes the standard Aragorn bears into battle the first time he reveals himself at large as who he truly is. Her role in the movie was that of Glorfindel in the books, an elf lord of the House of Elrond, and it was he who finds the hobbits and Aragorn and rescues Frodo, having him ride his horse over the river and into Imladris. It was Elrond (and Gandalf, to a lesser extent) who called upon the fury of the river to wash the Nazgul away, as he was the lord of his lands and had great power over them and that within them, including the river that marked its boundaries.

Some laud the expanded role of Arwen, arguing that there was no reason for Aragorn to be attracted to her and that she would otherwise be a rather two-dimensional character, an object, a prize to be won rather than a mate equal to his abilities. I personally hated it with a fiery passion, and I'm a feminist of the first water. You see, Tolkien didn't just write an epic fantasy novel. He wrote in many ways a history of a place he created, Middle-Earth, a mythology to explain it. Peter Jackson did, of course, have to edit, combine and exclude small roles in order to make his movie fit some modern idea of running time. But to take Arwen's role and expand it as he has done (and rumor has it that she has an even bigger part to play in later sequels) is treading on PC revisionist history on an gross scale. The example I use most is Betsy Ross. Who was Betsy Ross in the mythology of the United States? She was the woman who made the flag which came to represent our country. How would you feel about seeing a 'faithful reproduction' of the American Revolutionary War that included Betsy Ross in the role of Paul Revere? There goes mighty Ms. Ross, riding her horse through the night, crying about how the British are coming. It was her idea for the lanterns in the window of the Old North Church, and of course she battled those British trying to stop her quite admirably as well, without once breaking a nail or a hair out of place. The only problem is, anyone with any passing remembrance of grade-school history knows that Betsy Ross made a freakin' _flag_, and any revisionist history of that fact would be met with deserved derision (keep in mind I talk about the mythology of the United States, not necessarily the history. I know Paul Revere didn't make his ride any more than Betsy Ross did). Many people argue that Tolkien's view of the world was male-dominated and needed more powerful female figures. My response is Tolkien wrote these stories over a period of many years from at least the early twenties to the mid to late fifties. This was not the most enlightened time for women. Yet even in an atmosphere of male dominance there are not one but two powerful women in Tolkien's stories: Galadriel and Eowyn. Eowyn is a 'shieldmaiden' and goes to fight disguised as a man. Galadriel is a ruler of her own kingdom and has a male consort. There are also a few minor characters (such as Ioreth the healer) that are women and in roles of importance. Yet we still feel the need to expand Arwen's role? This makes no sense. If Aragorn wanted the kind of woman who liked to ride into battle, he'd have picked Eowyn. He didn't, (to his credit, because Eowyn saw in him a glorious leader and royalty, an escape from her dreary existence rather than for the man he was, which Arwen knew) and his spurning of her is a factor in her decision to go to war (and seek an honorable death).

Then you have Galadriel, one of the Wise, a ruler of a hidden kingdom of what once was, a paradise, a heaven on earth for elves, an island of light in a sea of darkness, beset on all sides and largely kept in check by her power. 'On the land of Lorien there was no stain.' Quite the compliment in a time when the Dark Lord was ascending. And how does Jackson choose to portray her? As a screeching half-mad seer. _This_ is the ruler of a besieged nation? They actually did this part much better in the cartoon than they did in the movie. The Temptation of Galadriel could have been on a level of Gandalf's confrontation with the Balrog. They missed the swan-boat on this one.

That said, I liked the rest of the movie immensely. Hobbiton was, to my mind, absolutely perfect down to the tools hanging on the walls. I loved the beginning, didn't feel it dragged at all, and felt it was necessary to establish just how placid and tranquil and bucolic the setting from which came Sam and Frodo, Merry and Pippin, and show just how far they had to go to become formidable warriors on a life-and-death journey of salvation for the whole world, and just what it was they were willing to risk all for. The flight from the Shire was good (though I missed old Farmer Maggot and his dogs) and the perspective in the town of Bree was amazingly well done. (I think they could've done well with Frodo 'having as much ale as was good for him' and jumping up on a table to sing to distract from Pippin's blathering about their story and revealing the Ring that way, as they did in the books, but lots of people hated the songs in the books, so that was that). The flight with Strider was good, Frodo looked quite ill (and creepy with the bloodshot eyes) and the Nazgul were well done indeed (thought Bilbo's 'gimme the ring!' face in Imladris scared me more than either Nazgul or Balrog). The less said about Arwen's role the better, and I justified and enjoyed the flight to the Ford in my mind by translating Arwen's murmurings before the river rose to crush the Nazgul as 'Help me Daddy, I'm in deep sh*t here, help help help me Daddy.' (I say this because having Arwen able to call up the waters of the Ford takes away from the acceptance of magic as a natural and normal, though limited, aspect of the elves, whose magics were subtle and not flashy (think Legolas' walking on top of the snow while everyone else plowed through it). Elrond could control the ford because he was master of the land, not because he was an elf. Having Arwen do it there made it look like elves had control over nature, which raises the question later of why didn't Legolas just tell the storm to get lost or raise some kind of protective snow-barrier in the attempt to cross Caradhras). Also, it takes away from the book scene where Frodo is sent on alone over the river on the horse while Glorfindel builds a fire to try to keep them at bay while he makes it to Imladris. It was Frodo who raised his sword and said 'you will have neither the Ring, nor me!' in a show of defiance to the Nazgul, even sorely wounded as he was. This showed that he had some reserves of strength of will that had not yet been tapped. In the movie he's just made to look like baggage and many people complain about why anyone would choose this guy to go to the supermarket, much less take a Ring of Power to the Enemy to cast it into the Fire. It would have been better to leave this scene in, though I have a feeling Jackson left it out in order to make Frodo's strength of will even more impressive and surprising later, though I think he runs the risk of making it too surprising.

The journey through Moria was my favorite part of the book, inspired games like Dungeons & Dragons, and held one of my favorite passages in the trilogy; that between Gandalf and Frodo on why Bilbo hadn't killed Gollum. That was one of my earliest lessons in the death penalty, couched as it was in fantasy, and my earliest lesson in the role fantasy could play in teaching values. 'Deserved death? I daresay he does. And many of those that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then be not so quick to deal out death in punishment. Even the Wise cannot see all ends.' In the book, this conversation was held back in the Shire, before Gandalf left the second time, but it fits here quite well, and I don't mind the change. Of course, the flight of the party, the finding of Balin's tomb, the fight on the bridge between Gandalf and the Balrog, were enough to make me wish I hadn't read the books before I saw the movie, as it would have been so much more exciting and shocking had I not known what was coming. I had a small problem with Aragorn's 'get them up, Boromir' and showing no grief over Gandalf's death while even Boromir was saddened, and he hadn't known Gandalf near as long as Aragorn. I thought they could have had Aragorn crying when he turned his back and started running instead of looking forward to getting to Lorien like a Griswold on a Lampoon vacation. Lorien was very pretty, but not what I had envisioned in my mind's eye. Still, it fit the description of the book, but I missed the whole interaction of Gimli, the hobbits, and the elves (which in the books didn't speak a word of English and Aragorn and Legolas had to translate, and even Legolas had problems because they spoke an accented dialect of Elvish to which he was unused. It established the dwarves and elves as hostile to each other, the Lorien elves as insulated and distrustful of outsiders, even their own kin, and showed how Lorien was beseiged by orcs from Moria). I also thought they could have showed Gimli's adoration of Galadriel and the request for a strand of her hair (very romantic gesture for a dour dwarf!) as the gift she gave him and an example of his 180 in attitude towards elves. The river ride was nice, and the battle with the orcs at the end was very climatic (as well as Boromir's betrayal and subsequent redemption and death). I too had to listen to ignorant moviegoers complain about the 'trick' ending (and also who made fun of any and all drug references, intentional or no, and anything they interpreted as homosexual subtext, even to the extent of snickering when one man took another's hand).

I do look forward to the rest of the movies, as any fan of Tolkien would, but I am glad that they escaped the gross overexpectation and hype that plagued the first Star Wars movie in over twenty years (and that richly deserved the panning it got, in my mind). Oh and also, I think I'm going to have to go to New Zealand at some point. The scenery in this movie was absolutely breathtaking (literally) and should have made the Kiwi Tourist Board proud.
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[> [> [> Great post! Your comments on Arwen and Galadriel are dead on. -- Sophist, 13:00:30 02/04/02 Mon
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[> Evil Clone! Welcome back! OnM - Happy Anniversary! -- Marie, 02:28:52 02/04/02 Mon
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Theology in BtVS? -- MrDave, 23:58:23 02/01/02 Fri

I have read the opinion on this board that JW seems to have skimmed over the idea of "positive" forces in the world. God, Heaven, true Angels, all seem to be conspicuously missing throughout the Buffyverse. While I will admit that the demonic, Evil, and negative forces seem to have sway, I think that while not explicitly named, God is very evident, as is Heaven. But it is not the theistic vision of God you might expect in a show where demons and even Satan (aka "The First Evil") are manifested in such a tangible way.

Paul Tillich (1886-1965), Rudolph Bultmann (1884-1976), and more recently John Shelby Spong (1939-) have all stated as theologians that a theistic vision of God actually robs God of any power in our lives. God exists in all things and is omnipresent as well as omnipotent. We cannot meet God in person nor can we pray to a deity expecting a personal response. Such idolatry is a sure-fire way to set oneself up for disappointment, disillusionment, and eventually a loss of faith and atheism (literally "without God"). Rather it is the presence of God that we can experience through living that connects us with the reality of God.

Paul Tillich writes:
"The being of God is being-itself. The being of God cannot be understood as the existence of a being alongside others or above others....Many confusions in the doctrine of God could be avoided if God were understood first of all as being-itself, or as the ground of being. Ever since the time of Plato it has been understood that being as being, or being-itself, points to the power inherent in everything, the power of resisting nonbeing. "
(Systematic Theology Vol. 1, 1964)

In this statement Tillich asserts that even in the experiences of pain, death, guilt, fear, and brokenness we can experience God in the power of renewal. The demonic forces can threaten but never overwhelm the reality of healing, no matter how tenuous, that keeps us clinging to life. The very fact that Buffy, Willow, Tara, Dawn, Xander, Anya, Giles, and all of the other "positive" characters in BtVS do not succumb to despair and death is a witness of the power of the divine being at work. God shows through the "show".

There are also symbols at work. Symbols representing God are not empowering themselves, but are in fact transparent to us and show God through themselves.* Crosses, holy water, even the Slayer herself are symbols for the power of God. Even little touches like Faith wearing the "Buffy-suit" and staring into a mirror saying, "Because it's wrong" become symbols showing us God in the act itself.

So the assertion that God isn't represented in BtVS is actually a lack of perception on our part. The demons, and the "big bads" distract us from the true focus of the show, which is the power of God in our (and Buffy's) life. Our struggle to overcome the evil that clutters our lives as we "grow up" is the divine of the universe at work.

* OT NOTE: Paul Tillich described Jesus as the "ultimate self-removing symbol". He removed himself from our perception by his death allowing us direct access to God...affirming he was the Christ. The Messiah).
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- yez, 06:16:12 02/02/02 Sat
Mr. Dave wrote: "... God shows through the "show".

"There are also symbols at work. Symbols representing God are not empowering themselves, but are in fact transparent to us and show God through themselves.* Crosses, holy water, even the Slayer herself are symbols for the power of God. Even little touches like Faith wearing the "Buffy-suit" and staring into a mirror saying, "Because it's wrong" become symbols showing us God in the act itself.

"So the assertion that God isn't represented in BtVS is actually a lack of perception on our part. The demons, and the "big bads" distract us from the true focus of the show, which is the power of God in our (and Buffy's) life. Our struggle to overcome the evil that clutters our lives as we "grow up" is the divine of the universe at work."



Interesting, and well put, BUT.

This sounds like the argument for the prime mover, or however that goes -- we know there has to be one god because something had to set in motion the first cause that we are all effects of. And also the argument for god as the orderer of chaos, so all the proof you need for god is to look around you and see that there is order. By order, the meaning is just "existence."

It seems that, following your logic, vampires and other demons are as much proof of god as the slayer and everyone else. They exist. They are "ordered." They are part of the "being."

Besides, god is referred to on the show as The Powers That Be, right? I always thought that was clever. We use TPTB for the writers, creators, producers, and those above them who remain more or less invisible to us. Yet we see the effects of their decisions on the show each week -- and sometimes, on shows not airing that week, as the case may be. And the characters use TPTB, too. It ocurrs to me how clever it is to not have the show characters able to talk directly to TPTB.

********SOMEWHAT SPOILERY FOR THE LAST ANGEL EP.*********




The last Angel ep. where he can't talk directly to TPTB, but hears their crazed whispering was a great example.




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The characters may want something and try desperately to make that wish known. Yet they can't talk to TPTB because TPTB are the writers, etc., who exist in a different plane, yet who guide the characters' actions.

Sorry... got carried away with that idea for a second.

I think the concern over the lack of angels and angel-type creatures is legitimate. Why should there be so much diversity in the forms evil takes (i.e., all different kinds of demons), and so little in the forms good takes (i.e., humans with perhaps a few demon allies)?

Personally, I think the plight of humans vs. demons is too piddly a thing for TPTB to get involved with. It matters to us because we're us.

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[> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- MrDave, 11:17:51 02/02/02 Sat
I am beginning to appreciate that there is a different theology on Angel than the theology of Buffy. AtS has a "named" God in the TPTB. It is identified as a being (or beings) that can be reached, and who respond (albeit in obscure and not always aparent ways).

On BtVS the charcters make no mention of the TPTB. They do not make vain appeals to the collective hoping for a response. They just live. They struggle and they usually succeed.

This whole train of thought came from OMWF. When Buffy was singing "I live in Hell/'Cause I've been expelled/From Heaven/I think I was in Heaven/So give me something to sing about./Please Give me something..." and the only (and best response) she got from Spike was "The pain that you feel/ You only can heal/By living". This is the essence of what I was trying to capture. Here we see that there is no appeal, no being to answer her "prayer". Only the divine power that comes from fighting the "chaos" (as you put it) and moving on.

The appeal Angel makes to TPTB is answered. His is a theistic world. Where the divine has agents and power, and manifests in miricles. Life is the miriacle in Buffy. Her struggle to avoid nonbeing (and the nonbeing of the world) is the manifestation of the divine.
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[> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS and Angel -- OnM, 15:44:36 02/03/02 Sun
*** I am beginning to appreciate that there is a different theology on Angel than the theology of Buffy ***

Good point, and I think you are absolutely right. Wonderful posts, BTW. I do find it intriguing that your description of Christianity sounds so similar to more Eastern-leaning theosophies, or for that matter to Wicca, which also postulates the 'God is in everything' concept.
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[> [> Re: Also ... -- Dedalus, 11:33:16 02/03/02 Sun
I would like to point out that Tillich's argument for the Ground of Being is not in any way linked to the "Prime Mover" argument. It is actually the antithesis of it, as he lays that same line of thinking to rest in the book MrDave was quoting from. Being-Itself would NOT be the Prime Mover for the simple reason that Being-Itself IS the Moving motion rather than the thing being moved. There is a strong degree of differentiation there.

Tillich does a fabulous job of taking down the which came first, the chicken or the universe, reasoning. He is not spouting a theology of causality, rather one of correlatives, which is quite different. Correlatives arise mutually, whereas causality dictates there must be a separate cause and then a separate effect. Tillich shows in Systematic Theology that labeling God as First Cause does you no good, because every cause was an effect once itself. Cause and effect are rather interchangeable. They are not a straight line going in one direction, but extend in both directions back and back and back. Causality is distinctly non-linear though on the surface it appears that it is.
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- Eric, 11:13:41 02/02/02 Sat
I thought JW skimmed over the idea of "positive" forces in the show because they might provide unnecessary controversy and they might limit plot development options. The last is the most important, since once you put the show on a theistic biased path it can get predictable. I might add that slayer powers have yet to be proven divine. In fact, they seem a powerful, even primal force that may even have links to the demon dimensions. In that sense they are no more divine than the gun in Anya's dresser drawer. (I do hope she got rid of that-its so irrelevant based on potential threats).

Idolatrous prayer doesn't automatically lead to dissillusionment or atheism. Millions have, do, and will live believing in prayer. Even if God doesn't exist or doesn't answer them most will never become atheists. Oddly, many will even feel more religious in hard times where God's phone is busy. And if God is in everything - such as a well brewed cup of hot cocoa, isn't some sort of preconceived notion of God necessary to appreciate Him - at least as something other than a hot beverage? Sounds too complicated. The Zen Buddhist would just sip the cocoa, ditto the wise theist after a short prayer of thanks. Which leads to another thing. If everything is a divine manifestation, then everything is sacred. And if everything is sacred, then really nothing is sacred. The Chartre Cathedral in Paris is certainly more sacred than a gas station bathroom off Highway 101.
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[> [> Slight tangent: slayer powers and demonic force? -- yez, 11:48:09 02/02/02 Sat
Eric, you wrote: "... slayer powers ... seem a powerful, even primal force that may even have links to the demon dimensions."

This suddenly made me wonder about the current "Buffy came back wrong" situation. Is it possible that Spike has been capable of hurting Buffy *all along* for this reason, but hadn't actually tried it till just now because he just assumed that it would hurt to strike her? In other words, could it be that Buffy has *always* been superhuman and so not covered by the chip, not just since she was resurrected?

I can't remember if Spike has done the wince thing with Buffy, or just with others. Does anyone know?

yez
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[> [> [> Re: Slight tangent: slayer powers and demonic force? -- robert, 13:17:51 02/02/02 Sat
"Is it possible that Spike has been capable of hurting Buffy *all along* for this reason, but hadn't actually tried it till just now because he just assumed that it would hurt to strike her? In other words, could it be that Buffy has *always* been superhuman and so not covered by the chip, not just since she was resurrected?"

Good question! The answer is no. In "Fool for Love", Spike winced in pain when he hit Buffy.
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[> [> [> Spike can't hurt pre-dead Buffy -- Liz, 14:13:09 02/02/02 Sat
The one in "Fool for Love" was a bit complicated because he was also able to try to hit her when he knew he couldn't, and he was also playing around a bit.

A better example is "Out of my Mind" when he thought the chip was out and tried to bite her. Spike definitly couldn't hurt Buffy before she died.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Spike can't hurt pre-dead Buffy -- yez, 20:56:12 02/02/02 Sat
Well, I took my best shot. :)

Thanks to both of you.

yez
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[> [> [> [> Re: Spike can't hurt pre-dead Buffy -- JM, 20:56:19 02/02/02 Sat
Hope I'm not requoting anyone, not finished the thread, but the answer is no.

He was absolutely convinced he was fixed in "Out of My Mind" but one lunge at Buffy nearly incapacitated him. He was absolutely convinced on punishment in "Smashed" but it never came. Something is different. I'd wager a cosmic factor. We don't know if God exists, but there are more than just the forces of evil, else there wouldn't be the Slayer.
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[> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- yez, 12:02:43 02/02/02 Sat
Since both shows not only share the same creator but the characters in Angel originated on BtVS, doesn't it follow that TPTB also exist in the Buffyverse -- even if the characters don't subscribe to them, have direct dealings with them, etc.?

As far as theism leading to predictability on Buffy, I guess I disagree. As far as I've been able to tell, TPTB aren't quite based on traditional religions (thank god!) and so allow for a lot of maneuverability. Also, I think dealing with the big questions, the why questions, would be a good challenge for Whedon et al, and would be interesting for the rest of us.

As far as religion on Buffy goes, the use of Catholic paraphenalia, which Mr.Dave referred to earlier, makes a statement, doesn't it? Not that I know what the statement is... Perhaps the power of the cross and holy water rests solely in the power that's imbued through belief, not in an divine power channelled through the Catholic Church. In other words, it's a spell. Maybe a Star of David would work the same way?

Of course, if the Star of David or similar wouldn't work, then it would seem that the power was related to the Catholic religion, and therefore, to the Catholic god. And so wouldn't every use of a cross or holy water on Buffy be an invocation of that god? Buffy does wear a cross on her neck.

yez
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[> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- robert, 13:27:40 02/02/02 Sat
"Since both shows not only share the same creator but the characters in Angel originated on BtVS, doesn't it follow that TPTB also exist in the Buffyverse ..."

No. As a logical argument, it does not follow. You may assume that the BtVS and Angel universes are the same, and many people do. They may be correct. However, unless Mr. Whedon has stated that the universes are the same, I don't think we can logically conclude that they are.

I personally believe that they aren't. The nature of the powers, magic, demons, and evil are subtly different. It might be interesting if someone more literate than I were to analyze the differences in an essay.
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[> [> [> Well traditionally (mild exageration) the Catholic and Jewish god is the same -- Charlemagne20, 14:29:59 02/02/02 Sat
However there's also the fact the cross is a Solar Symbol and it represents Life and ressurection while the Star of David isn't really a religious symbol at all but a reflection of the Nationhood of Israel as far as I can tell.
Though the spiritual covenant aspects with the Chosen people might be included I suppose.

Reminds me of a Doctor Who episode where a man's faith in communism drives off an evil vampire
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[> [> [> [> Re: another possibility - slightly ot -- Valhalla, 16:29:18 02/02/02 Sat
I hope bringing up other vampire shows isn't sacrilegious (hee hee), but on Forever Knight, vampires are only affected by religious symbols that already existed and that they had some relationship to when they were made vampires. So the older vampire (LaCroix? can't remember his name, quite), who was an early Roman general or something when he was turned, was entirely unaffected by symbols of Christianity, but Nick, who became a vampire during one of the crusades (I think -- it's been a long time), was burnt by crosses, holy water, etc.

I always thought that made a lot of sense, although it could get kind of complicated.
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[> [> [> [> Re: another possibility - slightly ot -- Valhalla, 16:41:21 02/02/02 Sat
I hope bringing up other vampire shows isn't sacrilegious (hee hee), but on Forever Knight, vampires are only affected by religious symbols that already existed and that they had some relationship to when they were made vampires. So the older vampire (LaCroix? can't remember his name, quite), who was an early Roman general or something when he was turned, was entirely unaffected by symbols of Christianity, but Nick, who became a vampire during one of the crusades (I think -- it's been a long time), was burnt by crosses, holy water, etc.

I always thought that made a lot of sense, although it could get kind of complicated.
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[> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- MrDave2176, 15:30:32 02/04/02 Mon
Yez stated:
And if God is in everything - such as a well brewed cup of hot cocoa, isn't some sort of preconceived notion of God necessary to appreciate Him - at least as something other than a hot beverage? Sounds too complicated. The Zen Buddhist would just sip the cocoa, ditto the wise theist after a short prayer of thanks. Which leads to another thing. If everything is a divine manifestation, then everything is sacred. And if everything is sacred, then really nothing is sacred. The Chartre Cathedral in Paris is certainly more sacred than a gas station bathroom off Highway 101
If God is in the being...the "Ground of all Being": then the cup of cocoa isn't being, it just is. Being is an act. God is in the brewing, God is in the enjoyment, God is in the prayer of thanks. The act of brewing, enjoying and being thankful is the reflection of the divine showing throught the process. If the brewing was arduous, painful, and hard. If the cocoa was nasty or rancid, and the monk spilled it all over his orange robes, then his reflection "God as being-itself" is clouded by the experience. This is why the struggle is part of the experience.

The Cathedral is a celebration. It was hard, it was expensive, it was largely superfluous, but the labor and time and effort lavished on it inspires others...the divine effort placed into it shines through and brings others closer to God. I doubt that the same effort was lavished on that Gas station. But who hasn't been inspired at one time or another while pumping gas or uninating into a roadside lavatory. Yeah, God is there too, it is the symbols that are not equal.

The Cathedral is a symbol that is designed to be transparent to the being-itself. The gas station may be transparent under the right circumstances, but it wasn't designed for that.

Since both shows not only share the same creator but the characters in Angel originated on BtVS, doesn't it follow that TPTB also exist in the Buffyverse -- even if the characters don't subscribe to them, have direct dealings with them, etc.?

I respectfully disagree. Angel and Buffy have different messages. Why wouldn't they have different cosmologies, internal logic, metaphysics, and theologies? These elements serve to futher the show's message, not the other way around. So they can be emphasized, altered, or eliminated as needed to convey this message. Not to say that their two separate environs are incompatable...they aren't. From the storytellers POV they are more like the comicbook continuity that Marvel and DC have perpetrated. They cross over only as much as needed to tell the tale, the rest of the time they are self-contained and separate.
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- manwitch, 15:30:09 02/02/02 Sat
"The appeal Angel makes to TPTB is answered. His is a theistic world. Where the divine has agents and power, and manifests in miricles.
Life is the miriacle in Buffy. Her struggle to avoid nonbeing (and the nonbeing of the world) is the manifestation of the divine."

This I like.

"So the assertion that God isn't represented in BtVS is actually a lack of perception on our part. The
demons, and the "big bads" distract us from the true focus of the show, which is the power of God in
our (and Buffy's) life. Our struggle to overcome the evil that clutters our lives as we "grow up" is the
divine of the universe at work."

This not so much.

The problem with talking about God is that no two people are ever talking about the same thing. It sounds like we are, cuz we're using the same word, but...

I think your distinction between Buffy and Angel is exactly right. In Buffy, the divine is the eternal divine power of life itself, transcendant of time and place. That is the essence of Buffy's realization and sacrifice in The Gift. She recognizes the one-ness beyond forms.

Angel's is a theistic world as you say. For my way of thinking, a lot of people put the cart before the horse with Angel. They see the Powers That Be as calling Angel to some sort of performance or purpose. But really its the other way around. Angel's quest is what calls the Powers That Be into existence.

Boring Philosophical Explanation as to why this is so: Angel is from the 18th century, the time of the enlightenment and the moral thought of Immanuel Kant. Kant argued that the purpose of moral behavior was not happiness, which could never be achieved, but virtue, or what Kant called the "worthiness to be happy." In order for such a quest to be possible and meaningful, Kant argued that it presupposed a power capable of distributing happiness in accordance to worthiness. Or in Kant's words, it "must lead to the supposition of the existence of a cause adequate to this effect; in other words it must postulate the existence of God." Kant also argued, that since this worthiness could not be achieved in a human life time, this quest was "only possible on the supposition of the immortality of the soul." The parallels to Angel should be obvious. End Boring Philosophical Explanation.

So the Powers That Be are part of Angel's quest, not Buffy's. I would argue that they follow Angel whether he is on his own show or in Buffy. The Buffy episode "Pangs" comes to mind.

But I don't think the divine in Buffy is a Christian or even personal divinity. The christian symbols seem to have no more efficacy than the pagan ones. And the show quickly articulated that Buffy was not in "the" heaven, but any one of a million heavenly dimensions. That they are regularly drawing on divine powers from any number of traditions is clear, from sacred circles to incense, to latin or sumerian chants, to Mayan symbols etc. etc. So in your first post I hear a suggestion that Buffy is transparent to the Christian God, which seems to me limiting. In your second post I hear Buffyas transparent to the divine nature of life in any of its costumes, including Christian. Which I like.

I am not even sure that our task is to overcome evil, but perhaps to overcome the dualistic good/evil thinking of our childhood. Perhaps that is reflected in Buffy's relationship with Spike. Who knows.
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[> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- MrDave, 19:35:50 02/03/02 Sun
I can see why the appeal to a Christian philosophy as opposed to a more universal philosophy might be assumed from the first post, becasue the Theologians I am quoting and deriving the essay from are Christian theologians.

I (because I am Christian) see a Christian entity. I am also open minded enough to see that there is a universal God implied in Buffy. Many philosophies are represented and the being-itself of God need not be limited to Christian theology.
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- Darby, 20:12:31 02/02/02 Sat
Point by point:

The positive forces of Buffy's world are people willing to fight the negative forces. It isn't that they don't exist, it's that some sort of higher powers sometime get invoked to explain the motivations of the "bad guys," while the cast of "good guys" remains the same and require no added backstory.

The three theologians you mention remind me of the folks who speak of the "honesty and purity of children" - you wonder if they've ever known children. Christianity exists on paper much like they describe it - in practice, for 2 millenia, it continues to be a relationship with a Big Guy, with no real sign of the backlash they would like to see portents for.

And once you use the logic that "God is in everything," then any application of that logic works wonderfully but means nothing - wherever you look for evidence, there it is. The actual concept of Right and Wrong are used as evidence! We can't work against evil except that we're really working against Evil.

Joss Whedon has said on many occasions that the symbols used on the show were primarily selected on things like recognizability (vampires, werewolves, demons as a concept, things cribbed from old movies), budgetary constraints (crosses, stakes and holy water but not bat metamorphosis), and how well they fit the metaphoric intent of a story (vampires had to look demonic to justify doing away with them but not so much as to run up huge makeup costs). I think that is why crosses but not Stars of David do the trick - the latter should work if you think about it, but the former is classic.

It's strange, and this is a meant as a comment on the image and not the person presenting it, but the last description of Christ just seems an insinuation of God as Human Persona that you were saying earlier was a bad thing. Just because he's dead, the representation is still very concrete.

It is my opinion that the show has a very distinct religious slant, but it reflects Joss Whedon's decidedly non-theistic view of the world. It's not that there aren't forces at work, but he avoids labelling them. As someone says elsewhere, the "Powers That Be" seem a transparent wink at the whole idea that there are any, beyond the writing staff.
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[> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- Dedalus, 11:56:55 02/03/02 Sun
Well, I agree that saying "God is everything," or "Everything is energy," or "Everything is divine" is about as useless as saying "Everything is everything." The words, terms, lexicon becomes worthless because they are known only in contrast to non-God, non-energy, and non-divine things. But that's not what Tillich or Spong were saying anyway.

And I think the "portents" for the collapse of traditional theistic religion have been there since the beginning of the twelfth century. And they've been accelerating ever since. Isn't it obvious? If the church still had as much power as it once did, JK Rowling would have been burned at the stake a long, long time ago. Not just her HP books, but HER. Look around, and it is rather easy to see, in obvious and not so obvious ways.

This next thing took me so long to figure out it's sad, but after reading Creative Mythology, it fits rather well. There is a difference, and a profound one, between Professed Belief, and Actual Belief. Yes, to millions of people, it's life much like it was in the first millenium BC. But the fact remains that it's not the first millenium BC. And they subconsciously know this. That's what accounts for all the anger, frustration, and paranoia surrounding fundamentalist circles today. They scream their beliefs from the rooftops for the simple reason that They Don't Believe Them.

I mean, who can literally believe in a biblical heaven anymore? No one. We don't need the Tower of Babel. There's nothing up there. This is the space age, for god's sake. But since - according to Freud anyway - all this got started over the trauma of self-consciousness accompanied by the knowledge that everyone is going to die, no one knows what to do about it. So they just profess and profess and profess but it has nothing to do with reality. That's the only explanation that makes any sense. This is an important point, and the world makes a heckuva lot more sense from that vantage point.

It's the Matrix, basically. Just a copy of a copy of a copy that has eroded to the point that it doesn't exist anymore, and everyone's afraid to admit it.
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[> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- Darby, 14:21:59 02/03/02 Sun
I think that it's a mistake to confuse the power of the Church, which has evolved from a seat of political force into something both more innocuous and more insidious, with What People Believe, which is often the simplest representation of the "official" line. And it's a HUGE mistake to assume that people don't really know what they believe because you've got a better idea. It's another way to say "this is actually the world, all evidence to the contrary," which was my primary point.

But the biggest mistake is to confuse modern technology with any advance in the human psyche - human needs are what they've been for millenia, that's why they tend to be universal, and there is no real evidence that anything has changed much, nor any reason to expect it. It seems like the professing in the face of a different reality isn't being done by the public...and what makes sense to one person makes absolutely none to another.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Well, it made sense to me anyway ... -- Dedalus, 18:32:46 02/03/02 Sun
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- JM, 21:11:47 02/02/02 Sat
Sorry, can't remember what I'm not responding to or what others beat me too. Although I suspect that the background of the exec-producers of the two shows will lead to some thematic differences, I can't accept that they exist in different philosophic universes. The deific powers that manifest on one show exist on the other, they just do not choose to exhibit themsleves. (And mythically, I think, good is always less likely to exhibit itself. Its stakes are different, less immeidately affected.)

I know Joss is an atheist but what I've taken from the show is reflective of my own views, despite the fact that I'm a mostly devout religiounist. Since crosses and holy water have power, and the crucifixion has been references, but also ancient gods, I suspect that in this universe many religions have glimpsed and harnessed a tiny aspect of the ultmate God but none have total claim to the one truth.
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? -- Dedalus, 08:24:56 02/03/02 Sun
Very interesting, MrDave. Glad to see you're still around. Strangely enough, I was once going to write something about Tillich's Ground of Being as manifesting ratherly strongly in the Scooby Gang, as opposed to the other isolated, far too self-conscious Glory. I think the Slayer who was full of love got to beat the crap out of her with a Platonic hammer because Whedon was deconstructing that form of divinity. Cool.
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[> Theology, Creativity, The Powers That Be, and Doll-making -- Wisewoman, 14:14:16 02/03/02 Sun
Having recently experienced an epiphany of synchronicity, I find this discussion fascinating and would have responded earlier had I not been so @#$%ing busy at work...

Those of you who've been around for a while may remember my theory of life as a Game that Unity Consciousness (or Tillich's Ultimate Ground of Being) is playing with itself, in which one of the rules is that we arrive in human form amidst this quantum soup of energy and information with no recollection of what we really are. One of the somewhat flippant assumptions of this theory is that the Game was initiated as an antidote to the boredom of nothingness.

I recently tried to explain the basis of computing in binary theory to my SO, without much success. Then, quite by accident, I came across the web site of philosopher Rick Garlikov, which contains a fascinating account of his successful attempt to teach binary mathematics to a grade three class using the Socratic method, i.e. telling the children nothing, merely asking them questions that drew out what they already knew. At the same time, I began reading Alan Watts' The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are, (highly recommended by Dedalus) and Watts discusses binary theory in Chapter Two, "The Game of Black and White."

Simply put, everything that exists is a function of pulses; on/off, black/white, light/dark/ wave/trough--because two perceived states are all that is necessary to transform the original, undifferentiated ground of being into the myriad forms of energy and information that we perceive as the known universe. In the same way, you can count to infinity using only the binary numbers 0 and 1.

It occurs to me that the first, most basic differentiation that gave rise to the binary universe is that of creator/created. This is an arbitrary, artificial division of unitary reality into two states, and it is an absolutely essential condition for the Game. I think it must be that even in the midst of the Game there is an underlying recognition of unitary reality and an inherent desire to return to the undifferentiated state.

We, as players in the Game, recognize our status as "created" and strive to overcome this state by manifesting it's opposite half--we become "creators."

In fact, we all fluctuate, or pulse, between creator and created, as evidenced by the occasions when our being is "acted upon" and when we use our being to act upon something else.

This brings me to doll-making, in which I've only recently developed an interest. There is a substantial sub-culture of doll-makers who are artists, as opposed to artisans, or crafters. Absolutely the best, IMO, is Lisa Lichtenfels, whose creations are mind-boggling. Check out her web site, if you're interested. She begins by creating a complete, anatomically accurate "skeleton" of metal armature, upon which she then builds a "body" consisting of stuffing material applied in the form of musculature (the "flesh"), and then covers this with several layers of nylon fabric skin. In photographs it is virtually impossible to distinguish her "dolls" from human beings, despite the fact that they are simply fabric sculptures.

And what does this have to do with Theology in the Buffyverse? Well, Lichtenfels is a good example of the lengths to which we can go to experience ourselves as creators. And so is Joss Whedon, and the other members of the ME writing team. "The Powers That Be" are not metaphors for the gods (or God), or even metaphors for Joss and the writers...they actually are Joss and the writers. In this instance, Joss is the creator, and the Buffyverse, all of it, is the created.

In the same way that Lichtenfels' dolls are fascinating because they seem so real, so does the Buffyverse fascinate us--it's another example of the ability some humans have to mimic the initial dichotomy between creator and created that gave rise to our reality.

Okay, I gotta get back to work...did that make any sense?

;o)
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[> [> Boom! (sound of my head exploding) -- Vickie, 14:37:38 02/03/02 Sun
This is what you write when you're too busy to write?
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[> [> [> Re: Actually, I should have eaten lunch instead... -- dubdub, 14:57:14 02/03/02 Sun
'cause now I'm starving!

;o)
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[> [> [> [> Re: Actually, I should have eaten lunch instead... -- Dedalus, 18:40:09 02/03/02 Sun
Wow, dub dub. Nifty. Anyway, I sense some of the earlier Tillich conversations may have lost some people. He's just amazing in that he avoids pitfall after theological pitfall. To me anyway. But I for one am very happy with that follow-up by you. Made me smile.

Incidentally, I just got done reading The Wisdom of Insecurity, another book by Watts, and damn, I have never known anyone that is able to translate such profound and paradoxical philosophy with such remarkable lucidity. That is another must-read, imo.
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Thanks for the reading recommendation... -- dubdub, 07:54:37 02/04/02 Mon
...when I finish The Book I've got a biography of Watts to look at called "Genuine Fake." I'll let you know how that one is, as well.

;o)
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[> Great posting, all around. More! More! -- yez, 07:47:12 02/04/02 Mon
Just a note that I think this is a fascinating thread which I'm enjoying reading (time isn't permitting replies right now).

yez
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[> Re: Theology in BtVS? Spoilers Both Series to Last Week. -- Age, 17:33:44 02/04/02 Mon
I don't think there are positive or negative forces in the universe; positive and negative are made by thinking, and thinking is simply an abstraction from reality that creates things where in reality there are none. The demons of Sunnydale are those natural aspects of ourselves which we have demonized as bad due to our mistaken reliance on the structure of oppositional thinking.

The heaven that you refer to may be part of the basic theme of the series whose motif has been repeated throughout the seasons: if you try to make something into a heaven, then you make a hell out of what you think is its opposite, and then you actually create that hell by trying to repress the opposite of what you want. Liam's father wanted a good son who would avoid the folly of youth, but made Liam pick Angelus instead by giving him only a choice based on opposition: either be dad and good or be Liam and bad.

The God of your definition seems to me to prove that he doesn't exist: I'm not sure but, there doesn't seem to be any way of proving his existence except through the world; but we know the world exists, so then how do we prove God does? Secondly, it seems that if he's in us all, then he's not separate from us. If he's not separate from us, he is us; therefore how can he be a separate entity at all?

Tillich seems to understand this by saying that he isn't a separate being. He then says that God is being itself, or the ground of being. I'm not sure which he means. And I'm not sure what that means? How can you have a ground of being when being is existence, the ground of being would have to be wouldn't it, and then be its own ground? And if we did have a ground of being, wouldn't it for us be the things we eat and the universe itself?

I really don't think that being and non being exist because you can't have being without an essence. Being is not a property of something such that it can or cannot have it. This is just a way of thinking about things. A thing cannot resist non being because it can never non be: as soon as the thing becomes something else, there's nothing there to non be. Non being is simply an idea created by thinking in terms of a thing that no longer exists. How can a thing exist to non be? Things can only exist.

Not only this, but no thing exists. There is no being. All is change and co-dependence; therefore no thing exists or has essence in itself. There are no separate real things being what they are under which we can put God the ground of being. The 'I' that I call myself is simply a global idea, not a reality depicting the world. Every name we use cuts the world up into things that don't really exist separate from other things.

In regards to this, we can turn to the 'death' of Aprilbot and Joyce. These two 'deaths' were deliberately paired in 'I Was Made to Love You.' Through Aprilbot's death we were witnessing Joyce dying. This is why the next ep was called 'The Body.' Now, as Aprilbot is a robot no one thinks that a life came into existence and then went out of existence. It's just that a process of changing forms kept changing, and one of those constantly changing forms was the batteries running down. There was no 'I' called April separate from the robot itself. It's the same with Joyce. A real separate entity called Joyce Summers never came into existence and never went out of existence: there was just a confluence of changing forms.

You said:

and all of the other "positive" characters in BtVS do not succumb to
despair and death is a witness of the power of the divine being at work.
God shows through the "show".

I don't think I can agree with this. This seems to be the same argument as above: we have the evidence of the show, and then we posit a divine being when the only evidence we have is the show itself. All we can say is that the characters did not succumb to despair(although I would dispute that) and death(although Buffy's died twice and Joyce is gone). That's all we can say. And we could balance that out by asking ourselves where God's work was in the massacre on the train by Drusilla or on the bus by Darla?

You wrote:

There are also symbols at work. Symbols representing God are not
empowering themselves, but are in fact transparent to us and show God
through themselves.* Crosses, holy water, even the Slayer herself are
symbols for the power of God. Even little touches like Faith wearing the
"Buffy-suit" and staring into a mirror saying, "Because it's wrong"
become symbols showing us God in the act itself.


The cross is a symbol of wholeness and a deconstruction of the opposition which demonizes our animal nature and renders us as helpless human victims before those people who through oppositional thinking have given in as fully as they can to the animal aspect of our nature. The cross is two in one: the human and the animal, equally valued, with the opposition between the two done away with through the structure of the cross.

The slayer in my opinion is a demon. It represents the repressed aggression and sexuality of women within an oppositionally based male dominated culture. The slayer, like vampires, is a killer of human beings, albeit human beings who just won't stay dead. She is the natural world which is a killer; but she's also a lover: from death comes life. She doesn't murder so much as put human beings out of their unnatural misery.

As for the holy water, it represents wholeness(holiness) again: regular water is only a feminine symbol, half of the male/female opposition. But once blessed, usually by a male priest, it contains both male anmd female: it is therefore the deconstruction of the opposition on which vampires are made.

Whedon has attempted to give back to these symbols their original metaphorical meaning: wholeness.

It's the same with sunlight: the vamps vaporize because as night time creatures, the exposure to day deconstructs the opposition.

Faith in Buffy's body was trying to deny her own nature as she had become ashamed of it; she tried to take on the role of the good girl in order to deny what she'd done: she was playing a role when she mouthed the words that it was wrong. In the vampires she went back to dust she tried to destroy in them the shame she felt inside.

You said:Our struggle to overcome the evil that clutters our lives as we "grow
up" is the divine of the universe at work.
* OT NOTE: Paul Tillich described Jesus as the "ultimate self-removing
symbol". He removed himself from our perception by his death allowing us
direct access to God...affirming he was the Christ. The Messiah).

Why is there evil in the first place? If God is simply the ground of being, then there's nothing wrong with evil because evil can exist, and God is simply its ground too.

Not only this, but Whedon is deliberately moving us away from the opposition between evil and good as witnessed by Darla's death as both vampire and human; Cordy's accepting of being a demon; Angel's accepting that his demon is okay and Buffy's accepting her repressed fertility as okay in season five. Not only this, but Whedon is pointing to the idea that we aren't just one being if we can divide ourselves in two: we are a bunch of tendencies that we put together under the banner me. But Angel is both a demon and a human: he's two creatures in one. How can one person be represented by two ceatures if we truly are just one thing?
We cannot even say that I exist as a separate entity in order for god to be my ground of being.

If Christ did remove himself, then why is Christianity, Christianity? Not only this, but if God isn't a separate being then how is Christ's getting out the way going to help? God must be in Christ too.

One last thing: nothing has the power to resist not being as everything is in constant change. Every moment something ceases to be and another thing appears to the extent that no thing really exists. No thing exists in the first place such that it can resist non being. The very act of living, this so called being is the very act of constant non being: if I didn't constantly change, then I wouldn't be. But because I constantly change I am constantly not being because the thing I was doesn't exist anymore. It has gone out of existence. Therefore being and non being are the same; the very act of being is non being itself. I cannot be, nor can anything else unless it is becoming something else. The very act of being can only happen as a function of non being. Because this is just all thinking.

What you are really pointing to is the big change that happens at the end of our life. Who knows what happens then?

I certainly don't. Does our consciousness simply cease to be? Our consciousness, which is us, seems to cease to be every night when we sleep; although this may be an illusion created by a lack of memory of the consciousness. Are we just Aprilbots, or is there actually another mechanism that survives physical death that simply changes into another form, because all is change. Is death the change into non being that we project, or is it simply just another change, like the constant change we experience now. Do we fear the big change at the end of our lives because we don't realize that we are dying and resurrecting each moment? Or is this all just thinking and the reality is something else.

I don't know.

I'm sorry to be so negative, but it only occurred to me over the weekend that Whedon may be deconstructing the very thought structures that seem to underpin Tillich's ideas, and I thought I should at least post this possibility.

Again I apologize for being so negative. I'm not trying to prove or disprove the existence of God or an afterlife, but simply show that thinking is an abstraction and ask whether it does accurately reflect reality.

Age.
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[> [> Re: GOOD GOD! -- Dedalus, 19:35:22 02/04/02 Mon
Pardon the pun, but where the hell else can you get this kind of dialogue going? ROTFLMAO. And again, shaking my head, ROTLMAO.

First off, the "whole" holy water thing - awesome idea.

Second off, Tillich is actually much closer to what you are saying than you think. Or at least, as I understand the two books of his that I have read. The being and non-being discussion that runs throughout them is rather difficult for me to follow at times, but he does use terms in sometimes untraditional ways. I think Tillich would say that being is non-being and non-being is being in the same way you might say emptiness is form and form is emptiness. Now I'm afraid you're going to jump all over that, but I am just generalizing.

Tillich never argued that being was a "thing." I believe that's what you mainly took issue with. He did get awfully close at times to declaring that being was in fact non-being. I need to go read Systematic Theology again. But Tillich was not arguing that there are seperate things under which God is lurking. I know all about constant change and impermanence and the transitory nature of being, but Tillich once defined the Ground of Being as "eternal process," not something that is seperate or is organizing it or somehow playing it from the inside out.

Oppositional thinking is not Paul Tillich's bag.
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[> [> [> Re: Good God Spoilers for both Series to Last Week. -- Age, 20:36:23 02/04/02 Mon
Thanks for the heads up on this. I must admit that my knowledge of Tillich is lacking, and I was simply commenting on the implications of the quoted piece. The thing that I found intriguing is the need to separate a God out from us at all. If everything is connected, then it should be sufficient to talk about us. But, I see your point: Tillich had to use language to describe the process he saw of life. He then took the theistic God and said, no, he's the very process. It is this process of change in itself which is the eternal. The rest is just change. I see your point. Form then is empty of form.

I never saw it in that sense because it seems to me that Whedon wouldn't see it in that sense either. At this point I still think that Whedon's taken a more naturalistic approach to living in which we as human beings are animals and have to die to make way for the next generation. The process itself may be eternal but the immediate evidence is that we are not.

Where does the individual consciousness fit into the grand scheme of things for Tillich? Are we eternally changing as this would fit more into buddhism the religion?

One of the implications of deconstruction is that there is no good or bad. We've simply made out certain things to be good or bad based on what we want. It is good for Buffy to slay vampires because then they won't kill us. It is bad for vampires to kill us because we don't want to die. It seems to me that Whedon is saying that life just is. You can be ashamed of it, think about it, be in love with it, but if the human race doesn't procreate and rise to its potential as humans, then it's as good as finished. What is 'good' in Whedon's works is the whole human: animal and all. It's not really good, it just is. The idea of a movement away from evil implies a hierarchy of value from the animal to the human. But quite clearly the implications of the two Xanders ep, Cordy's decision to become part demon, Angel's acceptance of his demon side and Buffy's acceptance of her 'key' role in keeping the human race going, points to a balance of value between what we call human and animal.

Moving on...

In actual fact, I was stumped about the holy water and had to think that one out for a few minutes. I knew it had to do with wholeness. How could it be whole? Why does regular water not affect vamps? What is the difference between regular water and holy water? It is the blessing. Who does the blessing? Men. Regular water is a feminine symbol. Holy water is a feminine symbol that has had a man do something to it: holy water is thus a symbol of wholeness: male and female.

The implication of this is yet again nothing in this series is without metaphorical meaning. Whedon is rigorous and meticulous in this.

Thanks for the heads up about Tillich. This week has been very fruitful in thinking, and I may just have let my enthusiasm run away with me. If I was too negative or misunderstood the implications of what I was criticizing then I apologize once again. The last thing that I want to do is stifle good debate between people with different points of view.

Age.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Good God Spoilers for both Series to Last Week. -- Dedalus, 08:27:37 02/05/02 Tue
Hey, I still love your posts. They blow me away every time. I was merely pointing out that what was kinda bugging you didn't really need to bug you.

I agree that most things - laws, language, the whole bit, are just value judgments in a sense that we impose rather than that are already there. Life is wiggly, but Buffy does certainly give it room to do so in its expression of it. It does come down to what Spike said in OMWF - "Life isn't bliss, life is just this." More the mystery to be lived rather than solved.

:-)
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[> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? Spoilers Both Series to Last Week. -- MrDave, 19:52:17 02/04/02 Mon
I'm Tempted to break this down line by line...but I see two trends of thought here, and its easier (and less lengthy) to address them as categories of thought.

Thought #1: Being and Non-being have no meaning because they are patterns of thought that describe changes of state. Therefore it is the thought-pattern of "being" that is the illusion, not the state of being.

God (and forgive me for thinking of this as a Christain God, but thats my comfort zone...) as the Ground of Being is a Human construction. It has grown from our need to overcome the realization of our own mortality and our disconnectedness as the self-aware part of creation. If we are self-aware and separate from our world, then we feel the need to identify with something else in our same situation. But while we may feel empathy for our fellow humans, our fellow human do not always feel empathy for us. The need to be connected...identified with...something that is larger than ourselves.

Now, God may be an outgrowth of our insecurities, but it does not invalidate our needs. Hope must well up from somewhere. The desire to continue despite our terminal illness named mortality must draw from some deep assurance that the struggle has some worth. That desire to push on is God.

A rock cannot be. It does not question its existance. It isn't afraid of erosion. Being is an act of self-awareness. The rock exists (well, as much as sub-atomic theory says it does), but we "are". Descates hit on something. Thinking makes me "be", when I stop being then I cease to be...I am non-being. Then I go back to matter and simply exist.

So, Yes. If we are disussing the universe (Buffy's or ours) in terms of the space my matter occupies has the same value as the equivalent volume of any other matter, then being and non-being are meaningless. But I think. The other matter doesn't (unless that other matter is you, then I am CLEARLY in error). Therefore, from the human perspective (which is where I am viewing God...he being the exclusive realm of Humanity) being and non-being are relevant terms.

Thought #2: Evil, Good, Holiness, Demons, and other symbols have no intrinsic character that makes them either desireable or unneccesary. All things are connected and interdependant. Only by DE-constructing these artifical roles can we transcend the symbols and see the truth in them...that everything (or nothing...not sure on your stance here) has value.

We are not God. We can only depend on Revelation (literally "the revealing") of God. Tillich writes:
"The mystery which is revealed is of ultimate concern to us becasue it is the ground of our being. In the history of religion, revelatory events have always been described as shaking, transforming, demanding, significant in an ultimate way. They derive from divine sources, from the power of that which is holy, and which therefore has an unconditional claim on us"
(Systematic Theology, Vol I)

When a symbol "speaks" to us, it is serving its purpose. It is the metaphor. Just as a flag points to the nation...represents the nation which has adopted it. It represents its ideals, it represents its people, culture, commerce, crime, morals (or lack thereof), and on and on.
You cannot deconstruct a symbol, because it IS a deconstruction of a larger ideal. All you can do is look for the broader meaning in a symbol. Perhaps there are unseen meaning of the symbol. Maybe there arent. Maybe that cigar is just a cigar. If for you the holy water is a yin-yang brew that dissolves the anima of vampires...then Great! I totally missed that one. For me, it is a purifying element that cleanses the body of evil forces, releasing it to non-being. Neither one of us is right...or wrong.

Thought #3: Almost an afterthought. What happens when we (or me, if I piss you off enough ) cease to exist?

To quote Buffy: "I have a theory: It doesn't matter". What matters is was my being a blessing...or a curse. If it was a blessing, then my life was worth the being...a monument to the "Ground of all Being". That is how Grace (a WHOLE 'nuther discussion enters) works (for me at least). If my life was a curse, then my non-being becomes the blessing (in such a limited, almost insignificant way), and sets me up for whatever comes next.

Its not what we do, its how we do it...why we do it...whether we finish it. We can do nothing...suck up oxygen...and feed off the world, and take it all back into the ground with us...or we can take that little (illusionary, human, neccessary) spark of the divine that we can percieve and spread it around!

and wow...my head is beginning to hurt. Thanks for the brain-itch Age! Make me justify my existance anyday!
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[> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? Spoilers Both Series to Last Week. -- Age, 00:15:51 02/05/02 Tue
Firstly, thanks for replying. I thought I'd been too negative.

I see your point about estrangement. We as human beings are estranged from one another because we never experience each other's consciousness, the self awareness. At the human level there is this separation because as self aware beings we do tend to think in terms of estrangement. This then gets amplified as we see other human beings acting in a manner that's not connected with us.

The point that I was making is that despite thinking and self awareness there is no real self there. There is no real us that has to do anything in the world or who does anything. I may think that I exist, but the reality is otherwise.

I see your point about the value of being a human being. This particular confluence of forms which I call me has particular value. But the point I was making is that if we actually believe there really is a separate entity in there called me or that my body is separate from the world, then this is creating a separation that doesn't exist.

I see that the opposition between being and non-being is not what I thought it was. It's not simply between existence and non existence. I'm sorry that I did not understand your concepts before criticizing them. But whether we are self aware and being, the original condition of existence has not changed. As much as we are self aware and thinking, it doesn't change our being confluences of forces. Thinking may create the idea of a separate enduring me, but it's not the case. There is no 'I' that does the thinking; there's just the thinking that creates the idea of 'I.'

Being is grounded in existence. Is it a type of existence with different conditions. You have given these conditions, thinking and self awareness, a special value more than the existence of the rock, but that's just thinking. What I'm trying to say is like the rock, there's no separate entity. There's the thinking and the awareness and these are conditions, but no entity that does the being.

What I'm getting at is the idea of a fundamental disconnectedness comes from thinking itself, and is an error. We only think we are disconnected because we are attached to the falsehood of an enduring separate 'I.' The very faculty that distinguishes us as beings is the one that is creating the illusion of disconnectedness in the first place. 'I' don't exist. 'I' can't ever be. This is just an idea. If we let go of that idea, then the revelatory experience you are talking about will happen. We see things through the filter of ideas. What happens if we let go of our most fundamental one because while it seems to describe our condition somewhat, it also creates the illusion of disconnection.

You wrote:

You cannot deconstruct a symbol, because it IS a deconstruction of a
larger ideal. All you can do is look for the broader meaning in a
symbol. Perhaps there are unseen meaning of the symbol. Maybe there
arent. Maybe that cigar is just a cigar. If for you the holy water is a
yin-yang brew that dissolves the anima of vampires...then Great! I
totally missed that one. For me, it is a purifying element that cleanses
the body of evil forces, releasing it to non-being. Neither one of us is
right...or wrong.

I agree there is no right or wrong, and I must admit that I was leaning towards believing that my interpretation was right. I was thinking that this is one man's vision of the world, and was trying to tie it all together through the imagery. I was thinking about exploring the intention of the writer through his imagery. I was analyzing what I thought had been intended in the work, rather than taking the symbol and overlaying my own ideas on it. But can we ever stop ourselves from doing that?

I think that you and I aren't really saying different things. We are different from rocks; but do we have any more value than a rock? If I think I do, then I do. But it's just thinking. Does our life have worth or not? Worth is just an idea. I can attach myself to it or not. I don't need life to have worth or not worth. That's just thinking.

Thanks for your reply. It has been a great learning experience for me in more ways than one. I'm not sure whether I really answered your reply. Hopefully.

Age.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Theology in BtVS? Spoilers Both Series to Last Week. -- manwitch, 06:19:03 02/05/02 Tue
You folks have all been just fantastic in this discussion. Especially given the personal nature of what's being discussed, both one's view of Buffy and one's view of God, I'm really impressed at how thoughtful, level-headed and open-minded you've all been. I echo that it has been a great learning experience to read this.

On the value question, I'm a hardcore relativist, and people are always telling me that that means I think nothing has anymore value or meaning or significance than anything else. Nothing could be further from the truth. I always tell them to read the Little Prince if they want to know where value comes from. Its expressed, not possessed.
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: More on Rocks ... -- Dedalus, 08:37:12 02/05/02 Tue
I would just like to say I like rocks. Most of the matter - aside from the "dark matter" if there is such a thing - in this universe is geologic. But obviously, if one believes in evolution, rocks contain the potential for organic life. So a rock is not "just" a rock.

I like what Alan Watts said. Imagine if two billion years ago or so, aliens from another galaxy were buzzing around the Earth. They saw it was nothing but mostly a crude geologic mess, and wrote it off as being just a bunch of rocks. But suppose the descendents of those aliens were to come back today? They would have to apologize. Those were "peopling" rocks after all!
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Two interpretations of BtVS -- matching mole, 15:06:29 02/02/02 Sat

This post is a description of two contrasting interpretations of BtVS. Through discussions both on this board and off it I have become much clearer about what the qualities of this exceptional show are that I value most highly. I will first briefly outline what I believe is a fairly standard interpretation of the show as a whole. Then I will place that interpretation within a conceptual framework for television fiction. Buffy the Vampire Slayer will be compared to another exceptional show, 'The Simpsons' using this conceptual framework leading to a second interpretation of BtVS.

Spoiler and Criticism Warning. There are general but fairly mild spoilers to events throughout the series most specifically to the ends of S2 and S5 further down in this post. I am also somewhat critical of BtVS S5 and S6.

First some acknowledgements. Postings on this board have certainly influenced my views particularly those by Age and Rahael (although I doubt they will concur with all of my conclusions). Also there was a posting a month or so ago suggesting that the show has become more conventional as it has adopted a more complex moral stance. Unfortunately I forget who the poster was but that post also had a big impact on my thinking. I have also discussed this issue at length with two people off this board: my wife and a friend who I will simply refer to as Dr. M. Dr. M should really be a co-author of this post as he is responsible for several of the ideas and is a much more eloquent and entertaining essayist than I am. As this is already a fairly long post I have tried to keep the level of detail fairly low. If you feel I am unclear at any point feel free to ask or to attack.

My first post a few months was an attempt to articulate what I thought was currently lacking in a show that I had so admired in earlier years. Don't get me wrong, I still think that BtVS is an excellent show. Just not what it once was. My earlier analyses of changes in the show focused on more superficial characteristics such as setting and on the relative importance of episode level, season level, and long term plot. I will now argue that the show's nature has changed on a much more fundamental level.

First the 'conventional' view of BtVS. This is a distillation of what appears to be the consensus opinion of many people on the board and also fits in with statements made by Josh Whedon and others at Mutant Enemy. Buffy the Vampire Slayer is a show about being a teenager and then growing up. Demons and vampires are (in part at least) metaphors for the traumas of adolescent life. The apocalyptic events represent crises that seem world-ending at the time but then are forgotten quickly. The early years of the show feature a relatively black and white view of morality with demons clearly portrayed as evil (except for the special case of Angel) reflecting the rather absolute moral perspective of the young. Over time the show takes on a more complex moral character: some humans are evil and some demons appear to be good (or at least not all that bad), actions taken with good intentions can be just as damaging as actions taken with the intent of doing harm. Adults tend to perceive the world as more morally complicated than children. The characters have tended to become less sure of their place in the scheme of things. By season 6 demons have ceased to become world-threatening crises but are now annoying problems on the level of leaky basements. The main struggle the characters now face is to define themselves and to seek out meaningful existence as adults.

Now lets define three broad categories into which we can classify most TV fiction with the proviso that many shows will have characteristics of more than one category and some other shows, particularly older ones may fall outside of these categories altogether. These categories could easily be applied to films and written fiction as well but because part of my aim in this post is to consider the special problems faced by TV fiction I will limit my discussion to that realm. A large part of my distinction between these categories is their treatment of character flaws. The term flaw refers not only to large scale obvious shortcomings like addictions, criminal behavior, immorality, and abuse but also to anything that a character does that stands in the way of personal growth including unwise choice in relationships, insensitivity, avoidance of responsibility, poor judgment, shyness, voting Republican, and so on.

The first of these categories are what I will call (although this is Dr. M's term) Cynical shows. A Cynical show is one that celebrates/exploits character 'flaws' for the purpose of entertainment and/or commentary. Shows that would fall into this category would include 'Married with Children' and 'Seinfeld' (shows which otherwise might appear very different). Characters are generally defined by their flaws, there is little else to them. George Costanza is in many ways a brilliant creation but he remains an amalgam of human failings rather than a fully realized human being. I can imagine meeting someone for an hour and thinking that they were just like a character on 'Seinfeld' but I can't imagine knowing someone for ten years and still thinking the same thing.

The second category is what we will call Progressive shows. The term is slightly misleading by I think still apt. Progressive does not strictly refer to a liberal/PC point of view although this is the case more often than not. Instead it refers to the focus on the progression of the characters. Progressive shows again emphasize character flaws but in a different way. Flaws are obstacles to be overcome. Attempting to overcome these flaws is the text, a major long term plot device of the program. Most television programs that would be considered high quality (both dramas and comedies) have strong Progressive elements. Almost any TV show or movie that is likely to win an Oscar or an Emmy or some other award, almost any book likely to land its author on Oprah is going to have a strong Progressive aspect. The 'conventional' view of BtVS that I outlined above is clearly Progressive.

So what's wrong with that? Well nothing really. A fundamental element of fiction is that characters are changed by the events described in the narrative. Classic types of literature and myth: the coming of age story, the hero's journey, the love story are all inherently Progressive in the sense I'm using. A Shakespearean tragedy is Progressive in the sense that the failure of characters to overcome their flaws leads to a dire outcome. However, the change of a character need not be the central element of a piece of fiction. A change in character X because of event Y can be used to say something about the event. Or the event Y can largely be a plot device to drive the development of character X. The latter is characteristic of a Progressive show the former is not. In my opinion an underused alternative to the Progressive style is the Tolerant show which has a number of sterling features.

Dr. M referred to Tolerant shows as Exceptional shows but I prefer a less value-laden name. In Tolerant shows characters have a range of characteristics some of which may be considered flaws. Characters interact with one another in compelling ways that are consistent with but clearly subordinate to the overall narrative. Flaws are tolerated; they may entertain, they may cause friction but they are allowed to persist as parts of the character, adding to the richness of the story. Relationships may be ambiguous, this ambiguity may be resolved or it may not be. Characters may be loyal to one another despite their imperfections or the absence of conventional relationships.

'The Simpsons' is in many ways the archetypal Tolerant show. The main characters are all flawed (Homer is lazy, selfish, often intolerant, Marge is controlling and uptight, etc.) yet the members of the family remain deeply attached to one another and capable of genuine affection. The ambiguities surrounding each character and the relationships among the family members persist through time without necessarily reaching a resolution. The flaws of the characters are neither just devices on which to hang a joke or make a point nor a set of obstacles to be overcome. They are first and foremost aspects of the characters along with other characteristics that we consider to be more positive. The richness of 'The Simpsons' is derived in large part by the creation of well-developed characters that are not under editorial directive to move beyond their flaws or die trying.

In one important way, 'The Simpsons' stands apart from most modern TV fiction. It is relentlessly static. The individual episodes could be observed in almost any order with perfect comprehension. Its degree of stasis is only possible because it is a cartoon (otherwise the characters would age). The stasis helps maintain its Tolerant nature, a task that is apparently very difficult to do over the long run. Older shows tend to be more static than recent ones and the two other examples of Tolerant shows that spring to my mind are from the 1970s: 'Barney Miller' and 'The Rockford Files'. Two more recent shows maintained a Tolerant approach to their characters for part of their run but ultimately failed to maintain it: 'Roseanne' and 'The X-Files'. Both of these shows were/are far more dynamic than my other examples featuring strong long term plots. I'll briefly consider 'The X-Files' in a bit more detail as it is the most recent and it shares a common genre with BtVS. The early 'X-Files' is the most direct ancestor of BtVS that I know of. Its appeal lay in interesting, quirky writing and in the unique personalities and interactions of its two main characters. Scully is a committed rationalist and a non-nerdly scientist but also has deeply held (if subtly expressed) religious beliefs (any one of these alone would be unusual in a television character). Mulder is genuinely (as opposed to superficially) eccentric. Their world views are limited, their interactions inconclusive.

'The X-Files' ultimately came to be limited by two factors. One, not really germane to this discussion, was the development of a long term plot (the UFO conspiracy) that could not remain static or move forward without damaging the nature of the show. The solution seems to have been to make it so incomprehensible that viewers couldn't follow it. The other factor was the increasing importance and centrality of the Mulder/Scully relationship. More and more the show came to be about the changes in their characters with Mulder changing from interesting crank to troubled messiah and Scully changing from deadpan skeptic to distraught martyr. The show lost its Tolerant quality and became Progressive. And much less interesting as result.

Now I am finally going to return to BtVS. My argument is that in its first two seasons BtVS was an excellent example of a Tolerant show. Item of evidence number one: Cordelia Chase. In my opinion Cordelia is the character in whose creation Mr. Whedon and Mutant Enemy should be most proud. In her initial incarnation she contained all the qualities of a one note comic character or a foil but she was so much more. A deeply flawed but well rounded and compulsively interesting character. And after her move to AtS her evolution seemed a natural outcome of her circumstances, unforced and subtle (I'll discuss how all this relates to AtS at some other time). The other main characters in the early BtVS were also flawed, although generally less obviously. Xander's jealousy and his neglect of Willow, Willow's neediness and insecurity, and so on. In general these flaws were not held up to judgment, the characters interacted in compelling ways, and ambiguities were often left unresolved (such as Xander's failure to tell Buffy of Willow's re-souling attempt at the end of season 2). Crises came and went among the group but were handed deftly and lightly. Consider the handling of the Angel/Angelus story in the second half of season 2. A story made for soap opera but I think that it was handled with admirable restraint.

Now look ahead to season 3 and the Willow-Xander tryst. Objectively this is pretty small potatoes. Being attracted to other people while in a romantic relationship is probably an almost universal human characteristic. And the amount of 'illicit smoochies' was portrayed as being very small. And the discovery occurred in a highly unusual (for non-Scoobies) situation in which death was thought to be imminent. Yet the reaction by almost everyone seemed out of proportion to the actual transgression. This is among the first glimmers of the Progressive tendency - the whole storyline seems to me to have been written with the idea of moving character development along rather than arising naturally out of past events. I would characterize seasons 3 and 4 as a mixture of the Progressive and the Tolerant. The light touch of the writers that characterized seasons 1 and 2 was gradually becoming heavier. The treatment of Faith is another example of this. Yet the core of the show, the relationships among the central characters was generally still Tolerant.

The change from season 4 to season 5 has always struck me as the most dramatic in the show's history and I can now verbalize what that change was. The show became almost wholly Progressive in tone. 'The Body' (not incidentally my favourite episode of S5) was almost the only exception. Its 'real time' style focused our attention wholly on the present. Otherwise the focus of most of the season seemed to be getting Buffy to the top of that tower in 'The Gift'. I'm speaking from the perspective of hindsight of course. And of course the Progressive tendency continues to this day.

I am writing this from a biased perspective as you might have detected. I generally prefer the Tolerant to the Progressive. Partly this is because I am interested in setting, in the created world. Vampires and demons may be metaphors but I'm also really interested in what it might be like to live in Sunnydale rather than just see Sunnydale as mechanism to speed Buffy on her way to adulthood or whatever. Also I'm not generally all that interested in heroes and more into sidekicks. The Tolerant approach allows much more scope for unconventional relationships among a diverse array of characters. Spike illustrates this point nicely. In S2 Spike is an interesting villain but he becomes absolutely fascinating in the final episode when he allies himself with Buffy. In the space of a few minutes of screen time they manage to work past their status as mortal enemies and establish a relationship despite the yawning divide between their world views. In S4 Spike returns a helpless comic figure. He despises the Scoobies yet he needs them for companionship. The mutual uncertainty makes things interesting. In S6 Spike is romantically involved with Buffy. An unconventional romance to be sure but a much more conventional relationship than what we have seen earlier.

Also there is a dangerous tendency for the Progressive to lurch into soap opera. Relationships and obsessions may be given more weight than is plausible in order to drive the story forward. Certainly taking the Xander/Anya relationship to the point of marriage doesn't seem very plausible to me for example.

In case you are appalled that I am attacking your favourite Buffy era I would like to make a few final comments from another perspective. Certainly the transition from Tolerant to Progressive has been handled vastly more successfully than in the X-Files. And it is a not unnatural transition given the thematic content of the show. A common element in literature aimed at young people is the idea of secrets, hidden truths known only to the main characters who would not be believed if they revealed them because they are children. The shared knowledge often binds characters into unconventional relationships with strong mutual loyalty as we see expressed in the early and middle BtVS. This seems to fit in nicely with a Tolerant interpretation of S1 and S2, continuing to a lesser degree through S4. Vampires and demons may be metaphors for teen problems but I believe they can also be metaphors for hidden levels of reality ignored by the wider world, hence the pathological denial of Sunnydale citizens. This idea seems similar to those expressed in Age's and Rahael's discussion of demon/magic properties representing unconventional potential in the main female characters. The Scoobies aren't just living in the simple black and white world of adolescence, paradoxically they are more in touch with the core of reality than anyone else. As they grow up that reality fades just as adults in many children's stories lose the ability to do magic. The uncharitable might characterize this parallel theme to 'Oh grow up' to be Oh sell out and join the bourgeois. I don't think that I'll go that far myself. I will say that as they approach one truth they appear to be getting farther away from the other.

Two hours until I see DMP. Maybe it will change my view of everything?
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[> Let me be the first to say.... Ka-BOOM! -- Tanker, 15:52:29 02/02/02 Sat
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[> [> You beat me to it Tanker, and let me add WOW! -- Liq, 16:16:38 02/02/02 Sat
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[> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS -- manwitch, 16:18:33 02/02/02 Sat
Also some S5 and S1 spoilers.

Well, obviously there is a lot here and its a bit of a handful to respond to.

I love the Simpsons and think its a great show. But its a critique of contemporary American society. Its funny, and sure the characters have lovable flaws that they have no intention of overcoming, but that is still part of the critique. No matter how you slice it, its critique.

What sets Buffy apart from all other shows in the history of television is that it is mythic. To quote Joseph Campbell, "All of these symbols refer to you." You are Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You do live in Sunnydale. You do fight demons and vampires. You have been chosen to act morally in a helacious world, whether or not anyone else knows or appreciates the sacrifices you make.

While other shows, regardless of how they fall into your categories, may offer us situations that we recognize or allegories to events or emotions we have known, they are always ultimately about what they appear to be. The beauty of Buffy is that it is actually about your life. It is the ultimate reality television. (I am aware of its strong postmodern political, social and economic criticism, but I think that is supportive of its mythic function, not the shows primary purpose).

So I think, personally, that it transcends your schema. I would offer a different schema.

1) Shows that are about what you see.
2) Shows that offer some sort of critique or allegory.
3) Shows that are metaphorical of your life and experience.

Very few shows make even the attempt to do this last one, let alone achieve it successfully.

But even in your categories, I would suggest--and I'm sure you have an answer to this--that the character's in Buffy are remarkably flawed and many of their flaws continue over time. The fact that some flaws are overcome, or worthy of overcoming, doesn't seem to me to make the show intolerant (or Non-Tolerant). We all have many flaws that we live with, and yet try every day to overcome.

In the case of Buffy, many people demand from it the same rationalist precision that ultimately killed the X-Files. The contortions it had to go through to maintain the integrity of its plot was staggering. Buffy, by being purely metaphorical, is not constrained by rationalist requirements. Obviously JW attempts to maintain consistency within the Buffyverse, but that is secondary to maintaining consistency in the referent to which the Buffyverse is a pointer. This is why Buffy doesn't need a blood test, nor would she ever accept one, to tell her that she and Dawn were identical sacrifices. Nor does the show need to send Buffy to the Hospital after Xander saves her through CPR, even though Xander himself reminds us that anyone who has drowned and been resuscitated needs some recuperation. No, Buffy simply stands up, says, "I feel different," and goes and kicks the Master's behind. Its because the show knows perfectly well that her death wasn't literal. Sure they will always refer to the time she died. But the death was to the child-like personality who was resisting slayerhood throughout season 1. Not a death of the body. Had it been a death of the body, she would've needed days to recover. But the death and resurrection of season 1 were the acceptance of the Calling, the acceptance of life, so of course she felt different and stronger. And by extension, that is the death and resurrection we all must go through. Because we are Buffy.

I'm sorry to get carried away.

My point is that while it can appear soap opera-ish, or that the relationships or obsessions are being given more weight than they should, you need to remember to look past the image and to what the image is referring to.

I personally find Buffy to be the transcendent experience on television. I can think of many shows that are well-done and extremely entertaining, funny, or dramatic. But I can think of none that resonate like Buffy does.
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[> [> The best "metaphorical" show period was Twilight Zone, Serling was the original "God" :-) -- blaylock, 03:13:51 02/04/02 Mon
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[> Posts like this are why I love this Board -- Sophist, 18:46:26 02/02/02 Sat
MM has given us a provocative and very well reasoned thesis. Manwitch disagrees, with points equally cogent.

I probably should wait 24 hours before responding, and I doubt I can match these 2, but I did want to add 2 observations.

First, Rahael posted something a couple of weeks ago that really struck me and that seems missing here. There was a long thread about the "graying" of the Buffyverse from a previously black/white outlook. Those of us who contributed to that thread (including me) forgot something important that Rahael pointed out: that the _emotional_ content of the show is what adds color, and color adds depth. The emotional depth gives a third dimension to what would otherwise be a flat canvas.

To me, the important question is whether the show retains its ability to move our emotions. I think it does. In fact, I think S5 had extraordinary emotional tone (although I would still vote S2 as the high point). And I think it achieved that tone precisely because of the "progressivism" that MM regrets: Buffy's sacrifice had meaning because we had followed her along a developmental track.

Has the show lost that capacity in S6? I won't comment in full here because I don't want to add spoilers and limit the readership of this thread. I will say that it's very hard to judge at this point in the season. Who among us, at this point of S2, would have guessed that episodes like Surprise, Innocence, Passion, and Becoming I & II were to come?

Second, I'm not sure I agree that the characters have progressed as much as is assumed by MM. Is Willow any less insecure than she was in S1? Is Xander any less judgmental? Buffy any more secure in her relationship choices?

I think the characters continue to make mistakes similar to those they made in the past (no details to avoid spoilers, but I have specifics in mind). I see them dealing with those mistakes in ways which, perhaps naively, I believe will eventually strengthen their relationships.

Growing up doesn't necessarily mean overcoming your weaknesses -- we can rarely do so well -- it means adjusting to them in some way that leaves you comfortable with yourself and your friends comfortable with you.

If the show can move in this direction, I will be content. If it can continue to make me laugh weekly and cry on occasion, I will be thrilled.
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[> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS -- Gwyn, 19:31:10 02/02/02 Sat
"I am writing this from a biased perspective as you might have detected. I generally prefer the Tolerant to the Progressive. Partly this is because I am interested in setting, in the created world. Vampires and demons may be metaphors but I'm also really interested in what it might be like to live in Sunnydale rather than just see Sunnydale as mechanism to speed Buffy on her way to adulthood or whatever. Also I'm not generally all that interested in heroes and more into sidekicks. The Tolerant approach allows much more scope for unconventional relationships among a diverse array of characters. Spike illustrates this point nicely. In S2 Spike is an interesting villain but he becomes absolutely fascinating in the final episode when he allies himself with Buffy. In the space of a few minutes of screen time they manage to work past their status as mortal enemies and establish a relationship despite the yawning divide between their world views. In S4 Spike returns a helpless comic figure. He despises the Scoobies yet he needs them for companionship. The mutual uncertainty makes things interesting. In S6 Spike is romantically involved with Buffy. An unconventional romance to be sure but a much more conventional relationship than what we have seen earlier."

I find your Cynical, Tolerant, Progressive triad very interesting. Mostly because it does seem to fit the shows you use to illustrate your categories. Where I part company from you is in the statement above that links character change or development with the Progressive view and, by seeming definition, to a deterioration in storytelling or loss of the Tolerant persective. Part of this problem for me is the limits of categorization when placed like a kind of analytical template over any drama or storyline. They are useful guidelines to interpretation but when they are used we start trying to fit the story to the definitions. Using them assumes that the story will always fit, and the interesting thing about good stories is that they have a dynamic, an organic development of their own, that defies analytical straitjacketing, even if it is, oftentimes, only in the detail. What I like about your use of such categories is that it stimulates insight into new ways of looking at the story, but I cannot go from there to thinking of BtVS as only a story of that kind.

One of the aspects of the show that seems to me to defy your category is its representation of violence. Progressive views would say violence is bad and it has no place in healthy relationships. So much of the use of violence as a metaphor in the show challenges that view. Both Spike and Buffy are killers of each others kind who, despite coming from opposite ends of the moral spectrum, are shown to both embrace violent solutions to moral problems. And the use of violence to destroy, fight for a right cause, or in the context of relationships where the characters are emotionally hurting one another, is as much illustrative of moral and character flaws as it is of moral progression and character growth. Violence in the show is the symbolici representation of a moral, psychological, and social debate about the world in which these young people have to find their way and the story is tolerant, in the sense that you define it, of the way humanity finds its way, fights its battles, and makes its errors through destructive, even catyclasmic means.

Buffy's current struggle with her attraction to Spike, and Spike's struggle with the slow erosion of his identity as a vampire because of his love for Buffy is far from Progressive in the way the characters are drawn with all their flaws exposed,not just as something they must overcome, but as inherent parts of who they are. There is no question that season five is about character change in the case of Spike and Buffy. But, for all the Progressive platitudes that might be conjoured up by the "Spike is evil" refrain, neither Spike nor Buffy are morally typecast. Buffy as the hero is deeply flawed since her resurrection. Still the hero but fighting self-awareness to the point where the broad strokes of mythic heroism shade into the suspect areas of moral and human frailty in her treatment of Spike, and her lack of interest in those she has always been responsible for. For all Spike's desire to turn his back on the "whole evil thing" we are only given him doing it in a very small sphere. He is "good" in a limited area of action, and the chip covers the rest. He has no regret for his past, something that the Progressive category would seem to require in their morally suspect heroes. If anything, Buffy's use of Spike as a channel back to feeling alive, with little thought for the emotional exploitation this might involve, shifts her as a character and heroine back into the Tolerant category as you see it. She is no lilywhite heroine, and , infinitely more interesting because of it.Far from having that forward movement you speak of, where Progressive themes seem to drive characterisation to defined moments of epiphany, the story is more content to have an infinitely more dissonant and erratic rythym that allows characters time to circle around their own inner demons with only partial resolution to the fears that drive or distract them from their "growing up".

The real danger of Progressive stories is not that they degenerate into soap operas but that they become morality plays and this is far from the case in this show. Buffy is not West Wing on the Hellmouth! The complexity of the Buffy and Spike characters would preclude this happening. There is a lot of unresolved, ongoing moral dilemma, grey areas of moral action, and not much peace and contentment for the characters in a Buffyverse of endless personal and moral angst. The characters live their flaws and, even in the forward movement of character change, are not shown exorcising their personal demons so much as struggling to accommodate them into some form of meaningful life. Buffy's struggle with what it means to be the Slayer and simply Buffy is the major case in point. The show is not holding out any hope that she will ever resolve that torturous dilemma, only that she may understand it well enough to live with that unresolvability. If I were to use your categories I would put the Progressive and Tolerant on top of one another and then put BtVS in the middle. Even then I would say the show is so much more than that. But that would be another post!
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[> [> Gwyn's post is brilliant. I eagerly await the next one. -- manwitch, 04:46:01 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS -- Juliette, 08:39:57 02/03/02 Sun
I think Progressive shows are in danger of both becoming soap opera like and becoming morality plays. I can't stand soap operas but I love morality plays like West Wing and Star Trek. I think that Buffy is presenting us with more and more morality plays, but rather than situations arising from events and/or characters' behaviour as they would in West Wing or Star Trek, the characters are being manipulated by the writers to create situations to use to moralise. Eg, Willow is given a drug-like addiction to magic in order to show that Drugs Are Bad, not because Willow's character was going that way. (The original suggestion that she was abusing magical power came from the character's development and felt like a natural progression - the sudden switch to drug metaphors felt false. In West Wing, on the other hand, we have always been told Leo was an alcoholic, so stories about his alcoholism ring true - though, being in the UK, I haven't seen the episode in question yet.) In this way, the show becomes soap opera like, as situations are created in order to force conflict and a learning process, rather than conflict arising from natural progression of characters.
Oh dear, that was clear as mud wasn't it??!!
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[> [> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS: Spoilers B/A to Present. -- Age, 10:58:50 02/04/02 Mon
I believe that the basis of this series is to show the inherent error in oppositional thinking. As you say, these are not flaws to be overcome, demons to be rid of, but aspects of their character that have been demonized and then repressed rather than managed in order to keep the illusion of opposition between the good that we want to see ourselves as and the bad which we want not to be. Buffy is flip flopping between the two: either the ice cold(non sexual) of the diamond(static form) in the sky, the heavenly star of death or the fires(hot, sexual) of hell and movement(flame moves no form: invisibilty of the diamond without its form) life itself. She can't put these oppositions together because they don't really exist; they are just made by thinking and are illusory.

This is in my opinion basic buddhism or taoism but without the religious aspect of an afterlife in reincarnation. In fact the stake as phallic symbol and the importance of the heart for vampires creates the taoist yin yang symbol based on male and female symbolizing that women are not without male characteristics(phallic stake symbol) and men are not without female qualities(the heart as feminine symbol and womb.) Oppositional thinking is inherently flawed because it creates the deconstruction of the structure through the structure itself. In making two things out to be opposites, the devalued opposite has to be repressed, vilified etc, labeled as having no value in order to stop it from automatically deconstructing the opposition. The vampires and the slayer are both killers. They aren't opposites at all. It's just that as a woman Buffy represents the natural world finishing off those human beings who refuse to lie down when dead. She represents the killer that nature is. She also represents the lover, the bringer of life, that nature is. But then so does Angel through his demonized and human soul metaphor dichotomy. Angel will never achieve shanshu because shanshu is realizing that the oppositional thinking which Angelus was created from is the error in the first place, and once you let it go, shanshu was never needed from the very beginning because nothing is wrong with us, or right with us, we just are. We just have to learn to manage ourselves. How can we take responsibility for ourselves if we don't even want to admit that 'bad' parts exist. This kind of repression, this wanting to get a heaven, simply creates its opposite, the hell. Liam's father in wanting to create a good son, simply created Angelus by giving Liam the only option of being different from his father: opposite to the good he wanted.

What Whedon is saying through this season's metaphors is that form is empty of form because it is only thinking that makes opposition. The world isn't based on our thinking at all; our thinking is just an abstraction that creates separate forms of things and real opposites where in the real world they don't exist. In other words there is no real good and bad. They are just made by thinking.

Age.
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[> [> [> Re: thanks age Spoilers B/A to Present. -- tost, 16:45:36 02/04/02 Mon
For monthes i've been troubled by the seeming differance between Angelus and Spike.Given the differance of Liam and William. Where Liam is absorbed by the duality of the human and animal side without any reconcilation. William has found a way to allow both sides of his nature to find expression in his poetry. I find it easy to imagine that when William's father was presented with evidence of his son's animal nature (as children exhibit from time to time) he found a healthier way to warn of the dangers therein then Liam's father did. Perhaps even suggesting the sublimation of it toward his poetry.
As William allowed his animal to inform his human side so does Spike allow his human side to inform his animal.
Giving Spike access to human traits such as love and humor while Angelus, trapped in a prison of duality, has none.

Forgive me if i've expressed this poorly but please belive that my gratitude is real.

OT "there is no good or bad but thinking makes it so" Was a line my seventh grade teacher gave us to write an essey on some forty years ago. Ive often wondered how he would fair in todays climate.
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[> A small point about the first interpretation (well, not so small) -- manwitch, 06:01:51 02/03/02 Sun
While I think your summation of the "conventional" interpretation is accurate (I agree that it is the conventional interpretation) I think it, too, is off base. This show may depict teen life, but it is not about teen life. The show's popularity with 30s and 40s-somethings is not by way of nostalgia.

The gray areas in Buffy are apparent from the outset. While the actual evil of the demons may appear in black and white, motivations are still shaded gray or at least extremely complex. The most obvious examples being Buffy's relationship to Giles and Buffy's relationship to her calling. Every time Giles attempts to hold Watcher authority over Buffy, he fails miserably. She undermines him, undercuts him, beats him up, ignores him. But she readily defers to him (on appropriate matters) when he is working with her rather than over her. Buffy is resistant to being the slayer in season 1. What she wants is to have friends, to fit in, to do well, to be a cheerleader, to have a boy friend, to go out, to have a normal life. She is consistently conflicted about her slayer identity.

In Prophecy, she quits the council and quits being a slayer. She is rejecting the Watcher Council's mission, she is rejecting her place in the line of slayers. She is rejecting her role in the grand prophecy of whoever it is that does the prophesizing. These rejections are incredibly significant, I think, because Buffy is rejecting what are called, in Postmodernism, the meta-narratives. They are the grand historical arcs of the enobling of Mankind, whether through reason, law, science or morality. Buffy refuses an assigned role in someone else's pageant. Even when she does accept herself as slayer, she does not accept the role in the grand narrative. She goes after the master not because of prophecies, not because its her duty as slayer, not because she is the instrument of the Watcher's Council, and not because it will elevate humanity. She goes because Willow is suffering. And to make the point that she is not doing it as part of the Watcher mission, she decks out her watcher before she goes and is too flippant to even offer an explanation or justification. She lets Ms. Calendar come up with it.

The point in that episode, and reinforced many times, is subtle. Buffy operates in a sphere of extremely local interpersonal interactions. If someone enters that sphere as a willing participant, she will accept them and fight for them. But authority figures will not fare much better than demons. It might look like Buffy is part of the Great Battle Against Evil, but she couldn't give a crap about it. (My opinion). Her mission is to do what she can to make the world safe for Willow, for Dawn, for her mother, for the people she knows and loves. It is incidental to Buffy that the Watcher Council's mission is fulfilled as a result. They are an authoritarian institution, and consequently outmoded and to be rejected. Whether or not their intention is good. (As an aside, I think she would have the same response to the Powers that Be. "If you wanna work with me, fine. If not, go back where you came from.")

That kind of subtle distinction in purpose and motivation is both Black and White and gray. Its not just a matter of fighting the evil demons. Its about doing it in a way that creates a positive (and viable) alternative to the demon dimensions. Buffy's processes and motivation and her stance on insititutions, heirarchy, authority and the knowledge they produce and possess are critical to the battles she fights.

So in that sense, the show is not really about teen life, nor a reminder to fight for the good against the evil, its about how you maintain your humanity in the midst of the claims and environments we exist in today. Its not that she fights evil, its how she does it. And that only gets more and more relevant as you get older.
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[> [> Small comment re: the Gift and S6 -- fresne, 12:11:30 02/03/02 Sun
A perspective that makes perfect sense when examining Buffy's choices in the Gift.

She isn't fighting for the Big Blue Marble, she's fighting to save Dawn, as she's always fought to save the individual. People before abstract principles.

And if she seems lost in S6, it is perhaps in part because she doesn't know how to maintain her humanity in the face of the latest set of challenges.

Once again, Buffy needs to discover what she already knows.
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[> [> Not how *I* saw Prophecy Girl -- Vickie, 22:12:10 02/03/02 Sun
You make some very good points. However, I think I saw a different Prophecy Girl episode.

In mine, Buffy decked Giles not because she is rejecting the Council's authority, but because he is determined to put himself in danger trying to do her job. And she leaves Jenny Calendar to come up "with something witty, tell him I said it" (rough quote), not because she's too flippant to explain herself but because she's stretched beyond being witty.

I like what you say about *how* Buffy fights evil. A large part of the show, IMHO.
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[> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS -- Rattletrap, 06:05:45 02/04/02 Mon
Hmmmm . . . your analysis is interesting and thought provoking. Your distinction between Tolerant and Progressive shows is valid on some level, but it is ultimately artificial. The ME writers did not sit around their conference table and say "Oh, I think we'll make BtVS a Progressive show" next season, this was part of a larger evolution. Even in its earliest days, Buffy depended heavily on long-term story arcs and seasonal villains. In a classic Tolerant show like The Simpsons the writers show virtually no interest in continuity, past episodes exist only to be occasionally referenced and mocked. Even S1 BtVS had its major villain and its running, continuous story. By S2 and S3 the show focused primarily on the season plot, but with frequent reversions to episode form. The change in BtVS S5 was comparatively subtle, the season focused more on the season plot than had most previous seasons, but the deviation was relatively minor, and there were certainly a handful of MotW-type episodes.

One other minor point worth discussing: you mention X-files as a direct ancestor of BtVS, a point I would not seriously dispute. More important, however, is their common ancestry. Both shows are fairly direct descendants of Twin Peaks, although they have each appropriated some different elements of it. Though I am not a huge TP fan (nor do I dislike it), the influence is undeniable. The show was one of the first to heavily blend in supernatural elements (notably Zen-Buddhism and dream interpretation) in a world of modern rationalism, much like Buffy and X-files do with vampires and aliens. TP and X-f share the common denominator of a quirky FBI agent with some unorthodox views. The similarities w/ BtVS are more basic: Twin Peaks was a small town in Washington state (I think) largely cut off from the outside world and stuck in this permanent loop of white-bread working-class America c. 1958, and also the center of some unnamed evil presence. Sunnydale is not nearly so extreme, but retains some of the elements: small town, largely cut off from the outside world, center of mystical convergence.

More important, still, are styles of storytelling. David Lynch brought a strange, non-linear style of storytelling to TP (I would, BTW, be curious to hear if you consider it a Tolerant or a Progressive show). Plots, if they resolved at all, never did so at the expected time. Episodes began and ended at seemingly random points, the first season ended with a huge cliffhanger. Lynch and his writers set out systematically to break all of the rules of TV convention, and did so with some success. The reason most often cited for the failure of the show, however, is that they broke too many rules, too often and simply alienated most of their viewing audience who became frustrated with the increasingly non-linear story. ME has demonstrated a similar tendency to break rules, w/ routine character deaths, occasional resurrections, semi-cliffhanger season endings, and new characters created out of the blue and not explained for a month or so. This style of storytelling remains innovative even today--the risks and the rewards are both greater than with a comparatively safe show like West Wing or Boston Public. There is a honeymoon effect with creativity, the viewing public will tolerate 3 or 4 "Bad Eggs" for one "Innocence," but a show that takes risks will invariably alienate some of its audience in doing so. I think S6 has been just this sort of risk: I find it very resonant with my own life experience; but, clearly, many other posters on this board do not. As other posters have suggested, the experiences of adulthood are far less universal than those of adolescence.
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[> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS -- verdantheart, 07:46:53 02/04/02 Mon
May I assume from this post that you--if you follow Star Trek--greatly prefer Next Generation to Deep Space Nine?

Interesting post.
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[> Re: Two interpretations of BtVS: S5,6/2,3 B/A Spoilers -- Age, 09:18:36 02/04/02 Mon
Wow! You certainly have a way of summing things up in terms of character. Thank goodness you do.

You mentioned:

Vampires and demons may be metaphors for teen problems but I believe
they can also be metaphors for hidden levels of reality ignored by the
wider world, hence the pathological denial of Sunnydale citizens.

The denial is inherent in oppositional thinking. In oppositional thinking character flaws are taken as being the things that damn people, and therefore have to be repressed. In the series you mentioned I think this kind of oppositional thinking is being deconstructed. I believe that the very idea that Whedon based his series on is the deconstruction of opposites that's inherent in oppositional thinking. The vampire/human dichotomy is simply a way of showing the split we create in ourselves through thinking. But, it's only thinking.

I think we may be seeing something similar about the series in two different ways: from the point of view of character in your case; from metaphor in mine.

The movement from tolerant to progressive may have had to come because Whedon saw the symbolism of the Scoobies turning 21, ie adults. In season five he needed to get the two title characters to see that their demonized aspects, the slayer(speculation, we don't know if it's a demon or not) and Angel's demon were needed before they could procreate as human and animal so to speak, though not with each other. Their 'demons' aren't demons at all, but simply necessary aspects of themselves that have been shamed in them as bad.

Whedon seems to have begun the series on the heaven leads to hell idea(based on oppositional thinking), ie trying to make a heaven, but this just results in making a hell. In this way the characters will still make the same mistakes until they learn that oppositional thinking itself is the error: Xander does it in 'Once More With Feeling' when he tries to make everything, his engagement, heavenly and it turns into a hell, with a devil character to boot. If he still is into oppositional thinking, then who knows what hell he'll make of his upcoming nuptials if they even happen(speculation, no spoilers.) Buffy's coming to Sunnydale was her attempt to make things heavenly and repress the other stuff, creating symbolically the hellmouth.

Tolerance may be the recognition that everything is just the way it is, instead of seeing that we have to make things opposed to one another as good and bad.

Age.


Willow question -- Emcee003, 06:24:03 02/03/02 Sun

Its quite simple I just wanted to know if Willows mother knows about Tara. Has there been any off screen refrances to it that I've missed?
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[> I don't believe so. -- VampRiley, 06:37:10 02/03/02 Sun
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[> Re: Willow question -- Malandanza, 09:04:08 02/03/02 Sun
"I just wanted to know if Willows mother knows about Tara.

I don't think it's ever been mentioned, but I don't think that Willow's mother would have a problem with Tara. We haven't seen much of Sheila Rosenberg, but we do know she's very PC -- especially after Pangs, when Buffy mentions that Willow is "channeling" her mother by defending the vengeance demon so assiduously. Add to that Willow's obvious dismay when Tara didn't introduce Willow to her Father as her girlfriend and there's no reason Willow wouldn't have mentioned Tara -- perhaps even had her over for dinner a few times. Far from being uncomfortable, I think that Willow's mother would be proud to have a lesbian daughter -- it would give her something to brag about to her liberal friends and allow her to show the world just how progressive and open-minded she really is.

Then again, Willow may have decided to keep Tara a secret to spite her mother -- she'd be happier with her mother's disapproval than her blessing.
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[> [> Re: Willow question -- Emcee003, 10:02:37 02/03/02 Sun
I personally don't think Willow has told her. As much as she complains about her mothers lack of interest in her life, I just can't see her telling her mother.

I think she doesn't want her mother to know, she wants to keep Tara as part of her life and not her mothers. She would justify it to herself by wanting Tara to be part of her independence and growing up, which means she can conveniently get around not telling her mother.

Which as we've seen in S6 the way Willows logic works when it come to negotiating grey dilemmas.

Although I agree with your view of her mother using Willow as a way to braging her open mind, how stupid can some people be.
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[> [> Was Sheila liberal? -- vampire hunter D, 12:29:55 02/03/02 Sun
The only time I remember seeing Sheila was in the ep where amy ratted herself (I forget teh name). ANd in it , Sheila seemed to disapprove of alternative belief systems (ie, wicca religeon). She even helped Joyce lead the witch hunt and set the fire to burn their daughters at the stake. That doesn't seem very tolerant to me
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[> [> [> Re: Was Sheila liberal? -- Lilac, 12:42:33 02/03/02 Sun
You have to remember that in that episode (was it Hansel & Gretel?), the demon was usurping the value systems of the adults in the town to create the witch hunt scenario -- in this case a literal witch hunt. So I think it is safe to assume that Willow's mother, like Joyce, was not presenting her own true opinions in that episode. My impression, which I can't really cite any support for, is that Willow's mother would normally have been considered a liberal.
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[> [> [> [> Yes, it's hard to tell...The only time we really saw Sheila, she wasn't "herself." -- Rob, 13:08:22 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> [> The ep was Gingerbread, I believe -- Vickie, 22:04:54 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> Re: Was Sheila liberal? -- Malandanza, 22:14:47 02/03/02 Sun
"The only time I remember seeing Sheila was in the ep where amy ratted herself (I forget the name). And in it, Sheila seemed to disapprove of alternative belief systems (ie, wicca religion). She even helped Joyce lead the witch hunt and set the fire to burn their daughters at the stake. That doesn't seem very tolerant to me"

I was thinking more of Pangs than Gingerbread. In the Thanksgiving episode, Willow's viewpoint on the destruction of the indigenous people was the liberal viewpoint, while Giles and Spike espoused the conservative views. Giles' position was essentially one of sympathy while refusing to take responsibility for acts he took no part in, while Spike was a bit more extreme. By contrast, the liberal view accepts blame for what happened (as sort of political original sin -- guilty for the misdeeds of one's ancestors) yet does not make any real attempt at restitution. On this issue (as well as similar issues -- slavery, Japanese internment camps, etc.) the liberals remind me of the Walrus and the conservatives of the Carpenter.

What was made abundantly clear in Pangs was that Willow's viewpoint was her mother's as well.

Oh, and one more thing -- conservatives don't have a monopoly on intolerance :)
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[> [> [> [> Re: Was Sheila liberal? -- JM, 07:44:46 02/04/02 Mon
Another thing to keep in mind is that although her mother may be a liberal-minded academic, she is probably also Jewish. We know Willow was raised Jewish and that her father is fairly devout. While witchcraft may be an interesting social phenonmenon, having her daughter suscribe to a belief system that Sheila believes is a myth, probably didn't sit well even after "Gingerbread."

She probably has no problems with Tara, it's a blow to the patriarchy. Improved relations with her mother may also be why Willow was stopping by to see her mother often after "The Body."
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Doublemeat Palace Made Me SICK!!! -- Dedalus, 08:37:37 02/03/02 Sun

No, literally. This post may be fairly graphic, so bear with me. I just had to post this, especially after seeing the more or less negative reaction to it on the board. And I do agree, up to a point. I have come to grips with the fact that the magic-is-drug metaphor not only dealt with me in a heavy-handed way, but actually beat me up, kicked me out of a moving car, and left me unconscious on the side of the road. Still, three mediocre episodes does not a bad season make. And who am I kidding? Basically, I just stopped by here to get my d'Herblay/Rahael shipper fix, like everyone else.

Anyway, so I watch DMP. And I go about my day Wednesday. Then I start feeling nasuated as the day progresses. Then getting even more nasuated toward evening. Come eleven o'clock, head in the toilet, you know the drill. I was reminded of that Seinfeld episode where they were talking about how much time had elapsed since they had last thrown up. For me, it had been about ten years, easy. But that streak was soon broken for me during an on-and-off fourteen hour vomit marathon. The kind that ends with dry heaves and puking out water.

And I'm still not feeling too good. Must be a stomach flu. This is my first time on the net since DMP, and I just had to come and share. It was just too ironic to pass up. Oh well. Here's hoping I can eat something more than applesauce today. And what makes this suck even more is the fact that my birthday was tomorrow, and there's usually like a weekend-long celebration. Not this time, kids. And what's worse, unlike that root canal last year, I don't even have any heavy medication to inspire posts like "Oil is the lifeblood of your car."

Sigh. Still enjoying reading what you guys have to say though.
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[> Helpful suggestions (still somewhat graphic) ;o) -- dubdub, 09:53:38 02/03/02 Sun
AAAwwwwww, poor you! Hey, from my vast knowledge of witchy-type potions I recommend...ginger ale! Not very exotic, I know, and actually ginger tea would be better to settle your stomach, but that's not always easy to come by, so flat ginger ale will do in a pinch. To make it go flat fast, just pour it into a glass and stir vigorously with a fork until it ceases to bubble.

If the low-key, homeopathic type remedies don't do the trick there's always Gravol, which works really quickly, especially if you use the suppositories (eeeeeeewwwwww).

One thing, though...did you have a fever as well? In that case, be wary of this year's superflu, A-Panama.

(Caution: I am not a doctor or medical practicioner of any kind, and my advice should be taken with a grain of salt or ignored completely!)

Get well, Ded. And just what has happened to Rah and d'Herb? Those crazy kids...they don't call, they don't write...

;o)
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[> [> Re: Helpful suggestions (still somewhat graphic) ;o) -- Dedalus, 10:43:12 02/03/02 Sun
Hey, I got a damn flu shot, though I'm beginning to suspect that they're more or less useless. Yeah, I did have a fever, so it might be A-Panamawhatever. I'm just glad the eeky throwing up is hopefully over. Thanks for the advice with the "potions," lol. Actually, Sprite works for me. As does sniffing rubbing alcohol, and then hanging your head upside down. Guaranteed to make you burp.

But enough about me. How is dH and R anyway? We must chat again.
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[> [> more helpful suggestions -- anom, 13:08:49 02/03/02 Sun
Even better than ginger ale is ginger beer. It's stronger (but not in the alcoholic sense). It's not as easy to find as ginger ale, of course; try bodega/West Indian-type places & health food stores. My favorite is Reed's Extra Ginger Brew--even when I'm not sick to my stomach.

Of course, if ginger ale's not strong enough & you're in some god-forsaken, isolated, uncivilized part of the country where you can't find ginger beer, you could always resort to actual, y'know, ginger, either fresh or candied. (I wouldn't recommend the pickled kind to settle the stomach!) You could chew a chunk or mash it & water it down. Mint is also supposed to help, but I don't know as much about that.

Speaking of water, drink a lot if you can keep it down. Throwing up that much can dehydrate you. If you have other symptoms or it doesn't go away soon, call a doctor.

Feel better soon, Ded!
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[> [> [> Re: more helpful suggestions -- Dedalus, 18:44:36 02/03/02 Sun
Thanks! Nah, the vomiting is long since over. And I did drink some water when it got to the point I could have started to dehydrate. At your suggestion about West Indian ginger beer - I live in Georgia, for god's sake!
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[> [> [> [> ok, ok... -- anom, 20:15:58 02/03/02 Sun
...I forgot where you live. But ginger beer is usually more widely available these days. (No health food stores either?)

Anyway, feel better & happy birthday!
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[> "Oil is the lifeblood"...classic post -- mundusmundi, 12:06:36 02/03/02 Sun
Seriously, I recommend it to everyone as part of our required reading list around here. (Somewhere in the summer archives -- June?)

And, as I recall, Ded, you wrote that post following a root canal. Which just shows to go ya, some of the best stuff around here derives from deep, dark places. In any case, hope to see you out of the commode soon and back on the board. Happy belated b-day.
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[> [> Re: "Oil is the lifeblood"...classic post -- Dedalus, 12:17:15 02/03/02 Sun
Thanks! It's not actually my bday till tomorrow, so you're still on time. Yes, root canal, stomach flu ... all I do is come on here and whine about illness ... on the flip side, they got me majorly wound up on the theology posts down below!

BTW, did you recommend Philip Pullman and His Dark Materials to me or was it someone else? I'm just getting into Book Three. As Keanu Reeves might say, "Whoa." Lyra still rocks the house.
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[> [> [> The Pullman meme's been around here long before I recco'd him. Glad you're enjoying HDM. -- mm, 12:29:49 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> Another Aquarian...I knew we had something in common! ;o) -- Wisewoman, 12:55:23 02/03/02 Sun
Happy, happy day tomorrow. Mine was last Tuesday.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Another Aquarian...I knew we had something in common! ;o) -- JBone, 14:06:00 02/03/02 Sun
Birthday wishes everyone, mine is on Wednesday.
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Another Aquarian...I knew we had something in common! ;o) -- Dedalus, 18:46:16 02/03/02 Sun
Wow. Happy happy happy birthday to me, you, the whole friggin' forum then.

We need to get Masq to post a pic of a cake up there.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> February 14, here . . . not that anyone should read anything into that . . . -- d'Herblay, 19:41:01 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: February 17, here . . . not that anyone should read anything into that either. . . -- mrdave, 19:54:15 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Okay, okay...no romantic Valentine references... -- WW, 08:05:11 02/04/02 Mon
...but how the heck are ya?

;o)
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> ;) -- d'Herblay, 15:02:59 02/04/02 Mon
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[> so... about that d'H/Rah shippiness... what IS the news? ;-) -- The Second Evil, an inquiring mind..., 14:17:44 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> Yeah, I've been waiting over a week to get the Rah/d'H scoopage -- The First Evil, 16:40:26 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> [> What's this all about? Enquiring minds want to know. -- nosy as hell & i knows it, 23:40:37 02/03/02 Sun
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[> Just a disturbing point of information... -- Darby, 15:21:32 02/03/02 Sun
There is no such thing as the stomach flu. And there are virtually no intestinal viruses - it's not that they don't exist, but no one you know has probably really had one, especially if they're older than 5.

There are a few general viruses with intestinal symptoms, but you wouldn't just have the tummy troubles.

So what IS "stomach flu?" Apropos of Doublemeat Palace, it's almost always some sort of food poisoning. A long time ago, it just became accepted medical practice to blame viruses (some doctors don't even realize - or at least remember - that it's a bit of a hoax), because a) viruses can't be treated, and it's equally pointless to treat the vast majority of food poisoning and b) it gets you quickly out of the office without putting you on a fruitless quest to find where it originated (there are easily 50 types of food poisoning, which can affect you from 5 minutes to 2 weeks after eating). And that's not counting the 50 types of nasty non-viral critters that could be living in your guts, which are pretty much only an issue if you've been travelling through some non-Western countries (ah, the stories I could tell...).

Didn't make you feel any better, did it?
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[> [> Re: Just a disturbing point of information... -- Dedalus, 18:48:30 02/03/02 Sun
That was relatively disturbing, but incredibly informative ...
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[> [> [> Which sounds kinda like the Buffyverse.... and Happy Birthday to You, sayeth me! :-) -- OnM, 18:52:20 02/03/02 Sun
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[> so will a heartfelt Happy Birthday from a friend help? -- Liq, 16:06:23 02/03/02 Sun
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[> [> Re: Only if she chats with me once in awhile L ... -- Dedalus, 19:12:29 02/04/02 Mon
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[> Just one more post-vomit tip. Oh, and Happy Birthday! -- Dichotomy, 11:23:47 02/04/02 Mon
I know you're done with the pukies, but should it happen again (and I hope that it doesn't, my non-barfing record was 7 years until last summer) don't take anything by mouth for one hour, or you'll just see it again. If you must have fluid, take only one teaspoon every 15 minutes or so, so as not to shock your very traumatized stomach. (This advice comes from a doctor.)

Okay, enough of the unpleasantries. Have a great birthday! I'll make a snow angel in your honor!
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[> [> Re: Glad they'll be a Snow Angel in my Honor! -- Dedalus, 19:10:46 02/04/02 Mon
BTW, I tried to eat a light birthday meal today at guess where? That's right. Red Lobby.

:-)
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[> [> [> a snow "angel"? will it have fangs? @>[ -- anom, 19:40:41 02/04/02 Mon
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[> [> [> a snow "angel"? will it have fangs? @>[ -- anom, 19:42:52 02/04/02 Mon
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Willow's problem with magic, drug metaphor? -- LoriAnn, 15:17:49 02/03/02 Sun

Granted Willow's magic problem--notice I'm not calling it an addiction--is most obviously a drug addiction metaphor. However, when we take Buffy's craving for Spike's naked body and look at these two "addictions" together, the metaphor only partially holds up.
JW has been quite candid in telling viewers what he has been doing. Willow's magic and Buffy's sex problems are metaphors for the magical thinking adolescents participate in, the abandonment of which is a sign of maturity. Willow thinks she can face the world by participating in that world in an unrealistic way; the same can be said about Buffy. There attitude is if I wish, cast a spell, or immerse myself in mindless, if mind boggling, sex everything else will work out, and I won't have to face the reality of adulthood; I can ignore reality and live in magic or sex, and everything will be fine. We all know that, as attractive as these ideas are, they won't work to solve the real problems of life.
Giles left Buffy because he was standing in the way of her seizing her maturity and handling problems by solving them instead of hoping someone else, he, would do the solving or the bank would give her a loan because she had good grades in high school. Tara left Willow because she would not face the reality of having an adult relationship with another person: no need to resolve the problem, no need to talk it out, no need to understand the other's position, just cast a spell.
Both Willow's and Buffy's obsessions have been with things that allowed them to avoid the reality of no longer being taken care of with regard to the basics of life. These obsessions could be drugs, alcohol, chat rooms, sex, TV programs, future rock stardom, anything that can keep attention from the fact that "the hardest thing about life is living." Instead of experiencing the difficulty of living, Willow and Buffy have hidden.
To end on a positive note, in "DMP" both characters made progress in moving away from magical thinking.
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[> Re: Willow's problem with magic, drug metaphor? -- leslie, 11:50:18 02/04/02 Mon
The problem with this metaphor is the difference between magical thinking and magical doing. Willow gets into trouble when she uses magic to assuage her emotional pain and to make things easy for herself, but she has also been able to do some really important things through her magical powers. Is it worth it to simply go cold turkey on the magic and forswear all the contributions she can make? Perhaps it's more that she has to decide, in the classic phrase, whether she is a good witch or a bad witch.

Likewise, Buffy may be indulging in sex with Spike to make herself feel something--anything--to allow her to gloss over the problems that face her, but is she supposed to forswear sex entirely? Or is she only allowed to have sex with nice boys with pulses? You know, maybe she has "come back wrong," but she hasn't been "normal" since she became a Slayer.

Part of maturity might be giving up magical thinking,* but another part of it is learning how to accept your impulses and imperfections and make them work for the better as often as possible. You can't "just say no," unless you really are dead. (And sometimes not even then, as the show has shown repeatedly.)

*Great example of magical thinking--a friend of mine who both prides herself on her rationality and is a very well-trained folklorist who knows all about magical thinking went to an exhibit up at the Getty this weekend which included a 17th-century German alchemical manuscript. Her father, who is German, began reading the text out loud, and she found herself getting really nervous and finally begged him NOT to read the whole page out loud because "you just never know what might happen." You really can't get away from magical thinking--you just have to recognize it when it bites you on the ass.
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[> [> Re: Willow's problem with magic, drug metaphor? -- LoriAnn, 14:39:42 02/04/02 Mon
Magical thinking has nothing to do with doing magic. It is the assumption that things will work out no matter what: if I lose myself in whatever and neglect my life, or if instead of doing anything to help myself, I just hope for the best, everything will be okay, someone or something will "magically" take care of everything.
Your friend isn't indulging in magical thinking, but in superstitious fear. My husband is the same way. He says he doesn't believe in superstitions or magic, but I've noticed that he doesn't want to get crosswise of them either.



Big Bad is Us-Spoilery for WITW -- Arethusa, 20:19:18 02/04/02 Mon

You've gotta love a guy who gives you what you want, then skewers you for wanting it. The Bad Guy in this episode is a man with an obsessive attachment to a certain performance. Sure, he doesn't know much about it, doesn't notice its flaws, but he knows he's just in love with the performance and performers, and proves it by watching it over and over and over again, like a mystical rewinding of a videotape.
Add two pointed digs: at website fans and how "everyone wants to talk about" Angel and Cordy.
The theme of this show is: Get a life.
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[> Hmmph! That's gloomy! (Sounds right, too.) -- Darby, 08:25:04 02/05/02 Tue
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[> Re: Big Bad is Us-Spoilery for WITW -- Sarah, 08:32:06 02/05/02 Tue
I couldn't agree more. I definately took this as a jab at the B/A shippers. They just want Season 2 to play on an endless loop. But now I think it's a slam on critical fans in general. The talk after Deadmeat Palace on the web was absolutely vicious in condemning how far this show has sunk, but those same attackers didn't seem to realize that DMP actually fits in those early seasons even better than it does in Season 6. Seasons 2 and 3 are so lauded, that it seems people forget episodes like Go Fish, Killed by Death, Reptile Boy, and Anne. Those seasons were not perfect. And yup, that "start a website" comment seemed very directed at the delusional "eternal lovers" crowd.
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*Ersatz Brothers Coffee - It's the Real Thing!!* - Thoughts on *Doublemeat Palace* ( *Spoilers* ) -- OnM, 15:00:33 02/03/02 Sun *******

When I first met you baby you fed me on chicken and wine It was steak and potatoes and lobster and babe I sure felt fine But now all you ever give me is seaweed and alfalfa sprouts And sunflower seeds and I got my doubts You left me here with the Chicken Cordon Bleus

My stomach is empty and all I got is food for thought I been up all night thinkin' 'bout the twenty pounds of groceries we bought We bought ten pounds of brown rice and five more of beans And five pounds of granola and you know what that means I'm just a regular fella with the Chicken Cordon Bleus

I'm starved for affection and I don't think I can stand no more This stuff is so wierd that the cockroaches moved next door Can you see that old dog out in the street He's got a big smile on his face 'cause they let him meat Babe I got the lemon and the Chicken Cordon Bleus

............ Steve Goodman

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One of the perennial questions that creative people get asked is, of course, where do you get your ideas from?

To the extent that your humble scribe here has the right to make any such claims, I will answer as follows: One, I haven't the faintest idea. Sometimes they just appear, like poof in your cranial recesses and then the job is to merely transcribe them. (Merely?-- Hah! It should be so easy!) Two, when item #1 isn't making with the mojo, I try looking at some of the ordinary things around me, or to current happenings in the realverse and just extemporize from that point onward. Sometimes this works, sometimes you wind up in a blind alley off a one way street and end up chucking the whole schmiel.

The age-old question of 'muse or peruse' becomes of increasing importance when an artist presents a newly-wrought piece of work to his or her normally adoring public, and the reaction to same suddenly becomes a very mixed one. Some folks love it and think it's brilliant, others loathe it with a passion, and still a third group just attempts a decent semi-grok and then goes 'Huh...'. ( Not good 'huh', not bad 'huh', just middle of the road, intensely uninflected 'huh', dot dot dot). I'm raising this subtext to the surface right up front here because for the second time now-- the last being the recent airing of Gone-- I found myself in the third of the above categories regarding Doublemeat Palace. While I liked the episode far better upon the second viewing than on the first, there is unquestionably some sense of disappointment that I'm hesitant to try and place any blame for. I am left asking myself if this is a case of the letter being mailed and I just didn't receive it, or was it shipped out intentionally knowing that there was postage due?

Writer Jane Espenson, whose previous contribution to season 6 was After Life, if my sources serve me correctly, has been a worthy contributor to the long-term Buffy oeuvre, so perhaps I set my expectations excessively high with Doublemeat Palace, her most recent effort. This is, after all, the midseason of the show, and often a time to allow the audience to 'rest' with a couple of 'stand-alones' that don't particualrly advance the plot in any immediately significant way. Supporting this contention is a comment I came across by executive producer Marti Noxon, in an interview with Dreamwatch:

Dreamwatch: *** Ten episodes have aired so far. What can you say about the second half of the year? ***

Marti Noxon: *** There will probably only be two more episodes before the end of January. They're both not going to move the storyline forward a whole lot. They're stand-alones. Nick Mark directs the twelfth one. We won't get to Buffy's birthday until episode 14. We're doing it late this year. Steven DeKnight just wrote an episode that will air in early February which is really dark. ***

OK, I'm not by nature the restless, easily wound-up sorta guy, so if that's the band's plan then I can go with it, accept that the slower pacing was intentional. Slower pacing, however, demands significant cleverness in other ways to make up for the laid-back-uousness. Dialog needs to be witty or inspired, deeper insights into the character's character need to swell to the forefront, or even the taking of an opportunity for some decent satire or political commentary that a more action-driven plotline would leave trailing in the dust.

There was certainly the implication of satirical intent in Doublemeat Palace, even down to the initials for same, which the more perverse of those in the viewing audience may have heard applied in the context of porno movie slang for a particular type of sexual act. Considering the multiple uses of thematic duality throughout the entire episode, it isn't much of a stretch to infer that 'grease' is something more than a grill-enabled burger byproduct. Virtually every character currently on screen is caught in the middle of a 'sandwich' of some kind.

Buffy, in the most obvious case, is trapped between her need for rapidly aquiring some monetary stability and the fact that her calling as Slayer severely limits her choices in employment. Now displaying a rather less confrontative mood than she recently was in Gone, Dawn has gained the extremely unsettling awareness that her older sister's life could quite possibly be doomed to nothing better than an endless series of near-minimum-wage jobs, and that saving the world doesn't add much to one's line of credit. Dawn likewise isn't amused at Xander's joke about how she 'could grow up to be a lawyer or a doctor' and so be able to 'support your deadbeat sister'. Her consternation is understandable-- one of the very first curses of adulthood to be visited upon the young and the innocent is when they achieve the sudden, and usually total emotional cognition of the emotionless cruelty of laissez-faire economics.

This already bleak theme gets hammered home during Spike and Buffy's sexual tryst outside the 'Palace' when she goes on her break. The whole affair appears to have been reduced to a matter of 'getting the job done', echoing the words of Manny the manager who declares 'levity is a time-thief that picks the pocket of the company'. No one is smiling during what should be a a joyous moment, and George Orwell would be nodding his head in recognition at the image of a person standing back to a brick wall, facing a dumpster, while a poster hanging on the nearby wall states simply 'TEAMWORK'.

Speaking of acerbic political/economic satire, several months back I did a 'Classic Movie of the Week' review on director Michael Moore's film The Big One, and as I watched a number of scenes unfold in DP, I couldn't help flashing back to several similar scenes in that movie and in his first film, Roger & Me. In The Big One, Moore finally locates a company CEO who is willing to speak on-camera with him, Phil Knight, the head honcho for the Nike corporation. Nike's very expensive athletic shoes are widely sold in the United States, but are manufactured almost entirely in third world countries where readily available cheap labor brings the production cost-per-pair averages to the vicinity of $5.00 or so. Moore pleads with Knight to bring some shoe production back to the U.S., and to Flint Michigan in particular, Moore's home town and the ongoing site of severe unemployment due to past automotive industry plant closings by General Motors.

Knight attempts to suggest to Moore that no matter how well intentioned he may be, the simple fact is that 'most Americans really don't want to make shoes'. Moore attempts to disprove the argument offered by rounding up a cluster of ex-GM workers who plaintively plead on-camera for Nike to open up a plant in Flint, that they are more than ready and willing to work. Knight, who frankly looks more sad than 'evil' during this sequence, is not persuaded, and the fact of the matter is that the group Moore was able to assemble was not exactly grand in numbers, and did little to disguise the aspect of desperation that clung to them.

Now, I could spend some time arguing either for or against either Moore or Knight, but what there remains little question about is that some jobs certainly aren't glamorous, but they are necessary, and someone has to do them, or society will suffer. Fast food establishments now represent a significant part of our current economy, and obviously stay in business and florish because they garner substantial patronage. Isn't a large part of the problem workers in this industry (and similar ones) face is the fact that other, more 'fortunate' laborers look down on them, treat them as second (or worse)-class citizens? We need look no further than our resident blond vampster to see this attitude confirmed.

Spike's reaction to Buffy becoming employed in what he sees as a 'menial' job offends him deeply because to him, it offers a diminishment of her worth as a person, makes her a 'lesser being'. His close relationship to Buffy also means that he sees the purported lessening of her worth reflect back upon him, and he in turn feels diminished, which is hardly in tune with his conventional image of himself as a powerful, dangerous creature.

Spike: Damn flourescent lights - they make me look dead.

He encourages her to quit, even states that 'he can get her money'. Buffy refuses, although it is clear that she agrees with him in principle, and longs to do so. Although the episode as a whole may not be advancing the seasonal story arc in any significant way, one thing it does do is is continue to illustrate a point made time and again as relates to Buffy's core character strengths: She is always willing to personally suffer if the cause is a greater good, and that cause is basic and clearly defined. Buffy understands that taking care of her 'family' has precedence over all else that may appealingly tempt her, whether that 'family' is the entirety of humankind, or just Dawn and the Scoobies. While Spike has grown substantially in terms of 'maturity' over the last two years, his encouragement of Buffy to leave her job provides a good example of how he remains arrested in a sort of adolescent stage of social development. Buffy has chosen to do what she is doing out of necessity. She may not like it, but she understands that if she doesn't accept this 'menial' work, the alternative is going to be worse.

Moving on to Willow, one of the high points of the episode for me was once again seeing Willow take control of herself, and utilizing her human strengths and intellectual abilities to assist the Scoobies in solving the case at hand. I also liked that she was the one who came to Buffy's aid in the battle against the wig lady/lamprey-demon, just as she did previously in Gone in the battle against the geek chorus. Further, I'm even more impressed that Willow is showing a great deal of personal integrity in successfully resisting the urge to magic-out, and whether or not she slips up in the future, I am now far less afraid that it will set her back into the type of irresponsibility she previously illustrated in Tabula Rasa, Smashed, and Wrecked. This portrayal is a pleasant surprise, it would be far more typical from a conventional writing standpoint to have her 'helplessly' give in to her 'addiction' and fall off the wagon. Her confession to Buffy over the intercom at the 'Palace' indicates to me that Willow truly has come to terms with her past abuses, and is no longer making excuses for them. Even though she was correct in understanding that it was not her fault that Amy inflicted the feelgood spell upon her, she also understood that it was not an incident she should just casually brush off. Secondly, there is also the fact that now Willow has personally experienced what it is like to have a 'friend' 'do you a favor' against your will, much as she did with the 'forgetting' spell cast on Tara.

Willow is afraid, but faces the fear, and does not fall back. I loved her declaration to Amy at show's end that 'if you're my friend, or if you're not" stay away from me either way. While Buffy is still pinned between two or more contradictory pressures, Willow is starting to throw off her unwanted attentions.

Amy is a puzzle. I have learned to take note of the clips chosen for the 'previously on Buffy' show opening sequences, since they often seem to drop cogent references that may only be clear in retrospect. While it could have been just a reminder to the audience who the character of Amy is, why choose the specific clip where Buffy asks Amy How have you been?

Amy succinctly replies, Rat. You?, to which Buffy responds just as simply, Dead. Amy then gives that sort of nonchalant 'humm...' look to Buffy's one word answer. The scene is funny, but as is typically the case, even single word answers get loaded with extra layers of meaning in the Buffyverse. We all know that 'dead' for Buffy doesn't only refer to physical death, from which she has returned, but emotional and spiritual death. Buffy, however haphazardly, is trying to regain the sense of human worth, dignity and purpose that at one time filled her soul so completely. Amy, on the other hand, may have decided that being a rat wasn't all that bad after all, and so is on the way to embracing the simplicity of animal-brain-limited thinking/emoting in her newly-reasserted human form. At least, this was the meaning I gleaned from her affection for, and desire to retrieve the cage/habitat she lived in while still a wiccas rodentus. I have noticed from skimming the commentary of several other Buffyphiles over the last week that many are now wondering if Amy could be on the way to become the season's traditional 'surprise big bad'. Amy always seems to be 'borrowing' something or other from the others around her; this week it was some 'detergent and stuff' from Willow at the end of the show. Does Amy also now desire to have an easy, hedonistic life, being fed and taken care of by someone who dotes on her, with nothing to do but 'spin in her wheel' and have a good time? If I'm not mistaken, wasn't it Amy who was 'spinning' in Rack's spell at the magic drug house while Willow was on her Garden of Eden trip?

What if Amy were to team up with the geek chorus, who were noticably absent from this ep, spoken about only once at the very beginning of the show? While at this point she doesn't seem anywhere near as amoral as Warren is, the potential may be there to evolve in that direction. Amy is a fairly powerful witch, and if human/Amy is now rat/human/Amy, the trio could become far more genuinely dangerous with her assistance. I could see her using them as lackeys, much as Warren uses Jonathan and Andrew as his. This would also continue the series' feminist slant-- what the geeks need to triumph is having a woman for a leader.

Speculation aside, another related geek theme is that once again, when Buffy is depressed she becomes careless. A woman so powerful at the top of her form that she could kill a god nearly gets herself killed for the third time by, of all things, a penis with teeth and a bad wig. Buffy, focussing on the idea that the evil is the fast food industry, instead misses the fact that the danger could come from the customers instead. (Which pretty much anyone who has ever worked in retailing for more than a few months could have figured out). (Just kidding...;) (No, I'm not... ;)

[ Sidebar here: Truthfully, while many fans have remarked on the penis-like qualities of the lamprey demon, it never really occurred to me that it looked all that penis-ish, but since one person's snake is another person's casting-out-from-paradise, I'll let it go with a hardy 'yeah, why not'. ]

As to Xander and Anya, the pre-wedding jitters continue with the appearance of Anya's old friend and former vengeance demon cohort, Halfrek. I liked how Halfrek manages to unnerve Anya by planting the seeds of doubt as to Xander's intentions towards her friend, who doesn't glom onto the fact that Halfrek knows absolutely nothing of depth about Xander and is naturally predispositioned by her 'job' to assume the worst about all men. Following the duality/pressure theme, Anya should know better and be more confident, but still doesn't stand up and more solidly defend her beau-- what makes her increasingly human is also what makes her uncertain. Halfrek displays no such sense of ambiguity. Her feelings toward Xander are perfectly clear, she just doesn't want to come right out and hurt 'her friend' by saying so, so she does it surreptitiously. That Anya doesn't see this, despite her normal directness and clarity of thought, nicely points out just how human she's become since her ongoing association with the Scoobies and of course Xander in particular. She treats Halfrek courteously and as an equal, but Halfrek is a twit. Half the time I can't remember if I'm maiming the right guy, or something to that effect? Anya claims very self-righteously at the beginning of the show that 'she took her job seriously, and was paid accordingly' for her labors. Actually, based on what we've seen of both Anya and her demon incarnation, Anyanka, she is probably correct-- Anyanka took pride in her work, horrific as it is/was to human perceptions.

Xander once again sort of filled in space this episode, although his concerns about the marriage mirror Anya's, just from the other side of the divide. I thought that his statement about Anyanka's demonic appearance was a plothole, but after pondering carefully, it does occur to me that he possibly never has seen Anya in her demon form, at least not in the 'normal' Buffyverse. One wonders what will start to go through his mind the next time the two are initimate, now that Halfrek has presented him with a visual image he'd just as soon forget.

[ Sidebar II: I wonder if Anyanka ever had any nude photos taken, or paintings made of herself during her past 1100 years? OK, honey, since you seem so curious, these were made back when I was dating Olaf the Troll God. The painter offered to do them free of charge if I would just behead him instead of cutting out his liver and making him eat it. Olaf had them hung over the fireplace in the Great Hall of his castle, and bragged constantly to anyone who saw them about how powerful and virile a man he must be to be the willing consort to such a great and dangerous beauty! ]

Well, it's wrap-up time. I've noticed as I've detailed some of the details of this episode that despite my earlier comments about being slightly 'disappointed', Doublemeat has turned out to be somewhat meatier and juicier than I expected, so perhaps I being too hasty. During the several days over which I've put this review together, I've also had a chance to viddy the ep for a third time, and indeed it does get better with repeated viewings, not less so. Maybe Espenson really did use the muse when creating this script, and I just wasn't paying close enough attention the first time out.

Is this one of the very best Buffy episodes? No, but it's very respectable when you adjust yourself to the slower pace it offers and take it on it's own terms, just like a good deluxe hamburger with a nice toasted bun. It is also true that sometimes as a creative person you will take chances, do something truly different, and understand right up front that not everyone watching and listening will 'get it'. I'd far rather have that attitude than to take the easy way out and get the approval of lots of fans but not provide any satifying food for thought.

And the secret ingredient is... anyone? Anyone?

Holy crap...
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[> "Ersatz Brothers"? (spoilers for DMP) -- anom, 19:12:36 02/03/02 Sun
"He encourages her to quit, even states that 'he can get her money'. Buffy refuses, although it is clear that she agrees with him in principle, and longs to do so."

I think Spike's offer to support Buffy is remarkable, but of course she has to turn him down. It's bad enough to have the confusing emotions & desire for him, she definitely doesn't want to be financially dependent on him. (Not to mention that she wouldn't approve of how he'd get the money....)

BTW, I'm not really buying the idea that Buffy couldn't find anything better than a fast food job. She does have experience waiting tables in LA, & she got that job w/out prior experience. And I'm not so sure "menial" jobs are all she can hope for--most of her slaying is done at night, so couldn't she still work a 9-5 (OK, maybe 8-4 would be better) job? Or freelance & set her own hours? There are still jobs that don't require much more than smarts & literacy, & she's got those. It might not be all that fulfilling, but it would pay the bills & be more stimulating than DMP.

"Secondly, there is also the fact that now Willow has personally experienced what it is like to have a 'friend' 'do you a favor' against your will, much as she did with the 'forgetting' spell cast on Tara."

Really good point, OnM. I've had the impression Willow considered magic itself--& her addiction to it--the problem & still didn't understand why it was wrong to use it the way she did on Tara. Maybe this really will open her eyes to that other aspect. Willow has also used magic to feel in control, & Amy's spell took her use of magic beyond her control. It may have felt good, but it must have been scary. But I still think Willow's not out of the rough yet. She's got a long way to go.

"Buffy, focussing on the idea that the evil is the fast food industry, instead misses the fact that the danger could come from the customers instead.
(Which pretty much anyone who has ever worked in retailing for more than a few months could have figured out). (Just kidding...;) (No, I'm not... ;)"

@>) ...well, Buffy hadn't been there that long yet. And I didn't see the lamprey-thing as a penis either (partly because I missed seeing it spray Buffy w/the paralyzer), until it got chopped off & was writhing btwn. Buffy & the wig lady's body!

"...Halfrek is a twit. Half the time I can't remember if I'm maiming the right guy, or something to that effect? Anya claims very self-righteously at the beginning of the show that 'she took her job seriously, and was paid accordingly' for her labors."

This was one of about 3 times I found my reaction to what OnM said a little farther down in his post. And Halfrek's showing up w/out a clue as to what was going on was in total contrast to Anya's appearance as a high school student to coax a wish out of Cordelia. I didn't know there were >1 vengeance demon, let alone that they had different MOs!

"...it does occur to me that he [Xander] possibly never has seen Anya in her demon form, at least not in the 'normal' Buffyverse."

He wouldn't have--only Cordelia did, just after she made her wish & Anya said, "Done!" Hmmm...Did Caulfield's quote about the vengeance demon makeup being used again say specifically that she'd be the one wearing it? Maybe she was talking about Halfrek. (Their "old-girlfiends-get-together" riff was great!)

"And the secret ingredient is... anyone? Anyone?"

Answer #1: That's right, it could be just about anyone. @>)

Answer #2: Why, it's right there in the script: "It's a formed and texturized vegetable-based meat-like product, suitable for grinding." Love that empty corporate-speak. Well, except when I have to edit it. @>(

My wrap-up is that there's still more wrong at DMP. After all, employees are still staring off into space, & if it were a corporation-wide thing, Lorraine the new manager would be affected too, but she didn't seem to be. But the biggest clue is: Buffy is still working there! So obviously more has to happen there....
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[> [> Re: "Ersatz Brothers"? (spoilers for DMP) -- OnM, 06:29:43 02/04/02 Mon
*** BTW, I'm not really buying the idea that Buffy couldn't find anything better than a fast food job. ***

Me too, very much so, although I understand that for the sake of the story they emphasize the 'desperate for money' part, i.e. that she needed some money, and needed it NOW.

The other thought along this line relates to what I mentioned in that when Buffy gets depressed, she gets careless and also seems to lose a lot of her natural smarts. Did you notice the sudden change of demeanor when she found the severed finger and immediately went into search and destroy mode? Notice the wardrobe change into a shirt with a heart and a star on it, as I recall?

She's suddenly confident again, stops being mopey and now can think quickly and clearly, at least until she gets tripped up by the wig lady.

*** But I still think Willow's not out of the rough yet. She's got a long way to go. ***

Agreed, entirely, but I would be surprised at this point if Willow could become the 'big bad', as many of us were predicting earlier in the season. She just seems to have so much better control over herself now, and is allowing her intellect to reassert itself-- a really positive sign. One of the things I liked re: her handling of Amy was to recognize that the situation is analogous to when one of your supposed 'friends' whom you used to drink with keeps on pushing liquor at you even when they know damn well you want to cut back or stop. It can take a while to realize, or stop rationalizing, that this person is your 'friend'. They very much aren't-- to quote the classic Bob Dylan line, Bent out of shape by society's pliers / Who cares not to rise any higher / But instead drag to down to the place that he's in

Willow seems to have gotten this message pretty quickly, considering, and I say good for her.

*** It's bad enough to have the confusing emotions & desire for him [Spike], she definitely doesn't want to be financially dependent on him. ***

Interesting how Spike accepts, and even admires Buffy for her power and independence, but there is still that throwback tendency ingrained in most of us menfolk to be 'the breadwinner' of the family, eh?

S'OK, honey, you don't have to work! I can take care of us both!

That was another nice subtlety, I thought.

Thanks for your thoughts! I was wondering if you were wondering about the 'Ersatz Bros.', judging by your subject line. Were you?

;)
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[> [> [> yes i was! -- anom, 11:50:33 02/04/02 Mon
OK, I'm gonna take things in reverse order (since I answered your last q. in the subject line):

"I was wondering if you were wondering about the 'Ersatz Bros.', judging by your subject line. Were you?"

Yup. Lemme guess--Firesign Theater? I never even heard of them growing up, & there's a lot of their material I still haven't heard. But from what I have heard, it sounds like them.

"...but there is still that throwback tendency ingrained in most of us menfolk to be 'the breadwinner' of the family, eh?"

Hmm...is it really a throwback for someone who's actually from 120 years ago? @>)

"She just seems to have so much better control over herself now, and is allowing her intellect to reassert itself-- a really positive sign."

True, but for some people it's "easier" to control themselves in the face of a clear challenge--or otherwise rise to a crisis--than to just deal w/the cravings--or life--on a day-to-day basis. We'll have to see if this is the case for Willow.
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[> [> [> [> Correctamundo! ( *Bing!* ) -- OnM, 05:07:11 02/05/02 Tue
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[> [> Re: "Ersatz Brothers"? (spoilers for DMP) -- persefoni, 01:17:57 02/05/02 Tue
About the whole "surely Buffy could get a better job" thing: this would seem to be missing the point. Yes, Buffy could get a better job, but could she keep it? Her real calling is very demanding; when she needs to go fight evil, she needs to go right then. Of course, this could cause her to lose a job in the fast food industry as quickly as a job in, say, a bank, but there are always other jobs to be had at the bottom (barring a major depression). The employers are much less picky and less likely to be in touch with one another.
One of the few advantages to be had at that level (I should know) is an odd sort of freedom; you might be a wage slave, but you can always become a different breed of wage slave without really losing much (of course, you don't have much to begin with, so this is a mixed blessing, to say the least). It's odd, but the great advantage of fast food is that you don't really lose anything by losing it.
What did bother me about this episode was the exchange between Dawn and Xander. On the one hand, Dawn is a teenager and rather self-involved, so perhaps her expressed reluctance to accept a future financial burden on behalf of her sister is understandable. However, not only is the old mother/child truism of "you wouldn't even exist without me" extremely pertinent, but the idea of not using a social advantage to promote a truly beneficent goal (i.e. a lawyer supporting an active champion of good) is truly repugnant. By the way, I know Willow has been going through a personal crisis, but surely she could at least get a part time job to help out; I mean, she is living there.
To go back to Buffy's job prospects, there is also the matter of self employment, but what could she possibly do that would be sufficient to support her and Dawn, and yet not interfere with being the Slayer? Could she become a private investigator like Angel? Surely, he's already demonstrating the limitations of that, and he doesn't have social workers looking down his throat (at least, not that I've noticed). Being an entrepreneur is fine if someone who is truly dependent on you won't have to pay the price of failure.
Basically what I'm trying to say is that, yes, Buffy has possibilities, but she doesn't have probabilities. Of course, her main truism of being the Slayer is worth a thousand resume credits, and it's important to remember that our current preoccupation with profit doesn't preclude the finer things (as indeed, has always been the case).
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[> Re: *Ersatz Brothers Coffee - It's the Real Thing!!* - Thoughts on *Doublemeat Palace* -- Dedalus, 19:21:23 02/03/02 Sun
Awesome read, OnM, still. I really enjoyed sitting back and diving into that. I had a few of the same thoughts, though they were mostly ill-formed if not altogether vague.

Incidentally, to the gentleman no doubt so tired of listening to me talk about TPM, I find the same rules apply with that one too. Perhaps not completely satisfying on the first viewing, but once you get in their dig, there's actually some stuff you can ... well, sink your teeth into.

*Dedalus runs out of the forum, being hit time and time again with rotten fruit for his painstakingly thought-out pun*
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[> Re: *Ersatz Brothers Coffee - It's the Real Thing!!* ( *Spoilers* ) -- Raven_NightDragon, 19:22:45 02/03/02 Sun
Very nice post. One comment you made in particular got my attention, simply because the thought crossed my mind as I was watching the show: If Amy started working with the Trio they would become less of a joke and a hell of a lot scarier. Amy would give the geeks a some-what powerful supernatural backer, and I agree, she would probably end up twisting them all around her little finger. None of them really know how to handle an attractive, intelligent woman... or any woman at all, really. Worth watching out for.
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[> I liked this episode ....... -- Rufus, 21:34:42 02/03/02 Sun
Who can't remember the shitty entry level jobs at least most of us have had to suffer? Buffy is just doing what she would have had she not died x amount of months ago....

Psyche transcripts Doublemeat Palace:

BUFFY
Uh, yeah. The cow and chicken coming
together even though they never met...
It was like Sleepless in Seattle if
Tom and Meg were, like, minced.

If Buffy were Bruce Wayne/Batman, she would have been impossibly rich and wouldn't have to interact with real people unless the Bat Light or phone went off, but Buffy is living in a world we can relate to at least in the job market for fresh young meat, I mean people. Even Spike could see a bad thing when he came under the unforgiving florescent lighting.

SPIKE
Yeah, and you chose to be in a
consumer service profession. I'm a
consumer.
(beat)
Service me.

I have no trouble seeing many a jerk that has said the same thing to many of our young ladies in the service profession...and they don't even look dead. At leas Spike offered to get her money so she didn't have to work such a degrading (to him) job. It looked tempting til Buffy's brain kicked in to remember what "smash and grab" means. Spike may have the best intentions but how is someone like him going to get money in a legal way?

Now to poor Xander, Willow had him on the ropes with just one eensy comment....

ANYA
When I was a vengeance demon, I
caused pain and Mayhem, certainly,
but I put in a very full day's work
doing it! And I got compensated
appropriately!


XANDER
(to Willow)
Welcome to today's episode of "Go
Money Go." I hear it every day.


WILLOW
Right. For the rest of your life.

Never accuse Willow of not wanting to share in her suffering. Instead of being honest about how she feels she takes the opportunity to make Xander jump to his own ominous conclusions about being a lifer. Add in Halfrek and we have both Anya and Xander contemplating a prison escape before the cell door even closes.

And OnM just cause you can't see the phallic nature of the monster in the show doesn't mean it isn't there...I'll go half way and say it's a penis like lamprey thing.:):):)
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[> [> Re: I liked this episode ....... -- OnM, 06:42:59 02/04/02 Mon
*** And OnM just cause you can't see the phallic nature of the monster in the show doesn't mean it isn't there. ***

No, I could see it, just not anywhere near to the extent that some others did, esp. over at the BC&S! Perhaps it was Espenson's response to the old, supposedly primal male fear that the vagina has teeth!

;)
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[> [> [> Re: I liked this episode ....... -- Rufus, 16:18:52 02/04/02 Mon
The talk I was involved with at the Cross and Stake was more tongue in cheek, but then some take their toothy subjects more seriously than I do.:):):):)
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[> I want the hat. -- Deeva, 23:37:56 02/03/02 Sun
Amy would be the one to watch. Wonder when she'll stumble across Jonathan? She could be the catalyst to the geeksters, making them more ambitious in their plans. Well, maybe ambitious is not quite the right word but something along that line.
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[> [> Re: I want the hat. -- ponygirl, 10:50:15 02/04/02 Mon
I seem to recall an episode last season where Willow mentioned an attempted de-ratting spell that she had cast that seemed to make Amy really smart. She said something about how it looked like the rat was plotting something.

Oh yes, lovely review OnM. DMP seems to be one of those episodes that gets better (and more depressing) after a couple viewings and a few good thinks.
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[> Re: *Ersatz Brothers Coffee - It's the Real Thing!!* -- LadyStarlight, 07:34:26 02/04/02 Mon
Great post, OnM. I have to say that, even after 2 viewings, I'm not a huge fan of DMP. Maybe the 3rd time's the charm.

On a related subject, I read a book titled Fast Food Nation by Eric Schlosser this weekend. It's a socio-economic study of the rise of the fast food conglomerates. Fascinating reading, and it's making me think twice about visiting any fast food chain.

Trivia question for you: I was watching Sugar and Spice last night. (sue me, I was waiting for a painkiller to kick in) And I could have sworn that the actor who plays Warren was playing yet another geek. A/V this time, rather than computers, but still geeky. Was I right? Or was it the painkiller? Inquiring minds want to know.....
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[> [> Yep. -- Deeva, 09:26:17 02/04/02 Mon
That was indeed Adam Busch as te Geeky Guy. Pain killers? The movie was tat bad that you needed pain killers? I'll remeber that should I be faced with watching this movie.
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[> [> [> Re: Yep. -- LadyStarlight, 09:53:06 02/04/02 Mon
Didn't need painkillers to watch the movie. Was just waiting for my killer headache to be knocked out before going beddy-bye.

For a high-school movie, it wasn't that bad. Glad I didn't pay actual money to see it, tho. ;)
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[> [> FFN-good read! who'da thought half the flavors we taste are manufactured right off the NJ turnpike? -- yuri, 15:13:22 02/04/02 Mon
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[> Re: Amy's and Spike's intentions -- leslie, 12:06:29 02/04/02 Mon
" Amy always seems to be 'borrowing' something or other from the others around her;
this week it was some 'detergent and stuff' from Willow at the end of the show. "

Another point for the good witch/bad witch dichotomy. In contrast to Wiccans, whose witchcraft is a religion, in folk belief, what witches do is they screw up the fertility and prosperity of others. (Mostly, they make men impotent and prevent cows from producing milk.) How do they do this? By borrowing things from the person they want to curse, so that they have something of theirs to work the magic on. (Which was precisely what Amy's mom was doing when they first reared their witchy heads oh so long ago.) So, is it a coincidence that Buffy's propserity has been plummeting since Amy's return to the Land of the Two-Legged and Furless?

As for Spike's offer to get money for Buffy--how? I had always assumed that vampires acquired cash by simply lifting the wallets of those upon whom they had fed--certainly Spike seems to experience a cash flow problem as soon as he gets the chip in his head. And the advantage of stealing from the dead is that they can't pick you out of a police line-up. Does Spike have some cunning new plan for knocking over banks without causing any kind of violence or harm to human beings that he intends to implement? Or is he planning to support the Summers girls on royalties from his poetry?
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How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Hauptman, 15:33:19 02/05/02 Tue

Just a quick question that may help me understand why I can't seem to turn people on to these shows (see B/A Snob posting below).

Did you discover Buffy on your own or did someone turn you on to it? What did you first think? Were you instantly hooked? What was the first ep you saw and what was the first ep you HAD to see (i.e. the next one or several eps later)?

Oh, and just to confess something, I didn't get on board until Faith had become a baddy. Prior to that I didn't want to watch the show because the movie had disapointed me so badly and I thought the WB was all Dawson Creek all the time, no matter what the title.

It was the language that caught me. I heard Buffy say something as I was flipping channels and I had to go back. "What did she just say?" I thought. I went back to see Giles plunging a foil into Mayor Wilkins' chest, which he promptly removed and wiped off and I thought, "What the hell is going on here?"

Yes, I was a Buffy-basher. What can I say? But that still doesn't explain the resistance I still run into about the show.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: BUFFY BEAT ALLY -- Rachel, 15:43:54 02/05/02 Tue
FX advertised that it was going to show BtVS and Ally McBeal, from the first episodes, in syndication. I had never seen either show. My VCR cranked them out faithfully but after two weeks I de-programmed Ally from the VCR...I was an exclusive BtVS fan. Then I found this board and now my life is complete!

I don't know how I missed out on Buffy prior to FX syndication, but I suspect it was the title of the show. Watching it from the beginning, though, has changed my life...Not to get all drama queen here, but I even took up kickboxing because I was so impressed with Buffy's moves. True confession!
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Robert, 15:49:47 02/05/02 Tue
Hauptman, I knew this was a show to watch the moment I heard advertisements before "Welcome to the Hellmouth" first aired. The title was so bent, I had to check it out. I was immediately astounded by it.

I spent the next two or three years trying to hide my weird tastes from the wife, before deciding to coopt her into watching the series. As I've written here before, I've always admired tough women, and they don't come much tougher than my wife.

I tried to turn by youngest brother (BA degree in English Literature) onto the show. I figured he would get a kick out of it from all the cultural and literary references. He would have none of it. He prefers shows such as "Thieves" or "Enterprise".
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- neaux, 15:58:49 02/05/02 Tue
I'm a dork who sees any vampire movies in the theater.. so I saw BTVS way back in the day with Luke Perry and Kristy Swanson..

I made sure to watch the first episode on tv too.. c'mon who doesnt like vampires??
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[> [> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- sl, 16:04:36 02/05/02 Tue
I saw the movie and it sucked. I just happened to be turing chanels when I caught buffy being killed by the master. Before then I had not known about the show. I've been watching reliously ever since. I've been lurking on this board for a long time as well- still do- post everyy once in a whiele, when it seems less intimidating.
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[> [> [> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- LeeAnn, 16:50:31 02/05/02 Tue
Tried to watch Buffy over the years but could never get into it then one day I was flipping through the channels and stopped at...Spike. The end of Fool for Love. The shotgun. The look. The pat. I couldn't tell what was going on but I was intrigued. I started taping it. Wrecked. The morning after. Hooked. Terribly.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Anne, 16:05:50 02/05/02 Tue
I watched my first Buffy episode some time about a year ago after reading a really rave review in the New York Times. I was utterly disappointed at that time. I have not the least memory of which episode I saw, but it seemed to me to be a pretty middle-of-the-road teeny coming-of-age show with vampire makeup substituting for imagination.

I didn't get into Buffy until last fall, kind of by accident. This is a bit embarassing to admit but I generally like to have the TV on between 6 and 8, rerun time, and for a couple of years I have happily caught up on years of ER, Mash, Law and Order, and NYPD Blue that way. There came a point at which they took ER off, and I had seen every episode of the other ones so many times that even I couldn't stand it any more. So I tried turning Buffy on, paid very little attention for weeks, but looked up at the screen from whatever else I was doing every once in a while. I slowly started to notice some things interesting me. Probably the first and principal one was Spike, whom I thought to be an interesting type and certainly not fitting in with my preconceptions of standard teeny show. But I can also remember the first comic line that caught my attention -- by no means the best in the show, but enough to stop me in my tracks and make me decide I should start paying attention. It was probably third season and is the time that Xander, desperate to find some gimmick to get attention from girls, is talking to Oz, and asks him if it's difficult to play guitar. "Not the way I play it," says Oz with typical deadpan delivery.

Unfortunately I didn't get it that I was hooked until early December, by which time I'd managed to miss all of the 6th Season first run programs and an awful lot of the reruns. But I've been catching up.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Dichotomy, 16:28:41 02/05/02 Tue
About two years ago, I was having lunch with a friend I don't see very often. She suggested that I watch BtVS. I had never watched it up to that point because although I saw the movie and was mildly amused, I thought the TV version would be more of the same or maybe "90210" with fangs. But since this friend is really smart and cool, we share similar taste in some things, and she had turned me on to some great music, movies and books in the past, I gave it a shot. (BTW, this friend also tried to get me to read Joseph Campbell years ago, but it took this board to get me to do that!)

I watched "Earshot" during summer reruns and watched every episode I could after that, even acquiring and squinting through badly taped eps so I could catch up on everything. And I am happy to report I have now seen every episode, including the 20-minute pilot with Wrong Willow and vamps that turn into a pile of flour! Love this show!
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Masquerade, 16:48:39 02/05/02 Tue
From the beginning, WTTH/The Harvest. I saw an add in a sci-fi/fantasy mag for it a week or two before, otherwise I wouldn't have known to tune in. But I did and I was eager for "The Harvest" right after seeing "WTTH". I remember I flew out of town after those eps for a job interview and was so glad they were rerunning the eps on the out-of-town WB station so I could watch them in my hotel room! I was already hooked.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Apophis, 18:20:14 02/05/02 Tue
I, too, was once a non-believer, an infidel. I mocked the show for having a stupid name and for being a "teen" show, despite my never having watched it. Then, one summer evening, I was flipping through the channels and, as I found nothing to my satisfaction, settled on the WB for white noise while I read comics. I occasionally looked up at the TV and eventually found myself paying rapt attention. I was enthralled by the story of a demonic robot trying to corrupt a young red-headed girl over the internet and her friends' attempt to save her. I was forever after hooked, though I didn't become a "regular" (obsessive) viewer until season 5 due to poor reception.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Liz, 18:27:52 02/05/02 Tue
I saw the movie about four years ago and I liked it. I'm one of the few people I know who likes both the movie and the show--possibly because I was hooked on its core premise, the girl who normally would be toast gets to be powerful. But my friends who turned me on to the movie said that the show was bad. So I never saw it.

Then I saw _Cruel Intentions_ and I was hooked on Sarah Michelle Gellar. I just thought she was extraordinary. I started watching in the beginning of 4th season and I was quickly hooked on the humor (I think the deciding moment was the halloween episode where Willow show up as Joan d'Arc, who had that close relationship with God, and Oz reveals that his costume: a sticker nametag "Hello my name is GOD"). I'm not sure when I got completely hooked on the plot, but it was before Maggie died. I was hooked by "Hush", I know that.

What I'm trying to figure out is how to reel in other people. I've told some people how much I like the show but I hesitate to recommend that they leap right in and watch current episodes. I'm not sure they would make sense. I'm trying to think of selections I can show them to get them hooked and make them want to watch it all from the beginning. But this is somewhat difficult. I'm honestly not sure why I like the show so much. I haven't quite figured it out.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- agent156, 19:05:14 02/05/02 Tue
I came across Buffy a couple years ago just flipping through the channels. It was in the third season, and I believe the ep was Revelations. I don't know what got me to stay on the channel, but for some reason I did and it was interesting. I watched a few more eps and liked them all too. But then I went off to college and stopped watching (along with a lot of other tv).

It wasn't until I happened to notice an episode of it on FX playing sometime last year and recognized it that I started watching again. And this time nothing's gonna get me to stop watching it.

From reading the previous posts, it seems most people who didn't just start watching it from the beginning have gotten into Buffy by stopping on it while channel surfing. Perhaps that is the reason it is so hard to convince people to watch. With Buffy seeing truly is believing. You can try to explain to someone as much as you want about the greatness of the show, but only watching can really make them understand.

And then there are just those strange people that don't like a well written thought provoking show. *cough*freaks*cough* Excuse me.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Valhalla, 21:02:24 02/05/02 Tue
I also didn't watch at first bc of the movie. Then I happened to catch 2d season repeats, and got hooked on the clever writing and the monsters as high school metaphors. It took two whole episodes to catch me completely.

I've been telling people to start watching the reruns on Fox on the weekends (are those shown all over, or are they local). It's hard to catch up on all the drama at this point.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Marie, 02:41:49 02/06/02 Wed
My son had been watching a video. When I stopped it to rewind, the TV channel happened to be on BBC2, which was showing BtVS at 6:45 p.m., and which I'd always ignored in the TV listings ("Buffy the Vampire Slayer"? Come on!). So, anyway, the Nasty Man was clubbing the girl in the basement, in "Nightmares", and I was sooo taken aback! What's this? I thought... Isn't this a kids' show? Anyway, carried on tidying up, and not paying much attention. Looked up, saw the Master taunting Buffy in the graveyard, and the rest is history. Bought the box-sets, wearing the tee!

Marie
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- bienbizare, 06:02:05 02/06/02 Wed
Jan 2001 I got a new roomie and she watched the show. I didn't watch it for a while (b/c I already watch too much tv and I thought the show sounded odd). I had heard the raves from the faithful, but I didn't really believe it. I had one night on a whim turned it on a couple years ago (the ep where Angel drinks Buffy). Obviously, I didn't get it, cause you can't just start watching Buffy from the middle and enjoy it totally right away. Anyway, as the whole Glory thing was coming to a head I started watching Buffy and Angel, and over the next few episodes liked it. I didn't become totally hooked and obsessed however, until FX started showing the reruns. I definitely think you have to know the whole backstory to really enjoy/love the show.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- verdantheart, 06:20:36 02/06/02 Wed
I've mentioned this before, but for the record:

I tried single episodes in the first 3 seasons, probably 2 or 3, but it didn't hook me (probably because they included Killed by Death and Band Candy). Sometime during season 4, I decided to give it a few episodes on the strength of the strong reviews it was getting in Entertainment Weekly--since I generally agreed with the reviewers there.

After watching for several weeks, I was hooked (in spite of the fact that it was entering rerun season and it seemed like they wanted to run Living Conditions repeatedly). I'm not sure exactly what hooked me. I guess it was Adam's apocalypse and that I was intrigued by Spike's ambiguity during the end of that season.

Of course there are things I would have enjoyed more if I had the history (such as Willow/Oz or pre-chip Spike, for example), but there was plenty to keep me entertained.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Nevermore, 06:38:15 02/06/02 Wed
I thought it was for kids because of the title (And shock horror - I guessed it was something like Friends or Frasier or even Bewitched!) - so so I steered clear of it. Then we had to do a language study on a TV program in Dec 2001 so my friends gave me the series 1 Boxset to watch.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- OnM, 07:16:13 02/06/02 Wed
This is in my poster profile, but to recap:

I saw the movie, and liked it. I understand why Joss dislikes it, but my perspective is different.

I love movies because of the many possible levels they can employ in telling a story, and their apt use of visual/sonic metaphors on occasion. To me, saying that something is 'cinematic' is a high compliment, and BtVS is unquestionably 'cinematic', even thought it uses the medium of TV for it's message. I also love good writing, I've been reading SF and fantasy works since I was 7 or 8 years old (I'm 48 currently).

When the debut of the TV show was announced, my suspicions were that it would be worse than the movie, that the concept would not translate well, or that it would become boring after a few eps and peter out.

I tuned in anyway, willing to give it a chance.

At the end of the show, I absolutely, unequivocally had to see the next one. And so on, and so on, and so on.

Since that first season, I have commented to a number of people that BtVS was/is 'the best show on television'. Nearly all of them have ignored me and do not watch it. This does not bother me, I figure it's their loss.

About a year and a half ago, I finally got a computer with internet access, and one of the first things I got search engines to do was to look for Buffy websites. After a day or two of general meandering I found ATPo, and was stunned to find that I wasn't this 'freak' who was somehow seeing all these different levels of meaning and use of metaphor in the show.

Thus endeth/beginneth the journey.

:)
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- yabyumpan, 07:20:21 02/06/02 Wed
I've always liked anything sci/fi or fantasy and the BBC in UK has a spot between 6pm-7:30pm where they show "cult tv" stuff so I was already pre-programed to watch at that time anyway, I missed the first ep for some reason but became totally hooked the next week. I like anything that questions our perceptions of "reality" or takes "reality" and turns it on it's head. Also loved the characters, dialogue, language etc. The whole monster/fighting thing doesn't really do anything for me except where it makes the characters/us ask questions about themselves/ourselves. I love to be challenged and BtVS and AtS does this for me.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Shaglio, 07:50:13 02/06/02 Wed
Sadly enough, I started watching felicity when it first aired back in 1998 because I was drawn to the beauty of Keri Russell. Felicity was on in the 9:00 slot and Buffy was before it in the 8:00 slot. I had nothing else to watch at 8:00 on a wednesday, so I popped on WB an hour early figuring, "how bad could this Buffy show be anyway?" It was then that saw the most beautiful girl in the world and it sparked a memory from 2 years before of my cousin telling me I should watch Buffy because there was a redhead on it and he knew how obsessed I was with pelirojas (would that be tete rouge in French?). Needless to say I got hooked on Buffy and haven't watched Felicity since. I was saved!
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Sophist, 10:18:01 02/06/02 Wed
My daughter saw the previews for WTTH and wanted to watch it. I wasn't sure about the show being appropriate for her (she was 8) and watched with her.

While I've loved the show from the beginning, and never missed an ep, I get so much more out of it from reading the posts here.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Darby, 10:53:20 02/06/02 Wed
Well, this is embarrassing...

I don't remember! I know that it was during the first season, in reruns I'm pretty sure, and it was The Witch, but I can't for the life of me remember the circumstances. I do know that it's the type of show that I will try (still trying to decide what I think of Glory Days).

But you're getting such nice widespread response, I figured I'd chime in.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- VampRiley, 12:03:55 02/06/02 Wed
I was alone one night. Bored. Flipping through the channels looking for something to help past the time. I couldn't even find anything on the premium channels. So as I'm flipping, I see the scene where Oz is talking to Debbie out side of the school in Beauty and the Beast. And after seeing Pete, I flipped again, thinking the guy's jealous. Later, I saw bits and pieces of Band Candy flipping through the channels again when it first aired. The night Revelations aired, I sat through the whole thing. I saw the scene where Gwendolyn Post put the glove on and the fight that ensued and was like "Wo." I actually moved forward on my bed, smiling, much like Gunn did when he saw the ballet. I was hooked right then and there.


VR
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[> [> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- leslie, 12:21:17 02/06/02 Wed
I started watching the series at the very beginning, the first season and at least part of the second (I know I saw the entrance of Spike and Drusilla but had wandered off before the climax of that arc), and I think I drifted away when the day/time was changed for some reason. Saw a couple of episodes sporadically. Then, was it two years ago? I was flipping channels and stopped on the scene where Spike tries to bite Willow and discovers the Power of the Chip. The whole inability-to-bite-as-impotence metaphor had me rolling on the floor, and I thought "I really must watch this thing more regularly." Now completely addicted.

I have a PhD in Folklore and Mythology and there are several of my colleagues (both grad students and professors) who are also addicted. I think it is that, as Claude Levi-Strauss said in another context, Buffy is "good to think with." Or as I like to say: "Buffy the Vampire Slayer--tastes just like folklore, but with only half the motif numbers!" (This is very funny if you are a folklorist--otherwise, feel free to go "huh?")
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- matching mole, 12:38:56 02/06/02 Wed
Unlike a lot of the other respondents I was initially attracted to it solely by the title which sounded like a promising possibility for satire. I remember seeing an ad on the side of a bus in Chicago for the movie and thinking 'I should go see that'. The film was OK but not quite what I'd hoped for.

I had no intentions of watching the series but I was home by myself and bored the night of the premiere and so I ended up watching the first half and a bit (i.e. WTTM and part of the Harvest) before my wife and house guest came home. Was intrigued enough to watch sporadically after that and got my wife hooked. We saw about half of the first season when the episodes were first shown and all the rest (except Never Kill a Boy...) in summer reruns. Have seen every episode since on its original broadcast (or shortly thereafter on tape).
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Mystery, 12:56:55 02/06/02 Wed
I had seen the movie and was very sceptical of the TV show. I didn't really follow it, turning it on every so often when there was commercials on the other TV shows I would watch.
Then I saw "Becoming II." I watched that spectacular fight against Angel (by then I had seen enough to know that she loved him but he was a vampire. I didn't catch him turn evil but *shrug*). I watched the acting when he was restored and she killed him anyways, and started crying. Then I watched her leave town to that achingly sad song, while everyone worried about her, and cried more.
Then I decided to watch the 3rd season when I could. I caught a few but not much since I was in college and hardly watched TV then. I heard the big hub-bub over "Graduation" and was intrigued. Watched the fourth season, again when I remembered too (college, the most powerful time-distortion demon ever. My brother missed the breakup of the USSR and the fall of the Berlin wall when he was in college). Then came home became a 9 to 5-er and have been full hooked since. It and Farscape are constantly battling it out for my favorite show. Never really got into Angel. Don't know why.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Scroll, 14:37:15 02/06/02 Wed
My younger sister wanted to watch this new teen show called Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and I was like, "A show about vampires? That's dumb." But I watched WttH/Harvest with her and kinda liked them, watched S1 off and on, saw Bad Girls when S2 began, and have been hooked ever since. I loved the Buffy/Angel arc, loved Faith as the bad girl, love her now as a good girl, love the Angel spin-off, and worship Tara as the sweetest girl ever.

It's frustrating that none of my friends appreciate the wit and insight of Buffy, and pretty much mock me for liking it. I've tried converting one of my less judgmental friends but she's still wary of it. Thank God for AtPoBtVS!
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Sebastian, 14:46:56 02/06/02 Wed
i was in the airport for a flight to san francisco, when i realized i needed a magazine for the trip. i picked up that 'entertainment weekly' (you know the one - the one *devoted* to the entire show.).

the entire plane ride i was entranced by the character summaries, plot synopsis and the overwhelming feeling i was missing out on a *really* good show.

because i was still in college at the time, i only watched S4 sporidically, but was able to catch the some of the 'classic' S4 eps ('something blue', 'hush', 'this year's girl', 'who are you?', 'the yoko factor', 'primeval', and 'restless'). by summer i had bought the box sets.

by the start of S5 i was taping the shows religiously and, to my friends' utter dismay, bringing up the show as often as possible in conversation.

and then last year this time, i found this deeply intelligent board that helps deepen my understanding of the show.

so that's my story.... ;-P

- S
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Wisewoman, 19:59:46 02/06/02 Wed
I was one of the few human being in existence who actually enjoyed BtVS the Movie. That's why I wanted to see what they'd do with it as a weekly show. I was hooked from the beginning because of Giles (eye candy in my age range, I admit it) but quickly became enamoured of the excellent writing, and the talent of all the regular cast members.

I've managed to turn at least two of my friends on to Buffy, and I have two other women at work who are addicted as well, so I'm not alone in my obsession. Can't seem to get the SO to watch regularly, though...he still thinks it's just for kids. AAaaaarrrrrggggghhhhhh!

;o)
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[> LIKED the Movie -- Eric, 20:48:09 02/06/02 Wed
I saw the movie and liked it a lot. Kristy Swanson was/is a babe. Yeah it was campy and hasn't aged well. But I wasn't far out of high school myself, and something clicked. When the show came out I was actually turned off. It was nothing but beautiful people. To me it seemed kind of artificial, like Dawson's Creek. But SMG is a babe, so I occasionally watched it. I was impressed early on with the photography and lighting quality, which is and remains outstanding. Of course I found out most of the beautiful people could ACT - some of them really well. And it got better and better, with the stories hitting every note I knew about adolescence. When Buffy went berserk in the season 2 opener, it was over. I am not exaggerating when I say I was awed.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Millan, 06:12:23 02/07/02 Thu
I saw the movie long time ago.
I found it funny and worth watching but slightly unfulfilling. Light fluff with a hint of silly and dorky.

I heard about there being series (this was way before it came to Sweden) and just wrinkled my nose. A series based on a GOOD movie is a hazardous bet at best - a series based on a half-way silly movie can't be anything to see, right?

But I kept seing references to the series that were almost uniformly positive and slowly became a little bit curious.

Then one day my SO came home with the first box-set and said that we at least had to see what the deal was.

We were hooked from the very first moment.
After the credits in WTTH we just looked at each other, big smiles on our faces and we kept on looking - haven't stopped since. :)

/Millan

"Seize the moment, 'cause tomorrow you might be dead."
- Buffy, 'Welcome to the Hellmouth'
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Kimberly, 15:51:24 02/07/02 Thu
Didn't see the movie; thought it looked and sounded dumb. I had no intention of watching the show; I thought it looked and sounded dumb. However, there was nothing else at all interesting on TV that night and Edward flipped. Our channel rebroadcast that Saturday, so I have been able to tape all the episodes, but we were hooked from the word "Go".

And dub-dub, I agree, MMMMMM. Giles. MMMMM.
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[> Re: How did you discover Buffy/Angel: a poll -- Isabel, 16:15:46 02/07/02 Thu
I had seen and liked the movie, but didn't think it would translate well to TV. (I thought Paul Ruebens stole the show.) When the show came out it was also only available on a cable channel that I couldn't get. I wasn't going to be able to watch it anyway, so I didn't sweat about it.

Then I started dating a guy who had a dish and a 'thang' for Faith. He had missed the 'Wish' episode and kept screwing up the VCR everytime it reran so he was frantically going through all of his back tapes of unwatched episodes hoping he had gotten it. He hadn't. But he got me to sit and watch 'Killed by Death.' I was unimpressed. Eyes rolling, 'The Slayer's dating a VAMPIRE? How cliche. Who's trying to kill her? The boyfriend's gone evil, has he? Imagine.' :) I did not make it easy for him. I couldn't tell Angel from Xander so I was real confused. Then he made me watch 'Lover's Walk' and Spike had me rolling on the floor. I was hooked.

(My ex-boyfriend had to wait for the FX reruns to finally get to see 'The Wish.' And he screwed up the VCR again trying to tape it so I let him get a copy off of mine. No, I handled the operation myself and only laughed at him a little.) :)
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Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Wisewoman, 18:59:42 02/05/02 Tue

Anyone who knows me from this forum knows I am a HUGE B/S shipper...always have been. I'd love nothing better than to see them together permanently, but I can't continue to blind myself to what the storyline is telling me. I don't think I'm over-reacting to the darkness in Dead Things. I think I've known this was coming for quite a while, and it doesn't mean that things between Buffy and Spike might not resurface later in another form, but for now...

Think about the point where Buffy really broke down in tonight's ep...it wasn't when Tara asked if she loved Spike, it was when Tara implied that she might be using him (at least, that was Buffy's interpretation), and that that would be okay. Well, obviously it wouldn't be okay, not for Buffy. She didn't want Tara to forgive her for that, and she's not going to be able to forgive herself for it.

Buffy's been pretty out-of-it since she was resurrected, and with good reason. Just not the reason she was hoping for. If she'd come back "wrong," in some way, it might be okay for her to go on using Spike. She might be able to justify it by her wrongness allowing her a different moral code or standard than she held to before she died. Now she knows there's no different standard for her to fall back on, that she's the same person she always was. That person might have hated Spike, staked him, depended on him, trusted him, abused him, but she would never have used him as a sex toy. Not because she didn't love him, but because she knew he loved her.

I think I got all caught up in the "sex is healthy, it's fun, Buffy deserves to have a passionate sex life" aspect of her relationship with Spike, and just ignored the whole emotional aspect of it. Buffy Summers is not the kind of woman who would use someone who loved her for sex. She's tried two ways to justify her affair with Spike. She's tried to deny that he loves her, that he's even capable of love, so that she could feel that they were just using each other. And she's tried to convince herself that the reason she's behaving this way is because she came back wrong.

Both of those justifications have just been yanked away. The scene of Buffy beating Spike in the alley outside the police station is every bit as illuminating as Buffy learning from Tara that there's nothing wrong with her.

That fight wasn't about Buffy turning herself in...it was about Spike saying he'd tried not to love her, and her insisting that he should have tried harder. She was beating him to warn him away, to save him from himself and from her, to convince him that there was no point in loving her, that she'd never be "his girl." Because if she can't convince him to stop loving her, then she has to accept that his love is real, and then accept that she's taking advantage of that every time they have sex. And she failed. Even lying there beaten to a bleeding pulp, Spike still tried to make it all about love. Justification number one went down in flames, followed closely thereafter by Tara's revelation and the loss of justification number two.

It's really difficult for me to accept this, but at this point I no longer think that Buffy is denying her feelings for Spike. I really believe that she doesn't love him, and that's what's tearing her apart, and drowning her in guilt.

Having said that, I still hold out hope that this is just a particular phase in what will eventually prove to be a much more complicated relationship (if that's possible, lol!). Part of growing up is learning that you're capable of behaving shabbily, of taking advantage of and hurting others, and deliberately deciding not to. Buffy may have hurt people emotionally before (Xander, Giles, Joyce?) but it was never deliberate. If she doesn't stop the affair with Spike now, then she is guilty of deliberately taking advantage of his emotions. I just don't think she can do that.

Of course, everything changes if and when she ever does come to really love Spike...

;o)
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Tillow, 21:09:45 02/05/02 Tue
WW,

I'm wavering in my faith in the B/S relationship right now too but what do you think about the fact that when Buffy is back with the Scooby's, Willow prompts her about Warren, How do you know? and she brings Spikes line back in... You always hurt the one you love.

My thinking was that not only did her tone imply she had learned that 'lesson' from Spike, but she felt regret for hurting him, whether it be by taking advantage of his feelings for her or the beating. Either way, it seemed like reason for hope. What did you think?

Tillow
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[> [> Re: There's *always* hope! ;o) -- WW, 21:25:07 02/05/02 Tue
Hi Tillow--

As I said, I do still have hope for Buffy and Spike in the long-run, but for right now I don't believe she loves him, and I think her guilt over the way she's been behaving means that the only right thing for her to do is stop "seeing" Spike (and stop using him).

I think she did regret beating Spike, and hurting him emotionally. I guess I'm hung up on my impression of Buffy as basically a "good" person who, when she realizes she's hurting someone, stops doing it. That would mean that she both stops beating on Spike, and stops sleeping with him.

But, hey, there's the whole rest of this season, and all of Season 7 for the girl to come to her senses and fall in love...

;o)
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[> [> yeah, that line threw me back over after feeling more like WW does -- yuri, 23:36:39 02/05/02 Tue
and wouldn't Buffy rather choose to be guilty for using Spike than come out and love him already? (To clarify, I'm not any sort of devoted S/B shipper, though the possiblity intrigues me. I will find it equally intriguing, and heart-wrenching, actually, to go down the guilt, no-love path, if that is ME has in store. SMG's performance at the end ensured that to me.)
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Grace, 21:17:48 02/05/02 Tue
I think Buffy's remorse over "using" Spike is first time she actually showed him some genuine affection. She knows he deserves better. I predict that they will back off the sex and start working on being friends. Maybe this time next season--there will be love in the air. (Hey, a girl is entitled to her dreams you know!)
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[> [> Re: Hah! Grace, we have the same dreams... ;o) -- WW, 21:27:59 02/05/02 Tue
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[> [> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- LeeAnn, 22:13:06 02/06/02 Wed
You mean....
NO MORE SPUFFY SEX THIS SEASON?

Hey, they're not the only ones addicted.
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Dariel, 22:27:17 02/05/02 Tue
Your points are good, but I don't think it's all one way or the other. After all, this is Buffy. It would be just like her to convince herself that all she's doing is using Spike. Better to feel guilty about that than admit to feeling something for him. Only thing worse than boinking the evil undead is falling for the evil undead!

And she does show signs of feeling something--she's almost sweet to him in their rug scene. In the scene at his crypt, with each of them on one side of the door, she seems to be longing for much more than sex. When she walks away, she chants "Don't think about the evil bloodsucking fiend" like a mantra. Here, she has to remind herself not to think of him as a person, or who knows what could happen.

Is she using him? Sure. But why Spike, and why, as she tells Tara, does she keep "letting him in?" Why can't she stay away, if it's only sex?

(Sorry, this is not very clear. Neither is my brain. I watched this week's Angel right before Buffy--definite overload!)
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[> "You always hurt the ones you love." -- Traveler, 22:29:18 02/05/02 Tue
Spike had some really important one-liners in this episode. I'll talk about some of the others after I've seen the episode again, but I wanted to go ahead and touch on his brief scene with Buffy near the end.

First of all, I'm amazed that people haven't commented more about this scene. In a strange way, Spike was a kind of Matyr. It wasn't just Buffy beating on Spike as a symbol of her own "inner demon." He was actively inviting her to take out all her hurt and anger out on him, as shown when he said "put it all on me." He assumed that once she got it out of her system, she wouldn't want to go to the police anymore. In other words, if he became the "bad guy" again, maybe she would forgive herself. He's even able to joke ironically, "you always hurt the ones you love." I say ironically, because she had as much as told him that she didn't love him, and barely even liked him. But his ploy failed, with him feebly reaching out to her as she strode toward the police station.

However, taken out of context, it is really interesting that he was the one who spoke these words. Despite the fact that he seems to get off on the pain Buffy inflicts on him, I still don't believe that Spike truly likes pain. I would argue that it is really the only way he knows how to express his love. As has been mentioned in previous posts, Drusilla was probably his first and most influential tutor in love and sex, and she was incredibly sado-masochistic. Rather than counterbalance the lessons Spike learned from Drusilla, Buffy reinforces them at every opportunity. In fact, she hurts Spike even more than Drusilla did. So from Spike's prespective, the quote might be, "we let the ones we love hurt us, to show them that we love them."

Oh, one small ray of light that I saw for S/B shippers in this episode: the scene were Buffy and Spike both put their hands on opposite sides of the door was incredibly romantic. It suggest that if they could just find a way to open that door (whatever it represents), things could work out for them.
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[> [> Re: "You always hurt the ones you love." -- MrDave, 22:47:10 02/05/02 Tue
...the scene were Buffy and Spike both put their hands on opposite sides of the door was incredibly romantic. It suggest that if they could just find a way to open that door (whatever it represents), things could work out for them.

It WAS romantic. And tragic at the same time. The door is a barrier to any true relationship they could have. Either one of them could remove the barrier. It is just a door after all. But what happens when Buffy opens it?
Inside she finds Spike. He is rattling around in his grave. He is in the darkness (where she is in the night...illuminated by the moon). She would have to not only confront him...deal with him (or her feelings for him) but she would have to enter his darkness.

If Spike opens the door (and he does) he finds she is running away from him. He enters the Night (light), and seeks her out, only to find her duty has absorbed her. He cannot stay out in the night...because the sun is always coming...he must retreat back into the darkness each morning.

The door does not block what they feel for each other. It is transparent to their emotions...her doubts, and his obsession. It doesn't hide them. They both know the other is just on the other side. What it does is offer a place for them to reflect...alone...on why they don't want to remove the barrier.

Just my observations. Thought I'd share.
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[> [> [> His & her darkness -- Dyna, 09:46:30 02/06/02 Wed
"It WAS romantic. And tragic at the same time. The door is a barrier to any true relationship they could have. Either one of them could remove the barrier. It is just a door after all. But what happens when Buffy opens it? Inside she finds Spike. He is rattling around in his grave. He is in the darkness (where she is in the night...illuminated by the moon). She would have to not only confront him...deal with him (or her feelings for him) but she would have to enter his darkness."

I was very struck by the darkness in this scene, but in the opposite way that you were, Mr Dave. Buffy is outside, in the blue darkness of the cemetary. She's bundled up, implying that it's cold out there--she's even wearing gloves. Inside Spike's crypt, it's dark too, but the quality of the darkness is entirely different. All those candles cast a warm reddish light, suggesting comfort, light in the darkness. And he's in there with his shirt open, not bundled up against the environment but exposed, comfortable. Buffy doesn't have to "enter his darkness"--she's in the dark already, and she never even crosses his threshold! And I think the case can be made that at the moment her darkness--symbolized by the cold blue light of the cemetary--is colder and more lonely than his.

For me this scene was rich in both romance and symbolism--the closed door, the striking contrast between the warm and cool lights, her black hand and his white hand against the door. When he steps out into the blue gloom of the cemetary, under-dressed for the cold, it seems he's the one entering her darkness, he's the one who's exposed and vulnerable. It's a startling reversal of our expectations, where we've been conditioned to think of Buffy as representing good and light, and Spike representing cold, impassive darkness. I wouldn't go so far as to say Spike is representing "good and light" here, but he's also not representing "the darkness within Buffy" here, either.
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[> [> [> [> another contrast -- anom, 22:59:00 02/06/02 Wed
"For me this scene was rich in both romance and symbolism--the closed door, the striking contrast between the warm and cool lights, her black hand and his white hand against the door."

The contrast that struck me most was between their expressions. They felt completely different things about being at that door & the other one's being on the other side of it.
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[> You just saved me a lot of typing (well maybe not that much) -- Liq, 23:00:23 02/05/02 Tue
Okay, forgive me ahead of time because I feel some serious rambling, incohesive thoughts and bad spelling coming on. Continuity of thought is obviously an issue for me too, but it's really Aquitaine, Wisewoman, dHerblay, Rufus, et. al's fault because they weren't around for me to rant on, and Anom, Malan and Charlie were being all logical.

I was actually considering coming out of "retirement" to write about Dead Things anyway, because there are so many ideas crashing around in my head after that ep. I've never really been a S/B shipper, but I love Spike's character probably more than just about anyone for this reason and that - but I really did not care much for him tonight.

The post-coital scene was cute, but all the crashing around that proceeded it? Well, okay, I'm not naive, but how is it that they were lying head-to-head afterward the final crash separately covered by different sections of the rug?

And more importantly... what make-up does Buffy use? Not a single mascara smear and the lip gloss was perfect. I need some of that. It would save so much time in the morning.

In all seriousness... why were we treated to this scene? Ok, Willow has been "straight" for what, 32 days so I guess we're to understand that Crypt!Sex is a normal occurence now. Fine. But then where did Bronze!Sex come from? Did Spike forget his medication? We went from playful, friendly bantering to darkness and shadows? Huh?

I made a comment earlier that I appreciate metaphor as much as the next person, but I am pretty tired of getting slammed between the eyes with two by fours.

Alright, I get it. He's evil.

Of course, I'm not sure that he is still "evil" but I do believe that he is still true to his inherent nature. The Bronze scene disturbed me greatly and not because of the sex. I don't care how many people want to convince me that Buffy enjoyed that moment, I'll never buy it. Her body reacted, but she was devestated by the moment and I despised Spike for it. (and most of you know where my feelings for Buffy usually run...)

I interpreted alot of the ep much differently than posts I have read. I agree with the connection during the "door" scene, but I also believe that Spike's smile when he realized she was outside had more than a touch of knowing that she cannot resist him in her present condition. That idea was sealed with his line about her trying to sneak away.

Dead Things was an excellent episode. Wonderfully acted and so full of continuity issues, I don't want to even get into it. The S/B scenes were all over the board and I need to think about what that really meant. I haven't decided whether I want to kiss Steve DeKnight or teach him storyboarding.

Anyone notice Katrina's comment to Warren as she rejected him? "What did you think was going to happen, that we would just.... " echoes of Wrecked.

The dream sequence - again, where to start? It seemed fairly clear except for Spike's line "It'll be our little secret" combined with Buffy's comment as she started whaling on him "It's just another body to you." The fact is, yes, that is all it was to him. Another body and someTHING to shove aside to take care of Buffy.

I've always spouted that Spike's redemption (if indeed it is even possible) will be contingent on a single human being that has nothing to do with Buffy, the Scoobs or Dawn. Even his actions of the summer were based on his promise to her and his affection for Dawn. The alley scene in Smashed with the girl would have only been important if he had been able to bite her and what his action would have lead to AFTERwards. Killing her or not. Feeling remorse. Or Not.

After Dead Things, I can only believe that Buffy does not love Spike. I see their relationship, especially on her end as being a clear case of obsession. Buffy is obsessed with the need to "feel" and the need for a connection which he provides her. I believe she cares for him in the rawest sense, but she still beat him senseless and left him. Consider this. If it had been closer to morning with a rising sun, Spike may have well been done for. He was seriously injured and Buffy walked over him and didn't look back.

Damn those wily ME writers. A good portion of the BtVS fandom is completely obsessed with the character who is Spike. Check out any message board, even the boards who abhor the S/B pairing. There is still an inordinate number of Spike postings. BC&S has even discussed a "Spike-free" day. Even our humble home-away-from-home ATPoBtVS have our very own Spike acronym: ATLtS

My position, of course *ahem* is the same as always. Just give me good story.
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[> [> Re: You just saved me a lot of typing (well maybe not that much) -- Rufus, 01:09:53 02/06/02 Wed
After Dead Things, I can only believe that Buffy does not love Spike. I see their relationship, especially on her end as being a clear case of obsession. Buffy is obsessed with the need to "feel" and the need for a connection which he provides her. I believe she cares for him in the rawest sense, but she still beat him senseless and left him. Consider this. If it had been closer to morning with a rising sun, Spike may have well been done for. He was seriously injured and Buffy walked over him and didn't look back.

Amazing sex a relationship does not make. It gets tired after awhile if the people involved aren't being honest with themselves or each other. Spike is Buffy's little secret, one that just may go away once it's in the open. She doesn't love him but has a connection that may only be sexual in nature. He did use her own fears to his advantage to hold onto her. Buffy fears the animal that is inside the one that rips and kills and does amazing things. She fears that part of herself that sets her apart from others. She's afraid she isn't human. She is but with an extra boost, a form of the stuff that made Riley so strong, his stength chemical in nature, Buffy's probably magical in nature. It's part of who she is and she can't take it off like a coat. Spike was right about needing a monster in her man, only a monster like he could take the punishment that she is capable of. She never let go with Riley, aware she could hurt him, withdrawn because her power is immense enough to trouble a real live boy. Part of Buffy's growing up is accepting every part of what and who she is, slayer, woman, human, animal. The truth she told to Tara has let the secret out of the bag, alieviated some of the fear, now she has to deal with the fact that she didn't come back wrong and whatever her feelings for Spike are, they came from the person Buffy was and is. Will she ever love him...don't know that love was the point of this storyline. Growing up is.
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[> [> [> "You always hurt the one you love" (spoilery speculation) -- Marie, 02:24:22 02/06/02 Wed
This is so interesting to read, folks! Can't wait to actually see this episode.

I just wanted to point out that ME throws in lines like this one for a purpose. They might seem throw-away at the time, but waaaaay down the line - KABOSH!

Think. Who said "You always hurt the one you love"? Spike. That's who. And who does he love? It's my opinion that ME wants us to think that it's Buffy who is going to hurt Spike, when really they're going to turn it around on us.

Oh, I see misery coming to Buffy. Maybe not right now. Maybe not this season. But come S7, and it's my guess that Spike's love will have turned to something else.

Marie
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[> [> Re: You just saved me a lot of typing (well maybe not that much) -- Cactus Watcher, 04:04:43 02/06/02 Wed
I hate to break the train of thought of Wisewoman's excellent post, but Liq's comment about Buffy's makeup made me do it. Did anyone else notice that Willow seems to have used her recovery period from 'magic abuse' to dramatically upgrade her wardrobe? Wow, she looked great in this ep and not just in one outfit! Buffy had some fine new duds, too. Double Meat Palace must really pay big bucks! ;o) The other thing I noticed was that Spike's eye was swollen shut in seconds. Pretty amazing, especially for someone with no pulse.(And believe me those were long seconds in this part of the country. Somebody threw the wrong switch and, at least we in Phoenix missed a good piece of the fight)
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Cactus Watcher, 04:47:49 02/06/02 Wed
WW, I wanted to respond to your great post last night, but about half-way through a long rambling discourse my brain frozen up, so I dumped it.

It seems to me that there are still issues to be settled as far as how 'right' Buffy is, at least mentally. She's clearly doing things with Spike she wouldn't have dreamed of doing before she died. Physically she may be her old self, but she certainly isn't emotionally.

Still there is a common thread with happened before in Buffy's life. She really has had nothing like a healthy relationship with anyone. She idolized Angel, but he really treated her like a child most of the time. He 'ran' the relationship, whether he was Angel or Angelus. For a long period Buffy never even saw him unless he was in the mood to see her. It didn't help matters that when she seemed dearest to him, she hurt him the most. Although, Joyce asked him to do it, it was Angel's decision and his alone to break it off.

Her relationship with Riley seemed fine, until it was revealed that she had no emotional commitment to him. He was, to put it bluntly, 'some guy' she slept with and nothing more. As soon as, she was distracted by her mother's illness, it was obvious Buffy thought of Riley as someone temporary, not someone to share her pain with. It was telling that when she discovered that Riley was as good as cheating on her, she was far more mad than she was hurt.

Now with Spike, it was difficult to see the exact problem, because it was always right in front of our faces. It became all too obvious in Dead Things. It is a relationship though Buffy didn't want to admit it. It's an abusive relationship. And Buffy is the chief abuser. It wasn't a coincidence that Buffy was punching Spike at the drop of a hat, even season. She enjoyed it. There is, of course, more than a hint of mutual masochism. Both of them seem to enjoy being hurt. The problem is that each of them is enjoying hurting the other. I think it's guilt over this sadism that finally making Buffy crack. Spike will never feel guilty the way Buffy did over Katrina's death. At the moment it's hard to see how anything good can come of Buffy's personal relationship with him.
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[> [> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Rattletrap, 05:44:40 02/06/02 Wed
I see kind of another level in the B/S relationship too. The scene in the alley behind the police station where she's sitting on him and beating on his face, I kept thinking that everything Buffy said directed at Spike was about equally directed at herself. She sees in Spike the very things she hates the most in herself; and the fact that she finds herself attracted to him makes it even more bitter.
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[> [> [> Wish I hadn't been unwillingly watching some stupid comedy at that moment! ;o) -- CW, 06:00:28 02/06/02 Wed
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[> [> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Scroll, 11:39:10 02/08/02 Fri
Just wanted to say that, although S1 Angel and really early S2 Angel often dropped by whenever he felt like it, I think Buffy really ran their relationship in S3. How many times did she break up with him? "I need space," "I'm with this ordinary guy, Scott Hope," "Tell me you don't love me." But then again, I'm an B/A shipper, still hanging on despite different networks.

But you're certainly right about Buffy not really having any healthy relationships to back her up. Her thing with Spike is the most obviously unhealthy of her relationships, and now that she knows there's nothing wrong with her, she can't accept the fact that she's the one "rolling in the dirt" of her own free will.
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- verdantheart, 06:11:49 02/06/02 Wed
Ok, I haven't read above yet, but here goes.

I don't think that Buffy knows yet whether she loves Spike or not. In (finally!) talking it over with Tara, she reasons that either she loves Spike--therefore, bad Buffy, loving an evil thing--or she's using him--therefore, bad Buffy, she's taking advantage of the feelings of someone who loves her. Either way, it's bad Buffy. So she begs Tara not to forgive her.

Notable in this conversation is the fact that Buffy does not contradict Tara when she says "[Spike] loves you." I think that Buffy's finally admitting that Spike does, in fact, love her--that's what the alley fight was about. If he didn't love her, then they might be using each other. That wouldn't be as bad. But since Spike loves Buffy, using him for release, gratification, to feel something, whatever, is very wrong. (And another example of the subversive quality of this series...)

Now to the fight. Yes, Spike stops defending himself and lets her beat him to a pulp. What I see is the demise of Buffy's denial. She pounds away at him, telling him that he is evil, has no soul, can't feel anything real, can't love, etc. Then she realizes what she is doing and that she doesn't want to do it (is it all remorse, or is there a glimmer of love there?). There is horror in her face, but is it that she is beating him up badly, or is there also a realization there? Spike allows her to demonstrate outwardly what she has been doing to him inwardly--hurt him, and badly at that. Buffy's conversation with Tara indicates that she may realize that.
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[> Re: Buffy and Spike ***SPOILERS for Dead Things*** -- Anne, 06:33:01 02/06/02 Wed
I also am a huge B/S 'shipper, and my first reaction to last night's episode was virtually identical to yours. But I went back and rewatched it and I now think that it left things, if anything, more ambiguous than ever with regard to how the relationship will ultimately turn out. In fact, what was brilliant to me about the episode was that it intensified the poles of love/revulsion that are creating the dramatic tension in the relationship, without, to me, coming down clearly on either side. On the one hand the beginnings of a conversation on the rug; the scene with the door; the image, mixed in with the dark images in the dream sequence, of Spike coming into bed with her in her own home and starting to make love to her in a much more tender way than we have seen in real life (contrast it with their "missing the bed again" in his crypt); her repetition of his phrase to her "you always hurt the one you love." On the other his attempt to pull her into the shadows away from her friends; her vicious beating of him; her response to Tara suggesting that her fear is that she is using him, not that she loves him.

Some of these events can be interpreted in more than one way, and I suspect deliberately so. Your interpretation of Buffy's beating of Spike outside the police station actually makes a lot of sense within your basic "Buffy really doesn't love Spike" theory. But I don't think it's the only possible interpretation. It's hard to believe that she would have been led to that degree of violence against him if all she was worried about was that she was using him. She has to see him as a threat, and I don't see why she would do that unless she was at least afraid that she might be in love with him. And all that "and I could never be your girl" stuff smacks a little of "methinks-she-doth-protest-too-much".

Also, though it is completely true that Buffy responds to Tara only when the latter mentions the possibility that she doesn't love Spike, I think her total emotional devastation at this point suggests something more than just horror that she is violating her principles. Ironically, the quality and magnitude of her fear and horror that she is using and hurting Spike because she is having sex with him without loving him, actually imply that at least in some way she does emotionally care about him.

As for the question "is it love?" -- I'm not sure the answer is likely to be any more black and white than the answer at this point to the question "is Spike evil?" (Clearly, both. But he's been on a journey for a while that has been moving him slowly from the dark towards the light. The question is where he's going, not where he is now). Whatever their relationship eventually proves to be, it seems still to be in that chaotic formative stage at which labels don't help very much.

But you're quite right that the next step in the dance is likely to be away, not towards. I don't think there's any way to go directly from here to a point at which Buffy is willing to openly feel or express love for Spike, even if (and it is an "if" at this point) she does so at some level. And as you note, that means she has to break it off because
she could never go on hurting someone that way once she had clearly admitted to herself what she is doing.

If they eventually come together, two things are going to have to happen first: they're going to have to go through a separation period that allows them to actually become friends; and Spike is going to have to become more integrated into the community of friends that surrounds Buffy. The most clearly evil and unacceptable thing Spike did in DM was not anything to do with sex per se, but the attempt to separate Buffy from her friends, bringing her into the shadows.

PS: For some reason I actually think the door sequence was promising with regard to portents for the future of the B/S relationship, but durned if I can explain why. One thing I will say, though: remember that post from a couple of weeks ago complaining that there are some people who would be interested in a Spike interaction even if it was just with a blender? Well, uh, sorry, but I think he did a pretty incredible job yesterday with that door . . .
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[> I would say your evaluation is 100% correct. The age-old musical question is... -- OnM, 07:31:29 02/06/02 Wed
... what will Spike accept in the form of a relationship?

From The Gift-- 'I know I'm a monster, I know you'll never love me.'

Does he still believe this?
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[> [> Re: I would say your evaluation is 100% correct. The age-old musical question is... -- dubdub, 08:43:16 02/06/02 Wed
I think he's made it pretty clear he's willing to accept whatever Buffy's willing to offer in the way of a relationship, even to the point of recognizing that she has no feelings for him whatsoever (which I don't think is the case, I just think he'd still settle for whatever he could get).

What it comes down to, I guess, is will he be able to settle for a non-sexual friendship and still maintain his loyalty to Buffy, still attempt to do good for her sake? If he can, then I think there's a good possibility she could come to love him, eventually.

;o)
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[> [> [> Re: I would say your evaluation is 100% correct. The age-old musical question is... -- Lick, 09:32:02 02/06/02 Wed
What it comes down to, I guess, is will he be able to settle for a non-sexual friendship and still maintain his loyalty to Buffy, still attempt to do good for her sake? If he can, then I think there's a good possibility she could come to love him, eventually.


I think I'll answer my own question in my above post about why we were treated to the rug scene. From a purely simplistic point of view, we see them as great friends. The rapport between them was beyond comfortable.

The only time Buffy came close to her bristly little self was after the "animal" comment and I was so proud of Spike for not backing down and calling her on the reason for his comment. "You wanna see the bite mark?"

The handcuffs didn't magically appear next to him. I suspect the handcuffed Spike of her dream was a memory.

A breakup is inevitable. The trailer for next week showed us that Spike is still going to fight for the relationship; it also showed his swollen eye. Hopefully, eventually he'll decide that he truly doesn't want to be her whipping boy any longer.

Assuming that Spike is able to stay on the straight and narrow in the future, this scene shows the potential for future friendship, respect, trust and partnership. If there is still a romantic/physical relationship - bonus, although I believe they could move beyond it and develop a stronger lasting bond.

But, is this what I believe will happen? Not likely.
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[> WW and all other B/S shippers out there can you explain to me... -- A8, 12:48:20 02/06/02 Wed
...once and for all what exactly is the appeal to you of this relationship? I'm curious if your desire for this pairing would be any different if Joss & Co. had shown Spike's past nasty deeds in more graphic detail. After all, he still is an evil serial killer. There hasn't been any evidence yet that he has tried to redeem himself for the sake of his own redemption. In fact, his killing of the bad guys has repeatedly been shown to be either a recreational outlet for his inability to kill the good guys or as an attempt to gain Buffy's approval (including his pledge to protect Dawn).

There have been references to his delight in the stalking and killing of children (remember his storytelling to Dawn in his crypt?). If more attention had been paid on the show to the portrayal of such horrible past deeds, would you still feel that this is a desirable relationship? Why? Or do you feel that he has redeemed himself merely by falling obsessively for Buffy? After all, unlike Angel, spike has not been punished or made amends of any kind for any of the bad things he has done.

Finally, I noticed that the focus of your analysis, above, was on Buffy's feeling bad for using and abusing someone who loves her. Was I the only one who noticed in her last exchange with Tara that the biggest part of her self-revulsion with respect to her relationship with Spike was the possiblity that she could actually be in love with a thing (not a person) that promotes and represents the polar opposite of her life's mission statement. The fact that she feels bad that she might be using him just makes her feel worse, but was not IMHO the main point of her plea for Tara not to forgive her. She is a person with a soul and a conscience so the fact that the thing she is using is just a thing without a soul would not excuse her behavior. Just because a dog is vicious and rabid does not give a moral person the green light then to treat it any less humanely than is necessary to keep it from hurting anybody.

Anyhow, just a few thoughts. But I really am curious why there is such passionate support for this relationship. My comments are not intended to criticize any of you (least of all you, WW) for your interest in this plotline. Obviously, I just don't get it. At the risk of being chauvinistic, is it because I'm a dude (and a jaded one at that) and I just don't see romance, even fantasy romance, with such an open mind? Please enlighten me as to why this relationship is so important to you in the context of the mission statement of the show and your personal preferences as a viewer.

A8
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[> [> I should add... -- A8, 13:29:01 02/06/02 Wed
... I am not at all averse to the B/S ship from a dramatic point of view. IMO it allows us to see how far the Hero can be drawn into the abyss before getting back on track. This especially fits into the theme of this year ('Grow up'). One has to make big mistakes, acknowledge them, and strive not to repeat them in order to grow up.

I see Spike as Buffy's siren call, pulling her off course with the promise of instant gratification. But at what cost? And I think that's what Joss & Co. have in mind. She has love all around her already (Dawn, her friends), but her own self-absorption prevents her from truly appreciating what she has (even without a romantic relationship). And the fact the she knows what she is doing is wrong makes it that much more enticing to her. In a way, she has always felt deprived of a normal life (first with respect to her slayer's duties, then with respect to her sudden parental responsibilities as foster mom for Dawn), so Spike is also a rebellion against responsibility. She also can use her resentment towards the others for pulling her back as an excuse to misbehave. Even easier, however, until Tara informed her otherwise, she could use the fact that she was brought back "wrong" as an excuse to do all sorts of nasty things she always really wanted to do, but would not allow herself to do for fear of compromising her self-image (as well as her heroic image to others).
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[> [> Re: WW and all other B/S shippers out there can you explain to me... -- Doriander, 13:29:55 02/06/02 Wed
I am not a shipper. In fact I didn't really buy into romances in BtVS, so I don't know if that would discount my opinion. The relationships in the show only ever appealed to me when they become angsty. For instance, B/A was sappy, until Angelus' comeback. The B/S relationship is dysfunctional, disturbing, divisive, which is precisely why its compelling. It's drama, it's television.
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[> [> [> As I said above, the B/S ship is great from a dramatic tension point of view, but... -- A8, 13:47:52 02/06/02 Wed
...what I don't understand is the sentiment from some of the posters that this should be a "they lived happily ever after" type of romance. So far, what we have been shown is that it is a selfish and destructive relationship. It can't be a healthy relationship especially when you consider its effect on innocent bystanders. Buffy's neglect of Dawn in order to pursue this relationship is especially unforgiveable given the fact that Buffy knows what it is like to be abandoned by a parent (and also understands how important it is to have parental love and support). Buffy had Joyce and Giles in her formative years. She leaves Dawn by herself or in the care of friends who have their own problems and growing up to contend with. In this context, especially, once again, I don't see the romantic appeal.
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[> [> [> [> Re: As I said above, the B/S ship is great from a dramatic tension point of view, but... -- Rendyl, 14:25:07 02/06/02 Wed
Is your dislike of it because of Spike or because of Buffy? I do not see it as she is neglecting Dawn, but more as she just does not have enough hours in the day. Buffy is essentially holding down two full-time jobs while trying to take care of a house and a teenager. Like many single parents she just does not have enough time or money to do it all. And like many single parents there seems to be the perception that if she does -anything- for herself she is neglecting Dawn. I understand not liking it for many of the reasons you stated but I think it is unfair to say the relationship is wrong because Buffy is 'neglecting' Dawn in favor of Spike.

As to the other, I do not see it as a 'happily ever after' thing. Not so much because of Spike but because Buffy is the Slayer. She is not going to grow old, she is never going to have a so-called normal life. If she could accept the dark little things running around in her soul and psyche then at least she could make a honest choice about being or not being with him, but so far she is still trapped in the 'I have to be perfect' illusion she has carried with her for years.

On Spike (cough..no visual pun intended) it is not that we all do not get it. Spike was a killing machine for a very long time. But, Spike is a vampire. He was -supposed- to kill and eat people. It was normal for his kind, his society. It is impossible to make amends for that. The appeal of Spike, both as a character and as 'love' interest is his uniqueness among vamps and the changes he has and is still experiencing since he and Buff made a bargain wayyy back in season two. For some of us I think it is less about the 'ship and more that we just feel compelled to watch Spike. Where is he going? How is getting there? How far can he go (either way) before he can't get back? Is this 'love' thing as bad for him as it seems to be for Buffy? Can the writers explore this and still keep Spike true to himself?

Ren - who never once mentioned naked Spike -
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[> [> [> [> [> Thank for the input. Actually, I don't dislike the relationship at all. -- A8, 15:01:01 02/06/02 Wed
I just don't see the romantic appeal given the context of what has happened so far. It seems very much a diseased relationship. The fact that Buffy has to hide it shows it to be an unhealthy one

I do disagree with you about the neglect of Dawn though. Not being a parent, I can't speak from experience from that perspective. Having been a latchkey kid, however, I do understand the concept of priorities and choices. One chooses to be a parent and to accept parental responsibility. That doesn't mean that one kills oneself sacrificing everything for the child because in the long-run that would defeat the whole purpose of being a parent in the first place. It also doesn't mean that one must totally disavow a personal life. What we know from what we have been shown on BTVS this season, however, is that Buffy spends virtually no time with her sister (a girl who has undergone a tremendous amount of trauma in her short time on Earth) while she spends an inordinate amount of time having her sexual needs being serviced by Spike (their encounters are portrayed as numerous and lengthy--no pun intended) at the expense of any quality time with Dawn. Granted, Dawn is not an infant. But all indications are that her perception that Buffy can't stand to be around her could be justified by Buffy's actions.
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[> [> Re: WW and all other B/S shippers out there can you explain to me... -- Sophist, 14:10:43 02/06/02 Wed
Others can add their own comments (and will!!), but let me take a stab at it. I'll take your points in order and then add some thoughts at the end.

1. Spike's only motivation for doing good is to make time with Buffy.

I have 2 problems with this. Factually, I don't think it's true. It doesn't explain Spike's behavior over the summer and through Bargaining. He protected Dawn and helped the SG even though he believed Buffy was dead and even though they never told him of the plan to resurrect her. It also doesn't explain the lack of a card with the flowers in The Body.

The second problem is that I'm uncomfortable with judging people by their supposed motives. In truth, we rarely *know* what motivates another person. All we can do is judge the quality of an action. From that, we can _infer_ a motive, but we can never have a divine certainty about motive. TV contributes to a certain arrogance about motives, because it gives a God's-eye perspective that, IRL, we lack.

To me, it's more important to reward good behavior in the hope of encouraging more of it. I don't really care why he protects Dawn, I just want him to continue to do so. Spike's motives are part of his own journey, not mine.

2. Spike hasn't been punished for his past misdeeds.

True. Neither was Mary Magdalene. The interesting issue with Spike (and I do NOT know where ME is taking this storyline) is whether he can redeem himself. That may involve punishment. It may involve atonement. It may involve sacrifice. But I see no reason to write off Spike until his story is over. There's a great post (now archived, I think) about LOTR and Gandalf's retort to Frodo about whether Gollum deserves to die. That expresses this point better than I can.

3. Buffy's dilemma.

Others have pointed this out in other posts on this Board, and I agree completely. Buffy's scene with Tara was tragic because she saw herself as trapped: If she did love Spike, that was "wrong" because he is a soulless demon. If she did not love Spike, she was using him in a way that violated her own moral standards (similar to, but not quite as bad as, what Parker did). She was hoping to have come back "wrong" because that gave her an excuse either way. She fell apart when Tara took the excuse away, and refused to condemn her if she did love Spike. Tara (paraphrasing): "He does love you, and he has done good things for you and Dawn." So, no, I can't agree with your comments on that scene.

Here are things I like about the relationship: Spike has insight into Buffy that no one else has; the redemption angle is fascinating, especially given the parallel track on AtS; the chemistry between SMG and JM rocks (a very subjective point, I know); the complexity of Spike's character, which IMHO exceeds that of every other character except maybe Willow, creates wonderful dramatic opportunities.

Eveyone else puts in .02, but my thoughts are only .01.
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[> [> [> Your points 1 and 3 especially are well-taken. -- A8, 14:18:33 02/06/02 Wed
I'm not so sure about giving prostitution and serial murder equal billing though. Although, in terms of forgiveness and redemption, Jesus would, I suppose.
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[> [> [> Actually, disagree with you about character motivation being unimportant. -- A8, 14:35:54 02/06/02 Wed
A character without motivation for its actions isn't much of a character at all IMO. I think a character's motivation rather than being exclusive to its own journey can be useful in reflecting on our own lives. Hypothetically, suppose Spike's (secret) motivation for protecting Dawn was to preserve the key in the service of a future Glory hellgod-type with the promise of making him a supreme chipless big bad? [Actually that would be an interesting twist that I wouldn't put past any of the Jossverse writers]. How would that affect your opinion regarding the insignificance of character motivation?
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[> [> [> [> Re: Actually, disagree with you about character motivation being unimportant. -- Sophist, 17:53:53 02/06/02 Wed
You make a very fair point -- from a dramatic perspective, motivation is extremely important. Among other things, it allows the writer to explore the psychology of actions which we, the viewers, can then relate to our own lives.

I don't want to leave the impression that characters are without motivations. They clearly have them. The issue is how we know what they are.

It's easy when the author hands you the motivation -- MacBeth wants to be king. In real life, we can't have certain knowledge about motivations. Part of the brilliance of ME is that Spike's motivations have not been given to us. We, like Buffy, are in the position of having to infer them. We have to evaluate Spike with the tools available in real life, because those are all we have. That ambiguity has created the dramatic space for all the controversy about Spike that seems so important to the show.

Although it's a bit of an easy out, let me turn your question around: If Spike were staked today, how would we evaluate his life since the beginning of S5? Has he been a force for good or evil? In the Great Balance In The Sky, is his positive or negative over that time?
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[> [> And I'm gonna do that A8...just as soon as I get home from work... -- ;o) dubdub, 15:40:18 02/06/02 Wed
I'm all geared up to discuss this and I'm just so @#$%ing busy I can't take the time until later tonight, but I did want to touch base...

TTYL
WW
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[> [> [> Looking forward to your post. -- A8, 17:49:06 02/06/02 Wed
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[> [> Re: WW and all other B/S shippers out there can you explain to me... -- Goji3, 16:37:13 02/06/02 Wed
Well, I mainly assumed that it was projection from many female fans out there. They like Spike, and the feel closely assisiated/represented in the show by Buffy, so, Pairing them together/seeing them together is the next best thing. Well, That's my little opinion, and it seem's to make sense since most B/S shipperes are female. It's a subconscious thing, so it doesn't come through to the surface much, but it's there....Not to sound sexist or anything, I should admit something. I was/er...still kinda am an F/X-shipper. I identify with Xander, and I like Faith, Bada bing, Bada boom.

Of course, I could be projecting that projection onto B/S-ers, but, that's for you to decide.
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[> [> Cheekbones, Redux -- WW, 19:27:18 02/06/02 Wed
...once and for all what exactly is the appeal to you of this relationship?

I'm going to try to answer this question honestly below, given that I sometimes suspect the appeal is really all in the cheekbones!

I'm curious if your desire for this pairing would be any different if Joss & Co. had shown Spike's past nasty deeds in more graphic detail.

In a word, no.

After all, he still is an evil serial killer. There hasn't been any evidence yet that he has tried to redeem himself for the sake of his own redemption. In fact, his killing of the bad guys has repeatedly been shown to be either a recreational outlet for his inability to kill the good guys or as an attempt to gain Buffy's approval (including his pledge to protect Dawn).

There have been references to his delight in the stalking and killing of children (remember his storytelling to Dawn in his crypt?). If more attention had been paid on the show to the portrayal of such horrible past deeds, would you still feel that this is a desirable relationship? Why? Or do you feel that he has redeemed himself merely by falling obsessively for Buffy? After all, unlike Angel, spike has not been punished or made amends of any kind for any of the bad things he has done.

Okay, kind of a multi-part question: first, I cannot regard Spike, or any vampire, as a serial killer or a murderer. There was a thread that addressed this issue several months back, and it turned out to be surprisingly difficult for me to explain why. What it comes down to is the definition of "murder." I think it has to involve the unlawful taking of a human life by another human being (or beings). Spike isn't human, so he is not capable of murder, by definition, no matter how many humans (including women and children) he's eaten in the past. To me, it's the same situation as a grizzly bear or a shark killing and eating a human, or a human being slaughtering a pig--not the same species, therefore not murder. Obviously Spike can survive by getting blood from other sources than humans, so he doesn't have to kill them. We can survive by getting protein from other sources than meat, but many of us (me included) don't.

Spike will never display remorse for the human lives he's taken in the past. There is no reason for him to do so while he remains a vampire. If he wants to redeem himself on a human level he can only do so by the actions he takes from the point when, if ever, he loses the chip or it ceases to function. There is no point to him looking backward for redemption--he's not guilty of anything but killing and feeding to survive.

Falling in love with Buffy has done nothing, in and of itself, to redeem Spike. As Tara told Willow and Buffy when they discussed The Hunchback of Notre Dame, it can't have a happy ending if the character's motivation is essentially a selfish one. The actions that count toward redemption are only those that Spike might undertake freely, with no hope of impressing Buffy by them, or gaining her affection. In a perverse way it's as if he has to accept that there is no possibility of Buffy ever loving him, of them ever being a couple in the true sense of the word, in order for him to begin to behave in a way that might eventually make that possible.

Finally, I noticed that the focus of your analysis, above, was on Buffy's feeling bad for using and abusing someone who loves her. Was I the only one who noticed in her last exchange with Tara that the biggest part of her self-revulsion with respect to her relationship with Spike was the possiblity that she could actually be in love with a thing (not a person) that promotes and represents the polar opposite of her life's mission statement. The fact that she feels bad that she might be using him just makes her feel worse, but was not IMHO the main point of her plea for Tara not to forgive her.

On this point, we'll have to agree to disagree ;o). I really got the impression that it was the perceived accusation of "using" Spike that horrified her, rather than the suggestion that she might be in love with Spike.

She is a person with a soul and a conscience so the fact that the thing she is using is just a thing without a soul would not excuse her behavior. Just because a dog is vicious and rabid does not give a moral person the green light then to treat it any less humanely than is necessary to keep it from hurting anybody.

This is my point, and the reason Buffy has to stop abusing Spike, and stop having sex with him--we are in agreement there. But that still doesn't fully answer your initial question.

It's too easy and glib to just accept that many women are attracted to "bad boys." Sure, that does happen, but that's not all that's going on here. Spike as a character is a bad boy who has shown that he is capable of doing good and for reasons other than impressing Buffy. As examples, he almost let Glory torture him to death rather than betray Dawn. If he did that out of love for Buffy, her gratitude wouldn't have done him much good after Glory killed him. And he continued to protect Dawn and help the SG after Buffy died--again, no hanky-panky type reward possible. What is irresistable about Spike, IMO, is the William that still manages to peak out from behind the demon.

In contrast, we have Riley, a "good boy," driven to acts of evil in hope of somehow impressing Buffy or coming closer to being the kind of man he imagines he wants. If I had to choose which was the more endearing character, which has more hope of winning the love of a woman like Buffy Summers, there's no contest.

Anyhow, just a few thoughts. But I really am curious why there is such passionate support for this relationship. My comments are not intended to criticize any of you (least of all you, WW) for your interest in this plotline. Obviously, I just don't get it. At the risk of being chauvinistic, is it because I'm a dude (and a jaded one at that) and I just don't see romance, even fantasy romance, with such an open mind? Please enlighten me as to why this relationship is so important to you in the context of the mission statement of the show and your personal preferences as a viewer.

It may be because you're a "jaded dude," I don't know. (I've never thought of you that way, LOL!) What I do know is that it has a lot to do with cheekbones, and I can't deny that. But the importance of the relationship has changed a lot for me after last night's ep. I've accepted that Spike has not changed in any way sufficient to allow Buffy to love him, and he never will as long as he has a hope of convincing her to accept him as he is, of lowering her to his level. Now she has to show him that that is not possible, she can never allow herself to descend to his level. The only option that ME has left to him, if he refuses to give up on his love for her, is for him to raise himself, somehow, to her level. I have no idea if that will ever happen, but I'll be happy to watch in any event. It's a testament to the writers' talent that they allowed me to reach this point as a result of their ability to create multidimensional, realistic characters and put them in situations that forced me to accept that shippiness just isn't gonna cut it--I can't think of any other show that could have destroyed a relationship of this kind, after such a well-planned, painful, and extended build up, and left me wanted to do anything other than refuse to watch it ever again!

Okay, that was pretty rambly...did it clarify the situation at all?

;o)
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[> [> [> Much clarification received here. Thanks humbly for the enlightenment oh Woman of the Wise.;-) -- A8, 16:44:40 02/07/02 Thu
There is one more option you forgot to mention (or shudder to contemplate). What would you think if Joss and his buds pull the big shocker and finally stake Spike before he has a chance to make any change? On how many levels would that be disappointing to you, or would you take it all in the stride of unpredictability on which ME prides itself.

Thanks again for the illumination. You may now resume cheekbone contemplation.

A8
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[> [> [> [> Re: Hey, I can take it...I think... -- WW, 18:55:31 02/07/02 Thu
The dramatic potential would be far greater if Spike were to be staked while performing a truly selfless and redemptory (is that a word?) act...such as throwing himself in front of a Scooby (other than Buffy) in order to save them from being killed.

They could really wring the pathos out of that scenario, Buffy realizing she'd misjudged him, grieving for her lost love, etc., etc.

I'd feel cheated if Spike were staked in his current state of ambiguity...talk about an anti-climax! I would be disappointed at that on so many different levels, I might begin to think Joss had been lobotomized.

On the other hand, I could also accept an arc with a de-chipped Spike turning Big Bad in a rage at Buffy's rejection, making him a worthy opponent once again, and even leading to Buffy being the one to stake him. Gimme the angst! Bring it on!! Just don't make it, "Oops...*poof*...damn, Spike, I told you never to sneak up on me like that! Oh, well..."

;o)
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[> [> [> Thank You, Thank You -- Dochawk, 22:09:44 02/07/02 Thu
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[> [> [> [> You're welcome. You're welcome. ;o) -- dubdub, 06:45:48 02/08/02 Fri
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apology needed -- Grace, 21:13:46 02/05/02 Tue

All I have to say is Buffy better give Spike one hell of an apology for her behavior tonight.
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[> I've got your apology right here *plunge* *poof* -- Charlemagne20, 21:20:14 02/05/02 Tue
Buffy has to knick this habit in the bud of hers whether by getting Spike a soul or staking him where she stands. Yeah I'm sorry she's suffering because she's using a demon which can pass as a man for sex but really aside from apologies being to heal herself...

Spike needs a staking.
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[> [> Re: I've got your apology right here *plunge* *poof* -- MrDave, 22:06:59 02/05/02 Tue
I have to agree. Dust him. Was I the ONLY person who found the whole "you belong in the darkness" speech just a little too sinister and malevolent? Spike may have deep feelings ... even love for Buffy, but it is always on his terms, never hers.
I think if she had pummled his head RIGHT OFF I'dve been happer than if she keeps punishing herself for being different. She may get off with Spike, but there is no way they could ever have anything that didn't have a barrier (like the door of the crypt) between them.

He's EVIL folks. He just plays nice on TV.
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[> [> [> Play time..... -- Rufus, 22:15:07 02/05/02 Tue
Are you sure that Spike is totally evil. You said that he only plays nice on TV, but we see plenty of times when he is in his crypt doing supposedly evil things like 20 questions. I don't think it's as clear as he's a vampire, therefore evil. I thought of his words on the balcony as something to convince Buffy to stay with him, but in no way did I ever get the idea that he'd even like an evil Buffy.

In the alley Spike put on the game face so Buffy could put it all on him....see a demon hit the demon it doesn't count. The Buffyverse has many monsters but they are defined by what they do, not what they are.
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[> [> [> [> Re: Play time..... -- MrDave, 22:28:44 02/05/02 Tue
The Buffyverse has many monsters but they are defined by what they do, not what they are.

And whispering in a depressed and emotionally shell-shocked person's ear that its okay to turn your back on all your friends and sneak back to the crypt with the big-bad for some emotionally deficient and physically abusive sex isn't evil?

I'd ask Warren to help you with that definition, but he's got his own issues.

;) (all in fun right?)
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Play time..... -- Rufus, 22:41:03 02/05/02 Tue
The difference between the sex that Buffy had and what Warren was out for is consent. Buffy clearly enjoys and is troubled by the sex she is having with Spike. He was wrong to attempt to manipulate her to stay with him but he isn't anywhere near the abusive type that Warren is. I don't see the sex as abusive because Buffy and Spike can only hurt each other emotionally. It may not be a relationship that is the most healthy but it doesn't make Spike a totally evil thing either.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Play time..... -- Kathy, 15:08:18 02/06/02 Wed
New here...first time post. I was intrigued by what you wrote:

'The difference between the sex that Buffy had and what Warren was out for is consent. Buffy clearly enjoys and is troubled by the sex she is having with Spike. He was wrong to attempt to manipulate her to stay with him but he isn't anywhere near the abusive type that Warren is.'

I think thats the point though. I believe that the contrast the writers are making between Spike (ambiguously controlling Buffy) and Warren (obviously controlling Trina)
is similar to Buffy's battle with her own moral values. What is write and wrong?? Spike and Warren are both abusing their respective 'slaves' but Spike is doing it in a less obvious way. Hence making it all the more difficult for Buffy and a good deal of the viewers to see that regardless of the tactics...Spike is still controlling Buffy. And Buffy at this point is a basket case...unable to say a definitive no...even though she is still saying no.

If Spike weren't a souless vampire I'd HATE his character. But he is what he is.

Thats how I see it...I apologize if I offended anyone.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> I have to disagree with you on who the "slave" is here... -- Dyna, 15:40:48 02/06/02 Wed
"Spike and Warren are both abusing their respective 'slaves' but Spike is doing it in a less obvious way."

I strongly disagree that Buffy is acting as Spike's "slave." I think her dream, the fight in the alley, and their conversation in the crypt at the beginning made it pretty clear that Buffy is the one commanding this situation, and Spike is acting the role of her "willing slave." (See also his lyrics in OMWF, where he describes himself that way.)

I think it's very typical of ME to subvert the obvious parallel--in this case, the obvious reading is that Spike=Warren, because they're both male and Spike appears in the Bronze scene to be "seducing" Buffy. But the overall effect is the opposite--it's all about Buffy controlling Spike, not the other way around.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: I have to disagree with you on who the "slave" is here... -- dochawk, 13:50:26 02/07/02 Thu
Since the first time Buffy kissed him Spike has been in control. "You came back wrong" was all about Spike manipulating Buffy. Buffy takes her rage out on Spike physically and emotionally, but Spike controls it, pushes it. Spike is not pure evil (I am not sure we have seen pure evil on the show yet, the mayor had his human weakness (his love for faith) Glory had her Ben)), but he is evil at his core, as are all vampires. The chip may be able to control his ability to physically harm humans, but not the silver tongue that slices and dices Buffy again.
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[> [> [> [> [> Just like real life... -- Dariel, 22:41:30 02/05/02 Tue
And whispering in a depressed and emotionally shell-shocked person's ear that its okay to turn your back on all your friends and sneak back to the crypt with the big-bad for some emotionally deficient and physically abusive sex isn't evil?

No, it's not. Unhealthy, immature, dumb, but not evil. This is how some people (yes, people) behave when they're in love with someone who's toying with them. The healthy thing is to pull away. But alas, life is not always so simple!
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[> [> [> [> In the early days of the show -- Vickie, 22:42:45 02/05/02 Tue
it was said that vampires were a metaphor for sexual activity and feelings. If so, Spike is a great metaphor for maturing, but not compromising or settling, sexual behavior.
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[> [> [> [> I agree (Minor spoiler for DT) -- Isabel, 16:44:59 02/07/02 Thu
I think Spike likes Buffy just the way she is. Good and fighting evil. If he wanted an evil Buffy all he'd need do is turn her. You can't say he hasn't been close enough. She even let him use handcuffs.
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[> [> [> Ok, strong disagreement here (spoilers for Dead Things) -- Traveler, 22:56:28 02/05/02 Tue
"Spike may have deep feelings ... even love for Buffy, but it is always on his terms, never hers."

I could write an essay about how Spike and Buffy's relationship has always been on her terms, never Spike's. Certainly, Spike often pushes her, but Buffy made all the decisions. She initiated the kiss in OMWF. She started taking his clothes off in Smashed. She comes to him again when she is invisible. She is even the one who initiates every slugfest they've had in quite some time. In this relationship, who is really the evil one? Oh, I agree that Spike's "you belong to the darkness" speech was a little sinister. But I think that really he just wants her to stop looking down on him as an "evil thing." That's why he tries to convince her that she is a part of his world. But when she thinks that she has killed a human woman, he tells her that she is a good person who just made a mistake.

Some posters keep repeating over and over "Spike is evil and deserves whatever he gets," like it is some sort of mantra. I firmly believe that evil is as evil does. Spike is definitely no saint, and he has his issues, but he seems to be treading much more on the good side of greyness this season. I can give you many examples of good things that Spike has done since he fell in love with Buffy, but I dare you to find more than two really bad things that he's done during that time. Also, consider this: if Buffy had staked Spike way back in season 4, then she, Giles, and probably Dawn would all be dead, since he saved their lives at various points. Thus, her act of mercy has already been repayed three times over.
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[> [> [> The Spike issue will not be resolved for some time yet, methinks. -- OnM, 06:46:27 02/06/02 Wed
Spike is an evolving character, and ME obviously does not intend a quick evolution.

If Spike would 1) willingly have the chip removed, 2) avoid killing or harming people and 3) work to atone for his past evil actions, then I see him as being no different than Angel, soul or no.

It's very clear to me that Warren is evil, he's just very young yet, so we tend to give his degree of evilness less weight in the total scheme of things. Should Buffy kill him? I suspect she will not, even given the chance to do so and get away with it.

Does anyone think it is possible that Spike is 'testing' Buffy by using the 'sinister' routine he plays at on occasion? That his goal is to get her to understand her own nature better, not to change it? Secondly, success in getting Buffy to understand her own darker tendencies (which she very clearly has) might help her to better understand the true enemies she has to fight in doing her job?

( Consider that professional profilers do exactly this-- they 'get into the heads' of the criminals they seek to capture and bring to justice. This is a risky procedure, much like going undercover and pretending to be a criminal. A good example of this would be in a film I reviewed some months ago, Rush. )

My observation is that the writers have made, and are continuing to make this point deliberatly ambiguous-- we don't know 100% for sure what is going on in Spike's head, so we end up with just this exact argument going on.
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[> [> [> [> Re: The Spike issue will not be resolved for some time yet, methinks. -- Rufus, 08:18:18 02/06/02 Wed
I was looking at what Tensai had to say about Spike on his Spoiler Slayer site and I kinda have to agree with him. Every boyfriend that Buffy has had goes through a form of redemption story. Angel, that's obvious and Riley was able to detangle himself from The Initiative. So if a redemption angle is explored with Spike what form will his take or will he even be successful? Spike would be the most complicated redemption yet. He will have gotten to that point without a soul, and what new questions does that fact raise about demons?

As for what Spike is doing with Buffy, the scene in the alley was the most telling one of the episode, he said to put it all on him, accommodating Buffy by putting on the face she would react most to. She unburdened herself on his face and realized that what she had done was savage, that she is an animal, but one willing to take the consequences for her actions. The next comes from the CC I took notes from last night and would like your comments on them.

Spike: That's it. Put it on me. Put it all on me. That's my girl.

Buffy: I am not your girl! You don't have a soul! There is nothing good or clean in you! You are dead inside! You can't feel anything real. I could never be your girl!

When she said "you are dead inside" I found that a bit odd as Spike is undead inside and out, so who is Buffy really talking about? Then she had her chat with Tara.

Tara: You're the same Buffy, with a deep, tropical cellular tan.

Buffy: You must've missed something. Will you check again?

Tara: Buffy, I promise. There's nothing wrong with you.

Buffy: There has to be. This just can't be me. It isn't me. Why do I feel like this? Why do I let Spike do those things to me?

Tara: You mean hit you? Tara gets the idea of what Buffy is saying about those things.

Buffy: He's everything I hate. He's everything that I'm supposed to be against. But the only time that I feel anything....is when......Don't tell anyone, please!

Tara: I won't.

Buffy: Oh, the way they would look at me. I--I just couldn't...

Tara: I won't tell anyone. I wouldn't do that.

Buffy: Why can't I stop? Why do I keep letting him in?

Tara: Do you love him? It's okay if you do. He's done a lot of good, and he does love you. And, Buffy, it's okay if you don't. You're going through a really hard time, and you're

Buffy: What? Using him? What's okay about that?

Tara: It's not that simple.

Buffy: It is, it's wrong. I'm wrong. Tell me that I'm wrong, please. Don't forgive me...please don't forgive me...please don't forgive me.........

Tara doesn't see anything Buffy has done as wrong, of course she only has sketchy details, but she is non judgemental about the sexual aspect of the relationship. She also backs up the idea that Spike does in fact love Buffy. So why doesn't Buffy want to be forgiven? For what, using Spike, possibly loving Spike, doing things that now are obviously not because she came back wrong? The writers have left this up in the air. Buffy denies any feelings for Spike but repeated to the gang what Spike said in the alley..."you only hurt the one you love". Add in the Troika and their treatment of Katrina and you really see monsters in action. The only way Warren wanted Katrina was on her knee's, and his ability to consider how to dispose of it by a demon devouring the remains was chilling. The boys switched right away from she to it and then proceeded to attempt to frame Buffy for what they did. People can be monsters and I think that fact has to be a troubling one for a Vampire Slayer.

Is Spike using the same sinister routine he plays at to get her to understand herself better....I'm not quite sure at this time but it may be so.
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[> [> [> [> [> OK, some quick comments and then (sigh) back to the real world... ;) -- OnM, 09:07:30 02/06/02 Wed
I must confess I'm a sucker for these really intense episodes. I've watched it twice now, and each time I cry when Buffy breaks down and begs Tara to 'not forgive her'. The entire scene is so raw and emotionally revealing about what the real Buffy is like, and yet how she seems so unaware of it. This dichotomy is one of the many aspects of the Buffy Anne Summers character that make her so intrinsically compelling to me.

Usually I avoid the board for anything other than moderate skimming after the ep airs, so it doesn't influence my thoughts excessively in the eventual writing of my review. (Not that I don't value input, but that I need to keep my personal thoughts relatively contained and focussed). This ep was just too intense not to see what others were thinking, however, and as I suspected, there are a burgeoning series of discussions springing up.

I generally agree with the line of thinking that says the true reason for Buffy's guilt is that she feels that she has used Spike for sexual gratification, without loving him. She can only accept this if she feels that she returned 'wrong', which she now knows is not the case. (And I so love the writers' choice in going this route, I'm perfectly happy to give up my 'immortality' theme and it's possible consequences!)

There are numerous subtextural references to previous BtVS characters and episodes in this ep, and I'll save dealing with them at length until I post my review later in the week, but the one where Buffy is pummeling Spike in the alley brings up her relationship to Faith (and Faith's relationship to Buffy) so perfectly that it's scary.

Gotta go now, but rest assured (or run away screaming!) that I'll have lots more to say later on in the week. This was one of the best eps so far this year, right up there with Bargaining and Once More with Feeling, and as you already know, I think S6 is one of the best seasons to date-- depending on how things turn out by June, it may even exceed S2!
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[> [> [> [> [> Re: The Spike issue will not be resolved for some time yet, methinks. -- Elizabeth, 11:34:17 02/06/02 Wed
This is my first post to this site. I was just struck by the fact that maybe Buffy was so upset when Tara said that she didn't come back wrong was because of what Spike said..."You only hurt the ones you love.." I think she finally realized that he does love her, and that is why he can hurt her without the chip giving him pain.
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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: The Spike issue will not be resolved for some time yet, methinks. -- Rufus, 18:29:00 02/06/02 Wed
Thank you for posting and keep posting. Yes, I agree that Buffy at least accepts that Spike loves her. I don't think she is quite sure about her feelings for him. It could be a relationship that is a "sex thing" that will fizzle out when she becomes tired of a go nowhere relationship. Or, it will move on to an actual love relationship. All bets are off if he does something that proves that he isn't safe to exist along side humanity.
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[> [> [> [> Re: The Spike issue will not be resolved for some time yet, methinks. -- Liq, 10:11:18 02/06/02 Wed
Does anyone think it is possible that Spike is 'testing' Buffy by using the 'sinister' routine he plays at on occasion? That his goal is to get her to understand her own nature better, not to change it? Secondly, success in getting Buffy to understand her own darker tendencies (which she very clearly has) might help her to better understand the true enemies she has to fight in doing her job?

I would like to believe this from the standpoint of appreciating the growth of Spike's character. The problem we face is that it becomes increasingly difficult to remember that Spike is a vampire. I think he has been a bit too "humanized". It is very easy to be sympathetic to his pain because we have seen his side of the story whereas Buffy has not. When the writers decide it's time to remind us of his vampirism, it is usually very jarring.

He's not good, but he's okay.

From Crush:

DAWN
I'm not a child.
(then)
I'm not even human. Not originally.

SPIKE
Well, originally, I was. I got over
it. Doesn't seem to me it matters
very much how you start out.

Spike will never truly be accepted until "how he started out" (as Spike, not William)is acknowledged as being the past. We will never see remorese from Spike for the past. His salvation can only exist in his future. Ditto for Buffy. She is no longer the "school girl". She is a child being reborn into adulthood in the most painful way imaginable. Age's exception post has clearly explained better than I would even attempt.

Another thing that has been bothering me is that Spike's behavior during the Bronze scene and earlier this season in Life Serial is in direct contrast to his message to Buffy in FFL:

SPIKE
The only reason you've lasted as
long as you have is, you've got
ties to the world. Your Mum.
Brat kid sister. Scoobies. They
tie you here but you're just putting
off the inevitable. Sooner or later,
you're gonna want it and the second,
the second that happens, I pray to God I'm
there. I'll slip in - have myself
a real good day.

The fact is that she no longer has her mother, the brat kid sister is moving farther away emotionally and she has been oblivious to her friends. She invited Spike to slip in and have his one good day.

The problem with one good day? It always comes to an end and the next day, real life returns with a vengence.
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[> Re: apology needed -- WW, 21:26:44 02/05/02 Tue
I completely agree with you, Grace, and I think we're going to see that apology sooner rather than later. Unfortunately, I think it's going to come hand-in-hand with a break-up.
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[> [> Re: apology needed** definate Spoiler for next week** -- Rufus, 22:07:18 02/05/02 Tue
WW did you notice that Spike's encounter with Buffy is clearly visible at next weeks party? Buffy can't hide from her actions they will be as clear as the shiner on Spikes face.
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[> [> [> But... -- Darby, 07:20:45 02/06/02 Wed
Does it require any more explanation than "I wanted to confess, Spike tried to hide the body and stop me, and I beat the bejesus out of him"? They would figure that they know Spike's motivations, and Buffy beating on Spike is nothing new.

Or Spike could say he fell on a doorknob...
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[> [> [> [> Or he could say he choked on a pretzel. -- LeeAnn, 21:21:22 02/06/02 Wed
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[> [> [> [> Or he could say he choked on a pretzel. -- LeeAnn, 21:23:36 02/06/02 Wed
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[> [> [> Exactly... -- dubdub, 08:19:41 02/06/02 Wed
Is all gotta come to a head pretty soon, no doubt!

;o)
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[> Re: apology needed -- Sophist, 08:57:28 02/06/02 Wed
I'm usually pretty challenged when it comes to spotting metaphors, but I think there may be another one here.

Before we settle into a long-term relationship, we tend to have a wide circle of friends. The emotional and time needs of a marriage (or similar relationship) prevent us from devoting as much time and effort to our friends. I think, in general, we tend to narrow our friendship circle as we make room for a spousal equivalent.

Was the scene in the Bronze a metaphor for this transition? Is Buffy looking for a way to keep Spike and keep her friends?
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Question based upon *Dead Things*...... -- Rufus, 22:11:21 02/05/02 Tue

We got to see the Troika turn a page and go from ineffectual nerds to bad people. It took awhile but what seems to keep them going is that there hasn't been any real consequences for them. My question is "What happens to a person, what would they or we do or be capable of, if we/they thought they wouldn't be caught?"
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[> Re: Question based upon *Dead Things*...... -- Deeva, 23:01:35 02/05/02 Tue
"What happens to a person, what would they or we do or be capable of, if we/they thought they wouldn't be caught?"

Lots! I think that the fear of being caught has a lot to do with not actually attempting a crime. Well, and maybe a conscience or a sense of responsibility. But that doesn't always actually work in most cases. Take, for instance, Dawn's klepto tendencies. I did that at that age, big time. Not too proud of it. I had a best friend who had been stealing for a year or so before I fell into it. She was the cool girl in school and I wanted to fit in. So I did it. It started with dime-store lipstick and then moved onto department store clothing. The fear was huge but I still did it. Then one day I woke up and thought what if my parents had to bail me out? That did it, I stopped. My friend didn't and she got caught a short while later.

The thing with stealing was really the rush of pulling it off and not getting caught. You feel invincible, somehow you are out smarting the system. You don't see yourself as a criminal. It gives you a very weird sense of confidence. Like you're proving something to someone but no one at all except maybe yourself. You can't really go around bragging about it to others because you've committed a crime but then again you don't really think that there's anything wrong with it because no one's getting hurt.

And about my best friend/partner in crime, I'm not going to say that there is a moral to this story or anything because there is no end yet. I haven't seen her for many, many years. So I don't know if our stealing has lead to her downfall or not. All I know is that I'm not bad but I'm not good, either and that's ok.
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[> Interesting question, but it still boils down to ... -- Liq, 23:03:23 02/05/02 Tue
... your personal moral compass.

I would like to believe that my actions would remain consistent regardless of fear of being "caught".

In space, no one can hear you scream.
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[> [> True but consequence is a nice knowledge of where one is -- Charlemagne20, 23:25:20 02/05/02 Tue
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[> [> I've used this quote before, but it's still one of my all time favorites, so... -- OnM, 06:15:10 02/06/02 Wed
...I'll state it once again since it applies to what Liq just stated:

To live outside the law, you must be honest.

...... Bob Dylan

One of the aspects of growing up, for me, is that you try to choose your actions more because of what you feel is the morally or ethically correct action, and not out of fear of punishment or retribution from society.

As a simple example, if I see something I like in a store, I buy it and not steal it. If I cannot afford to buy it, I leave it behind. I do this because I view stealing as unethical, not because I fear being arrested (which may or may not happen depending on how clever I might be in perpetrating the theft).

I think that the ongoing arc with the geek chorus is illustrating what happens when consequences do not occur for those who do not inhabit the inherent 'moral compass' Liq speaks of-- the behavior is reinforced, the persons involved become more arrogant. (Although in the specific case under question, I think Jonathan is operating purely out of fear of eventual punishment, he is clearly aware that a critical line has finally been crossed, and it isn't one he personally would have ever crossed on his own).

As to the other two members of the troika, ethically, Andrew is far too self-absorbed and weak-minded, and Warren was already obviously seriously amoral before his involvement with Andrew and Jonathan.

So, none of these characters, to differing degrees, is 'honest' enough to live 'outside the law'. Buffy, of course, very much is, and always has been, even though she may think otherwise.
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[> [> [> I agree with OnM -- Vickie, 07:51:03 02/06/02 Wed
(ooh, that's a safe stance!)

I think we saw what Buffy would do, if there were no consequences to her actions, in Gone. And it was pretty mild stuff.

True, her treatment of the social worker was borderline (at best). But otherwise her wild fling involved teasing a fashion victim, "borrowing" a meter cops vehicle, and taking advantage of Spike (which she does anyway).

I'm recalling what Faith had to practice when she inhabited Buffy's body. "Because it's wrong! It's wrong."
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[> [> [> Now wouldn't that just beat all... -- MrDave, 20:09:16 02/06/02 Wed
What if...
Jonathan provides the key to defeating the other two...gets sent to jail and meets Faith (Who has been where he has been). The two grow together and become a terrible twosome.

Faith has someone whe can trust. Jonathan meets a girl sho can like him for being who he is (a powerful wizard, and appreciative of her as a person...not a sex object).

Could be cool

Okay! dream over.
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[> Re: Question based upon *Dead Things*...... -- yuri, 00:36:07 02/06/02 Wed
I concur with Liq below, there's no one answer, it's all about individual moral compasses and all...

And okay, after writing this I think it's rather odd and not well thought out, so if anyone reads this, my actual answer to the question is the last little paragraph at the bottom. It's funny that this is one of my longest posts and really, I think, the most unintelligible.

but I had to respond briefly to the moral qualms of stealing. I used to steal, very heavily, in fact, thousands of dollars worth of stuff if you count it up, and for a very long time. I did not steal from small businesses or places I respected, and I didn't steal for the thrill, I stole because I didn't have money for the things that I wanted. (Society's demand that we appreciate and love and want and have "things," is a whole different story.) And I got caught. And I still don't really regret it or somehow think it was "bad." (I was caught underage so it's sealed -- always knew it had to stop at 18, regardless.) I bring this up because I think that certain kinds of theft and many other "criminal" acts are looked at as "morally wrong" just because of law, and what adults absent-mindedly pound in to your head as you grow up, and not because of true beliefs. This has happened consistently with many things, the first that come to mind are mind-altering substances and promiscuity.

I recently learned about Lawrence Kohlberg's Six Stages of Moral Development (and I really don't have much background in the intellectual framework that has been layed for this subject, so if the guy's a hack, excuse me) The sixth stage of moral development - "the moral 'promised land,'" - is when your idea of justice is based on your personally established set of principles, but most people like it at stage four, where you exhibit respect for law and order. Anyhow, I think that these two stages are very often confused on BtVS. Purposefully I mean, by the writers, but not by the characters. I think Buffy, in times of distress, often reverts to four, because it's easy, because it's black and white (ideally) like she likes it, as someone (I really have no short term memory) recently pointed out. Usually, the six overpowers the four, and we have seen that many times, but tonight four won, pushing Buffy into that police station, a decision we all know was ridiculous. (Actually, maybe not, sorry! That's my opinion.) I think it won because Buffy wasn't in a place where she could trust her own sense of morality, so she needed to use someone else's.


So after getting all that out, I realize I wouldn't be the same if there were no consequences for my actions, because the moral compass of the society that I live in is not in tune with mine. "What happens to a person, what would they or we do or be capable of, if we/they thought they wouldn't be caught?" I think the automatic reaction to this question is that you're a better person if you wouldn't do anything differently, but that supposes that in getting caught, the people who are catching you are ultimately right.
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[> [> oops, that was supposed to go under Deeva's response. sorry! -- yuri, 00:38:39 02/06/02 Wed
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[> Who's the law? (SPOILERS for Dead Things) -- Robert, 08:40:32 02/06/02 Wed
What I find interesting with the geek troika is that they never express fear or concern regarding the police. When Warren kills Katrina, Jonathon is immediately afraid of Buffy. He knows that Buffy will trace the murder back to them and he knows Buffy will not let them off this time.

I guess that, once again, Principal Snider is proven correct. The police in Sunnydale really are deeply stupid.
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[> [> Suicide?! Right. -- yez, 14:16:13 02/06/02 Wed
They really, really are. How else do you explain them labeling Katrina's murder as a suicide? I mean, people jump off of bridges, they jump off of cliffs... Who jumps "off" a steep slope to tumble themselves to death?!

I found this a little less than plausible, shall we say.

yez
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[> [> [> Re: Suicide?! Right. -- MrDave, 20:32:55 02/06/02 Wed
Cop 1: Hey Tom! The body is over here
Cop 2: Has the coroner looked at it yet? {Muches into a raspberry jelly donut...powder drips down his uniform}
Cop 1: Nah...But I checked it over. No neck ruptures. No strange colored splotches. No drugs.
Cop 2: Hm...Murder? Any suspicious wounds? Is her neck bruised? {Reaches up with a jelly-covered finger and indicates a place on the side of his neck where bruises might be if she were strangled}
Cop 1: Nope. There is this head trauma...see? Her brain is caved in here...see? She must have fallen and hit her head.
Cop 2: Nah, that looks more like blunt trauma from a weapon...see the fracture pattern? Looks like a big pipe or a bottle. And look at the abrasions on her legs. This body was dragged. Look over here...{Takes a few steps...trips on the body and rolls down the hill picking up leaves and sticks} (muttering) Nuts. (looks up the hill and shouts) Hey!
Cop 1: {Hears the shout, whips out his gun and fires into the dark at the bottom of the hill. There is a thud. Then silence. The coroner strolls up in a casual way and startles Cop 1 staring into the darkness.}
Coroner: Is this the body (indicating Katrina)?
Cop 1: (jumpy...gun still out) Uh...yeah. I think it got Tom too...look down there...
{Coroner walks slowly down the hill...find the COP2's body...examines it and walks back up the hill}
Coroner: Yep. Its drug-related neck ruptures all right. He has powder all over his face and red marks on his neck. Looks like she fought him off and stabbed him with a branch...there is a hole in his chest and he is covered with sticks and leaves.
Cop 1: (looking nervous) Uh, what do we tell the Chief about Tom?
Coroner: I'll tell him she committed suicide in remorse for killing Tom by accident and that Tom was hiding his PCP habit but it finally caught up with him.
Cop 1: {holsters weapon} Great. That'll work. Didn't like Tom anyway. He was way too smart...
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